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Give hints about the school.


1uote author=fubbyy post=93694541]My twin sister just got a teaching job and I was the one that gave her the connection, before the lock down, she went and complain to the owner of the school about the level of sexual immoralities in the school

Boys and Girls having sex in the toilet, inside classes after school has dismissed, the owner of the school refused to pay attention to it

The man called them meeting recently in preparation of the school resumption, after the meeting, the man called her aside and told her to overlook the students immoral behavior that trying to stop them will make them loose students

That he doesn't want the kids running elsewhere to register for waec, that if the behavior is too bad for her to beer that she can quit

What do you think[/quote]

It is even more irresponsible to borrow to pay jumbo salaries and buy luxuries for political office holders. The govt should immediately prune down the size of the political appointees and reducce the national assembly members.


quote author=valentineuwakwe post=93670427]

Source: https://punchng.com/borrowing-to-subsidise-electricity-grossly-irresponsible-fg/[/quote]

The kind of AGF we have had in the recent are dirty dealers. They'll rather cripple the anti corruption war than enhance it. Abu Malam finally had his way. What a country.


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valentineuwakwe:
https://punchng.com/fg-weakens-power-of-efcc-chairman-creates-director-general-in-new-bill/

Good advise poster. Follow it.

Regardless:
Lol. You should be happy she started displaying her real character that would have surfaced if you marry her. Of course, she think say everything don balance since she has a child for you and you don't want a broken home.

My advice - talk to her heart to heart and give her a specific time frame in your heart for her to change. In fact, you should even withhold more money as this would show you how she'll behave during the hard times. She may even be a potential cheat - most materialistic females are.

Now if she doesn't change within your set time frame in your heart, my guy run o. Only make sure you provide enough for your daughter.. A home can never be productive with this kind of woman in the house. Value your peace of mind above everything.

I think both of you have issues and seem unprepared for marriage.

On your part, learn not to use your emotions to blackmail your partner. Do your part and not stop second guessing your partner. By doing your part, your partner may open up and you both can evolve a common purpose and goal. The other issues like hurtful words has to stop, and your boyfriend economic power has to improve to a level it can sustain a marriage. Finally, I think you need to get together more closely to form a reasonable opinion on whether you can marry him or not. No one can give you the advise really because you have got to lay your bed to make it comfortable for yourself, and no one can do that for you.

Localchampion:
I'm really confused about my boyfriend if hes worthy of getting married to.
We are in a long distant relationship, we hardly see, sometimes thrice in a year, but I believe the reason we are still together is because its a distant relationship, as each time I go to Enugu to greet him and stay for 2weeks, my love for him is always reduced.
So much this time around, we haven't seen for a year, and I had something important to do in Enugu, so I decided to stay in his place and use the opportunity to greet him. The first 4days, we were totally fine with each other, as I was busy with doing the stuff I came to do. Meanwhile, I didn't spend his money, as I came with my money and give him money to buy me food, so for the first 3days he was the one buying the cooked foods we ate, but I would give him 1k. Naturally, I don't eat outside, nor do I eat junks, but because he said he doesn't have money, I just pitied him and did not mention the fact that he should get foodstuffs, I don't want him to start feeling bad that he has no money plus I was even busy, remember I came for a purpose. And I don't use it as attitudes for him, I'm a very happy enduring lady.

