₦airaland Forum

MrPresident1:
Fulani owns the land, let them practice their pastoralist livelihood!

Go and look for your own land.

FCT has never been a part of Fulani land. The indigenous people of the FCT are Gbagyi by origin.
That said, FCT doesn't belong to any tribe based on it's set up. It's a capital city for all Nigerians, so no tribe can lord it over others in the FCT.

MrsPhyno:
Kennydoc see ur type

OP so you have to check if she's a virgin abi what if she wants to check if you too are still a Virgin. How does she know you're not lying? She should take u to a urologist and check
(Presumably) After u check and neither of u are virgins what happens? Una won't marry?

Hahaha. Na so you talk too, MrsPhyno.
Going to check with the Obgyn is of no use, to me o. The important thing is that the woman remains faithful to him in marriage.

sonofananimal:
thanks for clearing the air!

Cos I know women can hardly wait for a guy that long without getting married or SEXX as in nowadays.

That was why I asked that question

It's okay. U're welcome.

sonofananimal:
The girl you dated for 3.5 years, did you married her?
If not! What cause your relationship to break?

Are you trying to tell me that you dated a girl for 3.5 years without SEXX and she didn't cheat on you

Well, we were both Vs, and we're neither interested in sex nor ready to engage in it.
We broke up cos I wasn't going to be ready for marriage as at when we earlier agreed to get married. I knew I needed more time to put things together, but she couldn't wait any longer. It was either I stuck to the earlier plan or we would call it quits. Of course I couldn't stick to the earlier plan, so we separated. Now, hearts have gone apart.

@Demigods,
Must you have sex in your relationship? Stating that you're still in school shows that you're still young, probably less than 22 to 24 years. Must you have sex especially unprotected sex, when you can't handle it's consequences chiefly pregnancy? Why do people just believe that they can't be in a relationship without sex? Is sex food?

I dated a girl for 3½ years and there was no sex, yet I'm probably over 5 to 10 years older than you, and was even working as at the time we dated. Why can't young people emulate good things?

I really can't advise you on the options of abortion to take. I would encourage her to keep the baby. That's the right step before God and man. You will have to stand strong for her through it all, and as soon as you find your feet, marry her. She will need your support and the support of her entire family especially her mum, cos it's going to be a challenging experience for her. That baby may be a big miracle in your life and in the life of his/her mother in the future.

Kai! This woman is crazily fat. See her 'christian-mother' arm, even wider than her head. She needs to shed weight very fast.

Gelengelen:
For the past two months my friend has been involve with this lady. Hé told me she is thé born Again type. She has accepted to date him and she likes him very much.


His problem is that hé is being careful not to do things contrary to her believe cos they have plans concerning thé future.


People, what steps should hé take to make this relationship romantic?

Is she expecting more from him?

Thé only thing hé has done to her was to hold her hands, held her shoulder and sat down close to her when they were in public bus.


mature advise please



Note: this matter is for my friend and not for me.



na my friend say make i ask una ooo...Disclaimer

You claim it's your friend's issue, but the title of your thread sells you out.

Anyway, relationship isn't all about sex, though the urge will surely come. If you know you can't date a girl in a no-sex relationship, please just leave that girl alone. Don't be the one to push her into sex, whether she's a virgin or not. You shouldn't be the reason for another person's backsliding. Sexual immorality is a very big deal. Forget that the world has made it a normal thing, but it's still a sin before God.

I dated a girl for 3½ years, and we didn't even reason about having sex together. My mind was made up not to do it, just like her mind was. We never really struggled about it. I still believe you can have a relationship without sex, if you make up your mind. If you know you can't, please leave that girl alone. I can bet you that she will find a guy that will want to date her without sex. At least I know that men like jmoore and kennydoc are still in the world. There are many more guys like us.

nasoeb:
thats the difference between me and you. I wil make my case politely while you wil resort to insult to make NO POINT. While would u allow low self esteem to affect what u believe in. if u atleast know your history and geography, then ask your self what is d size of singapore (d smallest lga in delta state is far bigger than singapore in size and porpulation. but can any african compare singapore at any level, capital NO), malta etc. what about south sudan. d reality u must accept is that Nigeria will never split into 2. if it must then 3 upward. when d issue of disintegration comes then every wil table their demand

My dear it's not about landmass. Kogi state is larger in size than a number of European and Carribean countries, but can Kogi state as it is now stand alone as a country?

