₦airaland Forum

Janeola:
I got the responses and I really appreciate the responses both negative and positive. I'm all fairness I feel I am too soft too as a man. Not stupid cos if you meet me in person you will know what I am saying but sometimes the wisdom of a wise man seems foolish. If you can help in any way, assist me

Answer this plz

How do u go about it by allowing your ex to go with the children to an extent of changing their surname 😳😳😳😲😳😳😲😳

Kobojunkie:
Why exactly did you completely lose custody of your kids from your first marriage? Your wife changing the name of the kids means you are not even acknowledged as their father at all. Divorce does not give anyone that right. So answer that question and that may help answer your current question as to whether you are also going to lose custody of your son if you and your wife were to go your separate ways.

2. The word "best" is relative though. What you think is best may not necessarily be considered best by the other person involved in the marriage so you need to be in continuous communication with your partner about these things for a marriage to work. So, how is communication between you and your spouse?

May God bless your wisdom cos have never heated such before in my life.

How can she changed their surname to d new husband or is d new husband d initial or original father of the kids 😳😳😲

Something is really wrong somehwere

It actually rains everywhere bro 🤣


The game is finally over

I understood u very well
Many of them will abandon the child to d mother to labour for years then in the future when d child become something in life they will now be expecting that same child to he useful to them mbok

It's irrational ..
May God help us all 🙏

Fountainofyouth:
Nobody hates their dad for hating sake, it is because he was simply not there for them when he was needed, there are so many deadbeat dads roaming around the streets already mouthing off that the kids will look for them when they are grown to their own detriment, of which kids of these days are very much aware of which parent is hands on with them.

You can't impose your kind of father to others whose dads are as deadbeat as a stench of a dead rat. Do you know what it means to be a deadbeat? You think a deadbeat dad can do one tenth of what your dad did up there? Of course not

Only the ones that deserve it will be treated well.

U are just 18 and still have a long way to go in life and besides u are a man u really have a whole lot to enjoy when it comes to ladies sex and relationship.

So don't drag the clock closer yet develop urself learn a skil be educated and work towards having a better future ..

This ur format of lies ehn 🤔

I still don't know how d baba can have more knowledge than science that invented or name organs Y and X chromosome

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

Divorcing her now might be d best option because if she eventually got pregnant for the Chester's then u are going to train another man's child 🙁☹️

But how did u do it to allow your wife to live somewhere else for 4 good years 🤔

I guess both of u are not really connected emotionally before saying yes to marry each other

Alphabyte2:
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OfeAchi:
of course, the white race is a more superior and advanced race. Intellect, innovation, posterity thinking, you name it. Black race , especially Africans has been proven time and time again to be backwards and subpar. Just a little above the apes.

The only thing that proves the blacks are a humans is a document written and preserved somewhere in the Alps.

So u are part of us right 😅

Exceed15:
State 5 reasons why School in Nigeria is not a scam. Thank you

1. It doesn't breed tout and mayhem in the society then
5. Read the number 1 and digest it

7

Viraltrends123:
You are always sad about news like this, always being pessimistic, and saying it won't be completed. And even after the bridge or railway is constructed, you won't be satisfied still, you will also say something bad will happen to it.

Why so much hatred and pain, what's you guys problem. Most of you are here for bad news, you enjoy seeing like 100 bad news in front-page, isn't it?

Don't mind them they don't want to hear someone good from the so called Lagos or Nigeria instead they will be praising the bad news just to paint the black race as useless as anything 😡

God bless sanwo Olu and his aid and may thunder fires PITOBI ANF his aids and Ipob members in Nigeria 😂😆

trevorlinda:
I was surprise wen i get to bank today


20k is the limit every1 can withdraw


imagin sum1 who needs 200k for sumtin urgent and he/she uses touch light phone, how will he/she cope

There is ussd code for transfer bra

Funny facts and realities

NiceLegs:
I'm done.
I'm going the other way.
I'm dropping my faith.
I'm dropping my morals.
Legit does not pay in Nigeria.
Doing it the right way does not pay in Nigeria.
I have done it for years.
where has it gotten me?
I will go the other way.
But I will do mine differently.
And I won't do it for long.
Once I get what I want.
Then I go legit.
And stay legit.
As far as I'm not hurting anybody.
my conscience is clear.
Who did I learn from?
I learnt from Tinubu and all the past leaders of Nigeria.