Now after the fourth day that I finished the program I originally came for, I lost my money, about 150,000, truth is when I'm sad, im usually harsher, and would not talk much, would become exessively quiet, because if I talk, I may start to cry, this is when problem started between us, he acted unconcerned about my predicament, I just ignored him, trying to see how I can get back my money. And the truth is, if I get the money, I will surely give him part of the money, there's no time I will make money and not give him. So for like two days, I was in depression due to my money, I didnt sweep, I was just sighning, and not cheerful to him, the next day afterwards, was when he bursted, and started talking
1. He said I'm useless to him
2. He compared me with other people's girlfriend, how they take care of their boyfriend, how they cook for them, cook extremely homey food for them.
3. He said his friends couldn't visit him because I'm in his house, and thus hes missing because the fact that I'm in his house I'm useless, not doing anything for him, and yet his friends couldn't come.
4. He said his cousins girl did this and that.
5. He said I'm talking of marriage, he said what is he marrying, he said when I'm not even showing any readiness bla bla bla
6. He said I should look at his house, does it look like a girl is there, he said his friend told him that since I'm around now, his cheeks would become bigger, and in his mind, he knew he would only grow thinner.
7. He said I should leave his house first thing tomorrow morning, since I'm not useful.
8. He said at this point, hes confused, if i want to break up, I should just let him know, because what is the point of our stay together
He said just too many hurtful things and those are the ones I could remember.
I was able to record some of those things, so I can relisten to them later. But he collected my phone and deleted all I recorded.

All through, I was just quiet and smiling because I don't even know where to start replying him and he was very serious, his face was in a fight mood, I don't wanna talk because I really don't like problems or fight. Then later, he said I must say something, he seized my phone, and almost made me loose a deal.

I just kept quiet, later when I started talking, he denied having said USELESS, something he mentioned more than twice and apologized swiftly.

All his accusations were wrong because the reason I didn't cook is because he has no single food at home and hes the one always complaining he has no money, so I just taught that, I wouldn't make my stay to disrupt his life, he knew I hate eating outside, and the fact that we buy food is something I am enduring, because the foods makes me nauseated each time I eat them. He knows how much i cook for him when he comes visiting me, I will cook several things, what I can't even eat myself due to financial problems, I am the one always fighting him to cook that Junks are unhealthy. But just because I was pitying him, I didn't bring up the idea of cooking, he accused me of being useless, he said I'm the one to bring up the idea as a girlfriend, bla bla bla.

Later that day, I brought the idea and he gave me 5k to the market, I cooked and did everything. I didn't buy a single food I could eat (I don't eat pasters), because the money isn't enough, so I just bought foods he likes and made a nice sauce. His friend came visiting, I packed foods for her and did normal. His friend called him to relate how I treated her, this is when my boyfriend started filling extremely happy, and thanking God for meeting me, saying nice things.

Since then, he has been saying stuffs of how much he's been gifted to have me bla bla bla, to me, whatever I have for him has greatly reduced, because I don't know the Essence of the relationship, because to him, its a roleship, where I must do my roles and if I miss, he won't even think why could I have missed it, if its intentionally, was it because I'm sad, the next thing he would be saying is if we should break up or not. Now, this is someone I never compared with anyone, I don't even compare people, I just do normal to him, like I will do to a brother, plan for him, etc, yet he compares me all the time and wants me to live like the other average girls that are using iphones.

I told him yesterday that since he wants a roleship, he would also man up, and for the first time in our 5years relationship, I started behaving like the normal girls, I asked him for money to make my hair, he doesn't have, I asked him for money for cream, he doesn't have and he has been angry because I told him I don't care whether he has money or not, since I must do my roles, he should also do his roles, and for the first time I also compared him and told him what men are doing for their girls.

He has been frowning and sad since I said those words to him, because they are deep, I just served him exactly what he did to me. I'm not happy, I'm doing that to him, I'm even sad I'm telling him all these because this is not me. I'm still going to make him realize how useless he is in my life, absolutely useless, and that is the truth, since he sees our relationship as a role one, then hes useless.

I can't marry him like this, God forbids, someone who can't endure due to the situation of things and understand, and he wants me to understand his own and endure for him, its not just possible for me, and he's good at talking, abusing, bullying, etc. Hes the one that will tell me to snap pictures for him, I will tell him I don't have clothes, he will say ''Go and Buy now'', He will bully me with my hair and compare it with that of other girls. He wasn't broke before the lockdown, but I didn't collect money from him because I want him to achieve and grow with the money, so that by the time we get married, he would be financially very okay.

