₦airaland Forum

redcliff:
Do not tell a man to be loyal to a woman when he has money...aura for aura!

The man buys the woman with his money so he is not looking to be loyal. So why should the woman be?

mjuvey3:
✓ A whole lot of Nigerian men have never experienced true love....It's so sad and when you try to educate them,they see you as an enemy.

Dem tell you say na true love dem dey find abi na the one wey dem fit buy them need? Make una stop all this useless rambling all over the place. A person who wants true love knows it can't be bought but these men go around looking instead for what they can buy. And somehow you think the blame is to placed at the door of the women in this? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chilipepper:
✓ Woman seeks help after discovering that all her husband’s male friends are his gay partners.

How did she discover that his friends are his lover's though? If she really is ready to move on, she should match herself straight to divorce court and begin the process there. What other help does she need? The address or directions to the court?

Scaredguy:
✓ Update!!!!
I got a new apt, I married the of my life April 5th. I have been saving more now and i also reduced drugs too. We are happily married now. Its all about mindset. Thank you all for the contribution,God bless you.

See people raised on Disney movies and the lot! 😂😂😂😂

Bearfruit:
oga even if it's audio let us hear it!!

Because you be who?

Toymax88:
✓ For giving her a slap after she frustrated me

Assault is a criminal offense, and that there could work against you ever getting your kids or anything for that matter.

Schprobs:
✓ The story book u read call bible it’s the reason for ur entitlement mentality thinking u own a man even in the story bible those men with multiple wives find favour of God

If, according to you, the very same book gave the same entitlement to even men who has multiple wives, shouldn't it then follow that this entitlement you speak of has absolutely nothing to do with the book which you mention?

Bearfruit:
I have search and no video has shown where the children admitted anything about their father beating their mother,all we see and hear is what people are saying that d children said this or that.
Falsehood is real o.hmmmn

Why would there exist a video online of the interview of the minors for Pete's sake? Are you at all Ok?

BlackViper:
➜The president of the Nigerian Medical Association, Professor Bala Audu has stated that Nigeria’s rising population has increased the demand for doctors, causing one doctor to attend to 8,000 patients.
The NMA president further said that about 15,000 doctors had left the country in the past five years, adding that the exodus was continuous.
“If you divide the estimated population of 240 million by the number of practising doctors, which is 30,000, it will give you the doctor-patient ratio of 1:8000,” he said.

How many quacks, or should I say illegal practitioners, does the country boast of?

Toymax88:
✓ I was directed from the welfare office to either go to NSCDC or police station, so I opted for police station, she then asked me ask for a particular policewoman
Today I received a call from NSCDC, Agodi, Ibadan. My babies mama went there to report the matter. We spoke at length and the female cop later asked me to come on Monday next week. I told the cop to bring writ of summon (letter of invitation), the complainant should sponsor the delivery of the letter.

What did she report you for since she obviously is not there for the same issue that you are trying to get her for? If she reported you as a stalker or someone trying to kidnap her children, then I suggest you maybe keep back from her and her mother from now on. 🤔

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-omhedXjwoY?si=y5Cudzub1GNW0DX9

Sonnobax15:

She's pretty cha....

Dem revd. Father pepper soup

Reminds me of my banny who just visited Asaba recently for her sister birthday party......When she came back,na only her use her own mouth clear me story of how wayward asaba bannies are......That prostitution has become the order of the day over there.....I looked at her and told her straight up,that that's why she should value me and pray hard she doesn't lose me one of these days,..... cuz the streets aren't friendly to bannies especially now that yahoo boys have taken over everywhere

She is a kid, and you are old enough to be her father.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYwU3qyKW5c?si=wiA0MVmTsIsOz1qn

Cococandy, Armyofone... I thought about you guys when I saw this video on my timeline. She literally said, "...the bullsheet of not having no snacks...".🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I wasn't able to find the original video, but I thought it was hilarious and wondered if you all have seen it too.

Toymax88:
➜My instinct told me to quickly rushed down to their family house at BARIKA, UI second gate, just to check if the MIL was at home or not. The MIL, babies mama and the kids were no where to be found, the door was under lock and key.
Somebody directed me to other family members who are mainly women (the husbands are dead). I explained everything to them with anger and frustration written all over my face. The eldest of the 3 women told that they would see to it. I told them my request that all I wanted is the enrollment of the children in schools and I took my leave

Why in the world are you trying to get yourself a criminal record? Do you know that these people could get a restraining order against you bayi? You are just a baby daddy and can easily be considered a stalker if you keep running to the woman's home anytime you life. You had better continue dealing with the issue through the courts and focus on getting your answers that way.

Toymax88:
UPDATE
I just received a call from NSCDC office at Agodi, Ibadan. They asked me to come but I told them the complainant should give them to bring the letter of invitation to me in ILORIN. I want her feel what I'm feeling, I have to Ibadan 5 times and now they want me to come again. The NSCDC official was telling me that I shouldn't do that.
I told her I was stranded yesterday when I came.

