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Euromillion200:
It can be reversed.

Why should he reverse it if his wife was aware from the get-go that he did not wish to have kids?

ledaman:
➜No right thinking African man would agree to this nonsense

And this is why African remains the cesspit of the world to this day... right-thinking African men are in fact the plague against Africa.

Wisewriter:
Tufiakwa! Removing what makes u a man because u want to run away from ur responsibilities.... Ibuzi mkpi

If you truly believe that your semen is what makes you a man—if you think what defines you as a man is your extra appendage or what comes from it when you get excited—, then you are wrapped up there in so many layers of low self-esteem. I suggest you opt for professional mental health therapy as soon as possible. Just a piece of advice! 😏

BlessingIsraelM:
➜When I say relationship, I do not mean romantic relationships only. Whether it is a relationship between a mother and a child, a woman to another woman, at her work place, family circles other human interactions. Everyone, whether male or female, need not be combative and rude if a relationship must be progressive.
➜For a relationship to be enjoyed and mutual, everyone is saddle with the responsibility of bringing their best self. And if you see respect in relationships romantic or not as slavery , that sells you out.
➜ I do not see where I said a woman need learn to be a woman, off course, being a woman is gender base and not a matter of knowledge or character. so, cut that out!
➜ You referring to people as lower animal give me a picture of who you are. I hope I am not being assumptive
➜ Humility is not a religious attribute, it's strength. It doesn't mean being a doormat. It is an act of self confidence without performance for validation from others.

1. When I also said relationship, I meant every relationship that out there as well.

2. Anything that causes one to reduce or diminish oneself is not respectful to one's being. It is damaging and needs to be avoided at all costs.

3. Attributing learning to only women in relationships is akin to stating she is to learn her place as a woman, is it not?

4. I instead refer to people who refuse to treat others as humans— humans deserving of equal respect — as lower animals.

5. Humility is actually of worth or value only in religious/traditional circles.

BlessingIsraelM:
➜She states that this article was focus on women, and there was no place she suggest slavery. Even in a normal day to day relationship with people, these attributes are needed for peaceful and progressive relationship, how much more in marriage?
➜ You are so predictable in your responses to threads. You simply want to sound defensive and not necessarily contributive. A woman who knows her worth is not afraid to learn, express herself without being combative or confrontational and she sees showing respect as a sign of strength.
➜ This way, the people she deals with even her husband, reciprocate. People will most likely treat you the same way you treat them and how you carry yourself.
➜ It's humility t stay silence and just learn, Kobo.

These attributes literally reduce women to no more than slaves in the name of keeping the peace and progress of relationships. A woman is a woman even outside of such demeaning situations.

2. A woman does not need to learn to be a woman. She was born a woman from her mother's womb and only needs to learn to grow emotionally, socially, and mentally to thrive both in and out of relationships, just as every human being out there.

3. If the people she deals with are not human beings like her, then they need to be correctly classified as lower animals; she probably should not be dealing with any such.

4. I am neither religious nor traditional.Your humility jargon means absolutely nothing.

SpencerForbes:
➜If you ask some of this ladies why they do it, they’ll tell you they are doing it cos men has been doing it since time immemorial. How logical does that sound??
➜Meanwhile their fathers and grandfather did it and their family still stood. Mind you a woman way of cheating is different from a lady’s way of cheating. A man can finish banging a prostitute and still end up going to meet his wife and still feel the same. But once a lady cheats, she start fantasizing about her new sex partner. That’s why they always end up going back to the new guy no matter what the husband does for them.

1. It seems you don't know or understand what logic is.

If one human being can do a thing and be praised for it, why should another human being be deprived of the right to do the same?

2. Now I am sure you lot are merely trolling cause I find it hard to believe a human being in this day and age would reason this way.

SpencerForbes:
➜You’re sure it’s reality or their own selfishness and the urge to prove that “what a man can do, a woman can do better.”

It's OK for men to approach relationships from a point of selfishness, but not OK for women to do the same? Why do you reason like this, abeg? Who do you this thing?

