₦airaland Forum

Felabrity:
They can't directly tell Nigerians to vote Peter Obi, but who wise supposed know say they are against APC

When you are told to vote wisely, why do you always think that you are being advised to vote Peter Obi?

KingKO22:
Wooow .
He said you people did more worst to Buhari and Buhari still triumphed

They call him clown or Jubril or Vegetable yet Buhari is still here strong and energetic while majority of them have been wiped off by MNK boys ...


Nyamirin should get set for another 8 years of of crying and wailing

You sef go follow nyamirin cry by the time you start buying a loaf of breat at 2k and bag of rice 120k.

virginchaser:
Na so you dey talk to your papa for house if you even knew him?

How dare you mention my father, you are a bastard.

virginchaser:
I don't need to complete your epistle before i tell you to halt the marriage procedure. Please don't compromise. She may not change.

Update after i completed the epistle.
I felt a little emotional about the pregnancy. On a second thought, pregnancy process sometimes re-tune girls attitude but the traits will always be there. You may once a while wake her up or call her in the middle of the night and talk to her, backing your words with some bible passages if she is a christian.

Your own level of mumu pass the op own.

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

W[b]hen she lost her job, and had nowhere to go[/b], I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and [b]she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, [/b]I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

From the bolded above, that girl is a No No. I don't know how you manage to have erection and sleep with such a demon in the first place. You want to get yourself entangled with a Jezebel daughter? I pity your life, na blood pressure go kill you if you make the mistake of wifying that demon. Do you think having a pregnancy automatically means you must marry her. The italicized above also shows that you are the weakest man on earth. You sent her money for abortion and you say you do not consent to the abortion, what sort of a human are you? I am so annoyed I feel like flogging you to coma. She even hates your family and you are still considering marrying her for the sake of the pregnancy? If you love your life and wish to live long, cut every form of relationship with that "beach" and let her do whatever she likes with the pregnancy. Don't ever send her any money and don't ever allow her come to your house again. If you value your sanity, let your family and her family know that it is over between the two of you, but if you want to prove that you are a truly a mumu, let her stupid love continue to torment your deteriorating life.

Tife270:
I have a challenge which I need to overcome ASAP in this new year.
I’m averagely good looking ( probably a 6/10), I find it difficult to say ‘NO’ to the financial requests of female friends, although I get laid in return sometimes.
I have seen guys that do not spend much on ladies and they seem to attract a lot of ladies. Those category of guys also get laid lot of times without spending much.
How do guys pull stunts like this?

So it is ladies that are getting you laid and not you getting a lady laid? You are a sissy.

Fabulozz:
No I don't have any fetish for lactating women it has nothing to do with the milk. I just love sucking breast even before she took in I used to suck them non stop she know full well that I can't knack without sucking them and I don't see why she want me to wait for 4 months is too long

You are the most selfish and senseless human being ever lived on planet earth. So your enjoyment is more important than your baby's feeding and your wife's health? You are a mistake of a husband and I'm sure by now your wife is regretting marrying you.

damoobaba:
What is best about this? You're probably a local champion. Have you visited calabar during the calabar carnival? Have you taken time to Google about the most beautiful cultures in the world. Have you even attended the cultural celebrations of any other tribe in the world.

Don't be vexed by the Op. He is entitled to his opinion. Anyone can claim their culture is the best, it is allowed.

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

I am so touched by the kind of love your children have for their father, your husband. He should have made a very good father aside his gambling and irresponsible lifestyle.
From what you describe above, this situation is beyond you to handle, gambling is a very stubborn addiction, he needs indepth counseling by a good professional counsellor. Can you book an appointment for him with a counsellor and lure him to the counsellor without pre-informing him? The problem is more of psychological than physical, he needs to be enrolled iin counselling sessions backed up with prayer.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

Mr. man, if you value your peace of mind and you dont want to have a heartache in your married life, just allow that girl have the baby for you and discharge her. If she still has interest in any of her exes, why does she want to tie you down with pregnancy and marriage? LISTEN UP, people dont change, she wont change even after marrying her. Pregnancy does not mean automatic marriage, let her go. Baby mama is not a strange thing to her. You just look for a decent and responsible serious lady to settle with. Peace.