Not that I support coercing Niger Deltans into Biafra, but I need to clear you on some certain things. First, Biafra was originally a name for the people of the Lower Niger. The name Biafra precedes Nigeria, and it wasn't directly linked to Igbos. It was after the civil war that the 'spirit' of Biafra was deliberately killed by Nigeria. By the time Biafra resurrected, people began to link it to Igbos chiefly because secession from Nigeria now is primarily championed by igbos.

Secondly, Niger Delta is made up of so many minority tribes. It will be a lot difficult for them to successfully run a country on their own. If you know the poor state of harmony between Itsekiris, Urhobos and Ijaws in Warri, it will give you an idea of how ND will be as a country. The north is very successful today because Hausa/Fulanis are a rallying point for the northerners. NDR cannot have such, so things are going to be pretty difficult.

For me, if Biafra is to succeed, let the minority tribes in the south south be given an option of joining Biafra or staying on their own. Those who wish to, can join Biafra otherwise it will be strictly an Igbo affair. But frankly speaking, I will prefer a united Nigeria with regional government where the federating units will be the geopolitical zones, to having Biafra. I think our leaders in the SE, SS & SW should find a way of armtwisting the north into accepting regional government again.

wytecat:
You can be whatever you want but, it shouldn't have made the FrontPage because of the way it had quickly be taken over by tribalists. And you should even be calling for it to be yanked off, unless this is the purpose you created it for, as the message is already lost whatever that may have been.

Seun must take this thread down or it will be filled against him as one of the evidences that his site encourages tribal conflicts and does not deserve to be working.

@bolded:
I hope you made a comment like this in the thread about Deji of Akure banning Eze Ndigbo. If you didn't, then you're a tribalist.

abbey621:
Look at most of the comments, is it a coincidence that it is coming from a particular tribe or set of people? The same people will now be wondering why everyone is afraid to associate with them or why they have been marginalized. They expect the Yorubas to get angry and wage a useless war, they prefer division instead of unity and would sell their own parents to make money.

Are you new to nairaland? Go and check out the thread on Deji of Akure banning Eze ndigbo, or threads about Igbo fraudsters apprehended by law enforcement agents, and see the comments of Yorubas.

The truth however is that we southerners are busy fighting ourselves, while our common enemy (the northerners) are busy feasting on our division and dealing heavy blows on us. Our emancipation will only come the day we decide to unite together against the forces of the north.

searching4love:
NORTHERNERS ARE VERY EASY GOING PEOPLE AND THEIR LIFE IS SO SIMPLE AND LESS MATERIALISTIC. THEY ARE HARDLY INVOLVED IN CRIMES AND ARE ALWAYS CONTENTED IN ANY SITUATION THEY FIND THEMSELVES. IMAGINE AN IGBO MAN IN THAT SAME IDP, HIS THOUGHT WILL BE HOW TO SELL FAKE DRUGS TO EVERY ONE THERE OR HOW TO CARRY DRUGS TO ASIA TO MAKE FAST MONEY. I PREFER TO LIVE WITH HAUSAS IN THE SOUTHWEST THAN THOSE HATE FILLED BIAFRANS.

You like their way of life. There is no problem with that, but don't just involve Igbos in your issue.
I guess you also like the fact that their region is the most backward region in Nigeria. Their lack of drive and passion for advancement and development probably also interests you, yet you want Nigeria to soon become one of the top economies in the world.
How deluded you are!

Martins301:
The person I quoted said the Northerners have ruled Nigeria for 40 DECADES. So I pointed out to him that Nigeria is just a little over 100 years and his 40 decades means 400 years. If u have problem understansing my post keep rereading it till u do but please dnt quote me to explain a simple sentence to u again.

Okay, no vex. I saw 40 decades and read it as 4 decades. My bad..

Martins301:
Ethnic warlord, Nigeria is just a little over 100 years old. 40 decades is 400 years.

Lol. A decade is a period of 10 years. 4 decades is forty years. I'm sure somebody would have pointed it out to you, but I wonder why you haven't made the correction.
A century is a period of 100 years.

