₦airaland Forum

PDJT:
✓ The practice can be challenging but it's worth the stress if you have self-respect and can maintain boundary.

I fail to see what self&respect and boundaries have to do with this topic. 🥱🥱

greatness77:
✓ Before the fall of Babylonian empire God named king Cyrus that he is going to anoint him to destroy Babylon, God said that he will conquer Babylon without fight, the rivers of Babylon will be diverted, the gates of Babylon will not be locked that very night and nobody will live again in Babylon from generation to generation and it all came to pass, remember these prophecy came over 100years before Cyrus was even born, 😯😯 this is mind blowing
Different kings have tried to rebuild Babylon including Saddam Hussein but failed, even Alexander the great tried to rebuild it as a historical site but he died mysteriously all these happened because God said that nobody live in Babylon again from generation to generation
And finally the prophecy about Alexander the great, GOD said that Alexander will die strangely that nobody Will know the cause of his death up till today nobody knows what killed Alexander go and ask Google the cause of Alexander's death you will see different contradictory answers, God told us that Alexander will die mysteriously and it took 232years after this prophecy before Alexander was born 😯 😯 Bible also said that Alexander will not enjoy his empire and that his empire will be divided among his 4 generals of his army and it all happened 😯😯 after 232 solid years 😯😯 CHRISTIAN GOD IS OMNISCIENT 🙆🙆 it was because of these prophecy that made me became a Christian
BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST SO THAT YOU WILL HAVE LIFE IN ABUNDANCE
Anybody who is tired of his life or you want to test the existence of Christian God should go and rebuild Babylon, in case if you don't know the location it is in southern part of Baghdad in Iraq near mosul

You are confused! The God who is written to have made all of that happen was not and is not the Christian god. Recall that, what you know today as Christianity did not even become a thing until more than 70 years after the death of Jesus Christ of Israel, approximately 30 years before the Romans finally rid the nation of Judah of over half it's population of Jews, renaming it Palestine. Yes, the same Romans created the religion of Christianity to usurp for their political benefit the power they heard of a movement that was started in Judeah before its destruction. 🥱🥱🥱

I am afraid running from one religion to another simply means you switched from being controlled from one set of human overlords to having your brain diddled by another. It changes nothing of your end. 🥱🥱🥱

Darevofpeace:
✓
©️ Pastor Bisi Adewale
‎Follow me here for daily wisdom on parenting.
‎Please share this, it may save a child from silent scars.

You forgot the mention that all of these wounds can exist in both children raised in families where both mother and father stayed together as well as those whose mother and father chose to go their separate ways insinuating that it isn't marriage or divorce to blame for any it but the maturity levels --- emotionally, intellectual and social intelligence --- of their fathers, mothers and/or other caregivers. 🥱🥱🥱

Yes, what traumatizes children and potentially scars them for life isn't whether or not they were raised in 1 family home or not but whether the caregivers were themselves mature and intelligent enough to handle to raising and providing for their every need. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

jaszplus12:
As you can see, you failed again to see OPs points and even comprehend his simple logic!!
Your responses really exposes your inner being, you're finding it very hard to hide it...

I failed or my responses revealed that you are exactly the kind of immature excuses for men detailed in OP's write up where he expects women to raise and emotionally regulate men who they are supposedly married to. 🥱🥱

Ibrahim1985:
✓ Personally i do not see any wrong with any Nigeria women who is dating oyinbo as long he is good to you by his actions, not by mouth only. What i mean actions, it is not buying gifts, it is not taking you to nice places nor buying this or that , or giving money. I mean he does not look at you like he is superior or he see you as a sex fetish or a slave Or he buy this but make very disrespectful comments about you, your family and so on. He can buy this or that and take you to this or that but still see you as subhuman. As long you are both happy and there is love, respect and understanding. Devil can be come in any race .it could be white, arab , and so on. So shine your eyes and look at his character or else na u go cry premium tears

I fail to see the reason for this comment. Nigerian women have been dating men of different races for as long as Nigeria has existed. Not sure why in 2025, you determined that these women need to read your opinion on who they can or cannot date. 😩😩😩😩

budaatum:
✓ I wouldn't myself call divorce the first or obvious solution.
✓ How about marriage counseling first? They'd teach both parties to communicate their issues to each other and they just might find an amicable solution.

Marriage counseling only works when you have two capable adults in a marriage. When a woman is married to a man who is dead set on her being a mother to him as in she literally has to manage and help him regulate his emotions, she is literally married to her OP and not a mature adult. Best for her to do is get out of the way so the man can either mature or look for himself a different victim.

2. Just imagine having to literally possibly pick up after and train--- as you would a child ----someone who believes himself leader over you in marriage. That is not a marriage but a prison. 😩😩😩

jaszplus12:
FYI, dated 8 years, married for 24 years to the same woman, therefore YOUR advice will never be at the forefront whenever I'll counsel anyone in marriage.