SodiumValproate:
Pwettylinda, Shalommy, Sweetplum, Candidlady Siofra, Jennyclay
This awaits you if you don't change

Those ladies actually have boyfriends secretly.

dyera:
Which kind phone did you use to snap the photos, is it Sagem or Sony Erickson? And how many people will attend the party?

That is an insult on Sony Ericsson. It's obvious you don't know shishi about Sony.

baretalk:
Most of these youths are foolish, they want to destroy themselves. They hate police because they are criminals.

Those youths that were arrested and extorted because they own Macbooks or I-phones are also criminals and those that were detained because they couldn't provide an ID card to identify themselves are also criminals right? Dont worry, e go soon reach your turn.

IamANigerianMan:
99percent of Nigeria are criminal, hating police is normal for criminals

Yes, those families that hate police because a member of their family was killed extrajudicially by the police are also criminal for hating the police right? Those that are unlawfully detained in cell and extorted by the police for not having the receipts of their laptops in their pockets are also criminals right? Don't worry, e go soon reach your turn.

DeAdvokate:
Police are humans too, they deserved our sympathies

But police think you dont deserve their sympathy. They will tell you they can shoot you and nothing will happen, yes if they shoot you nothing may happen. Highest thing that can happen is that they transfer the trigger-happy police officer to another state and his life continues after you are dead. Pity police at your own risk.

MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.

Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.

After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.

My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.

The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.

Please advise me.

Your daughter is coounting on you for an action, she trusts you would do something to fight for her. Now, take her for medical check up first to be sure she has not been infected and her virginity has not been tampered with. Next step, report the little pervert to the police or welfare authorities for appropriate actions, they know what to do about her case. Tell your husband you are advised to do so from the hospital and that you have to take those actions to stop the 15 year old pervert from further decay and to also stop her corrupting other children and to discourage her from going gaga in such act when she becomes adult. Do something so that your daughter's confidence in you will not be shattered.

ednut1:
We dey end time. Sex is every where - in movies , on the internet, songs. This is the end result

Even in advertisement, sex and nudity are promoted.

onlinediva:
Unfortunately, you came late. The N10,000 was won, but we won't mind you Whatsapp us on 0 8 0 5 0 8 3 3 0 4 4 to see how you can be writing good articles related to automobiles on www.autosandcartalk.com and be getting paid.

Oh, unlucky me.
Anyway, will whatsapp you shortly.

onlinediva:
Exactly

Thanks, hope I have also won the 10k cos I need it badly more than anybody else

Greyowl:
I got a Toyota Camry 2010 sometimes last year but I notice the gear delay for few seconds sometimes before working. I took it to a mechanic only to discover that the gear oil was completely dry . I immediately bought a gear oil and it was added but the gear still delay sometimes before it works. The mechanic told me since there is enough oil now that it will stop but It still does that delay for few seconds at time. What can I do because I am scared of gear box been bad.

Don't panic. If you have changed the transmission oil to the right specification for that car, give it time, I believe the gear will soon become normal again. However, if you notice that the situation is getting worse rather than improving, take the car for a diagnosis to know what the problem is.

onlinediva:
1. DON'T KEEP DRIVING ON RESERVE FUEL - Don't keep driving your car in reserve mode. It would be best to quit the Reserve mode once the needle goes red. If you drive on reserve mode excessively, it might create pressure on the fuel and filters and affect your car's overall performance.

2. CHANGE YOUR OIL REGULARLY - Changing oil regularly is one of the main things you can accomplish for your engine maintenance. The oil keeps essential motor parts all around greased up not to overheat. Your Engine can't work without it. If you don't replace your vehicle's oil for an extended period, it can cause long-lasting harm to your car.

3. LOOK FOR LEAKS - If you witness a leakage from your car, you need to get it checked immediately. It would be best to ensure the leakage is not water because sometimes AC condensation also occurs.

4. CHECK YOUR BELTS - check on your belts inside the bonnet at regular intervals, and if you witness some cracks under your belt, immediately get them changed; otherwise, it might also affect the Engine's performance.

