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keppyy:
Lols...thank you so much...


You're sooOoo right...

If "WE" agree...


I'm still learning...*hugs*

you will get there...

keppyy:
Thank you so much...

I love good food and obviously I'm not the best cook in the world and I don't believe I'll ever be...what I'm saying is if I can afford a 3star chef to prepare my meals, why won't I??

Why don't we say it's a crime to get a blender, a washer, a cleaner, a nanny, a driver etc...

I see nothing with surrogates anyway...

Njokusboy made mention of emotions and all that, I totally get him...I totally understand...

Change the "my" to "our" and "I" to "We"

Once you have both willingly" agreed, by all means go ahead. Just that it's rare to find men like that but not like they don't exist at all.

SAMBARRY:
they have different styles.some willdeliberatly fall it and pretend like say it fall bexause they're looking for nylon

true

pickabeau1:
For every woman there is a kind of man


For every bey a jayz
For every toke a maje

So keppy don't mind the old school mamis

If you want to work to get money so you can outsource the cooking..good for you

Be patient and don't feet while you wait

It shall surely come

In short why stop at cooking?
You can hire a surrogate to have your kids so you don't spoil your figure

You can hire a porn star to give ur hubby sex so your punny is not affected

Carry goooooo

nasty you!!


@ keppy , you have to learn how to balance these two worlds, the same set of rules don't apply.
The office environment is very different from the home environment.
One is very competitive while the other is so complementary
You are encouraged to outsource and delegate as much as possible in one but there is so much you can delegate in the other, not that you shouldnt delegate/outsource at all o
It might help to get a real life mentor who is managing both worlds successfully
Personally, that helped me a lot
All the best!

cococandy:
I realized that a while ago.

He just needs to be more sensitive. That's all.

True, criticisms can be destructive when not communicated properly.

SAMBARRY:
they're not adding any jara o jare

they will just use their hands and pinch it to fall then they will pack it again and say it's jara

my thots exactly
They have a way with their hands

Chillis:
Hian, not only price. I make sure I select the ones wey chaff no too much.

Nigerians can wayo person. And I make sure I look wella to see the jarah o.

If you just turn your eyes off, they will tell you they have added the jarah

Madam put jarah jor.
if she no put the jarah, I go another place go buy. No be my money?

Same for those mallams cutting meat

It's like you are describing me, sometimes, I tend to ask myself whether it's worth it sef, as in, whether they truly add jara. I think it's film trick.

zeb04:
what is the question again?

how to be submissive,even when you have been given different smack down,upper cut and supper punch?

the award submissive wife" you are trying to win might only be given to you when you go into coma and not return

. then the angels in heaven will give you a standing ovation.

welcome the most dutiful,vitreous,honourable submissive wife ever to grace the world of mankind.

how do you like that?

Even I had to ask the same question after reading her post.

She was offered all the help possible, rejected them all but she came online to ask us what to do

~ The neighbors called the police to assist her, she covered up the abuser and was smiling to them in pain.
~ Her aunt offered to take her in, she said no.

Pls what does she want to hear again that she has not already heard from real life people who know and love her or is she just trolling??

SAMBARRY:
Of course I still prefer the convenientional African shopping where you can choose what you wan gan gan and you can price, move around till you see a seller that is ready to sell for you at your terms. I don't dig the online shopping o jare except when I'm in a grocery store and I'm cash trapped i can use pos.and because of this longer throat sales girls that will say there's no change so that you can be forced to leave your change with them

as for the stone grinding, since I was younger I've not used it again. It's either blender or nothing and how much is blender, with 5k you can get binatone blender

Kulyie, is there any item you don't know its price?? person wey go cheat you for market go sweat o

People have difference choices when it comes to food and its preparation and there is little or no basis for judging them.

