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 Romance › Re: The Right Way To Celebrate Val! by Killz3(m): 7:06am On Feb 15, 2012 |
[color=#000030]  No. 7  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: The Right Way To Celebrate Val! by Killz3(m): 9:43pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]Comment Number 5! C'mon people, we can do this! [/color] |
| Health › Re: Nigeria Records 281,000 Case Of Hiv Annually – Fg (punch) by Killz3(m): 9:16pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=js_pac link=topic=870685.msg10195565#msg10195565 date=1329236588]There will be an increase Tomorrow courtesy of Today [/quote] |
| Romance › Re: The Right Way To Celebrate Val! by Killz3(m): 9:05pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]^^^ Na real Wa! 24hrs later, 730 views later, and front page space. . . Just 3 replies! This is discombobulating and obfuscating. . . Pls let's donate comments. . . Even if it's insults.  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: What Is The Key To A Happy And Lasting Relationship? by Killz3(m): 8:51pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=Cruz-gee link=topic=870802.msg10195257#msg10195257 date=1329234375]Thanks Killz, you really are a wonderful councillor. I actually decided to be humble and good with this guy but most times, I regret being good and soft hearted. He tells me at times that I dont get angry and that am too gentle which I found a bit funny. I thougt because of the age difference and because he wants to lord over me hence the behaviour. I will be 36 and he just turned 33 this year. My people all over have been disturbing me about marriage and what they tell me ususally is ''are you selecting or waiting for a rich and a complete man'' and the likes. They even told me not to look out for anything that I should just accept whoever comes my way. I think this is going the extreme for me so I decided to play along with him but at this jucture, the fear of accepting his marriage proposal is over me as I do not want to make an eternal mistake after waiting this long. Thanks Killz, I embrace your concern and advice.[/quote][color=#000030]Just be yourself. The fact that you rejected a proposal at 36 means that your thinking faculties are aligned as far as i am concerned. Dont regret being kind and soft hearted. There's no vice in cultivating good character and manners. He doesnt deserve you. . . Glad to be of help anyway.  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Dumb Girls by Killz3(m): 8:34pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=871054.msg10196517#msg10196517 date=1329246101]she looks like a Nigerian version of Goldieluks (no ooofeinsese)  [/quote] |
| Romance › Re: Who Met His/her Current Bf/gf Or Life Partner Through Nl? by Killz3(m): 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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| Romance › Re: Can U Marry A Lady Or Guy U Meet On Nairaland? by Killz3(m): 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
Wislet:[color=#000030]I yam a finnish ghost!  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Like Money? by Killz3(m): 4:56pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]^^^ For understanding me = +1000. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: For Young Girls on Feb 14 AKA Valentine by Killz3(m): 4:51pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]^^ Noted! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Like Money? by Killz3(m): 4:48pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
IZUKWU:[color=#000030]Thank you! But i really care less about the version you prefer. I can be who i want whenever i feel like. . . That's the fun!  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Post Your Valentine Activities And Updates Here by Killz3(m): 4:09pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
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| Romance › Re: What Is The Key To A Happy And Lasting Relationship? by Killz3(m): 4:05pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]You took a very bold step. Shrewd is the one that has seen calamity, and proceeded to conceal her face. Anyone who hurts you to the extent of you losing your strength, as a result of shedding tears does not love you, neither does he deserve you. Proceeding further into marriage with the conditions you are already used to from him will only lead into physical abuse in the long run! Age has nothing to do with it. A beast is a beast. You've tried and he did not change, so the best line of action to take is to move on. You have done so already, but i really hope that you specifically told him why you rejected his marriage proposal, else he may not come to the realization that his attitude, if kept up, would be detrimental to his future relationships. Coming to your question proper, my experience has taught me that a Happy and lasting relationship requires effort. . . Forget the love stories, forget the movies, forget the "Happily ever after Syndrome". You put in effort every blessed day to make sure your relationship stays afloat! Essential vitamins of a happy and lasting relationship to me is: ~Communication: I'm not talking about phone communication alone, or the face to face conversation. I'm talking about heartfelt mutual communication. Talk about the root of the quarrel, accept where you made a mistake, tell him where he made a mistake, discuss ways in which a future occurrence would be avoided, and then make up in whatever way possible you deem fit! Kiss and make up after you have thoroughly trashed out the problem. If you kiss and make up without trashing it out, there's a chance that the same problem would resurface, and will keep reoccurring. If properly trashed, the chance of a recurrence is very slim! ~Understanding: To me, this simply means trying to figure out why your partner had to act in such an abrasive manner in the first place. Put yourself in his shoes, try to analyze the situation from his eyes, and then ask yourself sincerely what you would have done if you were him. If you can successfully do that, you'll know precisely how to channel either your blame, or your encouragement. Remember, humans are imperfect and make mistakes. When someone realizes his mistakes and begs you for forgiveness, understanding plays a vital part! ~Respect: Very important too. It has to be mutual and i'm not talking of morbid fear kind of respect. Respect that entails you do not keep track of all activities of your partner, you do not stalk his phone log, and you realize when he needs his privacy, and you give it to him. Dont rush into conclusions on your assumptions about anything you feel worth complaining. Dont put him down in front of your friends or family members. . . ~Trust: [/b]Overrated sometimes. People use this to accomplish more harm than good. But trusting him leads to respecting him, and understanding him. When you trust him, your mind is more at peace. If you have reasons to doubt him, communicate with him, understand him, and then forgive him! [b]~Love: This overused, overrated, most abused , most misused 4 letter word in the world, is the string that ties everything together. There cant be communication and understanding if you dont love the person in the first place! I dont think i'll listen to you at all if there was no chance of me trying to make sense out of your blabbing, and then forgiving you. Love, covers a multitude of sins. But then you have to love in the right way. Forgiving anyone without making them realize their mistake is NOT love. Love makes you put that extra effort to make sure that a recurrence doesnt happen. Loving someone means acknowledging who they really are, behaviorally and otherwise, and accepting them that way. No one is perfect. Realize also that love is not jealous, and most important, Love does NOT take into account Injury. What that means is that when you truly love someone and they offend you, you forgive them and make sure you dont recall that offense committed against you. That's Love. It's that kind of love that keeps a relationship going strong, sturdy, and steady. Dont forget though the earlier points about love. Dont you ever say I LOVE YOU if you dont mean it. Dont mistake Lust for love. And dont you ever ever mistake sex for love. . . In all things, be who you are and not what anyone wants you to be. Accept him for who he is and not who you want him to be. Try your best to communicate, understand and forgive. If you've made your stance clear, and your wish gets violated, you are in a better position to make a rational decision devoid of sentiments. . .[/color] |
| Romance › Re: Photo Of The Day: Valentine Blues by Killz3(m): 3:47pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]FALLS FROM OKADA AND BOUNCES OFF THE BRIDGE! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Like Money? by Killz3(m): 3:00pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]Money? I like money, you like money, we all like money, Nigerian girls like money, people of all Nationalities like money! What should be guarded against irrespective of tribe, gender, or Nationality is "The LOVE of Money". It is an Individual responsibility to guard your heart against losing all moral senses as regards money, thereby loving it more than you even love yourself. You'll run into unprecedented problems with friends, family and even your own self as a result of your selfish craving for money. The phrase Nigerian Girls Love Money is not only wrong, but insulting as well. You dont collectively blame "girls" for the foolishness and senselessness of one girl, or some girls. They chose to LOVE money, they chose to worship money, they chose to give their life for money and everything money can buy. . . But they keep forgetting something: Even the richest man on earth wants MORE MONEY! When you become a slave of money, you keep wanting more and more. Some have cultivated self control, disciplined themselves and put the desires of the flesh in the proper places. When you collectively group these set of people or "girls" when referring to those who are slaves to money, it's quintessentially unfair. To be fair, majority have fallen into the snare of money, therefore, i personally think that the focus should be on the minority that refrain from loving money. They should be celebrated. Let the world know that there are still people, Nigerians, male and female who regard themselves and their values when it comes to MONEY! Think positive. . . All hope is not lost. And to those maintaining their unselfish stand and determination not to be counted among the majority, this is for you: |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Your Val And What Are You Getting For Them by Killz3(m): 2:43pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=870524.msg10192021#msg10192021 date=1329206516]Ok no problem. I'll be all dolled up by the time you get there |