Keneking:
Amazing...

Nigerian students won't see this...but if it is questionable character like Kas....they would gladly give recognition.

How many awards does Fayose, Peter Obi, Akpabio, Wike, Mimiko, Babangida possess in total?

How many awards do your fathers Tinubu and Buhari possess?

dekdek:
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Goon, i call myself such simply because I am one so the word is well apt for my pathetic kind.
Again I'm a fool, and what anyone does here is my business. That was the core reason why I'm wasting my time here. My rants up there about my shameless life is none of your business and should make no sense to you, so ur effort to enlighten me is understood. I am an unfocused fool.

Sorry eh. I really feel for you. God will help you.

dekdek:

Goon, what do u mean by compatriot? When u were registering for nairaland, was it alone or u came in as a group or family duty? Get a life, this is an anonymous forum.

Goon..., Goon..., Goon... Is that the only word you know? Go and learn a new derogatory word. All your responses always start with goon.
I think you should go get a life cos this thing you call life that you're living only revolves around NL. Find something meaningful and do with yourself.

IlekeHD:
Series of Yoruba governors created the climate for Lagos to thrive as it has done, by connecting with the right international investors.

Stop assuming igbos 2x2 petty trading shops had large impact.

Anambra with inosson should be competing with Lagos.

Many non-lagosian Yorubas, in tech, fashion and businesses, also invested in Lagos.

So why are those climates not created in Oyo, Osun, Osun, Ondo and Ekiti, or does Ambode share his IGR with his fellow SW governors?

wristbangle:
Bros, igbo land mass cannot produce beyond your current 5 states.

Check out the IGR of Niger, Yobe, Taraba etc and tell me if it's about landmass.

IlekeHD:
Lagos state has not been a capital for years, and while it WAS a capital, it didn't generate an IGR much larger than other states.

Lagos became what it is AFTER Abuja became a capital. Look at abuja now, it has been a capital for years, yet it can't compete with Lagos.

Stop making noise



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How come Lagos produces more than 1500% of what the state with the next highest IGR produces, if it's all about the SW? How come Oyo which hosts the headquarters of Yorubaland can't even boast of 20billion naira?

rukkyland:
Abeg extinguish.
you have no mission here.
just lost as I dey look you so.
besides who cares about your moniker. na for ur pocket o. na sense we dey talk here.

You're obviously a kid and aren't worth my time. Run along little child. Go and play with sand.

IlekeHD:
Abia - 12,371,194,895.08
Enugu - 19,250,345,593
Ebonyi - 11,032,472,512
Anambra - 10,454,312,316.18
Imo - 8,115,751,385.95
TOTAL = 61,224,076,701


SOUTH WEST
Ekiti - 3,462,341,448.32
Osun - 8,513,274,186.67
Ondo - 11,718,741,502.49
Lagos- 276,163,978,675.95
Ogun - 17,497,620,787.52
Oyo - 16,307,233,700.22
TOTAL = 333,663,190,299

SOUTH SOUTH
Edo - 17,023,595,231.62
Bayelsa - 10,958,263,688
Cross River - 15,738,850,743.95
Rivers - 89,112,448,347.58
Delta - 42,819,209,025.24
Akwa Ibom - 15,676,502,423
TOTAL =191,328,869,459


The North contributes to Nothing.

The SE has 5 states while SW has 6 states including Lagos. 5 of the SW states are the typical Yoruba states while Lagos is a former federal capital city.
Take a moment and recalculate the cumulative IGR of the 5 typical Yoruba states and compare it to the cumulative IGR of the 5 SE states. Guy, despite all the noise, Oyo, Osun, Ogun, Ondo and Ekiti altogether produced a measly 57 billion naira in 2014. Wherein lies all your boasts?

