₦airaland Forum

oilPUSSY:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/03/11/amotekun-south-east-cannot-have-joint-security-network-%E2%80%94-dave-umahi

Palema007:
All these wailing threads though! Don't you guys get tired of repetitions?

Nigerian Ladies are bad, okay? Why not avoid them?

DaddyRochie1642:
Well, one thing is certain, The Kpekus cannot be Un-Fúcked

ijustdey:
https://www.thecable.ng/extra-we-gave-bandits-7-bags-of-siezed-rice-to-save-our-lives-says-customs-officer

paulolee:
jus ugnore her n save urself from her endless frustration...it seems she av gotten d fone dt she needs n no longer interested in you..
no need to take d fone back bcox its childish, jus count ur loses n move on..
no wori when d charger spoil or when she need another financial help she go call u n na then u go show her how streets dey treat ungrateful broke leaches...

Daytonbale:
Please sorry for my grammar and long write-up

Good day there is something that is disturbing me and I want to seek for advice here.

There is a girl that am dating we started dating 3 months ago , we love each other she is so amazing I love everything about her, she care about me, and love me too.

she do come to my house but I didn't want to rush her about sex , I only cuddle her, romance her ,kiss her.
Three weeks ago she lost her phone and there was no way I can communicate with her , it's was so disturbing that I have to communicate with her through her sister phone.
So I decided to get her a new phone since she is not working , I bought her the phone and I gave her my spare sim to use for the mean time since she cannot retrieve her Sim due to NCC directive.
But ever since I gave her the phone she change , she like coming to my house with her sister Everytime it's piss me off I told her I don't like it,

Although she came with her sister just once before she lost her phone ,
Now sometimes when I call her with the phone I bought for her she will busy my calls without telling me any reason.
The most Annoying one is that when I ask her to come to my house she will promise to come but she will later fail to come.

She do show my love now but not like before again

Now what should I do , should I collect my phone back or I should I leave the phone for her and cut off the relationship .

please advise me

Note below
Am Christian she is a Muslim I live in the North

Lovethaa:
So I have been speaking to this lady online for a while and I must say that she is extremely beautiful., We've done video calls several times because I just couldn't take my eyes of her ..


she would be around anytime soon which made me go to the atm to withdraw this undisclosed amount..

I'm in a great mood today so I'll be giving out 10k to anybody that can guess how much is in the picture. You don't have to be correct just be close ..

Odewaleadesoye:
The man right?

Zzor:
Should a man who claims to love you demand sex just because he felt he has spent so much on you?Is this enough reason to completely write him off?

Odewaleadesoye:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/03/how-i-averted-another-civil-war-in-nigeria-yahaya-bello/

Madmazel:
don't blame the women, blame the men. Na men dey give them money. Wetin some men dey spend on women, u go imagine if Dem fall from heaven and no get anything to do with money anymore or Dem no get family wey go need that money. And all they get in return is sex that they both enjoyed. The moment a man can control his lust for sex and women. 40percent of his problem is solved.


We men should stop wasting money trying to get sex from women. I know you will say it's your money. But the crisis of women not wanting to work and all depending on men should stop. If we stop giving in to lust of the flesh. They will see reason why they should work to make money

lalasticlala:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/03/i-was-lured-into-homosexuality-by-18-year-old-boy-42-year-old-man-alleges/amp/

xavuv:
so the wife should continue to play all nice & dumb for a mother inlaw that wants her dead!

well, it depends on how matured and calm natured the wife is.

If it were me, i will let her know.

1. So that incase of my early demise, God forbid, she will not play easily into their hands, and she will be able to see easily through the false facade/lies/deceit.

Francis609:
She hates my wife because she is from the same tribe as my dad. She wanted me to marry a lady from her tribe.

she also thinks she is ugly and will give birth to ugly kids.

advanceDNA:
Careful young man...na because of woman you meet for street dey make u insult ur mama wey raise and care for you??

....no be today mothers dey dislike daughter-in-law oooo...na patience them dey use resolve this kind matter....

.. she might might be stubborn, and have difficulty in hiding her feelings...no be ur mouth them suppose hear say ur mama na disgrace..


U seff na disgrace to sonhood, and manhood..

Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.

I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.

Please advice me if am I in the wrong

FalseProphet1:
The dark forces have finally destoryed this one's destiny, your head will need spiritual cleansing in order to be free.

sapphiere:
"THE DAY I LEFT VS NOW" - Medical doctor shares photo of his transformation after leaving Nigeria, WonderTV media reports.

A Nigerian medical doctor with the Twitter handle @wakawaka_doctor has taken to his Twitter page to share a photo of himself the day he left Nigeria to a foreign country and a photo of himself while in the foreign country.

He tweeted;



https://twitter.com/wakawaka_doctor/status/1367154774240595975

sapphiere:
"THE DAY I LEFT VS NOW" - Medical doctor shares photo of his transformation after leaving Nigeria, WonderTV media reports.

A Nigerian medical doctor with the Twitter handle @wakawaka_doctor has taken to his Twitter page to share a photo of himself the day he left Nigeria to a foreign country and a photo of himself while in the foreign country.

He tweeted;



https://twitter.com/wakawaka_doctor/status/1367154774240595975

EBMedia:
iROKO TV boss, Jason Njoku has said that school fees of 4.6 million Naira is cheap and he pays more for his 3-year-old, IgbereTV reports.

A Twitter user had shared the provisional bill for a school in Epe, Lagos State, with school fees of 4,643, 901 Naira.

