Nobody or group or govt of country should be tagged "world leader". Please stop the mentality of calling the whites government world leaders, the govern their country we govern ours. The have their laws, we have ours. The live their lives, we live ours. They do things for themselves and for their citizens regardless of what African countries think, we do things, take responsibilities for ourselves to survive, not minding the failures of African government and what the so called world leaders think and we are going stronger and stronger every year.
Nobody is nobody's world leader. To each government to its own. Every sovereign country including African countries has same right and power like every white country out there, just that we blacks don't believe in ourselves and what we can achieve as individuals and as a nation. Stop the bias, stop the slave mentality, stop the idea of 1st and 3rd world country. Love, equity and equality is the only way to live as human.
philest222: Please guys kindly connect with any kinda of legit Job, am tired of being idle, I just recently move to Ilorin, I won't mind if it not within Ilorin environ, I am just a diploma holder.
Jashub: Oga, your friend is a weakling and he does not have the courage most men have when with it comes handling rude and abusive women . But the way I see it, he has to tell the girl that their relationship is over. There is no two-way about it.
Now you may be worried that the girl will exact revenge on him by assaulting him or even wounding him. But let me tell you that it is better for him to get assaulted while her anger is still fresh , than to marry her and live a life of frustration and regret.
Lastly, he should know that living with a contentious woman is something that can lead him to having murderous thoughts , and that is something that should be avoided at all cost. Just remember that the word abeg after murder will not change the punishment that would follow
let your friend travel. Simple as A, B, C, D. I mean for a long time, change location. An she go tire.
I quite agree with you his utterances haven't violated any law and therefore ain't subscribing to comments by illiterates mostly ipob pigs regarding the need for his arrest.
Having said that, it is pertinent to sound a note of warning to him as he apparently he degree of uneasiness due to the arrest of Mamu, an indication he might be complicit.
On that basis, he cab be arrested and heavens will not fall exactly how Elzakzaki was arrested and detained for years and heaven did not fall.
Gumi should note, to be forewarned is to be forearmed and the law is no respected of any individual.
Shame will be yours when an ibo man become the president of Nigeria in the likes of Peter obi. It's quite uncomfortable to you seeing the cult like followership peterobi an Ibo man is enjoying worldwide, whether you like it or not it is what it is.
Hey, I'm not against any tribe, I'm only condemning tribalism from any one or group. 1love to Yorubas, Hausas and Ibos. Let's leave together. Live and let live. Who ever opposes love and unity will never know peace and he/she is the enemy of God and the people.
fiizznation: Well the man is sick; this I will agree with Mr Obi. 2023 is going to be interesting. A disorganized party{PDP} is going head on with a party that presents a Muslim Muslim ticket thereby 'alienating' some of the Christians votes.
While Labour Party depend so much on their social media followers and noise makers, this will be the party's biggest undoing! Elections are won at the grassroots levels. What ever votes you get from social media mob is added as a plus, nothing any seasoned politician will take serious.
It's there any grassroots that is bigger than the internet age of social media viral marketing campaigns? Tell me. How can you be thinking backward like you are still in the stone age? Bro think outside the box, think wild, understanding that internet technologies are the future of life, finance and political outreach. Welcome to the future, please accept the future and don't reject it.
I had my own share too, though it's long but I need your advice.
The episode started when the Suffocating and comprehensive ASUU strike is becoming more elongated.
My mum discussed with her boss if I can be working with them depending when ASUU will call off their strike.
Fortunately, they affirmed to my mum's request and I was employed to work as a secretary.
Note: They are both husband and wife running the organization.
My role is to write receipt for all payments entering the organization account, write and ensure all the payments of the day are updated before the next day.
As a result of the nature of my work, this give me access to the boss office as I may need some things to take there. Even if other staff want to access the office, they will inform me first, then I will collect the key and give them whatever they need in the office.
Things was going smoothly until a fateful Friday I was accused of stealing.
The scenario happened like this.
As the secretary of the organization, I do resume work by 7:30am and close by 5:pm.
Apart from the cleaners that tidy the compound. In most cases, I'm the last person that leaves the office. And whenever I'm leaving, I collect the key to the office and park the bags of the boss and his wife into their car, check whether they bought something and ensure everything is placed in their car.
