CaveAdullam: There are more screenshots of evidence but I'm unable to upload.
I know you'll go and bring a counter. But let me give you a clue:
Check if it's a female author. Check if it's a media post. Check if the author tries to include "LGBTQ+..." nonsense. Gays and lesbians are sometimes exceptions though.
This argument didn't start today. But I'm on the side of psychologist who was not influenced by money and politics in their scientific journey. I know science is a "mess today".
The articles above are highly nuanced, explain your points to an extent but men have the higher side.
Women can't "feel far more sexual pleasure" and at the same time have a lower sex drive.
Men feel far more sexual pleasures which include:
Higher sexual fantasy. Higher sexual imagination. Higher sex dream. Highest viewers of pornography. Highest masturbators. Feels more disappointed when sexual need is declined.
The differences are not "too far". But overall, men have higher sexual needs than women as a result of testosterone.
2. Many people think women are of higher sex drive because of their sexual display on social media. If you should look at it and trace it to the bottom, you'll see that they are on social media for the money. And not for the fun of sex.
3. Women don't give sex freely without an exchange. Merge this with their (lower) sex drive, you'll come to understand why men hustle and pay for sex and women don't.
4. It is easier for women to get sex because they don't want it. And 99.9% of men are ready to fvck them. It is difficult for men to have sex because they want it. And 99% of women are not ready to fvck them.
5. It is easier to say "abundance mentality...why chase one woman when there are more than 3 billion women in the world?"
The thing here is that those other 3 billion women aren't gonna fvck you just like the one that rejected you if are not ready for exchange. And this exchange bothers on hypergamy: her alpha and or beta needs.
6. Women and sex are not free. There is always an exchange to get both. You just need to be wise with your exchange though, and the reason why it is expedient that a man must learn GAME.
7. Forget what women do on social media. Women are not careless with sex. Their sexual pursuit bothers on a subconscious evolutionary demand or conscious act or both.
DAY 351, REDPILL 2022
Authority: Learn Game.
Women have more three times more neural sensors in their sexual apparatus than men. Women have an organ whose sole function is sexual pleasure (the clitoris.) Women have many G-spots around their bodies while men have only one. Women can orgasm without physical contact while men can't. This shows that during sex, women feel more pleasure than men. Sex is more pleasure to women than men.
TheSourcerer: Would love to read your mother’s Game advice , it will help a lot of me out there
she even explained some stuff in Ubunja's miseducations. But I was too immature then to digest it. She told me what goes down in those "girl's nights/trips"; ways to recognize a hoe, or a woman who doesn't like you; that, generally speaking, you should never deal with just one woman; the feminists' mindset; that the burden of performance is always on the man; that a woman should like you more than you like her for a relation to flourish; that it is a woman that has to prove to you that she wants to be with you; that women spend their youth "going around" and then will try to land in her son's house, and I should be cautious about that; that a young man should not deal with single mothers; etc .... But my dumb self was too closed-minded to learn the game and and so simpish I kept defending women. I even told my mother she is perverted, that she is lying, that sex is not that important, that we should respect women, that she should not tell me those things, that women are not like that.
What is special about my mother's teachings is that they come from a woman. So it's real insider knowledge. I will have some talks with her about those things again. I may condense that and then post it on Nairaland so we can all learn and reflect on it.
Don't loan her any money, she'll never return it. She knows that she can't ask you money directly since she has plainly rejected you so she's using loan as an excuse (we all know that Naija girls Don't usually pay back loans)
If she's adamant about the loan, ask her for a collateral and through her reaction you'll know if she will ever return the money because as long as she has intentions to return the money she'll never have any problem giving you something as a collateral. If she gets annoyed when you ask for a collateral, just know that she has no intention of the paying back. I've been in the same situation before and I'll admit that I fell for it and that made me wiser ( learnt from my mistakes).
