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Wananonly:
➜My fault bro. My fault. I meant to say I'll continue to make sure all relationships remain transactional

SenecaTheYonger:
As she cheat with you that’s how she’ll also cheat on you

Morbeta11:
➜https://x.com/ChuksEricE/status/1964642102845030562?t=icmzlo_nYSqdI-xPHrQQeQ&s=08
Previous threads
https://www.nairaland.com/8434842/anambra-leaked-sextape-lets-talk
https://www.nairaland.com/8499092/iichie-obiora-chinasa-set-wed

Wananonly:
Alright bro. I'll definitely stop saying it. And definitely start make relationships transactional from now on.

Holluwhakemmy:
I knew you already check my comment on the thread created for you about being a Man or woman

Holluwhakemmy:
➜There's a time for everything. Man proposes but God disposes

ChildOfDoom:
➜So I read of a guy who was caught recently and arrested for killing his girlfriend who broke his heart two years ago. A soul was lost just like that. The accused LINTEX, will have to serve life imprisonment and be deprived of priceless freedom. Who do people say after a relationship that they were 'used and dumped'. I think we should start seeing relationships as a transaction and not a do-or-die affair. What I mean is, get the most of a relationship while it lasts and be prepared for anything. Don't allow the relationship to be one-sided. Ladies, ensure the guy is caring/spending while it lasts and don't be too attached Guys, also ensure the lady is caring/offering sex and don't be too attached. Always look at the big picture. SHALOM

seetomorrow:
➜Can't you see how usel.ss and fo.lish you are by coming here to write how poor thinking you are

AVECDEO:
That girl is not helping the yahoo boy but killing him forever; it is forbidden to eat such food. Na hole you jump pass. Don’t eat what another man buys for a friend o

Distone:
➜I'm an introvert person not that social. The truth, I am not too good with women when comes to dating. For years I have been reading different topics on how to date, treat and not to be nice to women here on nairaland. At one time I followed the teachings. I was practically doing all what I was thought here. I saw some level of success with me, but later I stop doing those things. I'm not getting younger. I wanted to be free, be kind and nice to everyone. Ready to settle down with, the woman I can play with, a woman that will respect, not have fear for me. I want to be flexible with whomever i settled with. So went back to my former self.
The reasons am creating a topic today is because I have learnt life lessons with a female neighbor. There is this girl living close to me. I was too nice to this lady though I don't have any intention of dating her because I perceived she was into runs. But I was overly nice to her. I'm kind and sometime gift her money.I found out that im not of a value to her. She only comes around when she is stranded. Once she get the help she wanted she moved. She never care if all is well with me but she always comes to me when she needs help. There is a time I try reaching her through phone calls because it has been I week I saw her. I was shock when she was busing the call and she didn't return the call. From that day I knew the girl didn't rate me at all. I deleted her number and I also heard from someone ,that thesame gir was calling me a fool,mugu for spending for her. She said I don't have the guts to approach her. I didn't feel border for those things she said. After all, right from day one I did not have mind to date her. I only take her as someone that I can relate with. Even if she still comes around I didn't change my behavior towards her. I treat her well.
There is some thing i observed about this girl she has a boyfriend that is into Yahoo stuff. The guy does not send her at all. The guy treat her badly. But the girl loves the guy with her last breath. She will sacrifice for the guy I mean Bleep other men for money to fund this guy. The guy no send her papa. He treats her like animal. There is one day i came back from work in the evening. She knew I was around she came out and greeted me. She was shaking. I asked her what is wrong with her,she said she was not feeling fine. I had to give her money to buy drugs, bought food for her to eat. The boyfriend that has a car didn't show up to her. When the girl get well about 3 days later I heard her communicating with a guy on phone. The guy called her to give her money. She didn't have transport Fare, she came to me, saying i should borrow her 500 naira that when she comes back she will refund. I gave it to her. She went to meet the guy and came back with a pack of take away food. That's how my female neighbor called her boyfriend on phone asking him, if he has eating. The guy replied no, na so girl carry food go give boyfriend make he chop. Omo that night cold catch me. I felt sick. This was the guy that didn't come for, her when she was sick.
I experienced life teachings that day. luckily I got another job in another state relocated .since then this girl won't let me rest with calls.

budaatum:
➜I think there's a problem with where you've been looking, and I suggest you look elsewhere and wider. Perhaps start from inside your own mother's home, and come tell us she brought nothing to the family you were brought up in to.
As a point, a man and woman met at work. He was a lawyer and her boss, while she is an accountant. The work had a no married couple policy, so they decided the wife should resign. But when she told her boss, he informed her the company is doing a review, and would likely need accountants more than lawyers, so they reconsidered, and he resigned. The company eventually got rid of half the lawyers it employed.
Since then, like 20 years ago, the wife has been bringing home all the bacon, and the husbands contribution has been providing a roof, which he is able to do because his father has property.
They have 3 children that the man says bother him when he is watching Man U. He does not help them with their school work, nor engage with them much, which his wife has to do when she gets back from work. And when night comes, he wants to fuq, and she, being a Christian who believes its his entitlement, lets him.
They moved to UK last year, because the wife wanted to do her masters, and they now live in a house bought by her mother. She studies and works, while he still sits on his lazy ass watching Man U! Now tell. me she brings nothing to the table in marriage!