Please should I marry this kind of Man? I really don't know why I should because it seems his happiness towards me, his affection and romance is dependent on fulfilling ROLES in his head.

I am certain he would give a sterling performance and discharge his duties as he has promised. Bring the same man to Nigeria, he will be cutting dirty deals like Abu Malam and his predecessors. Even the "MOG" , DGOs, would rather challenge our laws whereas they comply with the same regulations abroad. We blame everyone but our self for all the wrongs in the country.

It's a sick country.

Modarun:
Kaycee Madu named new justice minister and solicitor general in Alberta!

Premier Jason Kenney announces lawyer and Edmonton MLA Kaycee Madu is Alberta’s new justice minister and solicitor general during a cabinet shuffle on Tuesday.



https://mobile.twitter.com/KayceeMaduYEG/status/1298365002366164992

Aisha, you may never get to read this but please note this isn't the type of governance PMB promised. You do know what you personally promised Nigerians. If you keep enjoying from the sorrow of Nigerians, you or your children may reap from the repercussions.


quote author=fergie001 post=93114550]Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6070258/hanan-aisha-buhari-escape-air#93096097



Aisha Buhari [/quote]

We are seeing that education does not neccesarily impart wisdom. How can an association of lawyers sink to a divide along ethnic and religious politics.


quote author=oshozondii post=93105412]

https://tribuneonlineng.com/el-rufais-withdrawal-100-muslim-kaduna-lawyers-treathen-to-boycott-nba-conference/amp/[/quote]

Honestly, the mess the military rule, PDP, APC and the foolish followership has brought on this country.

quote author=bottlewater1 post=93113850]I think how Nigeria will get out of this mess APC has thrown this country into should be a topic in further mathematics[/quote]

This baba is just distracting himself. How can he not know the politics of NBA is different from the Muslim rights he claims to fight for.

uote author=OfficialMURIC post=93084931]

http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2020/08/removal-of-el-rufai-nba-misfired-muric.html?m=1[/quote]

One thing I am sure you are very wrong is Buhari will never allow Nigeria to disintegrate. Not because of love for the country but because it is the cash cow of the Northern Oligarchy.

Racoon:
[s][/s]
Muhammadu Buhari is an agent of destabilisation, ethnic bigot and religious fanatic who, if given the chance, would ensure the disintegration of the country. His ethno- centrism would jeopardise Nigeria’s national unity.
https://punchng.com/tinubu-was-right-for-calling-buhari-a-tribalist-religious-fanatic-says-obasanjo/

This is Nigeria’s end time.The tyrannical regime of Gen.Muhammadu Buhari will give way to secession.In the absence of a unifying national interest, Nigeria has become fragmented, lawless, disorderly, dangerous, and seemingly unliveable.
http://saharareporters.com/2020/01/21/declaration-causes-why-yoruba-will-leave-nigeria-bayo-oluwasanmi

That investment will be worth it only if it pays the debt incurred and also self sustaining.


uote author=muchroom post=92969863]This is a video of the brand new Lagos-Abeokuta-Ibadan Standard Gauge Rail Line undergoing test-running this month. This will definitely save man hours of travel and road delays as well as accidents.

Source:

Brand new Lagos-Abeokuta-Ibadan Standard Gauge Rail Line undergoing test-running this month. #RailUpNG #LagosIbadanRail pic.twitter.com/7WhJ3h3qP8

— Bright Eugene VII (@BryteDude) August 18, 2020

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O32PrnLB0N8[/quote]

There has been talk talk talk about the cargo movement and the port dicongestion. They should walk the talk. They expect us to jubilate just because they talk.

