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BeeBeeOoh:
APC wins, PDP conceads defeat & congratulate..


PDP wins, APC election was rigged & should be cancelled..





what manner of party is APC

The manner of party that will rule for the next 4years. They should lead though.

The manner of party that usually incite violence when they lose election.

The manner of party filled with opportunists from sister party that we voted out.

True talk

paulolee:
hmmmm.... nice story n I Tank GOD for ur lyf even if I Neva b'lived d story..
Mr op dnT wori, nollywood wud work on ur story..

I believe you don't need to experience it before you know it's true.

It happened to my wife some years back and God saved her. It wasn't this rampant then but God saved her.

InestamablJewel:
U R A REAL MAN, I LUFF U ALREADY..

Thanks. Luff u too.

Those were some of the steps I took in some similar situation.

InestamablJewel:
U R A REAL MAN, I LUFF U ALREADY..

Thanks. Luff u too.

Its obvious you love her, and you must remain loving.

Don't try to prove you are the man of the house by saying so. Let your actions do that. Like dont just apologise anyhow, but do when you are wrong.

It seems to me that some external influence is involved. Let her know that she would be the one to smart for it. Reinforce the trust issue that someone mentioned.

There is time for everything under the sun, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing. Like its been said severally, you need to learn to ignore some of her actions. It may be difficult cos you may feel like your love for her is going down, but NO, its not. In ignoring, you will not get into malice with her at all, just ignore some actions and words that are getting you down and talk about other things as if there is no issue. You will also mature along.

In subsequent communications, let her know she's trying and frustrating you but that you intend to enjoy your home and marriage. So when she starts such behaviour, you could excuse her or if possible take a walk.

As much as possible, don't involve third parties. Also don't get physical.

Lastly, your marriage is not crashing and will not crash. Some have gone through worse and have overcome. You also will.

Its obvious you love her, and you must remain loving.

Don't try to prove you are the man of the house by saying so. Let your actions do that.

It seems to me that some external influence is involved. Let her know that she would be the one to smart for it. Reinforce the trust issue that someone mentioned.

There is time for everything under the sun, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing. Like its been said severally, you need to learn to ignore some of her actions. It may be difficult cos you may feel like your love for her is going down, but NO, its not. In ignoring, you will not get into malice with her at all, just ignore some actions and words that are getting you down and talk about other things as if there is no issue.

In subsequent communications, let her know she's trying and frustrating you but that you intend

Skryptchex:
Choice: a person, thing, or course of action chosen by somebody from among a range of possibilities.
After seeing/thinking that the other choice is not up to what they want, they just dispose it and use 'I have no choice' as a cover up.
What i know is that in a situation, you have more than a choice to choose from.

My thoughts too.

I am not sure what section to post this.

Many times we hear people (and i bet you and I many times) say, 'I have no choice' (or I had no choice), as an excuse for some of their decisions and actions.

So I wonder, is it really true at any point that 'I have no choice' or that my choice is that 'I have no choice' after considering my options?

Actually, the comments of many people to the response of GEJ to card reader failure during his accreditation and to the result of the prssidential election brought this up again.

Let's have some matured comments please.

Many of the points are true. However, there has to be some balance before we plunge into anarchy. If you live among people, you will be responsible somehow to them.

Main reason: your life affects others. So don't abdicate your responsibility to them.

But like I earlier said, many of the points are valid, I.e. I don't have to explain myself to you if I don't want to, whoever you are. I remember telling a boss who likes to know everything that I wouldn't like to talk about a personal issue he was asking about. You know he sulked about it later saying something like 'maybe you dont want to talk about it sha'. It was another issue then. Know what I did? I just ignored the comment.

This is a training that children must be given at home. Balancing personal space with communal responsibility

This is none issue. No big deal at all. No be them born you? Just relax and use the bath. Simple. I am sure you wouldnt bother if it were your friends. So chill.

Worked with it in my first job. Those were days you have numbers in your head and produce/dial them off hand without missing any digit.

What is a song? Simply, words set to music.

I don't know this song, but what does the lyrics say? If its not 'biblical', then its not spiritual in the Christian sense, and so should not be for a gathering of Christians. This is not about having a few Christian words in a song.

