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I think most men have accepted the cold harsh reality that fatherhood is a thankless job. We'll keep striving to do the best for our kids and when they turn out fine, excellent, that's enough satisfaction for some of us. The moms can take all the credit, no probs.

Olalan:
Pre marital sex is bad in spiritually and morally, but I wonder why religious institutions don't really preach against this.

because these churches stand the risk of losing their members if they dare preach the truth. The churches totally understand that most people can't stand the truth and since retaining their members and hence their monies is most important to them they just tell them what they want to hear.

It's not rocket science.

smark61:
hypocrites! Hypocrites!! Everywhere

do most of you understand what hypocrite means?

Hypocrite
"a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings"

So unless you know the op personally you can't really make a bold statement that he isn't practising what he preaches. As hard as it is for most of you to believe, there are really good and righteous people out there.

Where's the 60 year old woman. That woman up there doesn't look 60. Or is it that the make up are that effective these days? I'm lost here really

The scanty nature of this thread actually speaks volumes of what the Nigerian youth rates highly. Threads about big brother naija and it likes usually produce three or so pages in no time. But this is struggling to fill up a page.

Sad stuff right here.

Good advice

Maybe we shouldn't even write a resume. SMH

Trying so hard to stay relevant, are we, Mr Oputa

greenhulk:
It is not for the weak minds. Nobody is forced to watch, it is clearly written that is is rated 18 and might contain nude scenes. I don't watch it but I also don't give a damn what anyone does with his life. The housemates are all adults for crying out loud, a lot of people complaining here are worse.

How do you know this for sure? Do you live with these people?

If this thread had been about a bombing in Kano, will it had been on the front page already?

You be the judge

I still don't believe this

All the girls have literally turned themselves into hoes. Almost as if they are competing on who is more evil.
Goddamit. Nothing for a decent man out there. nothing.

Glasgow over Moscow any day of the week. Smart kid.

FortuneTeller:
This entire thread is proof that Nigerians are not smart and will face enslavement by the white man again. I was discussing the matter with friends here in the US and we were shocked to see Biafra Trump Supporters. We are just wondering if it's the poverty, lack of understanding or filtering of media that has caused this. We know that people at home do not understand the complexities of how race and white supremacy affected the election, but to be unwilling to read anything about Trump's history is simply lazy. Maybe you think Trump is going to eliminate Boko Haram. Unless you have valuable oil in the North, you will continue to deal with the problem under your own administration. The US will intervene if they have the ability to take over and manage the policies in Nigeria for their benefit. You are lifting the man up for something that means very little to him. It is a political strategy to paint the "Right" as moral people while fleecing the pockets of rich people on the back end. Remember all those people in the North who have scores of illiterate starving children. Remember all your schoolmates who have aborted their pregnancies to hide their shame so no one knows. This new policy will actually hurt the whole of Nigeria and Africa and continue to push you backwards into more poverty, but it will help America become richer. Nigeria is in a sad state. At the present time, there is not much value in Nigeria for America. No one is coming to save you, because no one cares. You must save yourselves.

all these because I and some others are pleased that Trump is illegalizing the mass murder of innocent babies?

Really?
OK ma. We are all backward and you and your fellow pro-abortionists are "forward".

Happy now?

Igboid:
Seriously? You are going to compare Abortion to drug abuse?

you obviously don't see the babies in these women wombs as living beings worthy of life. I've been wasting my time all this while.

Enjoy your day, man.

Igboid:
Criminalizing abortion does not stop abortion, it only increases criminal abortion rates, usually performed by quacks, that end up not just killing the baby, but killing the mother or predisposing her to infertility in the future.

Abortion is criminalized in Nigeria, yet the rate of criminal abortion and it's attendant complications is high in Nigeria, and it's the women, not the hypocritical men that bear the blunt of criminal abortion.
You are not saving any life by criminalizing abortion, you are only risking the life of the mother.

illegalization of hard drugs hasn't stopped illegal drug peddling either but that still isn't enough reason to legalize it.

You are so bothered about the well being of the woman you don't give a fuuuckk about the innocent baby.
Someone's gotta fight for these babies too. Get used to that.

Igboid:
I see hypocrites all over this thread.
You will have abortion illegalized, while you take your longsuffering girlfriend to a quack to abort unwanted pregnancy, and end up risking her life in the process.

Bunch of hypocrites.

yeah, bad people everywhere. Getting all happy that someone is fighting for the innocent babies and making sure they have a shot at life. Bad Nigerians.