Jollyjoy:
buhahahahahahahaha

are you serioushow did you manage to pass last semester exam

Last semester exams? Are you for real? Did you see my moniker? Take a look at it again.
The post is long, especially for those who have little or no business with Abraka or Delta state as a whole. I read much longer posts here on NL, but I only read the ones that will impart knowledge and give me relevant information.

fratermathy:
The pictures were taken between December 2013- Yesterday apart from the school picture. Believe me when I say that the pictures are a TRUE representation of the situation. Some were snapped just yesterday.
Meanwhile with or without pictures, have I lied about Abraka? Some of you didnt even READ. You just talk anyhow. Oh Please. You think you've stayed in Abraka more than me? I have been here for 20years+. My mum is from Urhuagbesa-Abraka, a place in Abraka without ROAD at all. Habve you been to Otorho? Or you think Abraka is just DELSU? See the article title, it is A TALE OF ABRAKA not A TALE OF DELSU. Please caution yourself. If you dont want development, I DO!!!!!!

You keep accusing people of not reading your post, how many people do you expect to truly read that long post? It's not even as if it contains information that would benefit majority of Nairalanders. Is there no way you could have summarised the article?

dekdek:

Goon, here in politics section, grammar is the least of our problem. Go to the right section, if that is the reason for ur pathetic state.

Tell that to your compatriot, Omenka.

Demmocrats:
What if at the end there story checks out.

What if at the end the traders gave then those ATM to help then buy stuffs in China.


Have any of you guys done wire transfer from one bank to another and know the percentage you pay those banks.

Those traders might want to bypass that but it would have been better if they all transferred there money in one account with one ATM assigned to the account.

There is a limit to daily withdrawals from one account. CBN has made transactions very difficult for traders. These guys may actually not be fraudsters, in all honesty.

Juxtified:
Judgement is the Lord's.
The death of any human being should call for sober reflection, not passing judgement.
One thing I suspect: on the last day there are going to be many prostitutes entering heaven, and many pastors and holy brethren in hell...

You're right bro. Funny enough, that lady might have genuinely repented and given her life to Christ on her death bed. On the other hand, many pastors and believers die with loads of sin clinging unto them.
May God help all true believers to run and finish the race set before us, so that we may win the crown of glory on the last day, Amen.

LouisVanGaal:
Men of substance look out for the quality of message passed, ONLY 'small' minds look out for grammatical errors..besides I didn't quote you, and the last time I checked you NOT her PA..
Don't bother quoting me, cos I ud not reply you...
Bye.

Thank God you've admitted that you have a small mind, cos you were the first to start picking on somebody's grammatical error, while neglecting the totality of information passed in the post.
You said that you didn't quote me, did the Op quote you before you attacked her? I only served you your own meal. Enjoy the taste of it.

LouisVanGaal:
'News has it that'...just take a step back and review what you typed...
A forth-night ago, Omenka took you to the cleaners...thought you would have learnt...never to involve yourself in issues beyond your cerebral-scope...#Kontinu#..

Mr man, educate yourself before looking for whom to embarrass.

FrankValency:
Lol...............PDP ,so. E dey pain,chai, when una dey lead for 16 yrs, nothing to show.

For Nigeria to move on we must talk true o,am from south east and was serving when the elections were held,from gatherings from my fellow corps members. There were no elections in Rivers State,what the hell was PDP giving corpers 50,000 for? Corruption must go,if we want a better Nigeria. Period!!!

Hope you're aware that Rochas rigged his way into Imo government house this second term. I hope the tribunal will also remove him.

The only drawback is the fact that calls become very unclear when data connection is unstable. Making VOIP calls with Airtel data or Glo (in locations with poor network) will be extremely annoying. I've never really enjoyed WhatsApp calls for this same reason.

dekdek:

What DOES this got to do with wikes vote thievery?

Omenka and FatIjeomaOkolie won't see this.
In their little minds, they are English language professors. Hypocrites and bigots!!
Like PDP fans like APC fans..

Aufbauh:
She's a true Christian who upholds the tenent of the Christian faith which is love and forgiveness, unlike those crying about heresay injustice done to them from ages they were not even born. These same set of people are the first to attend morning mass, go for confession, conduct serial home worship cell and beat band around inviting us to come for crusade,they will even named their business outfit after God, yet they harbours within them deep hatred and unforgiving spirit.
"Resentment is like drinking poison and then hoping it will kill your enemies"- Nelson Mandela

The truth is that forgiveness is easier when the offender has either truly repented, or is showing true remorse. It's only a few people that can forgive when the offender is still feeling pompous and arrogant.