ANSMEDIA:
https://dailytrust.com/fg-to-move-cargo-by-barges-to-onitsha

Quantity over quality mentality.


quote author=IamHeWrites post=92976849]Earlier thread; https://www.nairaland.com/5659330/alhassan-ado-doguwa-4-wives



https://igberetvnews.com/1361795/see-photo-kano-lawmaker-alhassan-doguwa-4-wives-27-children/[/quote]

[Oshio said the same yet became a godfather. You ought to say this when Oshio backed you against others in 2015. Even Obaseki has already become a godfather. Ending godfatherising is not a point in this election.

quote author=Trumpcard05 post=92906931]

https://punchng.com/use-gov-poll-to-end-godfatherism-in-edo-obaseki/[/quote]

[Agree.

quote author=redsun post=92870628]

The main disruptive and destructive witches in Nigeria are the politicians and all the wayward people. If they do things right,people won't have any need for pastors,I'm and, Babalawo, and miracles.

The good which is the one that finds solutions to common problems[/quote]

Isn't it better? All the lies being peddled that witches cause life's miseries can be unravelled. Those who cause their own sorrows are quick to blame one witch just like the religions thrive on the fear of witchcraft attacks. Our people forget karma and instead seek to blame an imaginary witch for everything.

quote author=MrBanner post=92862707]Lmao!! So people actually agreed to be identified as witches??[/quote]

Thank you Oonirisa. May you increase in wisdom.

SamuelOamen:
https://thenationonlineng.net/ooni-laments-interest-in-bbnaija-than-governance/

Unless the projects can offset the loans, it would never be worth it.

juvewalex:
The loans taken for these projects are worth it I must say and Kudos to this administration in terms of infrastructural development.

Yes. Man is degenerating. The good times have bred soft men.

quote author=Humanoid01 post=92787779]What brand of stupidity is this? Which kind mumu person nor go see for this life? What if the lady had rejected the proposal?

I just don't understand what is wrong with people these days. Is it that our brains are degenerating or what?[/quote]

I think the oath should be retained because of the hate filled comments by non muslims. So much intolerance.

quote author=OMONGBALI post=92802204]Seun, remove Islamic oath from Muslim posts. What if I want to ask a question as a non Muslim on Islamic thread? So I have to swear an oath. If there is no oath on Christian thread, why should there be on Muslim thread?[/quote]

Such venomous response, even at his level and so called enlightenment. Civility is certainly not a virtue cherished by us.

[quote author=oshozondii post=92787725]Earlier thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/6052073/aisha-yesufu-calls-out-reno#92776634

1-A frustrated sidekick to another frustrated ‘beggar with receipt’ has lied that I profited from my #FreeLeahSharibu campaign. If anybody anywhere on Earth has given me a dime on behalf of Leah Sharibu, speak now or forever remain silent

2-I wrote a book, Leah Sharibu: the Girl Boko Haram left behind. Although there is NOTHING wrong if I kept my profit, I did not. I donated EVERY PENNY I made from the book to Leah’s mother, via the Christian Association of Nigeria

3-I made #FreeLeahSharibu T-Shirts with my money. I asked those who bought them to pay DIRECTLY to Leah’s father. If anybody anywhere in the world bought a T-Shirt and paid to me, speak NOW or forever remain silent!

4-You and your fellow beggar with receipt have been used and dumped by General @MBuhari. Face him. Leave me alone. If you can’t help #FreeLeahSharibu, then don’t hurt it with lies. I am not like you guys that go begging @Elrufai at night!

#5-Here is an audio of Leah Sharibu’s father thanking me and acknowledging that these allegations by these frustrated agents of General @MBuhari are false. I urge this frustrated side kick to know that I am not like her ‘beggar with receipt’

6-You and your fellow beggar with receipt are not assisting Leah’s parents. Yet, you are traumatising them by raising false allegations to score political points. Do you have a conscience? Do you know the pain you are causing this family?

7-I have a tough skin. I have faced and defeated stronger opponents than you and your frustrated beggar with receipt. But, think of Leah’s family. Think of the trauma your lies are causing. God won’t hold you guiltless.

