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cuteboy2:
Maybe she slept with the CEO and HR to get the job in the first place. Maybe she had an understanding to keep the game going. Maybe thier deal collapsed. Now she is turning a mutually beneficial arrangement into a crime. This is a simple civil matter of broken contract, not a criminal matter. She can sue for breach of contract and sexual harassment.

You no read?

Meteng:
➜The two guys combine knack am wetin no good. No be say dem no know say them them dey knack am o. E sure me say the two of them dey relish the taste and her performance over bottles of beer

She no complain about the sex either. Her only complaint is why they thought to fire her when she was doing her job all the while and was outperforming all of the other workers in the company, too. Hopefully, she brings a lawsuit against them which they can discuss over beer with each other too.

wonder233:
➜ Yes, there is a gun to the head. Dare say you won't do certain things and watch how society comes for you.
➜ Say you don't believe in bride price tradition and watch how nobody will touch you with a long pole.
➜ Say don't believe in being either a Christian or Muslim and watch how you lose opportunities in life cos adherents of both religions will hate you.
➜ Say, you don't believe in the whole institution of marriage and watch the wolves come after you. Say you don't want to have kids and watch people hate you...
➜ When my dad passed, I said I don't believe in doing needless ceremonies in the name of tradition. Look at how people that are supposed to be "family" started threatening hell and brimstone.

1. Because your life is run by society and not by you, abi? Anything to claim to be a victim of society, abi?

2. So, other men who also don't believe in bride price tradition and intentionally choose not to date women from those bride price tradition regions of the planet are not men but eejiots, abi?

3. Other atheists who avoid dating women from religious backgrounds, in addition to those with religious leanings, are not intelligent individuals at all? huh?

4. All the over 25% of the population who remain unmarried until death — never marrying or having children — are imbe—ciles compared to you?

5. The 100s of millions of men and women across the globe who have been reported to have made the exact same decision — abandoned tradition, marriage, and even childbearing completely — are numbskulls for standing their ground even in the face of societal pushback?

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All I see is a coward desperate to blame society and others for his stewpid decisions in his own life, abeg!

Investcom:
➜Women are full of manipulation,

Irresponsible men, who number in the majority, are victims, abi? 🙄🙄🙄

kennethesan:
Whether Africa or Western world, they will still throw her out even if she wins a case against them...

Wrong! A company should only be able to fire an employee if his/her performance is proven to be of poor quality, if the services the employee is employed in are no longer required, or if the company needs to lay off employees for survival. In all of this, the company is required to provide proof for it all. There is no reason why you should accept rubbish as your lot in life.

Goodmarlian:
➜You see women asking you for money at the fist meetings or talking stage is a test to know if you are weak and desperate. if you are weak and desperate it turns them off and if you refused giving them money it shows you are in control and a challenge, you see the way men look down on women who give sex easily is the same way women look down on men who give money easily humans are wired to crave challenge.
➜ There are some group of girls in my dm who are always billing me I promise to give them but I refuse to oblige, they will twist,plot, strategize and I can observe it but I dont give in, I notice these girls don't block me or stop chatting me up, they still greet me say hi and remain friendly to me but logically you will expect they will call you stingy and block you but it doesn't work like that,i notice they are now loving me for it, I post pictures and videos of me and my friends flexing and spending money like pablos...
They will see it but will neve touch it, one had promise to visit my house and prepare food for me and said I must find her something in the end I said no wahala. Guys you are the prize.

1. If you were in control, you wouldn't have needed to engage them in the first place. The sole reason you engage women who do that to you is that you are looking for one of them to shine your knuckles with, abi? SO, either pay up or walk on. Stop pretending you gained some sort of intelligence by refusing to pay up for their attention and time you requested from them, when all it is is that you are a cheapskate.

2. Good! Your DM is filled with girls looking to offer you their attention and time in exchange for money. Pay up or shut up already. Don't pretend yourself better than them when you are pretty much scrolling through to find the one that you can probably get at the cheapest cost.
These na regular runs for poor men out there...nothing philosophical or enough to wax poetic about abeg! 🥱🥱🥱

NaijaNaWaa:
➜Men are the victims here. This woman basically had it - good job, good appraisal, enjoyment, money, 2-way hot romance - off both men. Now she’s playing victim and both men are likely going down for it. All because otondo.

She earned a good appraisal, so why was the reason given for her sake that she had a bad appraisal?

Black man must showcase his lack of comprehension no matter the situation... na so?

tunapawizzy:
➜Yes male version

The story is about a boss and hr manager who sleep around with their employees as well— they are all hoes. So, your particular problem is that even olosho/hoe-ing men and women also have the same kind of confidence you think should only be meant for you alone, abi?

kiddaz:
➜Nothing wrong with being a garden tool Promax. I just pointed out the obvious. I'm not against selling your puzzzayy if it's how you roll

The men involved were also being garden tool promax in this, yet you decided to single out the woman for our scorn. Says so much about your mentality, is all.

essentialone:
➜I am not a bot. I have nothing to do with Tinubu. I am not the junkie whose name is also a junkie.

You are not a tinubu-tin-can bot, yet you reason exactly like one?

Ebenezer2021:
is your pussy still tight

That question should be directed at the woman from whose you were birthed.

nairalanda1:
✓ Best she said no....to avoid palaverish issues.
✓ At least she is bringing down the boss and hr man too....

Why should she? She also probably needed sex, and since the boss offered and there is was no law against it, she had every right to say yes if that was what she wanted at the time. 🥱🥱

2. Look, this is clearly a case of a petty EX-Lover who can't stand rejection. She has no guilt about all of this, at least from what she revealed about being a good employee. 🥱🥱

grandstar:
✓ I am certain there are laws against it. That it sexual harassment.
✓ One can, however, empathize with her as she was vulnerable.