I once lived in an ibibio community and visited a lot of modern families/kitchen while learning their native soups. Most of them hardly use blenders for their pepper, instead they use this "mini mortar and pestle" and before you say j-a-c-k, they had blended their pepper with this stuff and cook their delicious soups. Not for one second did I think these people like "suffer head" just because they preferred to use mortars even when they had blenders. That's what they grew up with and I dare say they had perfected the art of using it. Infact, by the time I was leaving them, I had grown to fall in love with it too, just that I never remembered to use it when I got back to Lagos

k4kenny:
She don land o! Had my baby girl 5.08 am today. Mama and daughter r doing well Alhamdulillah. BS later, gotta rest.

Congrats mama. God bless our angel.

Pls get enough rest.

Ariyke:
I used available foodstuffs at my disposal and it was a quick dinner soup if u look closely u'd notice no meat or anything in it buh I late it with gladness and gratefulness in my heart

Pls don't mind him jor, I have never seen a soup that looks more inviting. Melon has got its own distinct natural taste and you only need to put in enough onions to bring that wonderful taste in a soup. Like Fanny said, I wish I could make pounded yam with ur melon soup. Yummy!!

all4naija:
I only speak my mind because I think there is freedom of speech in this forum and here in particular. I don't mean no harm, seriously!
,
Nigerians seem to shy away from truth sometimes. It is not a good thing.

I have come to realise the bolded.

Ariyke:
all4naija get odeshi

lol..you sure?

modath:
@kimoni,

Dont bother stress yasef, na me & king dey come for reverse omugwo, & to entertain "king", you know how e dey be........

which stress?? Abi because you no wan send private jet come pick me




Trust you feeling better

proudmom38:
Lolz,no worry I go send as much zobo as u want 2u ...

My bags are packed oooo

queen47:
Hahaha, thought i was the only one who felt that way about that level one. Me started level 2 today biko.

Madam queen, you can jump for Africa ooo. Which time you reach level 2 nownownow

It's all good jare, I agree level 1 has become very boring

cococandy:
I don tire for all4naija.

I've told him severally the day they will beat him,my hand no dey.

You're right he's even said worse. Imagine saying the background of someone's food looks unhygienic. He will even complain about your plate

All4naija stop looking for trouble o. I won't defend you when they whoop your ass.

Poor fannyswindler. He's even paying for all4naija's sins without knowing it. Lol.

Today might just be all4naija's day judging by all his comments on people's food today. Just that nobody really cares, most people I mean.

Has nothing to do with all4naija, some things just never surprise me again

all4naija I pity you. And I don't think you know how to curse.

cococandy, you better come and drag this ur best friend all4naija from this thread?? Cuz he has said much more than what Fannyswindler posted initially on this thread but we all just laugh it off. All4naija will even quote your post directly. Those were the days of babyosisi though.

Even Efe knows how to handle him well without derailing the thread or cursing unecessarily.

Whoever sent that initial tweet insisting they were correct should be queried immediately. Nonsense!!

Virtuouswife:
Congratulations 2 u Modath...... Dts a beautiful one, God bless u and ur lo. Quick healing and recovery 2 u.
Kimoni I think say u dey Modath house ready dey wait shuuuuuu!!!! Oya pack ur tins begin go dere

Hahahahahahahahahahhahaha
You and Beedam

But as she never land nko? antime she land. I don pack my bag since dey wait for her private jet to come pick me you sabi say too much kidnappings on our roads baa

bellong:
Oh.. Thanks

See them, Old Skull.... You must be Damiso's twin brother








Make I no lie sha, me sef I didn't know it

omaa4:
Thanks everyone for your comments, @Kimoni, thanks for the candid advise, @TV01 will love to share notes with your wife. Honestly, my hubby is not as bad at it sounds, maybe it's just me trying to be overly worried about the issue. because he ends up bathing and washing away his spittle from the bath. And he's really not so careless in a lot of other things, except this particular bathroom habit of his. On the contrary, he's quite a decent and well-trained young man from a good family. And he's also of good general hygiene like hand-washing and wardrobe cleanliness. Infact it was him who introduced the footmat in front of the bath. I even threw away two of his bathroom slippers which works better that than the new one I bought, without his consent. Maybe i'll have to buy a more absorbent footmat. I guess I will just handle the situation more gently and with love and I believe with time he will get over the habit. And he does not do this everyday, just sometimes. *lso he does not pee on the bathroom floor as I said, just some pee on the toilet seat but this too he wipes with a tissue. He's also not a bad influence on our daughter, rather he's a caring and doting dad who enjoys spending quality time with his family. Infact he was there in the delivery room with me in the US when we traveled to have our daughter. Maybe I need to appreciate more what I have.

see all these good qualities from one person only??