So, basically the words of a song determine what class or belongs, whether spiritual or secular.

Of course, a secular singer can sing spiritual songs which does not make him a spiritual person.

Note that I have limited the discourse to just secular and spiritual in terms germain to Christians.

Its so easy for people to expect Christians to accept anything, and term it intolerance when it doesn't happen. While the same people would not accept things Christian in some circles. Or would it be accepted to sing church songs at a night club? Whoever does that would be derided terribly.

PDP problem is foundational. I just hope APC doesn't have the same foundation. And I hope it doesnt go the way of PDP.

No insult needed pls. Just remember that most PDP members have and are still defecting to APC. And as the saying goes, something does not chage its spots.

Fairgodwin:
Counter thread? Thank God you're already married and thank God your wife already saw all the chats and equally saw that you're innocent. Not much work to do there. Just take her out on a date kind of, and give her a nice treat. Then tell her the lady was never your taste or class in the first place; and make her know and understand that you would [still] prefer her to a million of that lady anytime anyday.
I know you already know the words to use, sir. You can block the lady on whatsapp. Enjoy your marriage, sir.

I agree with the above.

Let me add that you should have blocked the lady on watsapp since she started sending unsolicited messages. Should have been a stitch in time saving nine.

Take note against next time. What a man would not eat, he does not smell (as it were). In as much as you did not nuture hidden desire...

Fairgodwin:
Counter thread? Thank God you're already married and thank God your wife already saw all the chats and equally saw that you're innocent. Not much work to do there. Just take her out on a date kind of, and give her a nice treat. Then tell her the lady was never your taste or class in the first place; and make her know and understand that you would [still] prefer her to a million of that lady anytime anyday.
I know you already know the words to use, sir. You can block the lady on whatsapp. Enjoy your marriage, sir.

I agree.

Let me add that you should have blocked the lady on watsapp since she started sending unsolicited messages. Should have been a srich in time saving nine.

Tallesty1:
Going down on one knee with a ring to ask a lady to marry me is something I will never do.


If that is the only way to get a wife then I will die single.

Good luck.

Raxxye:
A hero, according to Wikipedia, is

"a character or person, who, in the face of danger and
adversity or from a position of weakness, displays
courage or self-sacrifice"

Another source defines it thus:

"a person who, in the opinion of others, has heroic
qualities or has performed a heroic act and is
regarded as a model or ideal"

Unless Ezekwesili has a different definition of a hero different from the above, then I beg to disagree with her.

For promising to conduct a free and fair election without interfering in the process, and keeping his words: that makes him a hero

Think for a second what would have become of last Saturday's election had the president lost his calm after the card reader failed to capture him and kept him waiting in the sun for over thirty minutes, moreso when his party had advised against the use of the card reader. Had he stormed out of that polling booth, that would have been the end of election that day, and the consequences could only have been imagined. For maintaining his cool in the face of that, he is a hero

For calling GMB and congratulating him(something GMB never did in 2011 and can never do), and thereby averting "goons and baboons" being soaked in blood, he is a hero

For telling his party not to bother contesting the outcome of the election in court to avoid distracting the incoming president, he is a hero

Hate him as much as you choose to do, Mrs Ezekwesili, you cannot take this glorious moment from him. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan has set a standard for democracy, not only in Nigeria, but also in Africa. The man is our national hero!

On point. Wish I could add more than just one like.

Even the international community commended him, yet for bad belle, some people just refuse to see it.

It shows that many of these people cannot accept sound reason that does not tally with thier ideas. Hmmm! Na waaa o.

adorablepepple:
Guess work ni








If I was attending the church Where my pastor announced a fake prophecy, I will leave already because that same pastor or prophet will someday mislead me with one quaint prophecy Abi message

Your life is not supposed to be led by prophecy (as it were), but by the Holy Spirit.

There is still so much to learn about prophecy in our current dispensation.

Kennywills7:
I really hope he will write a story on this, without being told, u will know that many factors work against him and he never had peace from day one of his leadership as president of Nigeria, he is just having Peace now and dat only is something to b worried about.
They planted people around him to deceive him, till date i still believe d missing chibok girls was stage managed and a fraud!
Boko haram is obvious
We didn't witness d real gej as a president as he was never allowed to blossom or rise to his promise
Part of this because he failed himself and never knew his true Friends or enemies!

