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21...Treat yourself well and with respect

Amazing privileges.

Zero tolerance or sympathy for mental illness, depression, or challenges.

Discrepancy in efforts invested.

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How do men do this?

heartofcity12:
Well said

Well said indeed.

She has everything expect the few things men truly want: virginity, femininity, and loyalty. There isn't a single woman on this planet who has these three qualities and is crying about not having good husband candidates.

Men, what aspects of a man's life do most women have no idea of?


Edit (November 2023):
Ah, I wrote this in my redpill days. It is quite pathetic. I'm glad I left that movement.

There is no excuse or BS for men.

Respect yourself...

Women's and society's perspective.

Prostitution vs Dick appointment.

Are they equivalent?

Men shouldn't chase

Women submit to power.

Women submit to power

Women submit to power.

haha

Pretty much

As simple as that

JESHAL:
The bitter reality of life that drives men especially young men to all manner of criminal activities from Yahoo, banditry, robbery, kidnapping, ritual killing. It makes men take suicidal risks or risk that are injurious to their health ( physical and mental) such overworking, borrowing huge sum to start ventures, etc. Men innately understand that if they don't perform women won't find them attractive.

Definitely. And pansophist touched on this issue many times in his write-ups

AlphaAlex:
thanks I’ll do that

Great. I commend the way you took criticism. That's a good example. I like this.

nicerod:




Scam of the century



They just want to injects us with nonsense

Pretty much. They can keep their dubious substances to themselves.

Ah ok

Meedon:


Awuzubilahii

What does this mean?

Here are some of the relevant reasons men avoid church nowadays:

* Many women in church are just h0es looking for repentance. They tacitly prey over gullible church men after they have been used up and the men they truly want do not want them back. The stories of men who marry church girls just to find out later about their not-so-pure past are all over the place. Men take notes and adapt accordingly: they avoid the church.

* The church is forgiving to women but not forgiving to men. The church is blind to non-virgin women (despite the bible's clear preference of virgins) and are lenient with h0es (they created the concept born-again virgin just for them). But the church is not that forgiving to broke men. The pastor will ask a broke man to become "stable" first before thinking about women. But any kind of women (including the whorest h0es) is OK. The church pressurizes men to marry women, even the non-virgin ones.

* The church is hypocritical. The church do not follow all the bible's principles anymore and intentionally select the ones they want to promote. Example, the bible promotes virginity. The bible makes clear that there is a large and stark difference between a virgin and a non-virgin. But the church does not talk about that. The church is quick to point out the passage where it's said that a man will leave his parents to become one with a woman, but the same emphasis is not given to passages that uphold virginity and reject non-virginity.

* Many men slowly realize that the church is the pastor's playground as far as his sexual fantasies are concerned. As explained by Ubunja (https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know/1507#114177308), pastors are some of the biggest pimps out there.

If a woman is not interested in you, do not take it personally and do not develop negative feelings for her either. Not responding to your text does not make her a "bad" person. Just understand that she does not value you like that (which is fine, since she doesn't have to) and move on with your life.
Trust me, there's some guy she eagerly replies to; as a matter of fact, she is the one starting and maintaining the conversion. But you are not that guy and you can't force it. Now you are triggered and frustrated because you wish you were that guy. But this is not the way.
If she does not reciprocate your attention, just stop giving her that attention (without any grudge or negative feelings) and redirect it towards things that matter and people who reciprocate it.

In all truth, women do not care at all if a man is married or taken. If a woman wants an engaged man, she'll go for him 90% of the time. Women hide themselves behind the "Oh he lied to me he was married" just to divert responsibility away from them and appear as a completely passive victim in the whole situation.

To illustrate, many women say that they'll only marry a guy who makes this or that amount of money. Now, between you and me, how many men in Africa who make considerable money are single? Slim to none. And these women know it. So, when they say they want rich men, they already know for a fact that the rich man they are targeting has a woman in his life. But she does not care about that, and will do everything to take him. But when things do not turn out in her favor, she'll start saying : "oh he didn't tell me he was dealing with other girls", as if she didn't know.

Besides, women like to pride themselves in having their "feminine intuition" that sometimes give them one up on men. They say their intuition allows them to know, for example, when their man is cheating or when he is lying. But, for some reason, when it comes to married men, that intuition stops working.

To the women who present themselves as "victims" of married men, you are not fooling me. Sure, some of you are indeed victims. But the overwhelmingly vast majority is not. Unfortunately, men simpishly believe women when they cry about married men they couldn't get.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:
HER FACE COLOUR AND BODY COLOUR DIFFERS


SHE IS A CLOWN

DO NOT TAKE HER KINDS SERIOUS

NEIGHBORHOODS, CHURCH, MALL, CINEMA WHATEVER PLACE YOU SPOT HER TYPE

JUST PUMP AND DUMP

Wow, so you'd pump this?

I am very impressed that all the promoters in Nairaland can't find a more intelligent strategy to attract people to their platform.