And I can guess, you are the kind of man written of in the OP too 😩😩

Ekeletu:
✓ Let me make it brief. There's this lady I met 4yrs ago through hookup. I used to love-vendor her to guys and she featured in one of my adult contents. She has done orgy, 3some and even do girls too. She smokes.
✓ Last this year we started a relationship and last month she stopped hookup. We are planning on getting married next year but I am having a double mind. She's very good and my spec. She said she will stop smoking.
Any advice?

You know her history -- you had a hand in it --- yet you chose to date her despite it. Now you are suddenly asking strangers whether they will be willing to marry the girl? Did she tell you that she would want to even marry someone like you? 🥱🥱🥱

Glotrade:
✓ What would you do if you discovered your girlfriend Is on badoo app
Why would she join the app

You are best asking her and not a bunch of strangers. And yes, you are allowed to break up with that for that too. 🥱🥱🥱

dollytino4real:
✓ not all, paul 4 Bible say i eat but because of wetin una go think n talk go make him not to eat

So, you take that to mean that this Paul, you refer to, lived his life according to the opinions of those around him. And because of this, you, a literate woman living in the information age, have chosen to live like an unmarried unemployed, possibly childfree, 1st century style hobo -- for lack of a better word? 🥱🥱🥱

Offpoint1:
✓ Where you designed for formula or breast milk?
Take a back seat, this is beyond your societal conformity. Take a back seat for now.

Were you designed for other processed foods that you eat and still are capable of surviving on? 🥱🥱

Ever resorting to asking the stewpidest of questions when cornered, huh?. 🥱🥱🥱

plsdisvirginme:
Anyone should please give me some business idea or any skill acquisition, I'm empty ,. Help a fellow bro.
Criticism is accepted as long as I'm going to live to tell the story at the end, Thanks

Why are you empty? Why are you unable to figure out possible ways forward giving what you have and know? Tell us.🥱🥱

tgmservice:
With great sadness I announce his passing.
The young lad was going through a lot.
Farewell bro

How do you know he is dead? 🥱🥱

mechanics:
He should report her to her family members and not on social media.

if it were the man who abandoned the baby with the woman, would you also suggest his family be harassed for the decision he made? 🥱🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
✓ It true I totally agree with you.

We are waiting for the day when more Nigerians will make the decision. When people begin to make that change in their daily lives, we will begin to see the evidence for hope for Nigeria.

Diamond098454:
✓ you are strong oooooooo
I'm a shy type

It has nothing to do with being strong or not. Everyone has a limit and the ability to decide when to impose that limit. I know this have decided not to let anyone railroad me or use me to humiliate me or destroy others. 🥱🥱

Anyone can do this too. It is a decision...a choice available to even the most demure of us all. 🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
✓ Are you telling me if you are the one. You will challenge the pastor right inside the church full of congregation
✓ No no no. You won't do it The best is to ghost that church

I would probably get it on camera, too. And post it asap.

2. In this day and age, people need to stand up against bullsheet that those before them endured and excused.

Diamond098454:
✓ I would have stop him immediately but it will look as if I'm disgracing a pastor.
✓ You understand religion in Nigeria🇳🇬🇳🇬
My friends was laughing

Somebody, for no fault of cause,chose to assault and humiliate you. You said you were so embarrassed, like he literally stripped you naked in public. Yet, you don't think you would have been well within your right to have called him out for his bullsheet right there and then? 🤔🤔

2. Oh, I understand all religions are scams and any scammer who comes near me with that bullsheet won't use me for a fool. 🤔🤔🤔

Merry Christmas to all this 2025!

Diamond098454:
✓ That will create so much scene . I resembled my mum and her family
All her sisters and two brothers has the same eyes

Is that like you saying because you think Asians look so much alike, you should get a pass when you wrongly accuse anyone of them of a crime or injustice? 🥱🥱🥱

Seriously, serious problem dey and no be for government I dey talk! 🤔🤔

jaszplus12:
✓ My dear, thank you for your comments. I understand you even better now...your domain remains deep in an abyss of trauma troubled transition. Its understandable.

This from someone who never understood divorce for the solution that it has always been in marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
✓ I was so ashamed of myself, so embarrassed

Why didn't you call him out immediately on his lie...pass the shame right back to him who it rightly belonged to? 🥱🥱

jaszplus12:
✓ You see, the smart you didn't proffer solution, what you did was to take away the scaffolding that would be used to guide any marriage. But I don't really blame your sense of comprehension of marriage or even the logical reasoning put forth by the OP, your one direction mind just engaged gear and roared off!!
✓ I like your advice though, cos it floats around yet [b]only the regretful will or would need to it! Yeah, awaiting a brand new year so you can have a rethink when asked to advice on marriage. Good girl...[/b]

Divorce is a legally valid solution to marriage. It has been around since the very first marriage between humans and remains a solution that marriage even to this day. 🥱🥱🥱

Again, endeavor to develop your language comprehension skills and also work on opening your mind so you don't continue to miss out the obvious even when right in front of you.🥱🥱🥱