Well said. Good explanation. Even my mother told me one day to never lend money to women because they won't give back. They would even go as far as tell you sweet words, call you sweet names or midly flirt with you to get around it, or to extend the date of the payback as far as possible. Now thinking about it, my mother taught me so much game but I was too immature to understand it. My mother told me about the perverse ways of women. But I was not receptive. Many people said their mother taught them to be respectful to women, love women, simp for women. But for my mother, it was the contrary. She was teaching me game and I was the one arguing to my mother that women are not like that and we should respect women. I could not accept that women were very far from these innocent angels portrayed by society. I could not imagine how deep the games women play go. But this last year I changed my perspective completely (partly thanks to this forum). And now I am going back to all my mother said and I realised she was right! How foolish was I! And when I talk with my mother, she is now more open to tell me the raw reality of women and how women see things. Maybe I'll make a thread one day to share my mother's teachings (in her own words) or I'll just put them here. In any case, you are right. Do not lend money to women if you don't have some sort of concrete guarantee like a collateral.
princeSammyz: I would really like to know what areas Matlab and python has been useful to you
Matlab is useful in performing computations in advanced algebra. It's a useful tool for a mathematician. Python can be used to code a variety of programs. I do not have any definitive project in python yet.
T4kbaba: This video shows how to assign row number to items, based on item segment. Two methods used in Microsoft Excel and MySQL is also used to solve the same problem. Watch MySQL solution on the link below.
I watched your video and went through your channel. You seem to be a serious dude focused on real content and value. You are just 296 subscribers away from being monetized. Now, how can you attract more Nairalanders to show channel?
emapeteum: Not just coding, Nigerians hardly engage in educational activities on youtube. Most of the tutorial videos that help most of us to be where we are today are foreign videos, especially Indians. We are so proud with little on the global stage except being Dr and graduating with a first-class but real intellectual activities are often ignored by Nigerians. Our PhD students also engage in local research work and not the highly challenging research that would lead to having videos online.
Great observation! This goes for Cameroonians as well. It is high time we got serious and focused on what matters.
Enofe's cousin, Kambili, has dropped out of university. He doesn't know if there is any hope for him in programming in Nigeria. Can he ever land a job? Should he just stop programming and think about something else? What do you say to Kambili?
Devdevdev: I created this thread because I've finally arrived at an answer to the question I've been having for the past month. What languages should I focus on to get jobs as a beginner developer.
I'm not a conspiracy theorist but the answer I've gotten is making me lean a bit in that direction regarding this subject.
For the past 3 years, social media has been pervaded with lies about the technologies that gives a beginner an advantage in the current job market, especially for those who are self taught.
I've done my research and these are the in demand technologies locally and abroad.
For Frontend:
Reactjs (Redux -Nextjs - Gatsby) Typescript. For styling: Tailwind
For Backend: Nodejs, PHP with laravel framework Java with Springboot frame work. On few occasions I see some ASP.net and Ruby on rails, but the highlighted are the ones that always come up.
For Data Bases: Postgresql and MySQL
On freelance sites, the most in demand language is PHP and I see lots of jobs needing wordpress, magento, drupal and shopify knowledge.
But when you go on social media, everyone will tell you to learn basic HTML CSS and JavaScript as if any company would employ anyone that knows just that. Even learning basic react without any added frameworks is not enough for a front end developer.
The worst is those that tell you to learn Python. I almost never see any Jobs for Python, whether it's the Django framework or Flask. Most jobs in python are in Data science and Machine learning, and you have to be a data scientist or advanced mathematician to work in those fields.
The amount of gatekeeping and lies is astounding. Everyone says PHP is dead, yet, one in every three jobs I see requires PHP. Four in every five freelancer jobs require PHP.
The only reason I'm even learning Python is just to use in it in solving data structures and algorithms and I won't use it beyond that. I don't have time to start learning Java as I'm preoccupied with JavaScript for frontend and backend, along with DSAs and some PHP laravel. In the future I'll pick it up.
Programming isn't saturated, it's just filled with clueless, incompetent people with half-baked skills who haven't done the right research.
Make a YouTube video about it for us and share it here.
And how could I miss Obimu? The guy does not know anything about the Nigerian market for programmers. Which languages are the most in demand? What programming skills are the most useful now? Where is the money? When Obimu goes online he sees Western people talking about their stuff over there, but he would like to know what kind of programming skills/languages are the most profitable around him in Nigeria.
