₦airaland Forum

AreaFada2:
There is something you forgot.

The little matter of money. The current economic situation makes it worse.

The only issue is that she died. But this is VERY common thing these days. Even more in lower economic status situations. Just 10k can make a struggling woman stoop so low. Sad really.

A considerable number of married ladies are doing it: with their boss, co-worker, the rich/generous guy in the neighbourhood, etc.

To imagine that this lady probably voted chanji, only to face more hardship..

RIP to her & strength to her family to shake off that humiliation.

when some of us try to avoid the politics section because of this sort of rubbish senseless talks, you then follow us to other sections. So you are implying there wasn't adultery during gej eh?
You moroooons just wanna drive sane people out of this site.

Rossikki:
True. Some Nigerians point to the railway system left by the colonialists as 'evidence' that they tried to develop the country. Meanwhile, the network was a simple north to south line built to evacuate resources from the north to the southern Atlantic coastal ports for onward shipment overseas. By contrast, Nigeria is building a proper rail system today that connects and integrates the various regions of the country.

Thanks for the education

Alcatraz001:
The igbos should not be derided, they have been pushed to the wall hence the vices attributed to them. This country needs restructuring so all groups can find their mojo and move on to greatness.

The enemies of a better and workable union are up north, lets face them.

excellent point.
The northerners are responsible for igbos criminal ways. And here I am thinking I've heard it all.
Is one thing to be a criminal, it is another thing entirely to blame someone else for your criminal ways. You igbos have sank so low.
*spits*

Assume on a scale of 10

Good Character - 5
Beauty - 8
Hardworking - 9
Money management - 9
Entrepreneurial - 9
Respectful - 6
Reading Culture - 8

Average =7.7

charlesucheh:
I stopped reading when I didn't see UNILORIN on top 5 and Nasarrawa and Ebonyi state uni top charting BENUE STATE UNIVERSITY! For what?

met a couple of uniilorin graduates and they didn't exactly wow me. Average at best. Some even below average.
Based on this list, the school is rightly rated.

tit:
so do you want another coup and genocide?
what are you scared of?
so the millions of school kids, babies, teachers, market women and artisans you murdered committed treason too?
why arent you comfortable in your own skin?

what I'm scared of? I want another coup? WTF are you even talking about?
I'm fuuucckkking comfortable in my own skin. I was just setting the record straight. Igbos have a nag for playing the victim but history clearly show they were the first to draw blood. They are not as innocent or the victims they love to portray. As a matter of fact they are the real villains in this movie called Nigeria.
They should just swallow whatever ill that comes their way

So many things are going wrong all over the place and when some of us who genuinely care speak out we are told mind our businesses. When pushed back to wall, they go to the same aunt or uncle, whom they initial told to mind their business, for help.


My point; it sometimes pays to listen to advice here and there as no one knows it all. this whole "mind your business " thing is overused.

TheNewIbadan:
Fine reach Abeokuta? Una wish.
Compare am to Onitsha abeg.

Yoruba man who never travels.
Jos trumps all your smelly South Western towns by a mile. Anyone who has lived in the South west and jos can never chose the former over the latter.
But just keep telling yourself what you want to believe

InvertedHammer:
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There is nothing special about Jos.

The so-called "Millionaires' Quarters" is just "one eyed among the blind" establishment.

The weather is very cold around Christmas. The hills have beautiful lowers.

Every other thing looks like a typical Northern city.

The city is stagnant.
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still more livable than whatever town it is you hail from in Nigeria. Won't swap it with any town in Nigeria

I have to be insane to choose any southern city over jos. In fact shoot me if I do that. Southerners just have a way of hyping their cities but most towns there are over crowded and smelly. Lagos is unlivable these days. Everything bad about a city is found in lagos.
They usually talk about security issues as if the South is any more secured. Ritual killing, kidnapping, cult killing, armed robbery etc are all very rampant in Southern Nigeria.
I will choose jos, Kaduna, Kano, abj, etc over any southern city.
Yeah, I have been to most Nigerian cities so I know what I am saying.

Impressive list.
However, their descendants, the IPOBs, the Wailers, are easily some of the dumbest and dullest individuals around considering the utter dumb posts they keep churning out on nairaland on a daily basis.
Oh, yeah, the jamb and waec stats might say otherwise, but those only proof that education in the SE these days is more of quantity than quality.
Trust me Igbos most of your posts these days on nairaland are vomit-inducing.

baby124:
Good. I am disgusted by you discarding a very big transgression as a mistake. It shows your maturity level. Pls don't quote me again since you can't read.

