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FamilyRe: My Husband Of 10 Years Betrayed Me In A Way I Never Imagined… by Kobojunkie: 12:51am On Sep 26, 2025
Whois:
➜Your marriage was too peaceful hence you needed pepper. FYI Nigeria no be America. For here you'll be doing him a favour if you divorce him.
Stop lying to her! undecided
FamilyRe: My Husband Of 10 Years Betrayed Me In A Way I Never Imagined… by Kobojunkie:
bobydo:
➜After the divorce she will now be a side chic to another married man
Married Nigerian men generally treat their sidechicks better than their wives. So, a wives switching from the role of wife to that of a side chick is, in many cases, an upgrade, not a demotion, for such women. In the middle is the man who still has to support them either way. undecided
FamilyRe: When Is It Appropriate To Share Family Inheritance by Kobojunkie: 12:08am On Sep 26, 2025
Jacoban20:
I know someone whose dad died more than 25 years ago, leaving them some landed properties and buildings.Of the 7 siblings (3 ladies and 4 guys), all married, only one can be said to be really wealthy. And it's a lady.
The youngest of them is over 40 years old, married with kids.
The problem is that the first son has been tampering with the family money in his custody, and millions generated from rent as well as sale of one of the buildings can't be accounted for. And he's also owing millions of naira somewhere.
As the first son, most of the decisions over family matters has been by him in conjunction with the eldest of the 7 (a lady), which is how the family purse ended up with him in the first place. And they seem to override the opinions of the other siblings who are partly allowing it so as to remain on the good books of the eldest who happens to be the only one doing well financially. For instance, if any of them needed a loan from the family purse and isn't a favorite to them (eldest son and eldest sister), they easily find an excuse to deny person.
Now, my friend who is one of the younger siblings (over 40 years old) wants to call a meeting, ask for account of the monies unaccounted for and also ask for the inheritance to be shared, to allow everybody to control their portion by themselves.
But he wants to be sure that IT IS NOT TOO EARLY, and that it won't cause division in the family. Also how should the sharing formula look like?
I'll send him link to read all the comments. Please advise him. Thanks
. Inheritance is typically shared in the moments after the death of the one whose inheritance is to be shared. 25 years is 419, and the first son knows it. undecided

It seems the father did not leave a will, which is the reason why you believe the first son should be the one to share whatever it is you refer to as inheritance in this case. undecided
RomanceRe: As A Man, Have You Ever Felt This Way? by Kobojunkie:
FatherCHRISTMAS:
➜Have you ever felt like running away. Like just run away to where nobody or family can reach you. It doesn't mean you don't care, but things can get overwhelming
. What has being a man to do with it when this is something every human being, at one time or another, has to deal with? undecided
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 10:52pm On Sep 25, 2025
SisterAnn:
✓ Dem say 2 and half years old, you say newborn?
The story long... I been think say the kid dey about a year. lipsrsealed
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 8:09pm On Sep 25, 2025
[quote author=Myrepublic post=136917314✓ ]That's too early o. The death no pain her..
Even ordinary break up, person no fit just move on like that,when u really love the person you were with..
It's obvious your late bro was in the marriage alone.. I pray the baby is really his and not for who she wants to marry now[/quote]So long as she did not kill him, she needs to be looking for any means to ensure she can care for that newborn and also survive given the reality of life and living for baby mamas in that country. 🤔
FamilyRe: My Husband Of 10 Years Betrayed Me In A Way I Never Imagined… by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Sep 25, 2025
lilvicky68:
Who will start taking care of her after the divorce?
Who was taking care of her before she married the man? Why must it be your concern who will take care of her after divorce? Is she a leper or a re-tarrd that she would need someone to take care of her? undecided
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 3:27pm On Sep 25, 2025
Ibkay32:
✓ Maybe you should read all your comments back 😂
Wéré ni guy yí sha 😂
Why? Because the death and eventual remarriage has to be neurotically linked back to the DNA of the baby that was not listed as cause of death? 🥱🥱
RomanceRe: America Has More Healthy Old People Than The Whole Africa Combined by Kobojunkie: 3:25pm On Sep 25, 2025
Commentor:
7 million people older than 70 in US.

