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Alhabaze:
This made me remembered one of Ubunja's Miseducations: Why Buy The Cow When The Milk is Free? No one would buy the cow when the milk is free - not men, not women.

Ubunja I stand ��

tosaino95:
Van you pls help me with the comment section link

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do most ladies end up with irresponsible guys? This is really annoying and disgusting.

Funny enough, these ladies tend to act like they are very smart or clever or they know what'sup. They tend to claim or play high class babe But most times fall in the bossom of irresponsible guys. If you see them like this ehn! You will be so astonished. You would be like, so as u get sense reach, na the person wey give u belle be dis?

Zabiboy:
tldr; i want to believe there are extroverts like me who just wants to talk with new people and not interested in the "female companionship" or sex etc etc
I like the way you used the word "most" here.
Cos as an extrovert, if i'm spending more than 5 minutes next to someone( male/female, rich/poor, ugly/attractive) or even a group of people, i'm 99.9% sure of starting a convo.
The first 2 responses determines if it continues and no matter how well we vibe( if its a female in this case) i'll never ask for number/address/when next can we see/social media handles etc etc. Once i leave that space, it's au revoir from me. I cant even remember last time i asked for name..
_{i'm talking of when you meet someone somewhere and not walking up to them
i'm also not disputing the fact that a high number of men talk to/approach girls with sex in mind}

ubunja:
they say you never know a woman until in divorce court. I'll never understand why women become vengeful monsters during divorce like did we not spend 10, 20 years caring for each other being each other's best friend? Smh

pansophist:
Women may be hypergamous, but it is men that facilitate hypergamy. If hypergamy is a passenger, then men are the driver and the conductor. Women are integrators, not creators.

For example guys that have being with women from other countries always testify how non-materialistic many of the girls are. Your so-called yahoo boys would be ignored in countries like Norway or Slovakia because the men over there didn't use money to demonstrate love.

I remember going on a date with a Finnish girl and as a fresh-of-the-boat naija boy, I wanted to pay for the date as my duty but she refused. Like not refuse as a ploy to make me intensify my desire to pay, but proper refusal like no, don't pay for me.

She sees herself as a matured adult that is responsible for herself and not a burden to others. She believe its unfair to make me pay when she is not even my gf yet. And to not make me have a bad impression of her. She respect herself.

And its because the men in those countries didn't create an obsessively materialistic society. Look at our music, movies and culture, money is god. It is glorified and no matter how evil a person is, money will make him an angel. Nigerians worship money, it comes before morality.

Which makes the country a fertile soil for materialism and hypergamy to germinate and strong. The girl you're confessing love to has hundreds of men in the dm giving her free money just to appreciate her beauty. Buying her expensive phones, but the end result is that you damage alot of this Women. They become lazy and entitled.

Because when you train someone to know how to spend, flex, enjoy, without knowing the virtue of hardwork, you've created problems for yourself. I know so many guys that are broke as hell, some work in factories, but their younger sisters are all living large without working. How can you explain that?

These girls will go into their late 20's and 30's, creating stupid rules that a man earning 100k is not good enough for her. Would you blame her? She is reacting base on the prevalent culture of her society. Men creates the society, and women integrate into it. Let that sink on.

heartofcity12:
Modern woman

Afrobasic:
As it should be

Pukkalolo:
God bless you for writing this...You just said what's typically on my mind.

Getting girls and sex is originally simple; Or how else do you explain how there are billions of people in the world. Peope didn't come from the moon: People sex each other behind close doors to produce people.

Most men are struggling to get sex. And our today's society contribute greatly to this.

They make something as easy as getting sex very complicated. The society create unrealistic yardstick for guys to get ordinary sex, and these yardstick is almost quite impossible to live up to.

Society says you must first become a high value, high status, inspirational, badass and successful motherfu*ker before you can get girls and sex.

The movies is a huge contributor to this. The movies is one of the biggest factors that have messed up men's sex life. In most movies, there's always a good guy, a beautiful girl and the bad guy. The bad guy is there to terrorize the people and the beautiful girl.

As anticipated, the good guy goes to fight the bad guy disturbing the peace of the people. The beautiful girl is probably held hostage by the bad guy. The good guy goes ahead to rescue her. The good guy eventually rescue the people, and the land is safe again. At the end of the movie, the beautiful girl rewards the good guy with a kiss. And that's the end of the movie.

Almost all movies have their story line similar to this in one way or the other. Now, isn't that ridiculous.

These movies plants a seed in a boy's head that he's not really worthy of the companionship and affection of a beautiful girl unless he’s does something epical, mind blowing and legendary.

And when the boy sees that he can never be Superman or Spider Man, which means he can never do something mind-blowing and legendary in order to win the affection of a beautiful girl, he’ll try to achieve this by making attempts to impress her with his designers, champagne, Rolex watch or fancy car OR he act like a well-mannered nice guy and showers her with financial and materialistic gifts so she’ll think good things about him.

