₦airaland Forum

SOJ, the bank you can find almost all the ladies marry are the old generation banks.

Two Best friends make the BEST COUPLES. Dont worry she will still feel the same way, unless she has somebody else she's dating.

Emad and yongbabe na serious fight ooh

Hope nobody also like my Shiffi sha.

It is one of my best programme. I dont like to miss.

But shy to be on hot, what of if I fumble.

mesmya always believe in yourself.

Orikinla, thank God for your sis in law.

If Nigerian men like female bankers, then all of these prettiest babes from ages 21yrs to 42yrs should have been engaged or married with their rings on. Besides they have their money and cars (they cant be liabilities to men), so men should have been on queue at the entrance of each banks after closing hours.

I am not disputing the fact that, some are good wives, but 90% of them have challenges between their family and their work. One of my friend has to dump a two-weeks old baby at home for work. Another example: one of my friend husband is a man that eat fresh soup daily, he doesnt eat the 2nd day soup, and doesnt like another person cook his food, except his mum or wife, that is how he was brought up. His wife has to visit the market daily. And she is not finding it easy now, she is considering resigning. Its better for her to save her marriage or get married to her job.

I have worked in two banks, I know what am talking about. Most of the ladies are fake.

I have never been materialistic all my life.

I dont even know how to ask from men, when I need something. And I have never been entice by the gold and wealth of this world. Always contented with all I have.

My Junior Sister

It has always be on my mind. Till I finally tie the Knot with the luckiest man.

papa, what makes you think they dont have time for social activities.

Unmarried female bankers are the highest set of people found in club houses on weekends.

fancier, God Bless but am not putting this issue on my mind, its becos of my parents. And prayers is going on.

idiot, there is a way someone receives calls from men and you be suspicious. I dont eavesdrop. It is too obvious, she has a lot of male friends and I know two of them who has bleeped her, but I dont want to tell my bros, let him catch her by himself, maybe his eyes will open that day. My closed friend that lives besides her house, has stories about men that she flirt with but I dont want to hear. She was even surprised that my bros is still dating her.

hollandis, seun is your good friend I guest cause you ar really supporting his opinions.

poster just thank God, you are yet to marry her to have noticed all these bad characters.

I think she can only adjust, she can not change, unless her hot blood is drain out of her body and another cool blood is transfer to her system.

But joke apart there is nothing PRAYERS can not do, if you really needs her.

WISH YOU GOOD LUCK.

Palma i understand your story. I once experienced it.

I think you dnt need to revenge by yourself, let God deal with him for others to learn their lessons.

@ poster, you are not fair.

Gamine for once in your life time on nairaland cant you be reasonable.

Palma you dont expect all landers to be sane people.  Some of them smoke weed (igbo) before/during browsing.

Black they say is beautiful.

LOVE EBONY GUYS

We Nigerians make wat Nigeria is today, so whose fault?

Gamine, I have never read a reseasonble response of yours on nairaland.

Brash na you sabi.

Our Nigeria banks have employed almost all the prettiest babes in the country. Yet I only found 10% of them married with their wedding rings on.

So am wondering why 90% of them are not yet married.

1. Could it be men that are afraid of them of the rumours that most of them are prostitutes? Or
2. They have their money in their hand, that makes it difficult for men to approach them? Or
3. They are too pretty, that men are afraid they wont be the only one shagging them? Or
4. They are too proud to submit to men? Or
5. Men are afraid they wont have time for them? Or
6. Did they drop their wedding rings at home? Or
7. The banks give them probation period of getting marry? Or
8. They are not wife materials? Or
9. They are too young to get marry, cause banks employ younger ladies? Or
10.They are too stingy.

Does anybody know the reason(s), cause am anxious.

interesting

Do you also have natural feelings for her?
Are you 80% ok by wat you saw?
Do you want her for a serious relationship?

Answer the questions.

Mind you, you can not know a cute babe in and out for just a little time. Be sure you know wat you are doing.

I met six lander guys face to face but five of them are after sex, hope this is not your mission. So you dont bite/eat your fingers on the long run

GOODLUCK

You can decide where to meet her by yourself, due to the tone of your conversation.

@ poster, I really understand your feelings. I have been in the same issue too.

It is not easy being a Secretary/P.A for a very handsome, very intellectual and rich man. Although I never compromise to this man. His wife love me in such that, if his husband take me as his 2nd wife, she wont take offence. But I can never be a 2nd wife of a man.

After I left them, actually it was during my NYSC service, we become good family friends, and he gives me respect for not yielding to his demands.

bkplur my advice for you is to get this behind you. Dont let the fact that you have probs with your bf make you lure yourself. Besides it is not good having affairs with one's boss. If he is not married, I would have say go ahead.

Take Care Dear.

I am not a Muslim, but I really appreciate our Muslims bros and sis. neatness.

But why is it that most female hostels environment are always in a mess? if it is the ladies/women that are more clean. Days back in school I know about 27 campus big babes who soak their panties for days before washing.

To me I give it to the guys. Most ladies just have pretty face and body, but their underwears are so dirty. The guys hostels and gents look more neat than the ladies. I have lived with many ladies but only few of them are very neat.
Or who do you think?

Shinystar thanks alot.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmn this is a difficult situation, though not new in our society.

Let her ask for permission from her husband, if her husband says she should go ahead good for her (husband's permission). But if no, she should never try such.

@ poster, you r welcome

I really benefited from this.

Thanks.

My Dear, everybody including the dead has past(s).  For her to confessed the truth, shows she trully love you. It is not every woman that can tell their spouse about their terrible pasts.

I dnt think you need much advice on wat to do, to forget her pasts. Since you love her just make up your mind, and put behind any past history. she is already your wife to be.

The prostitutes that have sex with three to five men a day, still get husbands and settle.

If you didnt find her unfaithful during the 17months of courtship, so no big deal.

Wish you all the best. CHEERS

U4c, Chiudo, tunda, deskyc & reycells very grateful

reycells it is actually Guardian. I also heard many media organisations owe salaries.