T4kbaba: This video shows how to assign row number to items, based on item segment. Two methods used in Microsoft Excel and MySQL is also used to solve the same problem. Watch MySQL solution on the link below.
Kipaji: The thing is there is already a LOT of coding tutorials on YouTube. Of course, you can go that route too.
But there is a lot of Nigerian brothers and sisters who do not have practical, relevant advice based on their own realities. They are tired to listen to guys in Europe and America who do not understand their situation and struggles. They crave guidance from people who know them. Chukwuma is a young Nigerian who wants to learn programming besides high school work and he can't convince his parents to let him/support him because some Nigerian parents do not see the potential in that. Anwuli, on the other hand, has always heard about that "computer programming thing" but she doesn't even know what it is; she is interested but has no idea where and how to start living in her poor Nigerian neighborhood. Ifechi know a thing or two about programming, but he is seriously wondering whether it's the path for him. In this hard Nigeria, isn't learning those computer stuff even a waste of time? Shouldn't he try some more "practical" hustle? Yejide is interested in studying computer science at the higher level. She is not quite sure which university in Nigeria is the best for her. Ekong has been studying CS in uni for two years now, but his grades are not doing well. He is not sure what to do about it. He goes on YouTube but he only finds white people in white countries giving general advice to people in white universities. Tambara already graduated. But in this Nigeria, she is not sure she can land a job in programming. She would like to know practical honest and legit ways to make money in Nigeria.
THEY NEED YOU. They would love to hear your thoughts on this. They would love to know the experience of other Nigerians that went through the same struggles. Be it through videos or online articles. Do not leave them hanging.
I forgot to talk about Enofe who deeply wants to learn programming but who, like many Nigerians, do not have any money to get the minimum equipment. He has no laptop, no internet connection. He is frustrated by his situation. He is shattered and heartbroken. Enofe believes the Gods are against him. Why was he born so poor? He can't even get the minimum material to get going. But then you come and you give him practical ways he can get around this situation or, at least, manage somehow better. What can Enofe do? What would you say to Enofe if you met him in real life? Make a YouTube video or an online article and share it with us here. We will listen and like.
Kipaji: The thing is there is already a LOT of coding tutorials on YouTube. Of course, you can go that route too.
But there is a lot of Nigerian brothers and sisters who do not have practical, relevant advice based on their own realities. They are tired to listen to guys in Europe and America who do not understand their situation and struggles. They crave guidance from people who know them. Chukwuma is a young Nigerian who wants to learn programming besides high school work and he can't convince his parents to let him/support him because some Nigerian parents do not see the potential in that. Anwuli, on the other hand, has always heard about that "computer programming thing" but she doesn't even know what it is; she is interested but has no idea where and how to start living in her poor Nigerian neighborhood. Ifechi know a thing or two about programming, but he is seriously wondering whether it's the path for him. In this hard Nigeria, isn't learning those computer stuff even a waste of time? Shouldn't he try some more "practical" hustle? Yejide is interested in studying computer science at the higher level. She is not quite sure which university in Nigeria is the best for her. Ekong has been studying CS in uni for two years now, but his grades are not doing well. He is not sure what to do about it. He goes on YouTube but he only finds white people in white countries giving general advice to people in white universities. Tambara already graduated. But in this Nigeria, she is not sure she can land a job in programming. She would like to know practical honest and legit ways to make money in Nigeria.
THEY NEED YOU. They would love to hear your thoughts on this. They would love to know the experience of other Nigerians that went through the same struggles. Do not leave them hanging.
Kipaji: Nigerians experienced in programming should start a YouTube channel to answer such questions. Many Nigerian novice and enthusiasts have non-technical non-theoretical worries like this. This is a niche that may have not been fully covered yet. And this is where you come in. After you read this (yes, YOU the more experienced programmer reading this), write a thoughtful answer to @CalabarPikin, make a video with your phone about it (you don't need to show your face), upload it to YouTube and post it here. We'll watch and like it. Don't worry about the quality of the video, it is to get you started.
The thing is there is already a LOT of coding tutorials on YouTube. Of course, you can go that route too.