Abeg óò wẹ need national intervention production on this

Maxymilliano:
Bunch of olodos

Why won't there be mass failure when the civil service is based on man-no+man and quota system arrangements

God bless you ..

It's very hard for u to see someone that got a civil service job without man know man

immortalcrown:
If the revival costs ₦35b, how much will build another one from scratch?

No be dat one dey vex me pass. Dem go just repaint the decayed machines, then carry the money chop.

Na every tenure dem dey allocate money for the revival. Even if na Lazarus, e suppose don wake up.

. 😂😂😂😂

I was thinking the same

So what next ?
When are we going to celebrate PitObi for his failure to win the presidential election 🤔

Country bad country no good and u are leaving Nigeria with all ur families and when u die or get old u Wil still come back to Nigeria to diẹ and get buried 😢

Hamas isreal war is going now for months yet u won't see them leave their country just to support and fight for their land but if na Nigeria everybody go don travel and yet u will blame the government 😢

WHO DO US THIS THIN 😭😭😭

All are thief's and also pro pro pro buhari pro-max in the system 😢
May thunder fire Pit Obi for not winning this election because we need him most for the job 😂

madridguy:
Since December 1st, the innocent girl is yet to be found. So what exactly is the purpose of NIN if by now the Nigeria Police cannot raid the kidnappers hideout and bring back the girl.

As in ehn the nin is d most useless policy ever known.
We do see cases of criminals the police will post on d internet that we should assist them if we found them... 🤔
So why are we registring our sim to link with NIn etc are all not functioning for tracking purpose

Kai them don carry their eartern IPOB and OBi practices to Lagos state OOO nwanne Sanwo Olu need to flush them away in Lagos so we can have peace again 😢

K

Offpointng:
Y'all matured just go abroad and act like Kids and jungle folks at the sight of snow and those dem oyinbos go jux dey look una shake head. what happens to gathering all the family together, watching from the window inside or licking the ones that fall by ur window turn by turn if u so wish

Very poor if you'd ask me

My brother thanks for this 😊

This adult man just act like under age kid just to go out and snap in the snow as experience 😅😅😅😅
.the oyibo will be looking at home like a bush pig 🐖🐷

This is what Pit Obi should have done when he was around similar age instead of finding difficult times or problems with any new policies tilumbuubu took for the development of the country..

U haven't really took any bad step since u are trying to take opportunities and improve ur level or standard of living...

Well you will rise again and don't stop trying new things or taking new opportunities

oyinmykel:
Error of extra Zero


It is impossible for it to by 57000, rather 5700

I guess so but let me check online myself now

Vinnie2000:
The Truth is many LADIES will like to Fucck their Ex before their Wedding Day.

Dat's how one of my Babe was Calling me 'Lets see nah' when Her Pre-wedding Photos were already on Facebook. 🤨🙂🙂

And I went to 'See' her and she Calmed down. ☺️

The fact is: The thought of Dem Living with one PREEK for the Rest of their Lives traumatizes them.😌😌

My girlfriend said her friend told her the bolded and I believe it's not limited to her friend alone but both of them since they were close friend what do you think 🤔

humilitypays:
Honestly APC destroyed Nigeria in just 8 years.


Flight that use to be NGN15,000 is now going for NGN280,000 and no more booking ahead like 2 months ahead to save cost, all thanks to APC destructive economic policies.


Don't blame the airlines alone, it is as a result of Jet A fuel price hike all thanks to NNPC and dollar instability all thanks to CBN that is making local airfare to be this high.


Airlines pay their key staffs who are mostly foreigners in USD, they buy spare parts and go for C check in USD, so USD to Naira rate hike is also affecting them, so blame the useless APC government

And thank you for wasting time to write all this instead of you to have just written the bold ..
And that's it ☺️

Shalommy:
Why did he struggle with a hungry thief? Now the phone is gone and his soul gone. Double wahala.

Exactly

K