I get sexual opportunities being thrown at me by ladies because I understand that attraction and getting sex is primitively simple---but the society and media complicate things for guys by saying you must cure cancer, build space ship and become a man of greatness that a stadium full of people are dying to touch before you can finally get the girl.

But that's total bullshit.

Anyways, my point is, you don't necessarily have to become the next Elon, Amazon, Mark, Gate /Mandela, before you can get common sex.

CaveAdullam:
Good points indeed.

Inasmuch I concur with your summation above, I beg to differ here:

1. After men have accomplished their paradise what next?

The redpill has never informed men to focus on relationships and sex all their lives. You can be a player, pick-up artist, and whatever if it is ok with you.

2. You go to school. You go to church. You go to the office. You go for visits. You go for picnics. You go to the gym. You do a whole lot of things but yet focus on your dream and ambitions.

3. So, why does it always seem evil when sex and relationship are brought into the scene? I know why: Religion. Before I continue: For the umpteenth time, and time to come, religion is important in the shaping of civilization be you agnostic, atheist, or liberal.

4. You must understand that sex is amoral. The world you live in is amoral. Redpill is amoral. It informs you, that whatever you do with the knowledge is left to you. Your point of focus is none of its concern.

5. By the way, humans are so intertwined in a myriad of complex thoughts, opinions, experiences, cultures, and backgrounds; expecting them to fully accustom to a default state is not only impossible but preposterous.

6. What of men that played according to the script that were later friend zoned, cheated on, rejected, abandoned, and some awarded bastard kids?

7. Should a focused man not find love, sex, and relationship? How can he get the best of them all if he doesn't pay heed to it, rather than when he is burnt?

8. Your points are solid. However, it does immunize women against accountability for their actions. "We are slúts because men are slúts". But ask them: "are you stupid because men are stupid?" "If men are dogs, are you slút dogs too?"

Are men not building great edifices, machines, and software? What stops women from doing the same? So, women can only play slúts when men are slúts but can't play innovators and scientists when men do the same. Lol

Why is it that it is sex women have full power and control that men are blamed for when women go crazy?

13. Since the woman is man's toy as man is God's little god, he must rule with love and make her accountable for all her actions, the same way God does.

14. Men are leaders and must rule with the right hand of love and compassion and also with the left hand of discipline.

You say "70% of men should conform to a default state?" I laugh.

17. Whether man focus or not, he has an instinctual imperative to reproduce and he can't reproduce without fvcking. So, you see, no matter the road you take, the final destination is reproduction. Good or bad, future humans must be made.

18. Life is a game. Humans need morals and good traditions to remain civil and progress. But that doesn't make all humans want to play a moralistic kind of game. As far as they have something to gain, they will play moral, immoral, or amoral. You as an individual must fortify yourself to counter the game. Preach morality from now till eternity and nothing will change. The best you can do is to guard yourself and your loved ones.

Heffalump:
Ronaldo is a rare breed of athlete, that even at 37 he still maintained top scorer at Manchester united with 24 goals across all competitions. He has proven his worth already. Bigger clubs not attracting him now is purely because of his age. Yes, age has a very serious impact! Though, he performed well last season, the new season is a different ball game altogether. One year in age can dwindle his performance. It's still amazing to soccer pundits how CR7 manages to perform at his current level. It's only deep rooted haters like you that don't notice the magical powers behind this All-Time football greatest the world ever produced. CR7 is simply the GOAT! Love it or like it, he is.

Your so called goat, Messi is still struggling at PSG even with his current age compared to CR7. I guess when he gets to 37, he will definitely retire. He's good but not as fantastic as to win a 7th Balon d' or. It's been proven that this award is only political. Professional footballers know the award is very biased and has no objectivity in most cases.
I advise you, put your hatred aside and speak kind words to the heroes for the sake of soccer fans all over the world.

paulolee:
PSG contract never finish and offer still full table...unlike one 37 yeat old wey all big clubs de reject
I told haters during the prime of cr7 n messi that we would know who is more valuable wen dey pass their prime, its simple logic, messi is a goal scorer n also a playmaker n can still be very useful in a team even without scoring, unlike cr7 dt is useless without scoring..
a club would see the need of getting messi to assist attackers bt all big clubs are going for young n vibrant attackers n dnt need a old egocentric cr7 n dts why de keep rejecting him.....na simple logic

pansophist:
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MikeofKd:
Truth is alpha male or not ,you can’t possibly please women , the moment you realize this ,the better. This theory would help you grow in dealing with these female creatures ,you learn to keep a balance with them ,you don’t fall too hard and you don’t go too soft either, more like a neutral state.

This theory also would make the right woman stay , the ones that would come and go ,you won’t even feel them that much cause you wouldn’t be overly emotional attached to them. Balancing is everything.

pansophist:
You have time o

SO you mean you went back to my over 5000 post on nairaland and read all, see this man o, you be winch?

As far you like am, I am delighted. But you suppose know as e de go, anything for the boys? Make I drop account?