54 Million people over the age of 70 in Africa.
Please post the source of the stats you posted so we can get a better picture than the one you attempted to paint here. 🥱🥱😂
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 3:21pm On Sep 25, 2025
Ibkay32:
✓ What we're saying doesn't correlate please
A man is dead and his widow is trying to move on. How does any of what you typed up as a response correlate? undecided
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 3:11pm On Sep 25, 2025
Ibkay32:
➜I tell you, make dem better do DNA
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DSS1335:
First and foremost, your family should secretly conduct a DNA test.
➜The manner in which your elder brother died is a mystery that must be ascertained spiritually
. Even if it turns out the child was not their brother's, what then? They can do nothing! sad

2. So the man did not die of complications, but mysteriously now? Because the woman is ready to move on? If say na man, you go also insinuate say na him kill the wife? huh
FamilyRe: My Late Elder Brother's Wife Wants To Remarry After Nine Months Of His Death by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Sep 25, 2025
MistyDense:
➜As a woman, I understand how lonely and traumatized she is. I perfectly understand what she's going through but myself and my family feel it's too too early for this. We, her late husband's family didn't and have never interfered in her dealings. All my brother's properties are in her custody, the Businesses they co-owned are all in her care.
I thought she would have waited a bit much longer to do this, considering how much she seemingly loved her late husband. Meanwhile she's 38yrs old. Her parents have told her to wait for some time, but she wouldn't listen. But before making her intentions known to my family, we already suspected that she was seeing someone else, going by the way she was acting.
I'm now the next in command in my family after my elder Brother's death, but I'm also a woman and have limited powers. Even if I had all the powers, I still wouldn't be Able to stop her from doing what she wants. After All, she's older than me.
I'm really pissed now as she will be taking my niece to live with another man. She's marrying a man who already has two wives, making her the third. What should I do?
You have no right to try to stop her, though, since her contract with your brother ended with his death and she already spent more than enough time, out of courtesy at least, mourning him. So why is your family trying to lock up her life for what seems more like guilt you feel because your brother died? undecided

If she had been the one who died and your brother had decided to marry right after, with maybe the excuse of finding a new mother for the kids, would you have also had the same drive to stop him then? undecided
FamilyRe: My Husband Of 10 Years Betrayed Me In A Way I Never Imagined… by Kobojunkie:
Lamueregorda:
➜I thought I had a perfect marriage until one careless text message shattered everything. He was planning a secret trip with another woman, and I was just sitting in the house like a fool. I cried profusely as if tomorrow will never come. I need support. Since that day, nothing has been the same.
➜ Sometimes I ask myself if I will ever heal. 👉 If you have ever faced this kind of betrayal and you don’t even know how to move forward, my inbox is open.
So, your husband has been cheating on you, probably not the first time, and you want us to do what about it? undecided

Look, this is 2025, stop asking people to listen to you without you needing to do anything about it. If you are not ready to quit the relationship, wipe away your tears and get back into endurance mode! undecided

2. Heal from betrayal by a man who don see you finish see say you no go go anywhere, the same man you intend to continue living and sleeping with for what may be the rest of your life? The same man who might eventually infect you with an STD or worse, be the end of you? How do you heal from betrayal by a man you spend everyday is spent helping cheat on you? Wives like that enable their husbands' cheating by continuing to keep the home intact for them? Yes, such women are actually enablers of their husbands' adultery. I doubt women who stay back in adulterous marriages ever really heal—you cannot heal while clinging to that which hurt you.

Women caught in adulterous marriages typically transfer their aggression to others—their children, househelp, family members, etc. —and need to continually spin different delusions every day to help keep them burying their heads. In Nigeria, a majority of these women cling to religion in hopes that one day— though for most that day never comes —their magic god would magically cause a man who literally hates them to suddenly change his mind about them to show them love. grin
FamilyRe: Family Issues by Kobojunkie: 3:09am On Sep 25, 2025
Kcpounds:
➜A mother disowned her child for doing homosexual with 13yrs old girl
OK! So, what should we do now since you did not include the woman's name, her house address, etc.? huh
RomanceRe: If It Will Cost You Your Last Kobo Do DNA Test At All Cost (pic) by Kobojunkie: 3:08am On Sep 25, 2025
Can we all please resist all urges to create yet another rage bait thread on here? 🙄🙄
FamilyRe: Jim Brown Marries His 19th Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:38pm On Sep 24, 2025
Is he a billionaire? Oh, Ok! That more than explains all of that, then! undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Rapture may Occur On The 7th And 8th Of October 2025 (Julian calendar) by Kobojunkie: 3:41pm On Sep 24, 2025
AgentnairaIand:
✓ Are you normal
That question should be directed at the one claiming rapture is happening. 🥱🥱🥱
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Sep 24, 2025
Elect1neAtegun:
✓ f you don't want to be single forever, join them. Dem go stop las las.
@✓ Everybody get last bus stop, including the driver(you).
what is so wrong with being single forever that you are afraid of and think of as the worst thing that could happen to you? undecided