SpencerForbes:
➜Lolz 😂😂😂😂 comparing a man to a lady. Men are captains of the ship. Do you expect the captain to be inexperienced. When the passenger is more experienced than the captain, there’s bound to be chaos. Never compare a guy sexual life to a lady. That’s why you’ll always hear that a man of 25 years and a lady of 18 years aren’t mate sexually. So as a man you need the experience or that your experienced wife will “monkey branch” (...don teach me English 😂) to a guy more experienced than you. That’s the major cause of paternity fraud in the world.

Women, whom you lot like to brandish loyalty against, are not the ones complaining of paternity fraud? Have you noticed that at all? It's the loyalty squad that has been wailing up and down about women having their inexperienced women raise another man's— possibly another man of the loyalty squad too— child. What do you think that means? 🤔

You claim it is OK for a man to monkey branch but not OK for a woman to do it. However, reality keeps pushing in your face that both men and women can do it the same. What does that tell you about the ideas you continue to hold to?

SpencerForbes:
➜Men were always created to be polygamous bro.
➜ Check history and the Bible. Even some wives encouraged their men to get married to more wives like Sarah. Just that now, we can’t manage it any longer.
➜ Just imagine if a husband and a wife cheats, who will get disgraced the more Women can’t and weren’t created to compete with men.

The sad part of all of this is that the book, the bible, says absolutely nothing of what you lot go around accusing it of.

2. History has it instead that women have equally been polyamorous, the same as men. Homosexuality has also always been around in most civilizations.

3. So, because man-centered societies tend to pour out venom on women, that means women are not polygamous? 😏😏😏😏

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Villa12:
So loyalty are meant for only ladies?

You dey mind dem?🥱🥱🥱

Na only when for ladies dem dey brandish loyalty as a weapon against. For a man, loyalty is not even celebrated. Imagine these tiny-brained elements attempting to force rules on women that make no sense or benefit them in the long run, and then get angered when they realize women aren't eejits who would live their lives by the brain farts of immature and incompetent humans. 🙄🙄

engrchykae:
I have seen men perish because of manipulative women.
Whatever she meant by the statement that she and the children are suffering is better left to her interpretation.
For God's sake everybody is suffering,Tinubu is the president,not the innocent man.

Stop with the manipulation tactics yourself. Admit you are wrong in your baseless assertions presented as conclusions.

jaszplus12:
➜Thanks for the encouraging words. Yes the deception was high. And yes, we later realised he was raised poorly and needs consent from his older sisters to do anything...in fact all his older sisters are either out of marriage or nearly out of it! Meanwhile their parents marriage lasted till old age!! What an irony

It is better to have a short 1-year marriage filled with happiness than an 8/50-or-100-year marriage fraught with suffering, misery, and/or regret.

His older sister was probably happier than his wife was in her marriage. Think about that and consider that quality of life and living is never measured in how long one lives but how good one lives every moment of it, no matter how short.

IbnB:
➜How do you lead with humility? Notice how the write-up is studded with all the buzz words and fancy pseudo-psyschological expressions that don't actually mean anything and the 'wife' is reduced to the status of a pre-teen who also somehow has to be the one in charge in sum total
And of course things would go wrong but would never be her fault since she's simply pulling the puppet strings of simp-hubby whilst she is safely hidden out of sight Complete and utter gar_bage

Is the woman never not to blame for it all at the end of the day? It is pathetic!

Women need to stop raising their daughters to be wives. Imagine the OP asserting that a woman should be teachable, noncombative and respectful to a man without requiring the same of the men the woman engages or relates in a clear attempt to suggest women are human slaves to serve and bow to men.

Mother's need to begin doing better jobs because this future remains bleak for the African woman in life and marriage.

NigerianAngelo:
Muslim Convert saw that all muslims go to hell after death. "Every single one of them. Everyone that believes the lie."
6:30 mins

Which hell? Does she mean the Muslim hell or are they transported across from their religion's hell into the many different hells belonging instead to the religion of Christianity? 🥱🥱🥱

omooba969:
✓ I haven't mentioned that both of them don’t do it. I'm all about the drivers, and I noted that it is mostly business for most of you women (for material gains).

You are obviously trolling!😩😩😩

Fiscus105:
✓ Meanwhile, many of these useless husbands, the future wives saw the signs when they were dating but they still went ahead to marry them, who to blame?

