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Lekside442:
shes just 20

Oga, you have a very big work on your hands. If you are not going to be patiently patient, please let her go in order to preserve your self esteem. She needs to learn humility the hard way. You can't help her

Lack of money makes a lot of men edgy. Poverty is a bad thing..

If this is true, then it's a pity. After all the glitz and glamour on social media. Smh

Society says a man who shows emotions is weak. They know that nairaland protects their identity, so they feel more safe to express their feelings here. Truth is no matter how macho you think you are, you will break one day and seek an outlet for relief or closure. More guys are starting to change this stereotype understanding that shared challenges can provide solutions that can help them heal faster.

She doesn't have any value for you or the relationship. What of her family? Her mother or father, why can't you talk to them about her instead. Two things are involved :
1. Why the hell are you still dating after 6 years? You may be responsible for her actions. She is probably tired of telling you she wants to get married and she has been patient enough with you for keeping her like your wife when you haven't married her yet. Fix the date of your wedding and watch if she will change or not. I believe she will. She is protesting with her behaviour.
2. If she is just naturally stubborn and disrespectful, then you need to teach her a lesson, she knows you love her and won't leave her even if she does all those things. So shock her, ignore her completely until she gets the message. Don't give her money or anything and when she complains, get very angry and tell her to go, stand your ground oh don't be a puzzy azz nigga until she comes to her senses.

You are seeing tell tale signs of a woman that will ruin your life, give you hypertension and probably stab you one day and you are asking for what to do.

I hope konji will allow you to man up though. I don't know about that and can't help you with that either.

3 times? That's scary as hell. The relationship is gone for good.

Someone who couldn't transform AC Milan, smh.

To scale or scare? I am not understanding.

I think the topic should be " having sex outside marriage is a sin". Simple. Not what you have up there.

Truth is forgiveness is a journey. The initial pain and resentment you feel is normal, but don't let it linger. Practice makes perfect, learn it. If it's a major weakness, avoid situations that will tempt your weakness.

lefulefu:
those girls supporting her u go dey surprised they are doing everything possible to sustain their own relationship .no be babes again .u never see some babes dem go encourage their friend who is even married to break up with her husband and wen d lady finally leave her husband u go shock say the guy will now marry the lady who had been advising the other lady to break up with the man

I know of a real life example. Babe A convinced babe B to frustrate her man to the point where he will break up with her. Babe B did it after which babe A went to console babe B's man. Now babe A is married to the man and babe B is still looking. Inside life

Oga face your book

Mane is just the best right now. Attacks, defends, recovery of lost balls, scores goals, give great assists. He is a utility player

Is it not his money?

wonder233:
This particular words are meaningless

To you they mean nothing. I'll advise you to seek helpful knowledge.

Truthchiz:
Abegi, really?

Yes, really.

A lot of black slaves were sold out and betrayed by their kinsmen. It's no news.

This is abuse of spiritual power and authority. The lady should not take it lightly.


You must understand that there is something real about spoken words. They are capable of creating or manifesting real events, either good or bad. Yes, the curse causeless shall not come not if you hear it and keep your mouth shut without saying anything positive to counter it.

World People are advised to make positive affirmations about themselves every morning when they wake up and at night before bed if they want their lives to change for the better. While the religious ones are told to pray without ceasing.

The good book says there is power in the tongue, making negative declarations about yourself can affect you talk less of something negative spoken to you. What she needed to do was to reject the negativity spoken against her instead of ignorantly answering the pastor.

Ignorance is costly.

Sorry bro, shit happens.

Certitude:
it's an atheist page. Don't get converted there. . here is the link https://www.facebook.com/130148817071986/posts/2814254681994706/?app=fbl

Hahhahaha... Don't worry about me.

Very interesting indeed... Can I get a link to the thread. Would like to see many more responses.

The life of a player. If you know, you know.

KingSatan:


You are not ashamed to share your stupidity to the world.

What the hell happened to Growing up Mr?

She called and you gave her 2k to buy foodstuffs. BROTHER YOU ARE MAD! AND I CURSE YOU

A "Nigerian" Woman treated you like used rags because she didn't see the big picture, now that you are made she is crying and you are asking us what to do in such situation?

If you don't open that your smelly mouth and tell her to G-E-T T-H-E F-U-C-K O-U-T, then i will terminate your manhood.

Hungry leeches looking for free meal tickets.

Haha... Oga take it easy on him. He is a learner.

Larryfest:
There's nothing young about that old lady abeg...

You are smart too

MrBrownJay1:
"younger" for where?!?!?!

You're smart

GraGra247:
If she don't want your money she's getting enough from another man elsewhere. It's the same thing.

Yes.. From her father

Hunter X Hunter

Simplep:
Because members of this forum are mostly Male, females are just 6%,duuh

Lol...I hear you. But you're not correct.

Only about 6% of comments on this topic are from females,... I wonder why...

Interesting