8-Finally, I vow to pay ₦50 million to anyone who can produce a shred of evidence that I profited from #FreeLeahSharibu. I‘ve sent my bank statements to @APOSTLESULEMAN to prove I have the money ready!

Please RETWEET for the world to see


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bB1Gk9X0fZA

#FrustratedSideKickOfBeggarWithReceipt
https://twitter.com/renoomokri/status/1293984367442886658?s=19[/quote]

Another Olajumoke in the making. Elevating people beyond what is self sustaining? What job would she start to sustain this photorama thay have started with her.

bbbabes:
Some Nigerians came together and gave Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami, and her daughters, a makeover and the photo shared online is breathtaking.

Risikat who is from Kwara state, went viral recently after a Nigerian lady shared the story of how Risikat's husband walked out of their marriage and their daughters because they have blue eyes.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=it7TAFU_4mc

Think she is right to insist now than later. Living apart from both parents gives the new couple a better foundation.

OluwaLina1:
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

The enemy within.

Trumpcard05:
John Alechenu and Tobi Aworinde


https://punchng.com/oshiomhole-has-hijacked-ize-iyamus-campaign-dg-apc-govs-forum/

Are you married?

quote author=Toks2008 post=92317653]The idea of a wife material by many men is not different from the idea of having a slave in the house... Men want a woman who will be able to wake up as early as possible when others are still asleep, do the house chores and tend to the needs of the kids, the husband and after serving her household, she will go out to make ends meet and latter come back home to make sure her kids and husband are well taken care of and this includes cooking, washing their clothes and lots more... Men want a Nanny, A cook, A laundry lady, house cleaner, An errand lady, Sex provider and many more in one lady who is considered a weaker sex and as if this is not stressful enough, most men would rather boast about the ability of their lady in washing hard fabrics with bare hands, they will talk about how they so much love a lady because she can pound yam the natural way and will be proud to talk about how good their lady is in using archaic methods to prepare their meals... And the worst twist is that even if the lady is pregnant, they will still watch her do these tasks.

So I ask: is there anything different between a wife material and a slave? Will heaven fall if the man assists his wife in the home front?

Does common sense not tell the man that he needs to make life easier for his wife by getting a washing machine, a vacuum cleaner, and several other home/cooking appliances that will make life easier for her. Must a lady even know how to cook before you tag her wife material? What if she just can't cook or is the ability to cook part of success in life?

Please don't get it twisted, I'm not here to advise ladies to be redundant in their homes. Every married lady must be a home keeper, ensuring that her kids and husband are her priority...but nevertheless, in my opinion, a wife material means a gentle, submissive wife who will love you for who you are, tolerate your weaknesses, a Wife Material is a woman who is about her business, can hold her own in a conversation, is generous and can handle money well. A woman who will put your needs first and values her marriage so much that she won't defile it by being unfaithful... And just as the book of proverbs 31 says,...'' a virtuous woman is one who leads her home with integrity, discipline, and more and all the virtues she is practicing are aimed at making the life of her husband better, teaching her children, and serving God'' this is never the same as having a slave in the house in the name of wife material.

My prayer for every man reading this is that God provides for you so that you will make life easier for your woman so that you can look beyond that slave-like quality that many men use to qualify a wife material.


I hope this makes sense. [/quote]

Malicious publication based on fabrication by the accuser. The intent is to collaterally damaged the widow. Niger sha

Islie:
https://pmexpressng.com/housewife-catches-widow-62-begging-husband-for-sx/

Someone able should please look into this guy's matter. It looks like a frame up and the Police are not trusted to do the right thing in this situation.

Kinikini:
I agree rapists should be castrated — Wasiu, 25, suspected rapist of 70-yr-old woman

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Bankole Wasiu


Twenty-five-year-old Bankole Wasiu was arrested in Ogun State few hours after he allegedly raped a 70-year-old woman, who is his landlady’s friend, while she was asleep. Bankole, who works as a Caterpillar truck driver, gives DAUD OLATUNJI his account of what happened

How did the incident happen?