The Twitter user wrote, asking;


https://twitter.com/ugodre/status/1367026277622951940?s=20

And iROKO boss, Jason Njoku, who has 3 children, responded:



https://twitter.com/JasonNjoku/status/1367089819436859394?s=20[/quote]Nonsense, he should ask himself what the minimum(assuming he has been living under the rock) wage is before typing that rubbish. Just the fact that your privileged doesn't make it cheap

Anigreat:






Evening news paper feeling funky



Someone that will rush to date even 15years old, if opportunity present itself is here yarning dust.

Zzor:
Sweetheart I'm on his side on this,its always wise for a lady never to date a man in her age group, a man must be stable financially before thinking marriage and he already made you understand that,the only mistake you made is dating him.Since he's not ready please look for someone who's ready and settle down with him,never let your emotions direct your thinking in marriage issues.Please let him go so as not to waste more time as you already have. Follow this tips:Cut off from a relationship that has no head way after six months to avoid stories that touch.As for me I already resolve never to date a man below 50yrs because most Nigerian men below 50 are still struggling.Such a messed up country

Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

DoubleMind:
You are a bloody fool. So because you connected her to the job she should forever remain under your control to do whatever you ask her to do abi?
Who knows maybe you had ulterior motives before connecting her to the job.
You thought she will willfully submit everything to you after then abi?
What about your male friends who are jobless and searching? Why you didn't connect them to the job instead?

In fact, god punish you.

EmekaBlue:
Please ignore my grammatical Blunders and please note I don't feel any entitlement because i connected her to a job...I just feel upset tonight after a rethink of this incident.

I connected a lady to a job of 100k+ accommodation and some monthly benefits like recharge card for free and she got it 1st hand after i spoke to the chinese to take her because i studied in China and speak chinese...Now she insults me at work in the same office and give me bad attitude. I didn't ask her out and don't intend to but i feel a little bit sad about this. She even insulted me in front of other staffs that hold me in high esteem.

What caused this event is, i left the site we work as an engineer and came to the head office where she is employed as a secretary. I simply just told her to help me print like 10pages report since her computer is the one connected to the office printer, She told me to go do it myself, i simply told her i was busy because i had to go out quickly with one of the chinese...this girl said then when i come back, i simply told her not to sound like that... then she went ballistic and started raising her voice on me even telling me my mother is mad, i should do my worse this and that...its even the drivers that had to hold me back to lock up as a man if not she really was insulting me to my face closely, she was literally trying to get me hard to hit her...maybe for me to loose my job as she has been there over 6months now and have gotten more conversant with the bosses.

What can you say about this?!

RisenPhoenix1:
Confusion. How can you regulate what is illegal?

Do I really need to take it into consideration or overlook?
I observe my girl friend is very stingy and selfish. I really don't need anything from her, I foot our bills from A - Z, I give her between 1500 to 5k as tfare, meanwhile the actual tfare from my place to hers is just 200 to and fro.

Ok the problem is some weeks ago she was at my place for some days, the 2nd day in the morning I realized my toothpaste has finished, having it in mind that I'm gonna buy another one on my way back later in the day, unfortunately I forgot to buy it despite buying stuff at the supermarket. But God so good as I was blaming myself for forgetting to buy it, she told me she has toothpaste in her bag so we used her toothpaste that morning. I kept forgetting to buy this toothpaste for the next 3 days, I had to cut the tube with knife so I can have something to brush my teeth but my girlfriend was quietly using her toothpaste alone and she will return it into her bag, she saw me tearing the tube but didnt occur to her to surrender her toothpaste until i bought mine the 5th day.

I really didn't count it initially but I have noticed other things and it's taking my mind back to the incidence. My girlfriend has never used her money to buy me a sachet of pure water or cheapest orange or whatever.

Another funny thing is when we are eating, sometimes she accused me of eating from her meat or taking from her drinks when i didn't even touch it. Imagine always trying to lay claim to 3 pieces out of 4.

Do I need to pay attention to some of the little details or overlook all because of love or am I overreacting?

NB : she's presently unemployed but never lack support from her parents and myself.

pocohantas:
One extremely useless alfa male crossed my path as usual, as I reply am- small reply o, ban. Though the ban expired days ago, na just the OP matter annoy me to comment. As for the alfa male, trap wey I set for am be like the one wey OP SIL set for kitchen . I missed you too nne, I always with you.




I wonder why they are conveniently ignoring that part. Would we be having this argument if Op was a female and had same issue with the sister’s husband, let alone talking back at him?

By the way, na him o. We ladies no dey mumu like this abeg.




OP’s mates are also working hard to be the next Zuckerberg, if they are not already Zuckerbergs. He is there exchanging words with his brother’s wife. Nonsense EBSU boy.

freetheking:
I agree with you if he has a means of getting his own apartment better. We have good wife's that See's her husband family as hers but the bad ones..... you know the rest.

annyberry:
If us story is true,u did nothing wrong jus dat she already had bitterness in her heart for u,who goes into d kitchen should nt b a problem for d fact u give her her maximum respect...i kip wondering y we ladies drag kitchen alot.

aroundtheearth:
If she were here to defend her actions, OP would look worse than he already does, as I'm sure she would have lots to say.

No, it's not an unfair assumption on my part because by reason alone, nothing takes place without a cause (or causes). She certainly didn't wake up one day and decided to pack his things out without any cause(s), so there are things that have led to it.

He shouldn't even be living in their matrimonial home in the first place.