That fateful day, as usual, His wife wasn't around, then I look for the husband to collect the office key and he told me that the office is opened. With no further delay, I moved into the office and carried their bags. As I was going, he stopped me and check the bag. He claimed that inside the bag, where he packed money, the money has been rough handled and the nylon bag that housed the money was found tore.
Then pandemonium began. He insisted that a person has accessed the money and I was the only person that has the privilege to enter the office. I was troubled and confused. My perplexity was so high that I don't even know what to say.
I tried to explain to the best of my knowledge. I tried my best to exonerate myself that I knew nothing about the money. I told everyone that I met the office opened and I ain't aware that the office was opened. Most times, if I see the office ain't closed. I will close it because it's close to my office. But on this day no one to bear me withness. Every odds look against me. We left there around to 5:30pm that day.
I even told my boss that he should count the money that I don't perceive anyone entering the office. But he kept saying that he didn't know the amount he put there and he can't give the precise amount that has been stolen.
Beforehand, I noticed that the environment is full of jealousy. The staff jealous themselves. They envy each other and there are lots of faction within the organization. To be on a safer side. I didn't join any caucus or faction. I play my role diligently and discharge my duty responsibly. I don't do favouritism as I make myself to be honest in all things. There are many evil things that I'm aware of that goes underground but I don't interfer in it or report it except the bosses know by themselves. With my altitude, well with this I thought, I was loved by the boss and his wife.
When I got home, I wept profusely because no one to bear me withness, everyone seems I'm the thief.
I explained to my mum what happened because she has left earlier. She pacified me and said. If I'm not guilty of the stealing, nothing will happen to me and they should use whatever they want to use to look for their money.
On Monday we resume back to work. What happened on Friday kept pondering my heart, the wound hasn't been healed yet another mysterious thing happened again.
My own office is at the front of the boss office. My table and chair are placed there but it doesn't look privately. It looks like a reception before entering the main office. I got to my office next day to find that #3,600 has been smuggled into my drawer.
Chaiii! No one to bear me withness again about the money I saw. All things look like I was the one that stole the money, and just hiding under the guise of innocency.
I was extremely perplexed, different thought were ruminating my mind. One thought said if you give them the money they will say you are lying that you just kept it there. Another thought said, who knows, perhaps they are putting you under integrity test. Well! I carried the money, luckily the wife was around and I explained how I saw the money and handed it over to her.
When the husband came, she told him exactly what I reported to her and the husband responded, he might be the money they stole on Friday. He continues, definitely the thieves has returned the money as a result of their actions on Friday.
The matter dies there and no one ever made reference to it again until today when the boss (he) asked me to prepare a bill for a customer. I've done that already and also listening to him and the customer while they were conversing. In a nut shell. I heard the customer telling him that he wants another bills too. Therefore I was preparing that too, unknowingly as I was preparing it, I have covered the first bills with lot of books on my table. As the boss arrived, he requested for the first bill he asked me to prepare. Unfortunately, it's no where to be found again, �♂️. I tried to explain to him that I was also preparing other bills the woman mentioned. I think that was the only mistake I made thinking that would make the work faster for the woman to collect the bills.
All of a sudden, I noticed that he has been seethe with anger. He shouted at me that I don't have regards for him, he said, he asked me to do something but I'm doing otherwise. Before I could utter any statement to clear myself out. Everything has already scatter, he remained deaf to whatever I wanted to say. He insisted that I'm not working with them again, he chased me out like a dog that I have to go back to take my phone.
Amongst all the turbulence, I kept begging him. I prostrated on the floor to show that I'm sorry. But he didn't even looked at me.
For the sake of my mother. I don't want to do anything that would affect her relationship with her bosses, I would have said. I'm not working again and not even bother to beg.
To cut it short. His wife signaled to me to meet an erderly man close to the place, possibly he might listen to his pleas. I did as instructed by his wife, "God bless that woman" The erderly man followed me but another thing bursted. He said apart from this, that he can't employ somebody that he doesn't trust. He made it known to the erderly man that I'm not trustworthy using the past money that was stolen as a case of study.
That moment, tears began to roll down from my face. I didn't know what to say in the midst of everyone. Everyone was just saying, please forgive him, he will change, he won't do that again. I looked at myself and said this is humiliation of the highest order. If I take any step, it might affect my mum too and lead to the termination of her appointment. I don't want her to be traumatized.