Cite at least one make we see! 🥱🥱🥱
2. What she requires is justice, not empathy. This sounds all sorts like a typical case of a petty EX-L over. 🥱🥱

TONYE001:
✓ Having sex to keep a job..... nothing wrong with this?
You sure about that?

Read the story! The boss asked her to be a situationship and she, a good employee, decide to OK it but changed her mind after a couple of months. Only for the boss to fire her. 🥱🥱

Is there a law against bosses dating their employees? None that I know of. So, why blame her for a wrong she never committed?

nairalanda1:
✓ Nothing wrong, after all we are all humans, but the palaver reported above is why relationships at work are problematic.

She made clear that her boss asked her for a situationship, and because of the difference in power dynamics, she took the offer only to later on call it off, even as she maintained a good work record. What is problematic about that? 🥱🥱

Diamond098454:
maybe she slept with them to save her job

How can that be the case when she revealed her situationship with them has been u going since January 2024? If keeping the job had been the only reason, why would she have called the situationship off herself? 🥱🥱🥱

TONYE001:
✓ Having sex with one's superior to save a job is classical definition of stupidity.
Receiving sex from your subordinates to keep their jobs is wicked, inhuman, and plane stupid.

She never said anything about having sex to keep the job, though. Her performance report shows she was the highest performing in the team.

Maj196:
Leave me alone abeg, if you want answer ask ChatGPT

I take this as an admission from you of how utterly ignorant your original claims were.🥱🥱

AOresources:
✓ I know you...I also know you like wahala

I kow you too..you have a hard time answering questions regarding claims you make. I take it this means you realize the ridiculousness of the many claims you make by tuese acts of avoidance.

Maj196:
E be like say you be Single. Abeg go find man and leave me alone

So very predictable! Caught in a corner now you think that by attacking my person, the question will disappear? 🥱🥱

Again, what bulk do you claim that men do when single women and single mothers do the exact same, sometimes even more than married men do? 🥱🥱🥱

Maj196:
Even single women or mothers are fervently praying for a man that would help them foot those bills because they know they can't continue for long.

Stop with the nonsense delusions, abeg! 🥱🥱

We know that in every generation, at least 25% of the population -- both men and women alike-- live and die single (no marriage , no children) whether they pray or not. So, again, what bulk do men do when single women and single mothers do the exact same, sometimes even more than married men do?

AOresources:
✓ There is no time he won't carry the responsibility of marrying and fathering children..
No die no die go end up die..

Nonsense! 🥱

How will a man who is infertile need to bear such responsibilities except he chooses to adopt children talk less of a man who intentionally chooses to be single for life? 🥱🥱

Yes, everyone will end up dead someday by why should you start the process by your own hand and choices when Death already guarantees it will happen no matter what?

Maj196:
Men do bulk of it, women only contribute little to none

Stop telling this nonsense lie. What bulk does a man do when single women and single mothers do the exact same, sometimes even more than married men do?

TONYE001:
✓ The blame must go across board.
All parties involved in this story are stupid, silly, and without control.
The said lady and all the men that took her to bed are useless.

What wrong did the woman do in this case? What is wrong with a woman entering into a situationship with her boss and another when there are no laws against such relationships?
She revealed there that she did her job well, even at that, so what is this wrong you accused her of doing?!

kpankpangolo:
Time she would’ve used to improve her skills, she spent it rotating bedrooms with superiors. Unserious entity. If a hustle puts food on your plate, ensure to know it in and out.

That is exactly what she is doing by taking her story public and hopefully taking her former employees to court too for unjustly firing her. 🥱🥱

Daniel058:
✓ That can only happen to a man who maltreated his children while they re growing up

Those kind of men happen to be the vast majority out there even in Nigeria: only a handful of men turn out good fathers to their children. The majority take to blaming their misfortunes on their children when the truth is instead that they were never really there for their children when it mattered

DrFunmisticGlow:
Finally someone said it.
Bashing the other gender is easy to do, but sharing true knowledge takes courage

There will still be bashing of the other gender here, though. Read well! The narrative blames the other gender for not having strong pelvic muscles. 🥱🥱🥱

Dotherightthing:
My own baby brother too is seeing hellll in the hands of his wife in the UK.
The system there has placed the black man at the very bottom of the totem pole/food chain - lower than animals.

Indians, Arabs, Asians, even South American marriages dey OK for their but the moment your brother steps there has to label the system as being racist only against black man in marriage?

Daniel058:
you will know what you did to yourself in your old age if you refuse to change Now. You Better have Ur own child Now. In your old age if you don't have Ur own child, no body will care if U exist or not. Even your siblings children may care less about their uncle. No matter the amount of money you have, a time will come when those close to you will start taking advantage of you , after all u no get wife or a child. U better change Now And get married

Better go village go ask all those men there to tell you the honest truth. A significant portion of them die without their children or wives ever really paying much attention to them. Yeah, the situation happens to be that most of them die alone and are only discovered days later by visitors or neighbors. Family usually show up only when it comes time to bury their fathers and divide up the loot, if any.

Akinpedia:
. You’re absolutely right. The pressure on men today is real, and many are carrying heavy responsibilities in silence. From rent and school fees to providing for family needs, it can become overwhelming.
We really need to encourage more openness, support one another, and take mental and physical health seriously. No responsibility is worth a life.
May your colleague’s soul rest in peace, and may we all find the strength, support, and wisdom to navigate these challenges without breaking down.
Stay strong, my brother. We move, but we also need to take care of ourselves.

Why are you desperately seeking that men be pitied by women when all of the same things you describe above are also being experienced by women? Are these men imbe- ciles that they should be afforded special attention?