But there is a lot of Nigerian brothers and sisters who do not have practical, relevant advice based on their own realities. They are tired to listen to guys in Europe and America who do not understand their situation and struggles. They crave guidance from people who know them. Chukwuma is a young Nigerian who wants to learn programming besides high school work and he can't convince his parents to let him/support him because some Nigerian parents do not see the potential in that. Anwuli, on the other hand, has always heard about that "computer programming thing" but she doesn't even know what it is; she is interested but has no idea where and how to start living in her poor Nigerian neighborhood. Ifechi know a thing or two about programming, but he is seriously wondering whether it's the path for him. In this hard Nigeria, isn't learning those computer stuff even a waste of time? Shouldn't he try some more "practical" hustle? Yejide is interested in studying computer science at the higher level. She is not quite sure which university in Nigeria is the best for her. Ekong has been studying CS in uni for two years now, but his grades are not doing well. He is not sure what to do about it. He goes on YouTube but he only finds white people in white countries giving general advice to people in white universities. Tambara already graduated. But in this Nigeria, she is not sure she can land a job in programming. She would like to know practical honest and legit ways to make money in Nigeria.
THEY NEED YOU. They would love to hear your thoughts on this. They would love to know the experience of other Nigerians that went through the same struggles. Be it through videos or online articles. Do not leave them hanging.
Elemosho478: You can learn at your own pace, you just need determination, passion and never give up.
You may spend 1 hour or even less to learn per day, what matter most is to finish the course and practice a lot.
Apart from learning you should also practice a lot like, solving JavaScript puzzles and quizzes build beginners friendly projects like Calculator, tic tac game etc. There are tons of materials on Google.
Focus on one language at a time and learn at your own pace, don't rush.
You can also download the 3 + hours JavaScript course by freecodecamp on You tube, there are also tons of Programming video on you tube you can learn from.
Make this into a YouTube video and share it with us here
CalabarPikin: Thanks so much for this. I really appreciate.
One more thing please, what will you advice someone like me that is determined to learn, but I'm a hustler struggling to survive....I may find it difficult to spend up to 12 hours on the system just like someone suggested in a similar thread earlier.
Nigerians experienced in programming should start a YouTube channel to answer such questions. Many Nigerian novice and enthusiasts have non-technical non-theoretical worries like this. This is a niche that may have not been fully covered yet. And this is where you come in. After you read this (yes, YOU the more experienced programmer reading this), write a thoughtful answer to @CalabarPikin, make a video with your phone about it (you don't need to show your face), upload it to YouTube and post it here. We'll watch and like it. Don't worry about the quality of the video, it is to get you started.
KrazyDave16: OP your negativity concerning Nigerians is worrisome and some of your comments get as e be. Also deleting Twitter? Hmm...
I doubt your claims about zero educational material out there by Nigerians unless you are looking for ones to get for free, which you will not find easily but in terms of writing, there are educational articles littered about on the web written by Nigerians but it depends on what you are looking for and how popular the language is. After all, I learnt how IIFE works (did not know about design patterns then) from reading a few articles on medium written by Nigerians but if you meant those who turned into a full-time gig, if you see any, will you patronize them and pay for it? If you cannot or use the "but i know where i can get what they teaching for free", you creating this thread is pointless.
Devdevdev: As a someone who is currently learning front end web development, research has led me to the realization that these days companies test both front end and back end developers on their knowledge of Data structures and Algorithms. The interviews are typically structured in styles similar to what you see in Leetcode and hackerRank.
JavaScript is currently the only language I know. People have advised to also concentrate on JavaScript at the backend with nodejs. But the problem is that you almost never see DSA learning resources for JavaScript. HackerRank doesn't even list JavaScript as one of the langauges to practice those sorts of questions. In most interviews the candidates are asked to choose between Python, Java and C family languages.
How does a frontend dev practice DSA? What is the best language to learn Data structures and Algorithms?