I remained calm and crying bitterly. Well! he accepted the elderly man plea for me and they concluded that this is yellow card, that if I do anything bad again, they will resort by giving me red card. Since ASUU is still on strike now and there's no way I can say I'm leaving there without having implication on my mum employment. Who knows, what will happen next that might get me roped and I will be given red card couple with humiliation. I want men with wisdom to advice me on how I can justify my resignation peacefully. I don't want anything to backfire on my mum. I don't want her to be traumatized and I don't want them to transfer their aggression on her.
I just want to leave there peacefully because I can't see myself working there again. Even all these things was written with my unbalanced emotions. I know I have been traumatized and accused falsely but I believe I will bounce back strongly and soon or sooner God will revealed the perpetrator in Jesus name.���.
I will be glad if this can be moved to front page.
Bro. Pray over it, your God is the God of justice, Grace and orderliness.
This life is not a bed of roses. So many experiences gotten, getting and will get good or bad that would mould you to become the best of yourself. Living is a school, don't shy away from it.
As for the false accusations and maintaining your. mums friendship with them, don't break it, I repeat NEVER BREAK IT. It stays after you are gone from there to wherever you go, school or work, let them roll.
Don't let it affect you, clear conscious fears no accusations, since you are innocent of anything they are saying don't let it affect you emotionally. Just harvest your big plans and move. That's the target, nothing less, nothing more. Do it for mama sake. If not for mama, I would have told you to forget about them and move on.
Secondly, start thinking of other ways to diversify your earnings as soon as possible. Don't think too long just think and decide.
Learn an online freelancing money making skill which could be related to what you are doing now like writing, excel software, online receipting services or any talent you are passionate about, it will set you free soon and in the nearest future.
Now that you are actively working, its a good one and a blessing in disguises.
Build yourself professionally (Don't let school thoughts to limit your imagination).
Don't let the lessons learned to be in vain. Endure them while focusing on your professional skill learning, because its yours and that's where your freedom lays.
Keep being honest, its very powerful.l, it always prevails at some point in time.
And who are the people celebrating him or voting for his party even after his emergence as governor? Are they recruits from Borno as you also recruited into Kaduna?
Who is celebrating him? Are you the one. Come and argue this publicly in Imo state, sorry is yours.
Supreme Court installed him against imolites wishes, someone that didn't come first or 2nd.
Lastly, stop pretending as if hope uzodinma is loved in imo state by imo people. Please face reality and stop talking flimsy. They hate him with passion, that's why you see traditional musicians in Imo state singing about his bad deeds and people enjoying and cruising on the songs.
PStacks: It Gladens my Heart Igbo Leaders of Thought are begining to say The inconvenient Bitter Truths and Backing it up with Hard Facts to Peter Obi.
I wonder why Hope Uzodima is Trending, If the Igbos can not decode the codes In his message then it is rather unfortunate.
If it was the Way those Arise TV presenters cut the clip to misconstrue the message of Governor Hope Uzodima to score cheap Political points on the Morning show program, then I'm not surprised Arise TV is already being Biased.
I salute the Courage and Resolve of Governor Hope Uzodima in the first clip to speak such Inconvenient Truth to his own people, that really doesn't make him Popular but has made him worn my heart till forever.
Hope, Na Man you be, You are One of the Only Hopes of Ndigbo.
In the Second clip, Papi'm was being factual and Objective. No Sentiments, Straight up.
Nothing like "Igbo men of thoughts" it's an imaginary phrase.
You are saluting someone you cannot salute in public in south east? So if common people in the streets don't support the person what's the persons glory.
They are afraid of the type of students they have created and they are trying to make them busy away from interest in politics and October endsars rally.
Kiddwayya engagement, kidwaya hang out with with white woman, kiddwayya hang out with dj cupy etc etc etc, please my question is this, what's his hustle or how is he using his lifestyle to inspire me and you. what are my learning from him? What's the significance of this news to our everyday hustle to make ends meet?
All these I want to know because I don't understand why I full blown man will wake up in the morning, use his laptop or phone that he can use to do a better thing to post about kiddwayya. I don't understand! Please some help me to understand why.
At least let him inspire people or even start helping people from his family numerous wealth or even create societal awareness. I will be fine with that.
