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am not expecting a gift from him. i said that because the topic said" what did u get for val". i will give him his gift anytime he comes around.
he has been on the phone since last nite, begging.

[color=#000030]Yeah of course he'll beg! That's what players do. And you'll forgive him of course, that's what girls who are being played do. And then it will repeat it self until you find out that you were been played all along!. . .

Give him his gift. You are playing your part. Most guys dont really value what they have!. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]@#$ ^%$ a %$^&? A ^&%*! [/color]

[color=#000030]Noted.[/color]

[color=#000030]WTF! [/color]

oyanwumi:
My own story for val na total regret, it was a blue day after work with my Asian bebe (Filipina) a.k.a  Pee gurl as we generally cal them here. she always complain of a tight schedule due to the kind of work she does, so my plan is to impress her this time so as to have my way into the diamond city. i didn't buy her anything cos i wanted her to make her choice of anytin between the range of $50-70. To tell you one bad tin about  asian babes, them like food eh, Chop chop be their song as they dnt dare joke wit it atall.  we went 2 KFC and she filled her tommy wiv burger & Pepsi and demanded for take away, No yawa, as me sf don ready 4 d tax ahead of me, i kukuma don reserve like $100 for d whole nonsense weh i won do, the nxt place na Mall, una no wetin pee-gurl sa she want, Samsung Galaxy X2, na him i tel her sa, when month end, i go buy am, sa make she relax tak somfin of abt $40. na so she buy buy, until dem carry $55 bill give us, Well, wetin man go do na, i close my eye n paid the bill jeje as e be   part of the game na,
After the whole shopping and she askd me 2 drop her in her flat, laila, i tink sa na oly 9ja babe de use sense play guyz, No way, we eventually landed in my 2bedroom apartment and i offered her a glass of red wine 2 really put her in d mood, in a nutshell, we started the match rite room the living room down to stadium extension, the most annoying part of the whole tin b say,,, the stuff no worth d kin money weh i don waste ontop, cos the plac no really b like our africana own na middleast mak persn dey settl 4 less cos of d kin law weh de ground, omo na dudu gud pass, dat tin na total rubbish, in fact , the tin remain me of my Ph babes 4 real,
that same nite, my kid sister calld me sa mak i send her remaining money 4 her project, na im i just slam the fone like sa na network problem,
[size=17pt]My eyes open dis money afta i dropd the pee gurl in her flat and realizd have messed up.
if i carry dat kin money weh i spent ontop dat val's day outing, 4 my kid sister, it will go miles 2 help her,
Right now am filled wiv regret and i feel like given mysf a full slap, cos the plac sf weh i feel go de swt lik sf na yeye site im be,
Anywa, nofin spoil, i don fall dis one now, na anoda one weh i no go land ontop again, apa ti jabo ooo!
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[color=#000030]***SLAPS HIM*** [/color]

^^^

Killz. U know dat song nor go fit work for feb14

[color=#000030]Relax sweets. . . That was a one naira gift. . . Stick with moi and the one million will come to pass. . . [/color]

[color=#000030]Oh Really?[/color]

opeyemiolu:
Didnt get anything yet. i bought 3 set of T-shirt, a leather belt and valentine card for my boyfriend: [size=15pt]only for him to give an excuse of working late yesterday.[/size] the gift is still in my house. i am not sure he got me anything.

[color=#000030]LMAO!

Congrats sweetheart. . . You've just been PLAYED! [/color]

Tosinville:
Naw! its wasn't, using social networking sites like facebook, twitter in comparison with an ordinary forum is not just it, [size=14pt]i'm not saying ppl can't get hooked up here but the chance is slim compare to facebook, myspace etc that are already dating sites where majority knows whats for.[/size]

[color=#000030]Dumb Comment as Usual! I suggest you auction that brain of yours. . . I dont think it has ever been used! [/color]

[quote author=pretty_boi link=topic=871288.msg10201826#msg10201826 date=1329314964]lol, my brother. me sef I tire o & I'm asking myself what I'm even doing with her sef? na to move on man,but the thing that really hurts me is that the girl doesn't even seem to have understood d kinda person I am, I've pushed her aside Abeg. Not that I don't like her anymore,but I see clearly, NO TIME TO WASTE.[/quote][color=#000030]Welcome to REALITY!
At least vals day has made you know the REAL her!

Val's day is Devilish in all TOTALITY! [/color]

bhusayor:
Oh, the cool headed trojay is sexkillz, interesting,

[color=#000030]Nah! He's NOT! Never ever ever associate ~Killz~ with coolheaded! I have such capacities. . .NOT!

So because this dehydrated goat says Troyjay is sexkillz, you believe him? Smh. You'll believe anything then. The OP is just a confused  buffoon. To show you the extent of his lunacy, he says Onila = 190! What a dimwitted Arrow!

BTW, sexkillz is Dead![/color]

Flashaldrin:
onila - 190 howfar??