True talk.

Jesusloveyou:
guy ur secret na big lie,gej is not a christian,he is d only nigeria president that attend oic,and d only one that borrow money from oic,if u fail to pay ur due as a member,how can u borrow money there.so u and gej is a disgrace to nigeria,tell us another lie.

For one, it was forwarded and not mine. And my point is that 'could this be true?' You have info about it, then spill it without insult. Won't join the tirade anyway.

Your screename would suggest something different on the surface. Please take it deeper. Thanks

Vicjustice:
[size=13pt]Sure, i know that she is an elderly woman, but how can we be precise on the figure, 89?
For all i know, she may be younger or older as there existed no data-base to verify her date of birth[/size]

I read comments like this when age of senior citizens are mentioned. Don't be so sure that there was/is no record. And don't think our people have not been keeping records even in the early 1900s.

My mum was born in 1926. I have been able to confirm the date from 2 sources in the family. By the way she's still alive.

By the way, cute Mama Silva.

Except you do not have a proper government marriage certificate, or your marriage is not licensed by government, then your marriage involved court or marriage registry processes, at least these days.

Like it has been said, churches (and I believe mosques) where legal marriages are performed got permission from govt and the process involves filing of notice at marriage registry. The registry process is the court marriage.

You can decide to perform other ceremonies and play down that of the registry, its still the same. And the same law applies to all legal marriages. Unfortunately, many ladies don't know this.

How will bh not attack when the soldiers that should protect the librated towns and villages are busy harrasing innocent civilians during election.

[quote author=Acekidc4 post=32094010]...
That's Total Rubbish Na

Its not rubbish. Its been reported on Splash FM, in Ibadan, witnessed by the reporter who spoke. Some minutes ago.

This should move to FP, please

God bless Nigeria. May all conspirators in book haram palaver be exposed and judged, in Jesus name. Amen.

BiHung:
But on a serious note: the solution is simple, get a visitor to come and spend one week with you guys, and he will get used to wearing clothes 24/7.

Especially if the visitor is a ManOfGod

You can be sure it will never happen when a visitor is around. Its just between him and his family. I believe he is a man who is conscious of himself when visitors are around and outside the house.

lestat:
Simple, start walking around the house naked too, in fact tell mum and siblings that tomorrow u should all walk around the house in nothing but undies, me bets he would shriek and ask if u are all okay, then u proceed to tell him, off course daddy, we are just following your trend in fact I never want to ever wear clothes again, can I go outside like this? Me thinks he will adjust himself immediately.

That's teaching with out saying a word

Lol. Good advice though, if others feel the same way as you.

However, I do same most atimes when freshening up in the house. As a matter of fact, any of my children can enter the bathroom when I am there. You don't hide from the one who will bathe you when you die - a Yoruba proverb.

No big deal. She has written the Yoruba she speaks and understand. Abi she should have written in Brit english? Shes very much in order.

Trailblazer1:
Crisis situation obviously helps to cure our religious madness in Nigeria. In the face of crisis the scale of religious intolerance falls from of our eyes and we unconditionally embrace the spirit of unity and love which bonds us together as a Nation.

LESSONS TO LEARN:
When there is crisis, you don't ask an individual whether they are APC or PDP before you seek refuge from them.
When there is crisis, you don't care about the religion of an individual while seeking for help.
When there is crisis, you don't care about the tribe of an individual seeking to save you.


Kudos to Atiku for rescuing the situation for his people

Crisis that is somewhat external will achieve that more. But when it is internal like for example PDP against APC, religious, tribal, it is more devastating and takes longer for the sentiment scales to fall off. That's why we need be careful about our utterances and actions because violence breeds to good at all.

Unfortunately though, there is much more of verbal violence on social media. It seems to be fun to a lot of people on social media to be insultive. Needless to say that, that is the attitude of many in the society.

At least Atiku is doing somethng even if ....

SagePerv1:
[color=maroon]Local trains meant for transporting cargos and goats, now transporting people but yet, some dumb-box rice scavenging people are calling this development?


Damn. You guys should wake up.

You deserve super-sonic trains. Not these boxes.
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Sorry for your sentiment.