₦airaland Forum

HenryThegreat1:
Hmm If Tinubu by mistake win this election ehn, he will deal with Buhari.

But Tinubu himself sponsored them into power now.

Zonefree:
She will not warn the Hen above me not to derail her thread, when I react now, she'll rush to tell me not to derail her thread.

Izolrite.

You will eventually marry Jennyclay.

This I have seen.

Jennyclay:
This is a high budget food my dear. There is enough meat in it.

People like Zonefree can't even afford to buy fish not to talk of meat. He said egg is more economical. Instead for him to just confess that he's a broke man.

You will eventually marry Zonefree.

This I have seen.

Eriokanmi:
On the contrary, he'd not be so much buthered. Government is a continuum they say. He'd only do his best and leave the rest. What's important is his ability to manage the economy and reduce the debt burden. Obj inherited huge amount of debt too from the military. Nigeria was forgiven all during his administration, seeing how well he managed out economy woth madam iweala. A similar scenario is likely

Again, you are right. But it will take months of sleepless nights and lot of energy and passion for any incoming president to achieve anything given the level of impunity, rot and corruption that has already eaten up the country.

Eriokanmi:
Infrastructure gone wrong. The next president should prepare to inherit a huge debt

You are freaking correct. The next president will almost give up and resign when he gets on the president seat and see the huge debt staring him in the face and all the damages done to the economy beyond redemption.

davodyguy:
Mumu.

This is construction error from the contractor.

The base stone got broken, which affected the track

The guy actually said the truth. Train is from china, the railway was constructed by a chinese company, so what's the fuss? Chinese are known for quack jobs.

AntiChristian:
The people on first page said suicide is hell straight up!

Only God is the judge. He alone can decide to send to hell and He also has prerogative of mercy. Nobody either on earth or in heaven can question His decision.

That is a huge loss mehn! Such a massive poultry farm is supposed to have a stand-by generator or other alternative backup that is always ready to take over in case of an unexpected power outage.

Adaisback:
Saint unknown gunmen , pray for us. Nairaland IPOB members pls come on board, I hope you all are seeing it? The evil you all supported is now at your door step. Now, they are raping your sisters, next might be your mothers.pls let me ask you, are they still killing police and soldiers? They are now killing raping and maiming their supporters. Am sure that some of the parents of these students used to donate to ESN, I hope una see where una money they go? Keep supporting evil, but know one thing, the evil you support today, will come back to haunt you tomorrow. Me, I go continue to escape una. As for Kanu, that one? He will be eaten alive in jail. . Oya start calling me Fulani one,,, two,,, go

Chai, savagery at its peak. Igbos don suffer for ur hand today o.

Hezzyluv:
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The heart of a man...

The heart of a woman.

DMerciful:
You're arguing blindly. Why will a judge sentence someone to death for just stealing 57k?

Read the story again, he didn't STEAL N57k, he ROBBED someone of her N57k with a lethal weapon capable of killing the victim.

FreeStuffsNG:
Could this woman have been killed by someone else?
I hope the ballistic test of the bullet(s) extracted from her has been done.

N,B; Vandi has denied killing her on record. Eyin mob cyberbullies and ipob terrorists filled with hate and ignorance of the law, let the court justice system decide the fate of Vandi the alleged killer. Same police you hate and vilify so much is still the first you ill-mannered professional hypocrite will run to in time of trouble and when they save you, your life and family, you do not come on SM to praise the good officers among them. Let the culpability of the alleged killer of late Bolanle be proven beyond ALL reasonable doubt so that true justice is served to act as deterrent to others. Adieu Bolanle Raheem.

So because people call police when they are in distress, that now gives the police the right to be trigger happy when they sight an unarmed civilian?

Obidient4life3:
So January no get 31th? You must be one of those quacks they used miracle center to pass SSCE

And you are still repeating this your nonsense 31th with foolish boldness! So you've never heard anything like 31st in all your miserable life? What a shameless idiot you are. I doubt you even passed through any form of education at all, if so then your parents have definitely wasted their hard-earned money on your stupid education.

Obidient4life3:
That will not stop the old Nigeria note from being taken out of circulation come Jan 31th.

Jan 31th ?? Which school did you finish from?

ufuosman:
May his soul rest in peace

That depends on how he lived his life and his past deeds while in police uniform.

siofra:
Well I don't see anything wrong here.

They are all adults capable of consent.

Having unlawful sex as a married woman moreso even while on duty and you don't see anything wrong??

Felabrity:
ask your papa

I don ask am, him tell me say na inside suffer ur papa born u that's why suffer nor dey tire you.

Felabrity:
dey play

Your mumu never do?

mobilemaniac:
We need God now more than ever.