Truvelisback: Good day, fellas. Some mistakes in life can be very hurtful, yes. And the pain of this mistake can last very long in ur memory. One way or the other, everyone of us has made such mistake(s). Have u ever made a mistake that was so hurtful to u that u find it difficult to even forgive urself? When u remember this senerio, u become so angry and find it very difficult to let go of the hurtful feeling.
If I tell you the terrible mistakes made in the past, you will agree with me that mostimes it's only the mercies, the prayers of our parents and our good approach to life is the only life saviour.
My advice to young ones, don5 be quick to jump into decisions. Be contented with the little you have. Self-discipline prolongs lives. Fear and worship God in secret and open, he is the light and only safe place. Obey and listen to your parents advice. Etc etc. Alot of things to say but let me leave it here.
I am assuming she did and even at that, if she could snap back, there's no penis that can expand the vagina of a woman. The muscles there are that efficient that they always snap back. Example is the snap back after pushing out a baby. E get penis wey big reach baby head?
EmperorTolson: I think it's childish to fixed an appointment with an employer and not show up. It's even more childish to lie that you're on your way to the interview venue when you're not.
A guy chatted me up few days ago pertaining to the job advert I posted some days ago. He was saying all sort of thing that he's ready for interview anytime the school choose.
I asked him to pick a day and time that will be convenient for him, he picked Monday (11am). I helped him fixed the date and time with the employer citing some excuses that he's coming from long distance.
On the said day, I called him and he has the effrontery to lied that he's on his way. I told the employer that he's on his way, they waited for him and the guy did not later show up. He switched off his phone and he dodge my messages on WhatsApp. What kind of behavior can we call this?
I decided to add the screenshot of our conversation. Scroll down for the complete screenshot
You are not too bright enough to categorize Nigerian Youths as lazy due to some personal issues of yours. Read it again and correct yourself.
NtiObaEneke: She warned him to fück off but he chose to be unfortunate and continue being a nuisance. Since he doesn't know his mate, she has taught him a very valuable lesson
So a male lecturer can not date/marry a female student and a female lecturer can not date/marry a male student? If she doesn't want let her politely refuse his advances, advice him and move on to avoid distractions as simple as that. Ok. What if he or she is older than the said lecturer.
Being a lecturer doesn't mean that he or she is richer or smarter or older or even wealthier than the student. The student is only there to get something they needed, that's all.
What I'm saying is these, everybody should give each other a chance without looking at societal levels or age bracket. If one aren't comfortable with it, best the decline respectfully without causing damage(s).
What's good for girls, it's also good for guys? Period!!!
virginprincess: Can he swear that he never cheated on any of the girls he dated,and pls i'm not justifing cheating,i'm only saying he went too far with his anger,why not end the relationship instead denoting her things to charity,honestly he acted childish.
It pains sis, sacrificing everything for someone, later realizing that the person don't worth it, still cheats on you and feels they are sharp or smart. You should teach that person a lesson after all the spending was done by you. It's not childishness, its classy and like I said earlier a life lesson.
Lol. You are a clown. Do you understand Yoruba language and are you people fair-minded atvall?
All you Igbos know to do is demonize others to play victim while trying to hide the entire picture.
Remi is talking about the response to treachery, ingratitude and ungracious animosity of Igbos towards Yorubas.
Did you not not hear when she said "bi ah se ni ife yin to, eh ba ara je"?
Meaning we love you guys so much yet you fcked up.
If you don't know, the only thing Remi is guilty of is retaliatory and angry talk which is creeping into the mentality of more Yorubas daily because of the hateful and ingrate attitude of you Igbos.
Yorubas accommodate and empower you to the extent the SW is the biggest second home of Igbos in the entire universe outside SE Nigeria.
Yet you alone, of over 300 ethnic groups, continue to pay back Yorubas with toxicity, hate, sheer bad belle and enmity 24/7.
What has her husband done to you guys to merit so much hate, from Igbos alone, against his person?
Did some of us not warn you Igbos that hate begets hate? Even in Ghana and South Africa you are shown similar swiftly after they host you and you lot "ba ara je".
If you want, do your usual propaganda thing, to then spin her words and play victim, over Remi's utterance rather than learn from it as responsible adults do.
Nigeria is changing and soon you guys will learn first hand, the importance of the saying "don't shit where you eat".