Osyabj:
Most of these posters know nothing about d US. Trump CANNOT singlehandedly stop abortion in d US. Roe V Wade is carved in stone in d US law and it requires d US Supreme Court to overturn it.

All these men in Nigeria trying to tell a woman what to do with her body are stone age men.

Trump d sexist, racist bigot will never stop abortion in the US.

Trump and Nigerian men are such bad people. Why will they stop the murdering of innocent babies. Bad man, Trump.

Am I the only one who is sees Trump as one of the genuine good guys out there? Don't get me wrong he's got his bad sides, who doesn't, but he really can't be any worse than those who advocate for the legalization of mass murder of innocent babies.

Estharfabian:

Homosexuality as A whole surpasses sex. that's what I meant.



LoL.
All they ask is For Homophobes to stop poking their judgemental noses to their Beeswax. And where have they spoken about something that doesn't concern them? where have they meddled in hetero's affairs? Ain't they human too? like heck, Joe, they breathe the same Air you do.. You're indeed contradicting yourself sweetie.

Gay people aren't the problem here, Homophobic people are.

sweetie, if the mentally deranged homos aren't prepared to think properly the rest of the sane humans will do that for them. It took man kind thousands of years to perfect the family and societal order all of you enjoy and take for granted today. We aren't gonna allow a few selfish perverts throw that into the bin because of some phantom freedom of expression. Ahn ahn.

The greater good of humanity is paramount. The right thing must be done whether you lot like it or not.

SalomonKane:
But everyone cares when two grown ass adults (mother and son, father and daughter) fuck_ each other, right?

Whatever happened to 'freedom of expression and association?.

well said, man.

Mentally sick people who want to engage in all sorts of pervasion because of some phantom freedom of expression must be made to do right thing for the greater good of man kind whether they like it or not.

All you LGBT supporters can continue your usual whining though.

Fair enough

Any man who chooses to divorce a barren wife should not be judged. Marriage is more for convenience these days. If you are not bringing anything to the table....well away with you.

It's a bleeping ruthless world out there, friends.

wickedworld:
Why do most ppl from the east always attack ppl in aggressive way even when they know they are wrong?

Have notice most of them can't manage anger especially when they want to cheat and u don't let them.

Evil minded man ,what is the different between landlord and his wife? Husband died ,wife ask u their money u want to kill her instead. May ur evil catch up with u .see his criminal face.

Why don't you just be a nice fellow and allow them to cheat you

Watch how a group of so-called anti-abuse brigade will avoid this thread like a plaque. Apparently abuse only counts if it's a woman that's at the receiving end. Men, children etc, all don't matter.

Remind me again why people are taking these double faced hypocrites seriously

^^^
Mr. Acidosis, no one's gonna hear.
You talk about morality and they call you a hypocrite (weird, really cos that's supposed to mean you don't practice what you preach; how did they ever come to that conclusion ) Or they just tell you to mind your business (that's the cool hippie phrase these days, eh )

I think a major disaster in humans societal set up looms, after which everyone will take note and admit that a major overhaul is needed.

Don't worry. Everything will be OK. After it has gotten really worse

Mskrisx:
Simply put...the world has lost It's very reason for existence.

People keep deceiving people.

sweetie, I think the ref should just blow the final whistle.

Funnily enough one looks odd if one doesn't partake in the shitty act. Men I see at the bar here in my hood, I wonder if they even fuuckk their wives. They come around with different girls every other day. Surely there won't be enough gas left for madam. not from middle aged men.

Seems pointless getting married these days, eh?

This has a look of karma. Chelsea have been in a habit of offering ludicrous amounts of money just to unsettle plyers of other clubs and lure them to their pathetic plastic club. Now the much richer Chinese are giving them little taste of their medicine. Let's face it Chelsea players are primarily in that club for money. So if more money comes along, they'd surely leave.

Good days ahead.

cococandy:
Yet you're the ones stoning and burning each other to death on the streets for mere stealing.
If women did that to each the world would be agog with news of how women hate each other.

Funny how men can disagree and it normal but women can't disagree without it being a function of our gender.

we are talking about two acquainted females, say room mates, finding it difficult to get along and you are citing a male thief and a male stranger as a similarity. Not in any way similar analogies.

SamConquer:
hahahahahaha...Evil people,MMM is Back!!!!!!It is through this MMM that I know Nigerians are wicked.They were just happy anyhow that people lost money...Haters pls suck a dick!!!

yeah, bro.
The whole MMM thing opened my eyes to the real evil nature of humans. Many were really happy that the scheme crashed. It's a lesson learned.