| Romance › Re: Post Your Valentine Activities And Updates Here by Killz3(m): 2:40pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]Work Work Work. . . And i'm loving it! On saturday when this Val craze must have ended, we'll have our "alone" time! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Your Val And What Are You Getting For Them by Killz3(m): 2:37pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
I'm 'val-ing' Patience Jonathan. Getting her a dictionary and a treadmill![color=#000030]. . .Add "Brighter Grammar" too, i beg you! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: For Young Girls on Feb 14 AKA Valentine by Killz3(m): 2:32pm On Feb 14, 2012 |
lond07:[color=#000030]That's my phrase for a hopelessly foolish person that thinks himself wise in his own eyes. . . [/color]tunnel101:[color=#000030]You are a Discombobulated Urchin! Where did he say you should not share love? He's sounding out a warning to naive girls who probably thinks LOVE = SEX. . . Girls who'll ignorantly lose all moral sense today because some idi[i]o[/i]ts of your caliber will deceive them with words, have their way with them, and leave them to suffer the consequences alone! Stark Ignoramus![/color] |
| Romance › Re: For Young Girls on Feb 14 AKA Valentine by Killz3(m): 11:40am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Gerrard59:[color=#000030]Discombobulated Ignoramus!. . .[/color] |
| Romance › Re: For Young Girls on Feb 14 AKA Valentine by Killz3(m): 10:12am On Feb 14, 2012 |
totorimi:[color=#000030]This is how you pinpoint a wise FOOL. . .[/color] |
| Romance › Re: Please Help: Can I Still Marry Her? by Killz3(m): 9:32am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030][size=20pt]STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HER SO THAT YOU MAY LIVE LONG! ! ![/size][/color] 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: For Young Girls on Feb 14 AKA Valentine by Killz3(m): 9:12am On Feb 14, 2012 |
Pricelesss:[color=#000030]I sent the "sex" on an errand, and it was killed on the way. . . [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Why Do Modern Muslims Too Join In Vals Celebration? by Killz3(m): 9:07am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]Forgive your dead brain first! You are wasting paragraphs on me, and cyber murder your dumb arse as well. . . Idiota[/color] |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Your Val And What Are You Getting For Them by Killz3(m): 8:33am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=870524.msg10191870#msg10191870 date=1329204407]Nna, I dey wait for Ikeja G.R.A. I dey dere for two hours!!![/quote][color=#000030]That wasnt me. Anyway we are going sight seeing today. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Romance Section Complaints and Suggestions Thread by Killz3(m): 8:18am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]My pleasure. [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Happy Valentine's Day To All Nairalanders by Killz3(m): 8:15am On Feb 14, 2012 |
michelin89:[color=#000030]What wahala?  [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Your Val And What Are You Getting For Them by Killz3(m): 8:13am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[quote author=Inked_Nerd link=topic=870524.msg10191764#msg10191764 date=1329203211]lol make sure you pick me up on time o! I don't want to be waiting like last time. Remember when I waited for your for 2 hours?! Are you mistaking me for your EX?  [/color]Kills. U didn't tell us wat u have for ur val al d same.[color=#000030]Awww. She loves flowers and chocolate. . . Im'ma spoil her silly! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Happy Valentine's Day To All Nairalanders by Killz3(m): 8:06am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]But i say I LOVE YOU to them everyday. . . Will do so today too, and Pastor Valentine had absolutely NOTHING to do with it! ^^^[/color] |
| Romance › Re: Who Is Your Val And What Are You Getting For Them by Killz3(m): 8:02am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]^^^ Inky stop lying. . . Op, my Val is Inked Nerd. As soon as i log out, im'ma go pick her up. . . He have to finish what we started! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: At This Age And Still A Virgin? Part2 by Killz3(m): 7:59am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]Rokiatu, i'm DISAPPOINTED!. . . SMH! [/color] |
| Romance › Re: Rip To All Virginity Ladies Today by Killz3(m): 7:57am On Feb 14, 2012 |
[color=#000030]This prayer is risky. . . [/color] |
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