You will see why, as your experience in places like Accra and Johannesburg should have shown you, benefactors will not perpetually tolerate ingrate and saboteur behavior from those they host graciously and benevolently.
Go and ponder on why, of all the ethnic groups of Nigeria, Remi mentioned Igbos alone. Nonsense.
1love bro. Love your neighbors as you love yourself. Let me tell you something you don't know, Ibos are everywhere in the country, even worldwide and we are unkillable. No amount of tribal sentiments can reduce the charisma and power of ibos.
Lastly, Ibos love Yorubas and other tribes, just that Hausas are very rebellious people and inconsiderate that's why Ibos are putting them to check, without Ibos, they would have done worst than what they are doing because they think that Nigeria is their birthright and they feel they have more power over other ethnic groups. Let's throw away tribalism and embrace each other. Thank you.
yomi961: Obidients should note that a vote for an Obi will give an edge to Tinubu because it will reduce Atiku's chances. By not supporting PDP, Obidients are unconsciously brightening Tinubu's chances since the odds are obviously against Peter Obi. Tinubu is having a fill day seeing the crumbling of Atiku's support base. And if he can, he will support the Obidients so as to further meander Atiku's chances so he can emerge winner. Obi was Atiku's VP in 2019, what stop him from being his running mate yet again? An Igbo presidency is better achieved with a PDP than with an APC. Obidients, please shine your eyes!
Why do you want to spoil the testimony of God? Why do you allow the devil to use you halt the glory, praise and salvation of his people. Repent of this and ask God for his mercy because he is also a consuming fire.
Don't say I didn't warm you against fighting the God of chosen. I love you that's why I'm telling you this. Be very careful, amend your ways and be free from God's wrath.
You are just a mere and helpless man with insecurities, fears and needs, trying to prove a point against something weigh stronger and bigger than you. Life is mysterious.
Josepin: Sincerely, I messed up big time and I never thought I could find myself in this kind of mess, please I need your advice. Not to waste time. Am married for eight years now to a beautiful woman and have 3lovely kids. About two years ago I employed this girl to work with me, she was in her early 20's and I was 37 then. This Girl became very respectful and very committed to her job. About five months down the line we start getting too close and most time I caught her stirring at me she will smile. Each time my wife complain about her closeness to me I will assure her that there is nothing to worry about.
To cut this short, we became fond of each others and we sometimes kiss in the office and in two occasions I took her out and romanced her but I avoided making a penetration into her. I bought her phone and other things.
Early this year she gained an admission in one poly in the North. Due to her parents financial strength I practically carried all the responsibilities. My wife was aware I assisted her but not to the extend that I did.
From January till this month I send her money every month for her upkeep and other things at least 25-30k monthly. But an issue came up last month.
I saw some of her pictures and videos on tik tok which was very undecent, I called her and scolded her but I observed she wasn't happy the way I talked to her. I went ahead and reported her to her and hell got loosed. She called my wife and Informed her that I have cheated on her and that I have had sex with her twice. Which is not exactly the truth. Now my family is falling apart. My wife is threatening to end the union.
Please, I need every advice that I can get, to earn my wife trust again. Also what can I do to this girl? Can I sue her? Please bear with my grammatical blunders.
Don't sue her, tell your wife the truth, apologies, forgive yourself, and forget her completely. Never make contact with her anymore, silence is the best answer for a fool like her. You acted SIMply but nobody is above mistakes. Block her line everywhere. Move on.
EeGooBetter: seriously what I have gone through in this life and still having faith and keeping on would have made people who go through same issues commit suicide.
I have gone through hell because I am looking for a job, but have not gotten a job for long. sometimes I think of commiting suicide but I don't believe in suicide. Right now what's in my mind is online scamming but I don't like making people go through pain and I don't like offending people. in summary I don't have online scamming mind but the temptation is still coming and I have been resisting it for long. I am a graduate but have even done bricklaying job and other small jobs just to survive but right now even to get small thing to do is hard
I am giving up
Never give up, since you can write well start doing online marketing for commission, learn a skill or do something else creatively. It's not easy out here, the world us cold. I really really thank God for having more opportunity and privilege in life.
For those that don't, work smart, have a great dream or a great skill, you can start with so little but don't forget to grow your dreams. Blessing n peace I pray for all.
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This is not obviously not religion but witchcraft