Women are to blame when society --- traditional and religious leaders alike -- insist that women are able to marry and change even the most disgusting man into the man of her dreams simply by her being in his life and making sacrifice after sacrifice to the gods of marriage?

omooba969:
➜I responded to that part of your comment where you referred to honor as a deluded sense of self and of reality baked deep into thick layers of suffering and humiliation for just being born women. 🙂 An attempt to negate the female essence. I gerrit though.

Negate the female essence of something both men and women are known to do? Are you sure you are OK upstairs? 😏

omooba969:
✓ Haaaa! FEMINISM in full glare, kinda difficult to hide or disguise after all...lol
I gerrit now. 🥱🥱🥳

Why aren't you screaming honor should be something men ought to aim for as well, if feminism is really the problem here? 🙄🙄🙄

omooba969:
You notorious for arguing blindly though, or deflecting. Here's my question again 👇 -

Both do it! And it doesn't really matter.

omooba969:
✓ Hahahahaha 🤣, now it doesn't matter...lol. Talk of dodging accountability, one of the toxic traits.
You couldn't even muster up courage to bare the truth while responding to my question....hahaha

Courage to state that it is the same thing regardless of the benefit claimed by one group or the other? Or are you wanting us to pretend there are some invisible rules somewhere in the ether meant to guide how people choose to monkey branch in our day and time?

VaginaAcademic:
✓ just dey play dey form woke it's a man's world. In the past men used to marry multiple women but that has changed in recent time.

This ain't got nothing to do with wokeism as many of your own grandmothers and mothers also did the very same thing. I mean, how many of you can swear by a DNA test that you, in fact, are the son of the man who raised you, the one you call your father? 🥱🥱🥱

Women of the past did the same things.🥱🥱🥱🥱

omooba969:
✓ Between the man and the woman, who is more likely or well known to use diversification as a means for material gains?
Be honest. 🥱 🥱🥱

It does not matter whether it is used for material gain or absolutely nothing at all, the point is both men and women use it to at least their emotional benefit. 😩😩😩

IPG25:
The rate at which single motherhood in this century is so alarming,watin dey happen?
Though I can't marry a single mother

You can't marry a single mother, but you do not bat an eye when the single fathers who impregnated and later abandoned these single mothers strut around the non-single mothers they wed afterwards? 😏😏

Pupanchie:
➜Single mothers are all cheaters, they did still find their way to go back to where they have vommited and still eat there, I'm only pity those that didn't know anything about single mothers

Yet most of you, your very mothers or sisters were themselves abandoned either in marriage or before by men whom they were loyal to, becoming single mothers as a result? 😏😏😏

Dshocker:
➜While keeping your options open, the men keeps dumping her when they are done, because one way or the other, they will find out, that she is seeing another man. So who is fooling who?

Do women always find out when their boyfriends are dating other girls? No! In the same way, many men never find out their girlfriends were also dating other men. So, let's stop fooling ourselves with these ridiculous conclusions about how men always find out when women play the same games on them. 🙄🙄🙄

omooba969:
➜To have a boyfriend and still giving your number out is actually a business model for these girls. It is called diversification.

It is a model that applies to all genders. Men do it too... diversification, a form of monkey branching, I mean. 🥱🥱🥱

VaginaAcademic:
I always laugh when they're discussing about guys they dated. They think they are dating different guys not accepting the fact that they're into prostitution

You mean like when guys date different girls, they are actually into man-wh0ring, aka prostitution, as well?

ogascomax:
➜What if the boyfriend is the husband that she isn't aware of. That's why my intentions are always clear. I enter every relationship for marriage.

You mean like what if the girlfriend of a man is the wife that a man isn't aware of? These kain yeye questions are supposed to come with a penalty of at least 10 lashes of the cane! Which kain yeye question is this one?

Since time immemorial, people have engaged in relationships merely for the sake of having fun or wiling away time; no law exists against such. If marriage is your goal in every relationship, something I highly doubt by the way, that one na your own cup of tea.

SpencerForbes:
➜How do ladies manage to share the same energy among all of them. And I’m very sure there’s one she loves than the rest.

It is the same way men who cheat can share the same energy among all of their partners. Energy no know gender at all!