5. DON'T OVERWORK YOUR CAR - When you are trapped in mud, don't panic. This may harm the costly part of the car. Delicately shaking to try to free the vehicle is acceptable. Yet, if it looks like you're genuinely stuck, don't keep at it. Tossing your vehicle from forward to invert over and again, just as turning tires at high paces, can make the Engine hot and causes damage to the Engine.

SOURCE: https://www.autosandcartalk.com/threads/here-are-5-do-it-yourself-vehicle-maintenance-things-you-should-know.603/

1. YES, driving on reserve fuel for long is not good. It is better to quickly drive to the nearest filling station and top the fuel. When the fuel is low in the tank, it overworks the fuel pump. Also, the fuel pump may suck in the dirts and sediments that are settled below in the fuel tank and cause the vehicle to start jerking. Also, fuel acts as a coolant to the fuel pump, so when the fuel level is below the fuel pump and the pump is exposed, it begins to get hot and may soon damage.

2. YES, changing the engine oil is also known as Lube service. It is good to do your lubrication service as at when due. Change your oil when your vehicle has covered its specified miles/kilometres for oil change. When the oil has overstayed for too long in the engine, it will lose its lubrication capacity and bigins to get thickened. When it thickens it becomes sludge and very soon, the engine will be getting weaker, in extreme cases the engine will eventually get knocked.

3. YES, leaks should be taken seriously. When you notice any leak, do not drive the car until you know where the source is and repair the fault. Leaks can be from fuel tank, power steering fluid, brake oil, transmission oil, radiator (engine) coolant, windshield washer water, or engine oil.
As the Op has rightly said, the AC water is a normal water that flows out freely from the condenser and does not mean any leakage. Any other leakage apart from the AC water should be given urgent attention.

4. YES, the belt drives some very vital component of your car by using the power from the engine. The components driven by your belt include alternator, AC compressor, power steering pump and may drive any other component as designed by the manufacturer. Once you notice a squeaking noise from the fan, it's time to get it replaced. If you have used your belt for a long time, make sure you have a spare belt in your boot incase the current one breaks unexpectedly especially when you want to go on a long journey.

5. YES, if you are stuck in a mud and you try your possible best to drive out but couldn't because your car is not a 4x4 or an all-wheel drive, never force to drive it out. You can call for help to push it out or tow it out. Trying to force drive it out may damage your transmission or the engine especially when you are just revving the engine without being able to drive it out of the mud. This reminds me of an addendum:

ADDENDUM: When you park your car for a long time and you want to warm it, you don't have to rev (in local parlance - raise) the engine on a spot. Revving the engine will make the engine wear out faster. Just start the engine and allow it to keep running without pressing on the throttle or accelerator. The RPM may first rise a little and then come down a bit around 700 RPM and the vehicle sound becomes stable. When the temperature guage pin reaches the mid point, your car is warm enough and you can off the engine.
Cheers!

onlinediva:
Buying a car or vehicle is quite good because it makes mobility easier and life good, but buying a good one is significant. Just as people argue who the real G.O. A. T is between Messi and Ronaldo when watching football matches is how people argue about which is more IMPORTANT between BODY and ENGINE when buying a vehicle.

On this thread, we want the battle to start on which is more important between BODY and ENGINE when buying a vehicle, and a comment will be selected to win N10,000, or its equivalent in USD. So, therefore, let your comments keep coming in so that people can learn and you also stand the chance of winning the sum of money.

Drop your contribution, and as well feel free to click here => https://www.autosandcartalk.com/threads/which-is-more-important-to-consider-when-buying-a-car-vehicle.703/ to read interesting comments from people on the subject matter and the comment that won N10,000.

BODY is more important compared to engine when buying a vehicle. The condition of the body of a used car should be a priority before the engine, this is because engine can be rebuilt or overhauled, ringed or completely replaced but once a car has a deteriorated body, its structural integrity has become questionable and safety of occupants cannot be 100% guaranteed.