]alright I'm not gonna quote you again. Ooops. I Just did
Sorry

baby124:
Look, no man can mistreat me and my children and even find my address when he is desperate ok? Her mother even tried giving him shelter. So after he must have abandoned them for ashawo and the mother did anything to raise her kids, she should now accept the cursed being into her life to keep eating her food and living from her sweat so he can resume carrying ashawo. Such things can never even happen in my home because my husband after messing up knows he cannot come back to tell me any story.

Don't change your ways, continue... The one wey go meet you for front de wait you? Small mistake you say? You call abandoning your family for another woman a small mistake Why did he go back to who he treated badly? Are his girlfriends all dead?

Some of you talk of conscience but do things to other's you cannot take. This man is reaping the fruits of his wickedness and you are talking to me about someone's conscience being dead? Is it not your conscience that is dead? For you to call such a big issue a mistake? Women should fear you! Leave your name, date of birth, photo and address so women can run from you!

E no go beta for the man we go do me or my daughters this kind thing. Thunder, lightening, brimstone! Sangoooo!!!

Baby124, trust me I didn't read this shiiiiit. The first line simply showed you were just gonna try and justify treating one's father with disdain since he erred at some point in his life. I will be wasting my time reading cos I ain't buying.
Sorry

Valprof:
jezzebel

understatement of the century.
According to Baby124, treating one's father like trash, is a small thing simply because he erred at some point in his life.
Nothing surprises me on nairaland anymore. Any kind of evil, no matter how grave, will have one or two posters trying to justify or rationalize it. I now understand that some people's conscience is dead. Those are the kind of people one needs to stay as far away as possible from.

baby124:
Oh, that small thing and you want to rub. It shows you have the mentality of the father. I am sure if your father probably did what that girl's father did to your mother, you will use drop kick to do good morning for him everyday. Some men are wicked ooo. They spend their money on ashawo and leave their wife and kids to suffer. Then when kasala burst, they will return to that wife and refuse to leave her house. Turn themselves to burden on her neck. When they did not contribute a pin. Some of them even bankrupted their wives to give money to ashawo. The girl in this story is the winner of you leave her. They also need to chase that man away from their house as he is spoiling their image.

lol, I see you from afar. Lmao @ "The girl is the winner if he leaves her" Well in that case I don't mind being the loser if I'm the guy. Yeah, I'll leave the unforgiving, daddy hating "winner" for some "lucky" dude as I obviously don't deserve this amazing "luck" .
No time I'm still gonna ruuuuuunnnnnn

Babzilla:
What are you pple saying?
the man is is only reapibg the fruits of his bullshit
Its a simple case of payback.
Pls if she is caring go ahead and marry her

no one deserve that Shiite. Everyone deserve some forgiveness. You are extremely mean human being to not see anything wrong with that.
Op run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run run

What yall complaining about?
It's civilization. Move with the times people

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dasparrow:
When many Nigerians have nothing concrete doing, why won't they mind other people's business to take their minds off their pathetic and miserable lives?

you just go around poking into everybody's business not minding your own business yet ranting all over the place that Nigerians don't mind their business. Some of you are just confused hypocrites claiming civilized.

ify2016:
No be every girl wey you see for party get better mind.

Some na Olosho, some na because they dey look for husband while some na to show jewelries.

Anyone wey you belong , life na live let's live.

Why people go dey pock nose for werin no concern them. As you no like the babe, quikwma comot your eye and forge ahead after all many big men na that kin sharp babe dey want.

My opinion be say , we are in a free world and we should all mind our businesses.Simple!!!!

and you are also poking your nose in the business of people who can't mind their business. By writing that post you're actually not minding your own business
You see, somehow, everyone's business is everybody's business . humans are social animals; we've been like that since the beginning of time.

dasparrow:
Why are you so bitter? I don't understand Nigerians like you. Are you suddenly going to turn to a Nigerian billionaire should they get married? Is your 3rd world country Nigeria which is economically sliding into the abyss faster than a race car going to become a 1st world country should they marry? Why can't you live and let live? You are sitting behind your screen trying to burst an artery all because of a stranger's marital status. Marriage is a CHOICE. It is not Rita Dominic's fault that you chose to marry an abusive man that has kept you in a face-me-I-face-you poorly ventilated room. People who are truly happy and fulfilled with their lives don't obsess about other people's marital status. Its the miserable one who are married to abusive husbands/spouses and chronic cheats that are constantly bitter when they see single women. Get off Nairaland and do something productive with your life. Rita and Kate don't know you exist.