I would say Java. It is in Java that I learned data structures and algorithms.
tensazangetsu20: In terms of videos yes because it's expensive to push out video content but if you are talking about written programming content then Nigerians write a lot. I can't count how many times I have gotten stuck and I went online to read and it's an article written by a fellow Nigerian that helped me. Yours truly has even written down some programming articles. If the resources were there, I am sure making video content won't be a problem for Nigerians.
As we wait for resources, we can start small. How about doing little explanations with screen recording to start? Or, if you want to be more target the Nigerian niche, here are some video ideas that would probably appeal to Nigerians in particular:
- Practical reasons to learn programming as a Nigerian (some may not understand the relevance in the Nigerian context and how useful it can be. You may shed some light in that area) - My journey as a Nigerian programmer (to give novice and the youth some inspiration) - How to land programming jobs in Nigeria ($$$) - The best programming language to learn for a Nigerian (Maybe there's a language that is in particularly high demand in Nigeria) - Beginner programming projects that are actually useful in real life (Explain to nigerians some program they can implement and could help them in some way in their life. Little gadgets, accessories, fun stuff.) - What I would say to a young Nigerian interested in programming (self explanatory) - etc...
Devdevdev: I will, when I've mastered it enough to impart the knowledge into someone else.
All the best. I want to add that you do not need to be very "big" to impart knowledge. Even at a small scale you can do it. With your little brother at home, your juniors in school, even here in Nairaland. That can provide some training for when you will have finally "mastered it enough".
Devdevdev: You hardly see Nigerians teaching coding or talking about programming related stuff on on social media, especially on Youtube. This is because this is actually a legit way to be a successful person and it involves a lot of hard work, determination and consistence.
Nigerians only like to propagate get rich schemes and fraudulent stuff like plagiarizing books to post on Amazon or some rubbish Ponzi scheme. The common thread that links all these is that they don't involve much work and all you have to do is just do the little, then sit and wait for money to start pouring into your account. I admit there are a tiny minority of people who make money from these, but it's usually for a short period of time until it crashes or they get banned from Amazon, or get arrested, but the majority of people don't get shit, rather they jump from one get rich scheme to the other until they realize they've wasted their time.
Programming will never be saturated with competent programmers especially in this country because majority of people don't have the discipline and delligence to actually become competent programmers.
For the past month I've not been on social media. I deleted my Twitter, Facebook Tiktok, Instagram and vowed to never check status on WhatsApp because that's a very huge distraction. I only use Nairaland and Reddit, particularly for programming related information. I deleted every movie from my laptop and haven't watched TV for weeks.
How many people can do this? How many people can sit at a desk staring at a computer screen for 12+ hours everyday?
Nigerians are very lazy and are addicted to quick gratification and this works in the favor of programmers who are serious, because it reduces the competitiveness of the job market.
Insightful, relevant and wise.
We have the same problem in Cameroon. We are not as advanced in scamming as Nigerians yet but it's increasingly growing here. Plus, people (the youth in particular) is worryingly lazy. And many people do not believe in hard work anymore.
CoronaVirusRelo: Hello! If you in the forefronts of the industry, you should know the inevitable is just years ahead.
AI will take away most programming jobs.
The AI will still need to be maintained and controlled by humans (programmers). So, we would still need the intervention of humans. But, maybe we would not need to have as many people as today. e.g. If a few people invent an AI that can be maintained by just one programmer and that AI used to do the job of 5 programmers, then 4 programmers might go jobless. What do you think?
Although, it is no longer loading from netlify. I think I exceeded resource usage.
The other one is an economy simulator. Currently building it, but the codebase is larger than I expected. Although, I hope to make it a full business once I’m done.
Once you are done with the economy simulator, post it here. Or create a thread about it and quote me please.
After JavaScript you can learn Html and CSS and after that you also need to learn one of JavaScript framework, Node.Js, React,Vue. Js, or Angular to become a front end web developer.
After becoming a front end web developer you can start your journey to become a backend web developer and then become a full stack web developer.
Yes! Great! freecodecamp is an amazing source to learn how to code.
You guys should really learn how to do your marketing. Just spamming your link at every occasion will not get you far. It is cumbersome, embarrassing, distracting, and highly inefficient.
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 11:56am On Dec 17, 2022