[color=#000030][size=15pt]NEVER EVER EVER USE VALENTINE'S DAY AS THE MEASURE/DETERMINANT OF SOMEONE'S LOVE FOR YOU. . .[/size][/color]

[quote author=pretty_boi link=topic=871288.msg10201555#msg10201555 date=1329312951]I really regret vals day man, first & foremost,I promised to get my girlfriend a bold 5 (cos she likes d phone) although I never promised to get her that as a Val gift,just a gift I planned to surprise her with whenever I get it on a normal day without any particular occasion. For vals,we had some really nice lunch & I gave her her gift----some chocolates,some wine & then a "wall-mounted electronic home hair dryer" & yawa started o, she started acting strange & raking that why didn't I get her d phone for vals? & I was like "I never told u I'd get u d phone as a Val gift & if you know me,I always like to surprise you,I'd get you the phone when you least expect it on a day without any occasion or something like that." The girl no WAN know o, she's still beefing me till now even as I type this. This is a girl who only gave me "bailey's (the Irish cream drink)" for Val as a gift & God knows I appreciated it, I seriously wish I didn't even get anything for her sef considering how silly & ungrateful she's acting presently. [/quote][color=#000030]**SLAPS HIM!**

Did i not tell you love is NOT about Gifts? If she really loved you, would she not be content with what you could provide?

Next MUGU pls! [/color]

[color=#000030]Women's Favorite Email of the Year

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home. He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed:


Dear Lord: I go to work every day and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what I go through, so please allow her body to switch with mine for a day. Amen God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish.

The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman. He arose, cooked breakfast for his mate, awakened the kids, set out their school clothes, fed them breakfast, packed their lunches, drove them to school, came home and picked up the dry cleaning, took it to the cleaners and stopped at the bank to make a deposit, went grocery shopping, then drove home to put away the groceries, paid the bills and balance the check book.

He cleaned the cat's litter box and bathed the dog. Then it was already 1 P.M. and he hurried to make the beds, do the laundry, vacuum, dust, and sweep and mop the kitchen floor. Ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home, Set out cookies and milk and got the kids organized to do their homework, then set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing.

At 4:30 he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad, breaded the chops and snapped fresh beans for supper. After supper he cleaned the kitchen, ran the dishwasher, folded laundry, bathed the kids, and put them to bed.

At 9 P.M. he was exhausted and, though his daily chores weren't finished, he went to bed where he was expected to make love which he managed to get through without complaint.

The next morning he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said, "Lord, I don't know what I was thinking. I was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay home all day. Please, oh please, let us trade back."

The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied, "My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be happy to change things back to the way they were. You'll just have to wait nine months, though. You got pregnant last night! [/color]

[color=#000030]I'm glad you liked it sweetie!

Remember when we used to sing M.I's song? "Whether na one naira, whether na one million, baby you got me. . ." [/color]

[color=#000030]And so what? [/color]

born2fuck:
Regret seeing sign of danger everywhere, most people was in red cloths,thought ritualism all over the country

[color=#000030]Bro, you have to understand that valentine is a pagan custom. The red cloths are part of the rituals. . . "Geddit!" [/color]

MRbrownJAY:
another example is how to deal with some of the questions that women ask us men. one of the most famous one is: "babe, does my arss look big in this dress?!" lol. it's a question that has broke many marriages in the past SIMPLY because some men made the infamous mistake of being honest in their reply.

[color=#000030]That question is a Question i call checkmate! Is my arse big in this dress? If you say "yes" = You are calling her Fat!
If you say "no" = You dont think her arse is sexy. Therefore, you cant answer "yes" or "no". . .#Checkmate! [/color]

MRbrownJAY:
^^^ sadly some people cant see the writing on the wall, even if it smacked them in the face.

the gal couldnt even pick the phone after school, not even at night!!!!! oh boy, that other guy was SPECIAL oh!

[color=#000030]Bro, she was busy with "Human Anatomy practicals". . . [/color]

[color=#000030]Ha Ha Ha. . . "It haff yet to started" I can bet my laptop charger she spent it with someone else. . . NEXT![/color]

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=871208.msg10200269#msg10200269 date=1329301682]And some of them will get pregnant. [/quote][color=#000030]And some will die trying to abort. . . Or lose their wombs indefinitely! [/color]

4wardever:
Are they not just tying the girls down and complicating their lives?

Firstly, no one can tie you down except you are a slave or kidnapped. It is not by force to go into a relationship neither is it for kids. Relationships that will lead to anything are started by two mutually consenting adults. It takes two to tango. If either is tired or does not believe in it going anywhere, the door is always open to walk away.
A broken relationship is far far berra than a broken marriage.

Are they not making the girls loose potential and eligible suitors due to blind love?

No they are not! The lady's decision to stick to that man means you believe in him or something come what may.  It is only a dumb Bottom girl that will not start asking questions about where the relationship is going few months after meeting the guy. If he cannot satisfy you with answers, the answer lies right above.  Let no man manipulate you by crying or threats of suicide if you leave him. While in love, you must always use both your heart and your head.