Women! Always their own worst enemy.

you have a problem with a poster but you just had to use that as an opportunity to insult Nigeria/Nigerians; yet you have the audacity to call someone else hater. First class hypocrisy
Hater hating on another hater

Since Igbos are a naturally hateful lot they hate everybody; themselves inclusive. They only pretend to like themselves in social media.

ChimaAdeoye:
[size=16pt]Op,
You are either a bloody liar or you are deliberately mischievous by misquoting what the man told you.

Your heart is so dark with tribalism that you have concluded he hates yoruba or hausa because his preferred mechanic is Igbo. you conveniently forgot that people have their preferred mechanic, the way they have preferred doctors. Sometimes, it's simply a matter of who they trust or who has a deep knowledge of the issue with their machine.

BTW,
Igbos have asked to leave the bloody zoo and you lazy bums that cannot live without them are busy blocking them and finding every reason to justify the wicked unity of the hateful hellhole of a country.[/size]

And WTF is an Igbo man still doing in ekiti if he so desperately wants to leave Nigeria. You want to have your country yet you migrate to other people's land on a fuuuckking daily basis. No one takes you confused lot serious buddy

[quote author=ba7man post=47438967]If everybody follow una practice group economy now, una go still shout marginalization. [/quoteLmao, the guys are a funny bunch eh? They seem proud of their group economics bull crappp but watch them cry upandan all over the media to whoever cares to pay them attention if other groups reciprocate the gesture

fpeter:
It's called midlife crisis. Talk to your father, let him compliment her more. Take her out often. Shop for her. Make her feel wanted and loved again. He should create time for dates with her. They should go out more to the movies and malls. I'm sure she's way younger than your father and some evil men out there are beginning to tell her sweet nonsense that your father is obviously not telling her. He should make her feel beautiful again.

why can't he just divorce her and save himself all these stress

Scaredwife:
@blessedqueen Very hard decision . Thanks ma
I am glad you can relate to this predicament. I really wish i was not having second thoughts. I'm kind of fighting it but i just can't help it :'

Well since you both have the cash, why don't you buy your own while he buys his. That way your investment is perfectly safe and your husband on the other hand gets to know exactly the type of wife he has at home.
Every one wins

southpole:
If you are given a man who has been killed and butchered can you easily raise him to life? that is what GEJ and past leaders did to the economy you are yelling about before they handed it over to buhari, for you to say Buhari is solely responsible for this I think you are wrong, Nigerians as a nation we are all responsible and for any body to think is only one man that can rescue the situation is also wrong. all of us irrespective of where we are coming from must do something to revive the economy. It is very unfortunate we found ourselves in this situation, those of us who are Christians know the story of Joseph in Egypt when he advised Pharaoh to start saving in the 7 years of plenty harvest. There was a time when the crude oil was selling at about $150 per barrel we did not save but squandered everything including the foreign reserve. Today Saudi Arabia an oil exporting country like Nigeria has over $850 billion from crude oil savings and other sources, is just like any employee who will not border to save but blame his employer. leaders that wouldnt mind to share money meant for the purchase of weapons to fight a voracious enemy wouldnt mind to do anything to destroy the economy.some nave arqued that passt Leaders should not be blame but I dont know how you can treat a disease without talking about the course.

most people blaming Buhari are just being mischievous. Anyone with little intelligence would have appreciated how the previous governments have completely messed up the country. Unfortunately for Buhari he came at the worst possible time

There is suffering in the land but it is sheer mischief and/or low intelligence for anyone to rest the blame solely on Buhari. I have no strength to write long posts. BTW, I dare say we would have been worse off with GEJ.

splashbaby:
STFU because he's a billionaire he must be wiser than you? This matter is obviously beyond your understanding. ... don't chuck your mouth 4 wetin big pass your brain .

alright genius.

TheAlchemist:
How dare you turn Dangote into a Charity worker. He has seen a business opportunity where he can make more money. He is not Father Christmas!

nice one. He's meeting a need and making tons of money for himself while at it. Everyone goes home happy