Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 8:42am On Jan 08, 2023 |
Legendguy: Pls send the youtube link where these comments are coming from if you have it I don't have it. |
Romance › Re: Too Many Baby Mamas In Nigeria. Why? by Kipaji: 8:41am On Jan 08, 2023 |
Lance00009: To be honest I see it as wickedness Children are like toy now jus to keep them company because they are lonely at home Most people use children to beg the gods for more money Sorry to say most people who are into fraud have eaten the destiny of their children Most children will grow to become nothing because of error of their father or mother @ bolded How single mothers condition their kids to be failures:
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 9:31pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Kipaji: It isn't man. Maybe the "1 in 100 000" part, yes. But I just wanted to point out that sometimes we make things appear more widespread than they actually are. Wow. Still had some blue pill left in my organism here. This is more or less how it was with my mother. She was telling me the ugly truth about these women out there and I was there staying stuff like : "you're exaggerating." "it is not that widespread", "these are extreme cases",, "no, women do not think like that", etc... Anyways, I learned. Thread in the making... |
Romance › "Men Are Pigs. They Only Want One Thing." by Kipaji(op): 9:03pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Imagine you enter a restaurant. You are very excited it is a new restaurant in town and you want to discover want they have to offer. But then, you stumbled upon the realization that there is only one plate on the menu. You look through the pages of the menu, you search left and right, you check the restaurant's website, everything, but there is just that one and only meal available. So, you have no other choice but to take that one.
But when you call the waitress to order, she nags : "you all the clients are the same. You only want that one thing! " To which you respond: "but there's only thing on the menu. There is nothing else to order? What else is there to want in this restaurant?" Yet, the waitress does not hear that, and she stills goes on to complain over and over...
This is basically what goes on in today's society. Restaurants are complaining that clients only want that one thing, without understanding that many of them would gladly go for other items if there were other items on the menu.
So, if you are a restaurant and your clients have only been asking about that one meal, here is what you do to have them order different meals : add valuable items to your menu. The issue is that this takes significant work, and most restaurants these days do not want to put in the effort. They prefer to complain instead. |
Romance › Re: Woman Corroborates Why Women Go Back To Their Exes by Kipaji: 7:53pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Unsurprisingly, women are really quiet around here. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 4:51pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
A very redpill anime: School Days
If you have time, check this out guys. And I think it's on YouTube for free.
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Romance › Re: What Superpower Would You Have And How Would You Use It? by Kipaji: 4:37pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Kipaji: 4:35pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ubunja: I'll look around. The people around me aren't big into anime. But I'll see where I can source them. Ubunja here is a very red pill anime you will like: School Days. You will like it for the ton of principles illustrated there. And it's not long.
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Romance › Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Kipaji: 4:10pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ubunja: please do and tag me. This is a very important conversation that needs to be had in this space Alright, I'll tag you. |
Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 4:09pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Now, more seriously.
The biggest reason to not marry a non-virgin is that she cannot fully receive you as she has already received other people in the past. It's like you have water to fill in a cup, but the cup is already almost full. There is not a lot of space to give all you can give to that woman. That space has been used up with the other guys. |
Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 4:07pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
The "relatives" will visit from time to time.
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Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 4:05pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 4:04pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Non-virgins are far more likely to cheat. And the probability of cheating increases significantly with the number of partner she had.
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Romance › Re: What's The Consequences Of Not Marrying A Virgin Girl? by Kipaji: 3:53pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Why virgins are required:
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Romance › Re: What Superpower Would You Have And How Would You Use It? by Kipaji: 3:51pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Absolute focus and impeccable discipline. |
Romance › Re: Too Many Baby Mamas In Nigeria. Why? by Kipaji: 3:44pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Their dual mating strategy. The guys they get babies from are not necessarily the best for serious long-term relationships or marriage.
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Romance › Re: Too Many Baby Mamas In Nigeria. Why? by Kipaji: 3:30pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Women do not value chastity as they used to.
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Romance › Re: Too Many Baby Mamas In Nigeria. Why? by Kipaji: 3:24pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Society's attitude towards single motherhood is changing in the wrong direction.