underpinna:
➜I lived 3 months alone before having a co tenant. We were fine until recently, she started behaving weird. Last night, I came back and noticed my tap turned off. At first, my woman told me that the water might have finished but I suspected that someone might have turned it off so I went outside and low and behold, the tap leading to my kitchen is turned off same as the one from the tank direct. I told my woman that my neighbor did that but my woman assumed neighboring children could be responsible. This morning I woke up to find the tap off again and I was like, na which pikin go come here this morning to disturb me, so I turned it back on. Within few minutes, I the tap was off again. I became angry and shouted to my neighbors hearing. We are just two in the compound. We do water pumping turn after the other and it's her turn now. The reason for her turning off my tap is very strange to me.

MsJackson:
➜Hello house. He is finally divorcing me and remarrying another. Please read my story on my profile. I'm weak. I just want to know my rights. We have a child together. Lawyers in the house, please advise. Thank you.

MsJackson:
➜Yes I spoke to a lawyer, but decided against pursuing the case because I now realized that the marriage wasn't worth fighting for. So I'm going to divorce him myself.
➜My family are preparing to return my bride price, at my behest. After that, then I'll properly divorce him. I refuse to leave myself in such situation.
➜ I have left him and his family to God. I was secretly praying that you'd see my update, so I was glad to see your reply. Your words really encourage me a lot. My God will bless you ma'am. THANK YOU.

favour32:
What of the one wey don act blue film tire, later go start white garment church. One simp, go begin die for her for that church.
➜ The next condition e go give the fellow na , e wan marry man wey dey use only torch light phone without Internet.

Qatar2022:
✓ You're not far from truth, they use all manner of tactic to attract their prey

ediko5:
I✓ it's no news that the ultimate game plan of a street girl is to retire to the church if the streets doesn't remunerate her with a money miss road finished man as a husband.
But older single ladies and single mothers are not just retiring from the streets to the church, over the years they are now GOs or Co-GOs of prayer houses in the name of Prophetess.
Some have used this fake prophetess title to lure innocent younger men into marriage while they continue their OS lifestyle. Some have used their prophetess title to break people's marriages.
So be careful out there when you see one old cargo parade herself as a prophetess.

Suicideboy:
✓ Depends both on the man and woman There are women that elevate their man to higher level ,today man day poor tommorow man is rich [b] And there are woman that depletes a man to the extent man no fit see shi shi[/b
➜Choose your woman wisely and bond with her after all two heads are better than one

Teymanhenry:
✓ Your comment has a lot of assumptions. You could have asked before concluding that she's submissive, whether the husband doesn't support her financially and otherwise. Most times it's the wives who send thier husbands away to the GF with Thier coconut heads

Walexy96:
✓ How did you just conclude a woman is submissive just because of what she wrote? ...

princeade86:
but what if it was the lady that bought the car from him?

engrchykae:
The wife must be a pain in the ass

seanwilliam:
✓
One thing I know is, no man in his right sense will treat a GOOD wife like shit. I have never heard of it and I have never seen it.
All married women claim to be good wives though

marlow1962:
✓ Ohhh so na so abi, for my house na em u wn dy do side dick. Lol women sha

Ganjafama:
You mean there is a "Christian Jesus" and the "original Jesus Christ of Israel" ?

marlow1962:
➜Make the side dick put them for house, paint her papa house, open shop for her brother, buy her papa boxers, take their last born in, pay her bills etc, even buy her the car self. abi you want my continue?

Ganjafama:
Is Jesus also a figment of Christian imagination?

Nnamdipapa:
➜Have you ever considered what the guy wants? Tried to see things from his point of view just for once?
Did you consider if you are constantly doing things or not doing things that make his life miserable? You see, expectation is like a two-way street and when you make someone unhappy and still expect loyalty from that individual? Come on

ledaman:
➜So from your analysis, she was right to have stood her ground not to allow her fiance sister to be amongst the bridal train. Who is the loser now?
➜ If she can't allow such close relationship during wedding, I guess she would shut the gate of her house when visiting comes.
She goofed big time.

Hhh4444:
✓ Continue deceiving yourself here...I pity any female that will follow what you say here hook line and sinker. The harsh reality of life go too humble the person. You are not wiser than otedola or dangote.
Dangote even added by saying they should keep their marriage life private from evil eyes and mouths like yours. That is the best advice they can get.

Hhh4444:
✓ with this your idealogy,it will be very hard to find a man to marry ooo. I just dey give you little secret.
✓ You are not wiser than otedola that advised his daughter to see her husband as her boss and not equal. Two captains on a ship will only lead to chaos.

ledaman:
Marriage is built on trust and love. There is no crime for her to agree for her fiance sister to be amongst bridal train. If fact, she ought to have being glad to be part of such feast.