Also, there is no way you can rebuild the body of a car and the car will still retain its value, but if you change the engine to a brand new engine all things being equal, you still have a great value on your car. The body of a car gives the first impression about the car.

People risk buying lemon cars because they know that the engine and other mechanical and electrical components can be easily replaced. BUT once you buy a rusty and rickety looking car, no amount of welding, patching and cosmetics can cover its secret for long. Soon, the body parts will start giving way one after the other and as the owner fixes one, another part is falling off and such experience is usually unpalatable.

Lastly, the body of a car often outlives its engine. There are many cars on the road whose engines have been replaced up to two or three times or even more depending on maintenance but still carrying the same body. You can do away with a problematic engine and get another one but you can't do away with the body of a car unless you want to sell or dispose the whole car completely.

Thank you.

Anticultism:
In Nigeria they will only curse the killer in civilised countries they will get his sperm samples from her body and track the DNA of the killer or his fingerprints or other things.

You are talking about those developed countries that have comprehensive database and are technologically advanced. Nigeria is still in 1200 AD.

The essence of this, is to appreciate the hardworking women out there who contribute a lot in ensuring their Loved ones & the neighbors around them are well fed and nurtured.
This, I'm doing using the Savory Kitchen Efforts of my Lovely Wife as a point of reference.

Here are some of the tantalizing pictures to revamp your waning appetite.
This is just for your entertainment as we usher in the New Year, 2023, on this great platform!
Do have a Prosperous New Year!

Cc
RoyalRoy
Seun
Moderators

So what are you trying to achieve with all these?

Enny2013:
It's well. Thank God,u are not my Brother.
I really thank God!!!

God bless you. I am happy that this is coming from a woman. That boy is a capital FOOL.

2special:
bro thanks for the write-up, please what can cause my reservoir container cover to be open sometimes

Radiator cover or Reservoir cover? It is radiator cover (cap) that usually have that problem when the cover is bad and it can be replaced. Well, may be the Reservoir cover is slack.

MumEmdy:
Where do I start from, I have been in shock since the incidence, God is indeed faithful and compassionate I return all praises to Him.

After having their hair cut on the 22nd of Dec, my kids requested to visit their great grandma who leaves around that area, but on our way there the terrible accident happened. ( I don't want to go into details how it happened cause everything is still playing in my head)

An accident that claim 3 of my son's teeth, the devil came to late, we give God the praise

Nairalander please wish us speed recovery, we have been discharged from the hospital.

Mod please push to the appropriate section

HALLELUJAH !!!
Glory be to God. We are serving the God of miracles!
Devil has lost this battle already, Victory to Jesus!

Sweetplum:
You be bandit abi?
Na your type dey use rophynol ontop woman.

Bandit? No. You mean bandwidth? Yes, 6G network at that.
By the way, never heard of any rophynol or whatever, na lazy men dey do those stuff, I pass that level.

Jennyclay:
Poor standard bridge. Shior!

Your No.1 problem is jealousy.

Sweetplum:
Very sweet o!
Shey you say dem suppose throw 30 rounds knockout/banger inside your boxers?

Funny gurl you certainly are. No be only 30 rounds, 100 nko? What about dropping a grenade in your panties?

3310adeb:
Compliment Of The Season To All Nairalanders.

I Worked As A Valet Attendant In One Of The Night Club At V.I And Guess What,I received Alert Of Unexpected 600k This Morning,

Valet Attendant Is Someone That Take Cars From The Quest That Comes To A Particular Places, Parked It And Hold Unto The Key Till They Are Living, And This Mostly Come With Tips And Some Other Kindness,

So Right Now, I have Several Customers, (Dignitaries) That Have Took My Account Number And Promise To Make Me And My Family Smile, But I'm Confused Because #600,000 Is Not A Joke

ThereFore, My People I need Your Advice

Both Constructive And Insultive Ones Are Welcome Because I understand The Tradition In Nairaland
Thanks

Not everything should be posted on internet.
Anyway, don't touch the money yet.

Sweetplum:
Yes he's paying for post. That Akagum called Seun! Bros your thread look like a fabricated one

Very funny statement up there. By the way, how sweet is your plum ?