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[quote author=Z-bet link=topic=810714.msg9625471#msg9625471 date=1322157752]your guy tells u dat oda gals r askin him out but he's refusing because he luvs yet he perceives he might loose u, wat wud u tel him pls? He's nyc, bt i dnt knw his spiritual aspct 4 nw[/quote]


Please leave love out of this.
You guys aren't even dating. Mchewww!

OP, if you don't have the car of your choice for your wedding then rent/borrow.

This is not worth having a headache over.

Since '08 !!
This man is a goat.

Of course not!

There's more to a relationship than sex. If they need help, get them help. Unless of course you don't love them.

He left his first wife for this? LOL!
Serves you right, dude.

So unfair!

When will all this rubbish be over?! ARRGHH!!

Those traits can be found in other males too.

Thanks. I'm happy for me too.

LMAO! What a silly thread. 

OP, wetin you wan hear? 

Yellow shoes always have a way of looking cheap. Can't take them seriously.

Hairy legs are gross.

Imagine running your hand over a chick's leg and it's like a rug. . . .

Whatever happened to "silky-smooth"?

How about you grow your hair naturally and let us know how you get on with it.
You think it's easy to maintain natural hair? Mcheew!

All I can say is thank God for relaxer.

As for wig, there are different reasons why people wear this. Their normal hair might be damaged, they like the style or colour they saw, they want something they can put on in the morning and take off at night. Each to their own.

LOL@FIX

I'm guessing you're on about coloured contacts and not clear ones.

Well, most people have boring brown eyes so maybe your chick wants something different. Preferably a colour that stands out, like blue. There's nothing wrong with contacts. I just got green and grey and my sis has ordered purple, hazel and something else. Got bored of my clear lenses.

You can wear white jeans in winter, colourful scarves, hats/gloves, some of your bright summer t-shirts if you want, etc. Don't forget when you take off your jacket people can see what you're wearing underneath your coat. You don't have to dress as though you are in mourning.

I wore a green top today and didn't button up. Guess it wasn't that cold.

All these goodie-two-shoes people. SMH!
You brought this upon yourself. How can you give him so much money everyday? I'm sure he had such traits before he moved in with you.

Be like me. Open your mouth. Stand your ground. If he refuses, chuck him out. Call the police if you have to.
This kind of "friend" only takes and never gives. Wouldn't even call someone like that a friend.

I'm sure if things were the other way round he wouldn't even let you stay this long at his place, let alone give you allowance. People like this don't change.

Maybe, maybe not.

Guess we'll all know the truth when we die.

Not my style. My sis loves them though.

7 years no be beans. Some marriages don't even last that long. 

Dude needs to know who he's dating by now, and know when you're joking or being serious.


I would so avoid his ass until he comes to his senses. . . .unless of course he doesn't want to.

Good luck. Hope he grows up and learns to talk about stuff rather than avoid the situation.

Are fat chicks not human beings? Na wa o!

Don't pursue her anymore. It's up to her to leave her man for you. Do not ask her to break things off with him.


BTW, why would you be attracted to a silly girl who is tolerating a cheat. One who doesn't know what she really wants?

Plus what Dynamique said.

downcasted:

after 5 years



She has always been the type that think she can walk into any office and get what she wants, wear a short mini skirt and stand on the road and the first guy to drop buy would be her husband,

Dude, you were with her for 5 years, and she's what you described here^
How did you manage to fall for someone like that? And stay with her that long?

She's not even 25 and she's been in a relationship for 5 years? Wow! You guys tried.

You guys aren't meant to be. It's that simple.

Drinking wont turn back the hands of time. You need to show her you are fine without her, even if you have to cry yourself to sleep at night. Be strong. Not every relationship is meant to end in marriage. See it as an experience/eye opener. Be happy about the good times.

When a better chick comes along you wont even remember this one. Na so e dey be. It prolly hurts more cos she was like your first love. You will get over it; it's only a matter of time. BUT PLEASE STOP SULKING. It's not attractive.

I know spam/scam when I see one. . .thank you.

tellwisdom:
If una don smoke weed finish chop groundnut join am , una go come come here dey misyarn

Pot calling kettle black.

lmao!! ^^

Why are their addresses always included in these articles?!


Hmm. . . . since 1996. Bloody hell!!

Nigerian women like to suffer in silence. Look how long it's taken her to dissolve the marriage.

How old is this chick?


Na wa ooohhhhhhhhh!

What in the world?!

Wouldn't recommend mini laptops for sh1t. Got one. Can be slow as hell.



Only good thing I can think of is the size/weight.