@bolded - pls appreciate him more. God bless your home.

What is this?? Is African region an institution?? CNBC olodo.

I will rather have an intelligent politician than a beautiful one. Politics is not a beauty contest, it's about using your skills to better the peoples' lot.

Let's concentrate on their achievements and not their beauty

Wailing wailers, what do they have to fear??

SAMBARRY:
Yes damiso Kimoni aka Kim kardashian is right


let's see the pishores of how you looked like or how you turned out.



Wo today's another Saturday and environmental sanitation day. Let me Go and clean up so I can finish on time and hit the road

Damiso, the chairlady of advisory committee too has spoken o

ChiChi0296:
Thanks all for your contributions. But I don't even ve much work to do in my house. She just fetches water, wash plate, take care of my kids when am not around though for now I still stays at home. Am not even a lazy woman I like taking care of my home. Am not d type dat leaves everything for maid to do. Most times my husband ll lyk go and rest let her assist you
My problem is dat she's hash to my kid. She's not friendly at all. Am still a young mum. She make me talks too much which I don't like.

Whatever it is, pls don't allow any unhappy person to take care of your kids. Maybe she doesn't want to be separated from her own parents. The first thing I ask anybody coming to help me is if they are happy coming or they were forced to come. They only stay if they came of their own freewill and I tell them to let me know immediately, if they wish to leave. I also watch them to ensure they are truly happy.

That's why it's good to take adults who can take decisions for themselves, asides the fact that it's child abuse when you use an underage girl as a domestic help.

***Have you read stories of young girls who were forced to marry people they didn't like? you know what these girls did?? Pls read these stories if you missed them.

SAMBARRY:
don't mind her. Lagbaja said enu dun rofo. Meaning talk is cheap and judging is easy until you are actually in that same position

Pls come and teach me proverbs

Herzumpther:
Lol.

I nearly called you on this thread yesterday but somehow I didn't.

You know we used to get this original African dishes from you, but you sef don turn to oyinbo food now. It's all good though.

When I was pregnant and didn't have an appetite, I only needed to look at your locally prepared dishes and I would go and eat immediately.

How have you been

EstyBle:
Hello Mothers,i just joined Nairaland 2day.
I thank God 4 dis platform.
Please fellow mothers,i have a 10months old son who has not been eating for 2weeks now.he takes only breatsmilk and titus fish(in any form). He refuses his usual pap and takes time 2 swallow.Av bought different types of syrups,treated malaria,antibiotic,multivitamins,nothing was working. Until i noticed he has white patches on his lips and tongue looks different.he refuses me 2 clean his mouth 4 3days now. He only eats cerealac. Though i suspect oral thrush.Pls what do u advice?

You LO mostly likely has oral thrush. Pls get him to see a doctor asap.

Pls avoid extreme self-medication next time. Ur baby's system is too tender for experiments.

goosebumps:
Mama's please help. !!

I will come back to introduce myself shortly but right now I'm distressed.
Gave birth almost 24hrs ago and up till this point there's not a single drop of breast milk.
I have tried pap tea hot liquids etc but nothing. Baby now refuses to latch on cos nothing comes out ndy beautiful bobo is obviously hungry. I'm
almost in tears myself.

What else can I do

Goosebumps, is it flowing now?

Ndo! just keep at it. It will start overflowing soon soiling all ur clothes sef.

Hernyolar:
I put my five months plus old baby on her executive chair potty first thing in the morning and at night before her bath.. and I have discovered that she hasn't soiled her diaper with poo for 3 whole weeks..
so I think the earlier the better
I sing, giggle for her just to make her happy and distracted..

Chop knuckles...

It's also very effective to establish a pattern for their body system. Keeping her happy while at it will make her want to sit on it again.