2. Everybody get last bus stop doesn't imply everybody dates or marries. For centuries nuns and monks have successfully lived and died celibate, lives more fulfilling than that of majority of the dating and married men out there. So what are you so afraid of in your own life that you need to try to manipulate the OP insto lowering her standards for? undecided
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Sep 24, 2025
Luckysbab:
✓ I don't smoke. But you don't like me?
I don't know how to help, as it stands.
She tell you say she dey look for helper? undecided
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 1:27pm On Sep 24, 2025
PulaPower:
✓ And what I’m saying is that most smokers have good character..
That means absolutely nothing here since what OP wants are men who don't smoke.🥱🥱🥱

Learn to respect her red flags! undecided
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 1:26pm On Sep 24, 2025
marlow1962:
You be smoker= problem
You be drinker= problem
You be womanizer= problem
You no be any of the 3= problem
You text her good morning= problem
You no text her good morning= problem
You buy data for her= problem
You no buy data for her= problem
You talk to her= problem
You no talk to her= problem
You refuse manipulation= problem
You no refuse manipulation= problem
You love her back= problem
You no lover her back= problem
You agree see her family= problem
You no gree see her parents= problem

It's so unfortunate sad
Stop painting your insecurities as all oher the place! As though you are owed a like by every woman you meet. 😩😩😩!

Go after only those women who don't think you are a problem and leave those who do not like you alone. 😩😩😩😩
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 1:21pm On Sep 24, 2025
PulaPower:
Smokers are one of the best man you can ever find anywhere as they’re always blunt and straight forward..
Stop lying! 😩😩😩

Smoking has nothing to do with characteristics that qualify the behavior of a human being. It is usually an act most adopt to ease nerves or anxieties, while others do it strictly for pleasure...nothing more🥱🥱🥱.
Christianity EtcRe: Rapture may Occur On The 7th And 8th Of October 2025 (Julian calendar) by Kobojunkie: 1:14pm On Sep 24, 2025
AgentnairaIand:
Look at the sky, rapture is now happening!
Know that help is available; no need to feel dejected. Seek therapy immediately! 😩
Christianity EtcRe: Rapture may Occur On The 7th And 8th Of October 2025 (Julian calendar) by Kobojunkie: 1:13pm On Sep 24, 2025
AgentnairaIand:
Look at the sky, rapture is now happening!
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 2:17am On Sep 24, 2025
Bendeco02:
The guy just said his mind as well. He simply asked the op "what's wrong with smoking" ? You're here writing epistle
I said my mind as well. So, what gives? If you can't stomach the responses, don't bother commenting at all. sad
RomanceRe: My Wife Always Quick To Leave The House After Argument by Kobojunkie: 12:48am On Sep 24, 2025
dbabs500:
➜Its been a rollercoaster ride, the bottom line of her own point is that, when she tried to walked out, why didnt i stop her, fight for her not to stump out, that it shows that i dont love her and if i dont, why then are we still together, I just weak sey which kind old manipulation be this when the FM dun cast....
She has told you her side of things, leaving it up to you to make the next move, I guess. Again, if you have decided on divorce as the best path forward, then let her know and be sure to get yourself a good lawyer so you can get shared custody of your kids. undecided
FamilyRe: First Wife Laments On Finding Out On Facebook That Her Husband Married New Wife by Kobojunkie: 11:34pm On Sep 23, 2025
armyofone:
➜High sex drive is the only reason a man with one peni.s can have two v.jina. Doesn't look right and should be stopped.
As you see me so, I no dey too blame the men anymore, because na woman dey wedge themselves into the lives of these men. For instance, I find it hard to fault the second woman when the first woman intentionally placed herself in a situation with a man in a system that centers him; he could eventually take on a second wife at any time without needing to even say a word to her about it. What did she expect the rooster to do? Not take advantage? lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 11:29pm On Sep 23, 2025
Snow2six:
What’s wrong been a smoker? What has smoking got to do with love?
When it comes to dating or love, people have a right to their preferences, and they do not owe you any explanations— no shalaye-ing necessary—for any of what they deem red flags. undecided

If you cannot respect a person's preference, then you should not even bother trying to enter their social space. sad
RomanceRe: All The Guys Asking Me Out Are Smokers by Kobojunkie: 8:29pm On Sep 23, 2025
Benoxvals:
..something is attracting them to you.. Maybe u have nicotine in your DNA
Nonsense! sad

We both know that, typically, men can be attracted to different types of women just because they are women and possibly available. They are human beings after all. undecided

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