And btw, there are lots of guys who were not yet "men" that  still married their hearthrobs, women who stayed till the man was made.  It's all a matter of perseverance, hope, trust and love. Sure, there are also some ugly stories buh like I said, while in love, you must always use both your heart and your head. and most importantly, always seek God for answers, he knows all.
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[color=#000030]Well articulated!

Op! The original concept of a relationship is to get to know someone better without strings attached. When you've gotten to know the person, and you both are compatible and tolerant of one another, then the relationship takes a turn for the better. . . Marriage.
I will not necessarily castigate anyone going into a relationship. Why? It's simply because i dont know your motives. If your motive of getting into a relationship with anyone is just for casual fun, casual sex etc, then and only then would i find your reasons for going into a relationship wrong in all it's totality. No one has the right to stir up another's emotions, toy with it, and then leave it in a state of quagmire. That's wholly wrong.
As regards tying the girls down, it depends on the motive of the girl too. If she was led into the relationship, believing that it will blossom into marriage it will be fair to say she was "tied down". If she was well aware, that the relationship was purely on a platonic level, with a possibility of leading to marriage, it's not tying down. Complications arise if one member in the relationship is taken for a ride, or when both members in the relationship FAIL to define the aim of the relationship. Sex, is "supposed" to be between married ones, but since the advent of contraceptives, "safe sex" and all the likes, sex has become a toy. It was naturally supposed to seal a bond between two adults old enough to get married. Adults with a sense of responsibility and acceptability for the consequences of their actions. When you bring sex into a relationship that is yet to blossom into marriage, it gets COMPLICATED of it's own accord!

The girl losing potential and eligible suitors is NOT as a result of blind love, but rather as a result of selfishness of whoever it is, leading her on. You dont blame Love for that. If you are not going to marry her, say so. Dont tell her you love her when you dont, or when by your actions, love is nowhere to be found. Dont tell her you gonna marry her, or give her the impression that you will marry her when in actuality you wont. . . That's selfish. People's emotions are easily stirred up when it comes to love, but blaming love for loss of suitors is a NO! Sometimes, she could also be blamed for that.

When does a boy become a man?  I'm lost there for real. What i know and believe is that if you do not understand the semantics of marriage, if you do not fully understand the responsibilities associated with marriage, if you are not emotionally mature, if you are not financially responsible, pls pls pls, dont speak of marriage. You can be in a relationship, but dont you take it to the next level. It's even better to stay off relationships than start what you rightfully know you can not finish! Individuals differ. Some can handle a relationship, and some can not. Know who you are first before you get committed. A promise is a debt. If you cant pay your debts, dont make promises.

Girls should also be able to define what they want in a relationship before heading in head first. Make your intentions known. If the terms are not acceptable to you, WALK! It's not by force to be in a relationship. It's not by force to have a boyfriend. Those who realize this fact about life are better off than the senseless ones that rush into a relationship, and rush out with broken hearts, worse than when they rushed in. Life is a stage. Dont skip a stage because you think you can, cos actually, YOU CANT! Some of the misfortunes of girls sometimes are of their own making! A boy approaching you for a relationship doesnt mean you should accept it, especially if you aint ready! You are not missing out. Forget the hype. Be focused and set your priorities and then stick to them. No one -male or female-  should go into a relationship without properly defining it. [/color]

[color=#000030]Damn! This is the Romance section![/color]

[color=#000030]If you, "Chief Mallam Aboki Retardeen Odechukwu Mumuni" Flashaldrin, for one infinitesimal second think that i care about whatever the fu[i]c[/i]k you think about me, then you are seriously sleeping. . . On OKADA!

If you dont know i'm on NL to be Problematic, then your case is irredeemable, and beyond hope! Cheers![/color]

cynthiafred67:
Lol @ replies

[color=#000030]Hey You! [/color]

Flashaldrin:
come, okoro atutu romeo, you think is everybody here that gets there sadistic egos filled from having followers on nl??, dont even think of rating me with your class of attention seeking [size=15pt]whoores[/size] that will go [size=15pt]orgassmic[/size] if their thread reaches the frontpage, or if it gets multiple comments, i gets so much of that offline that i pretty much come on nl to hide.
You know what, i was really mistaken about you, you are just a kid, yes, i dont care about your age, you have the mental age of a kid with multiple [size=15pt]psychoogical[/size] disorders, bothering on the extreme with symptoms of loneliness,desperate needs to be noticed, liked, supported, arse licked.
This makes you so pathetic, and confused, that when you saw the sexkillz handle was no more liked and had few fans, you decided to open another handle, to start afresh and amass new arse lickers, not knowing an arse would always be an arse and would be[size=15pt] recognised[/size] anywhere
obfuscated discombobulated attention seeking fooool, keep looking for my attention, but am sorry this is all i can give hope it lasts you for the week!

[color=#000030]Brighter Grammar pls!. . .[/color]

[color=#000030]Yay! Peeps are commenting! [/color]

[color=#000030]No regrets sir! [/color]

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Shame go gree them talk? I'm here to stroke and irk!

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[color=#000030]. . .And the number will increase significantly after last night! [/color]