I was on a bench in the workplace on June 3, preparing for work when some men arrived. My workshop is around Abule, along Robiyan, in Abule Ijoko, Agbado area, Ogun State. One of them sat on my right and the other sat on my left. They grabbed my trousers and said they were arresting me for committing a crime. I asked for their identities and they said they were vigilantes. They handcuffed me and forced me to follow them to their office. When we got to their office, they told me to confess to the crime I committed overnight. I was shocked; I told them I didn’t commit any offence overnight. After saying that, they started beating me with their sticks to the extent that my clothes got torn.

What happened thereafter?

The old woman they alleged that I raped used to visit my landlady where I stay. At times, she would ask me to buy her food and I would oblige her. At times, she would ask me to buy her alcohol and I usually would. I didn’t know anything about this until those vigilantes came to arrest me. They said I should confess that I raped the old woman, which I never did. They brought the woman to their office and asked me to identify her. I never claimed that I did not know her. I told the vigilantes that I knew the woman through my landlady.

https://punchng.com/i-agree-rapists-should-be-castrated-wasiu-25-suspected-rapist-of-70-yr-old-woman/?utm_source=Smartech&utm_medium=web-push-notification&utm_campaign=Ogun%20rapist&__sta=%7CHUB&__stm_medium=bpn&__stm_source=smartech

I agree rapists should be castrated — Wasiu, 25, suspected rapist of 70-yr-old woman

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Bankole Wasiu


Twenty-five-year-old Bankole Wasiu was arrested in Ogun State few hours after he allegedly raped a 70-year-old woman, who is his landlady’s friend, while she was asleep. Bankole, who works as a Caterpillar truck driver, gives DAUD OLATUNJI his account of what happened

How did the incident happen?

I was on a bench in the workplace on June 3, preparing for work when some men arrived. My workshop is around Abule, along Robiyan, in Abule Ijoko, Agbado area, Ogun State. One of them sat on my right and the other sat on my left. They grabbed my trousers and said they were arresting me for committing a crime. I asked for their identities and they said they were vigilantes. They handcuffed me and forced me to follow them to their office. When we got to their office, they told me to confess to the crime I committed overnight. I was shocked; I told them I didn’t commit any offence overnight. After saying that, they started beating me with their sticks to the extent that my clothes got torn.

What happened thereafter?

The old woman they alleged that I raped used to visit my landlady where I stay. At times, she would ask me to buy her food and I would oblige her. At times, she would ask me to buy her alcohol and I usually would. I didn’t know anything about this until those vigilantes came to arrest me. They said I should confess that I raped the old woman, which I never did. They brought the woman to their office and asked me to identify her. I never claimed that I did not know her. I told the vigilantes that I knew the woman through my landlady.

https://punchng.com/i-agree-rapists-should-be-castrated-wasiu-25-suspected-rapist-of-70-yr-old-woman/?utm_source=Smartech&utm_medium=web-push-notification&utm_campaign=Ogun%20rapist&__sta=%7CHUB&__stm_medium=bpn&__stm_source=smartech

Price?

Roon9:
Do they ever get tired.


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They always want to reap without sowing.
Na dem.
quote author=Ezennwa post=91167897] hmm!

President Buhari should surprise everyone by giving APC chairmanship slot to an Igbo man.[/quote]

Because political touts and hungry peasants struggle for sustenance, you must display your bias at Ibadan indigenes. There was nothing to affirm anyone amongst that unruly crowd is an Ibadan indigene. Ibadan is home to people far and near and any of those people could be from your village.

yinkus6750:
Typical Ibadan indigenes aren't knowledgeable and enlightened.
So unfortunate that the burial organisers and state government failed to do the right thing, thereby endagering the lifes of the people.
Coro season has also caused hardship, hunger and suffering on the people, hence they will go to any length to get a meal.
Ajimobi, RIP