I really pray someone helps you out, so sad.

It's like you just joined Nairaland, I can see that you are pitying that scammer. Isokay.

Felabrity:
They can't directly tell Nigerians to vote Peter Obi, but who wise supposed know say they are against APC

When you are told to vote wisely, why do you always think that you are being advised to vote Peter Obi?

KingKO22:
Wooow .
He said you people did more worst to Buhari and Buhari still triumphed

They call him clown or Jubril or Vegetable yet Buhari is still here strong and energetic while majority of them have been wiped off by MNK boys ...


Nyamirin should get set for another 8 years of of crying and wailing

You sef go follow nyamirin cry by the time you start buying a loaf of breat at 2k and bag of rice 120k.

virginchaser:
Na so you dey talk to your papa for house if you even knew him?

How dare you mention my father, you are a bastard.

virginchaser:
I don't need to complete your epistle before i tell you to halt the marriage procedure. Please don't compromise. She may not change.

Update after i completed the epistle.
I felt a little emotional about the pregnancy. On a second thought, pregnancy process sometimes re-tune girls attitude but the traits will always be there. You may once a while wake her up or call her in the middle of the night and talk to her, backing your words with some bible passages if she is a christian.

Your own level of mumu pass the op own.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

W[b]hen she lost her job, and had nowhere to go[/b], I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and [b]she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, [/b]I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

From the bolded above, that girl is a No No. I don't know how you manage to have erection and sleep with such a demon in the first place. You want to get yourself entangled with a Jezebel daughter? I pity your life, na blood pressure go kill you if you make the mistake of wifying that demon. Do you think having a pregnancy automatically means you must marry her. The italicized above also shows that you are the weakest man on earth. You sent her money for abortion and you say you do not consent to the abortion, what sort of a human are you? I am so annoyed I feel like flogging you to coma. She even hates your family and you are still considering marrying her for the sake of the pregnancy? If you love your life and wish to live long, cut every form of relationship with that "beach" and let her do whatever she likes with the pregnancy. Don't ever send her any money and don't ever allow her come to your house again. If you value your sanity, let your family and her family know that it is over between the two of you, but if you want to prove that you are a truly a mumu, let her stupid love continue to torment your deteriorating life.

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

So it is ladies that are getting you laid and not you getting a lady laid? You are a sissy.

Fabulozz:
No I don't have any fetish for lactating women it has nothing to do with the milk. I just love sucking breast even before she took in I used to suck them non stop she know full well that I can't knack without sucking them and I don't see why she want me to wait for 4 months is too long

You are the most selfish and senseless human being ever lived on planet earth. So your enjoyment is more important than your baby's feeding and your wife's health? You are a mistake of a husband and I'm sure by now your wife is regretting marrying you.

damoobaba:
What is best about this? You're probably a local champion. Have you visited calabar during the calabar carnival? Have you taken time to Google about the most beautiful cultures in the world. Have you even attended the cultural celebrations of any other tribe in the world.

Don't be vexed by the Op. He is entitled to his opinion. Anyone can claim their culture is the best, it is allowed.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

I am so touched by the kind of love your children have for their father, your husband. He should have made a very good father aside his gambling and irresponsible lifestyle.
From what you describe above, this situation is beyond you to handle, gambling is a very stubborn addiction, he needs indepth counseling by a good professional counsellor. Can you book an appointment for him with a counsellor and lure him to the counsellor without pre-informing him? The problem is more of psychological than physical, he needs to be enrolled iin counselling sessions backed up with prayer.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

Mr. man, if you value your peace of mind and you dont want to have a heartache in your married life, just allow that girl have the baby for you and discharge her. If she still has interest in any of her exes, why does she want to tie you down with pregnancy and marriage? LISTEN UP, people dont change, she wont change even after marrying her. Pregnancy does not mean automatic marriage, let her go. Baby mama is not a strange thing to her. You just look for a decent and responsible serious lady to settle with. Peace.

SodiumValproate:
Pwettylinda, Shalommy, Sweetplum, Candidlady Siofra, Jennyclay
This awaits you if you don't change

Those ladies actually have boyfriends secretly.

dyera:
Which kind phone did you use to snap the photos, is it Sagem or Sony Erickson? And how many people will attend the party?

That is an insult on Sony Ericsson. It's obvious you don't know shishi about Sony.

baretalk:
Most of these youths are foolish, they want to destroy themselves. They hate police because they are criminals.

Those youths that were arrested and extorted because they own Macbooks or I-phones are also criminals and those that were detained because they couldn't provide an ID card to identify themselves are also criminals right? Dont worry, e go soon reach your turn.