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Romance › Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Kipaji: 3:18pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
XhosaNostra: I don't have an issue with you, but as smart as you are, your thought process sometimes is a bit unhealthy, to put nicely. There're many men out there who've raised children that aren't theirs, because sometimes it's not about you & your interests, but what you can do for somebody else, to better their life. You're here mentoring young men to be manwhores, why can't another man do the same thing but the exact opposite? God knows there's already enough vermin masquerading as men. Young boys need good role models/father figures in today's society. Somehow the bolded only applies to men. No woman ever put herself in a situation where "it's not about her and her interests" but they would encourage men to do it. This is why it's said that society tells to men: "do what's right", and to women : "do what's right for you". Men, wake up or you'll get mercilessly played trying to play Mr. Righteous. |
Romance › Re: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by Kipaji: 2:49pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
ubunja: I'm a baby daddy. And so are some of my friends. But the one thing we all are doing is that we are still fvcking our baby mamas. It won't stop anytime soon. Bro When you love a single mother just know the baby daddy is still sleeping with her, unless he's dead or in prison. I'm just keeping it 100 with you. Cause you Nairaland boys are still living a fantasy. Even my mom said this. She elaborated on this more. I will make a thread to explain her views on baby mama's and the games they play. |
Family › Re: Should A Husband And Wife Stay In Separate Rooms? by Kipaji: 1:55pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
fidet1: Familiarity breeds contempt. They shouldn’t live in the same house actually. Good point @ bolded. This is why I am for separate rooms. |
Romance › Re: Ladies What Are The Subtle Ways You Give Green Lights To A Guy You Like? by Kipaji: 1:14pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
FanOfMyself: Keeping on moving till you arrive at Shiloh... See you there  This right there is a violation |
Romance › Re: Why Do Girls Tag All Fair Guys Handsome? (photos) by Kipaji: 1:02pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Farfalla: In the grand scheme of things, this kind of nonsense will add no value to your life nor the lives of your loved ones, and shouldn't even feature in your list of what to worry about.
Let this not worry you OP. Indeed. Thank you. |
Romance › Re: This Is Where I Totally Gave Up On Loving Women by Kipaji: 1:00pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Wow. Nigerian men are worryingly wicked and negative-minded. Even when women try to give them clues they can't open their brains and appreciate it. It is very sad. Why and how did they become like this? |
Romance › Re: This Is Where I Totally Gave Up On Loving Women by Kipaji: 12:54pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
apatheticme: That's how you people will flood nairaland with stories everywhere shouting 'Nigerian girls', yet people are getting married to these same Nigerian girls every weekend and are living fine.
Morally bankrupt youths everywhere!
Relationship, fv..ck related topics everyday, no youth or youth forum is talking about entrepreneurship, agrobusiness, solutions to our power issues, renewable energy, education, health etc
The only thing they know is to curse buhari, display stark ignorance on salient issues, bash Nigerian women, talk about fake ass celebs and shout marlians, yet they want governance handed over to them, at this rate how will government take youths serious!
I fear for the upcoming generation!!! Thanks for the wake up call. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 10:14pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Dabronze:
 That man would have been better off saving his energy and valuing his attention. |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:52pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
What are the other signs?
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Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Kipaji: 7:50pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Hahaha |
Romance › Re: What Will You Do If You Girlfriend Tell You That No Sex Till After Marriage by Kipaji: 3:46pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Beebah321: She no be virgin sef and she dey talk no sex till after marriage. Funny girl  Another guy dey knack her for your back.  You know it's bad when a woman has to teach a simp out of the blue pill. |
Romance › Re: 5 Signs A Woman Is Deeply In Love With You by Kipaji: 10:24am On Jan 06, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: Men Only: How Women Manipulate Simps (format Busted!) by Kipaji: 10:05am On Jan 06, 2023 |
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Romance › Re: My Neighbour's Wife Is Flirting With Me by Kipaji: 9:54am On Jan 06, 2023 |
Talk to the neighborhood chief, the police, or a patriarch/matriarch in the community. Talk to someone close to the couple, maybe some respected/close person in your compound. In any case, make the husband know that you are completely innocent in this and let him know that at least one other person is more or less aware of the situation. |