2. Only the regretful seek divorce yet year in, year out, the number of those who keep embracing divorce continues to increase with some folks doing it several times in their one lifetime? Your summation on divorce obviously doesn't match the reality of things. Seems more like many more consider divorce the logical escape from a regretful situation in marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

jaszplus12:
✓ The exact point the OP is trying to make is what you have just displayed!! Outsmarted yourself being too smart!
🤣🤣🤣

you ain't even half as smart as you think yourself to be if you were not able to figure that instead of OPs suggestions that women labor in vain/suffer in marriage with such obviously immature specimens, I would rather women be encouraged to seek divorce from such marriages. 🥱🥱

2026 is a brand new opportunity to prioritize acquisition of language comprehension skills.🥱🥱🥱

obiekunie01:
✓ This one wey you dey talk like say you don invent a way to help us know those among them that are NOT prostitute!
CAUSE THE LAST TIME I CHECKED, THEY ALL SEEMS TO BE PROSTITUTE - SOME OPERATE FROM TTHEIR FATHERS HOUSE, SOME OPERATE FROM HOSTEL, SOME FROM CHURCH, SOME OPERATE RIGHT IN THEIR HUSBAND'S HOUSE, SOME EVEN PRETEND TO BE MARY-AMAKA! AND YET THEY ARE ALL INTO THE SAME BUSINESS WITH DIFFERENT BAPTISM NAMES.

Since you have now come to realize that all women are oloshos, now you know that if you don't get money to pay, na suffer go be your head. 🥱🥱

yungkels:
Warris dis now?
Sometimes I see religion as an enemy to Africa...

It is exactly that...a weapon fashioned against Africans... A potent drug that seems designed to see Africans never to rise. 🥱🥱

dollytino4real:
na Nigeria not Yankee, we care of wat dey say

The same Nigeria that women have been getting their divorce in abi na imaginary one wey dey your own head for their?🥱🥱

Since the 1980s, divorce rate for Plateau state for that Nigeria has been consistently above 70%. But rather than admit that your own problem is that you care so much what people say about you still, you wan dump am for all of Nigeria wey no even get your own time? 🥱🥱🥱

Offpoint1:
✓ A 3 months who's left behind by his/her mother stand a 90% risk of dying than a 3 months old left behind by the father. Breast millk is baby life support system... Ponder on that.

Yet babies whose mothers literally die during childbirth are known to have near 100% survive(if born without complications) even without getting a sip of breast milk? 🥱🥱🥱

Something dey terribly wrong with the way many folks still reason.🥱🥱🥱

Starz825:
➜The poster is speaking about connecting with people cos thats how you start up... Meanwhile, he dey hard for introvert to get marital partners.....esp for women wey no dey go out at all..cos you can not get all your needs online

A great number of people and business deals are now connected remotely with each other these days. 🥱🥱

dollytino4real:
Rip to her, it is well, if u leave they tag u ashow dey ur eyes

At your age, you still care so much what people think or say? 🥱🥱🥱

Famous606:
➜A child we come looking for his father because he really want to know is heritage and in some cases some of them are being rejected by the so family of the woman in terms of inheritance and possession of property .
➜ If a man abandoned a pregnant lady(foetuses) don't you think the lady is forcing it on him and which he totally rejected because he meant not be ready for such responsibility or probably having doubts if the pregnancy belongs to him .
➜ All am trying to say is that the lady action is wrong but i can't fully judge her because we have not hear her own side of the story the man can be doing emotional blackmail just to have public sympathy
➜ please if you know the lady kindly beg her to go back to her child because the punishment she is giving to the husband is too much which in the video the man is already stress out ,i guess he has learn the hard way .

1. According to science, the heritage of the child is also the mother— half of the chromosomes that make up a child come from the mother, and the other half comes from the father — so, definitely, when the child goes looking for its mother, it is also looking for its heritage. And with women working and saving money for themselves, even mothers can now offer their children an inheritance and possessions. 🥱🥱

2. Well, since it is the woman abandoning the man in this case, don't you think it is the man forcing her to have his half-seed to create a child with, and she totally rejected even after being baby-trapped by him because she was not ready for the responsibility or doubts that she would be able to take care of the baby for him? 🥱🥱🥱

3. You just suggested that when a man does it, it is right, but God forbid a woman do the same, it is wrong. Clearly, there is nothing reasonable or or to be trusted about your judgment.

4. God forbid! An adult, after considering her situation, decided it was best for her to leave the baby with the baby's father. When a man does the same thing, not even a single person calls him to account, but encourages him to move forward almost immediately, whenever a woman does, the child suddenly needs its mother. It is punishment when a woman does it to the man, but not punishment when a man does the same thing to a woman? Nonsense! 🥱🥱

The woman should live her life, make money so she can send her child to college by the time the time comes to look for her. The father of the child can take care and raise the child better than the mother can... no be so? 🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
✓ My dear I followed a friend of mine to her church three months ago and the pastor brought me out and told me in front of every one
That my eyes is from water that's why I haven't given birth since a year and 6months I got married. My friend and some of my course mates started laughing at me.
The truth is I'm not married, I'm not engaged. I don't know where this pastor got his prophecy from.

He got it the same place that we all gets our lies from.🥱🥱