You went to a police station to do what exactly? And you said NSCDC asked you to come do what exactly? I thought you had a court case? What did the courts decide? 😐😐😐

Uptownerd:
R.I.P!!! May the force be with you.

He was an African? Later someone from there go dey talk say that elders are wise and every other kind of African bullsheet! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

spayor:
My only disappointment here is why call men evil? When your sis is even worse

Nonsense! The man was the sister's accomplice, was he not?

DyshApp:
➜A Kenyan lady, Akinyi Hellen, has shared her story of alleged betrayal by her younger sister, whom she described as “jealous.” She wrote … “How do people deal with jealous sisters? This lady is my younger sister. We share the same mum. I’m 13 years older than her. So I’ve always considered her like my daughter “A lot happened during my teenage days and our parents separated. I decided to take my siblings and live with them. I educated my sister until she graduated.
My sister repaid me by sleeping with my man. That’s why I low-key hate marriage because part of me feel men are just evil people. Who does that? I forgave my sister but then her jealousy continued growing each day. She recruited her friends to hate me. On my face she acted innocent, very soft spoken but behind the scenes, she told people I was an evil sister.
➜ I started using sea salt October last year and by December my sister couldn’t hide the hatred she had towards me anymore. I had even paid for a vacation in Mombasa and I ended up leaving her there. Recently, she was all over texting the father of my kid asking for money and I let it slide. She made it a habit and I had to put a stop to that nonsense. This lady is now very salty trying to ruin everything for me.
When I say I don’t want kids anymore. I don’t want my daughter to go through the bullshit I go through in the name of siblings. What do I do to this lady? I’m posting here because I got no family to share this with. I’m a loner.”

1. See this one! Your sister literally saved you from marrying a lowlife. Why not attack the lowlife who cheated on you with your sister instead?

2. Leave your issues with your sister elsewhere, abeg. Focus on the person who cheated on you.

Iamworriedddd:
➜ She works. She does.

Your wife works and contributes directly to the family's finances, meaning she does not handle all of the chores and childcare in the home, right?

Esthered:
➜What of your wife? What's she doing to help you?

To help him without him equally helping her?

Iamworriedddd:
➜I had to open this account to put up this thread. I am in my mid 30s, I have a job I am managing, I am married with a 2yr old child. My worry is that, I am swimming in debt, from loan apps. I don't gamble, I don't womanize, if I borrow 1naira, its to care for my family (health, food, maintenance etc).
It has gotten to a point where whenever I get paid at the end of the month, its loan apps that take all, I will even need to borrow from another to pay others. Its becoming a demonic routine and I am truly scared. I got paid yesterday and right there in that instant, I paid loan apps, with repayments still pending. I was even chatting with my pension funds manager if its possible for me to withdraw my funds and use it to pay off all my loans, so I can begin on a clean slate. I am fed up, I don't sleep, I cry...and I need to keep coming through for my family EVERYDAY
I am tired, I am depressed. I am trying hard to ensure I pay off all these loans, I post my hustles on social media every day, I talk to potential clients everyday....
➜ I am fed up, I am praying God comes to my aid

. What work does your wife do, and how much of the household finances does she bring in? Also, do you equally help your wife with chores and raising kids at this point? Or are you in a strictly traditional marriage where the man is the provider while the woman submits? Are you and your wife already using family planning to avoid the mistake of another child in your situation?

2. There is no god coming to your aid. You have to be willing to right now think outside of the box.

Olumaeme:
Mr. Man, stop crying and go to court—present your case, show your reasons, and let the judge decide based on evidence and what’s best for the kids. That’s how civil disputes are resolved. People go to court every day to demand justice—it doesn’t mean they’ll automatically win. Even regular citizens defeat governments in court. So why all the fuss?
Also, let’s be honest—people need to take responsibility for their decisions. The person you marry is your choice. If the marriage turns out to be a mistake, own that fact. Maybe you didn’t see it coming or hoped they would change, but the decision was still yours. It’s like boarding a faulty plane without knowing—it might not be your fault, but the crash will still hurt.
At the end of the day, life happens. What matters is how you respond. Look at the situation, weigh your options, take the mature route, and move on quickly. Dragging the matter emotionally won’t solve anything—clarity, action, and responsibility will.

Help me tell them abeg! Nigerians no dey like to learn at all to better adapt to the situation and condition. Many would rather complain and blame everyone else for their own mistakes.

Ruke1991:
➜Those deeper life leaders problem cannot be solved by this teaching. It's somehow a mixture of hatred, unforgiveness, jealously and protectionism that makes them discipline, frustrate, blackmail and chase away their young ones who practice speaking in tongues, who are gifted in the prophetic or are are aggressively involved in leading others to engage in prayer. Those deeper life pastors have what bible calls cloak of maliciousness. What does it mean? They envy you but will not acknowledge it is envy. They are secretly afraid that if you set up a church, they could lose followers. But they never try to understand your mission first.
➜ Rather they look at legalistic rules within the church. They look at the church traditions to find what they can use to punish you and kill you. The best weapon is so called disciplinary actions. You could be suspended for up to one or two years in a row and while you are under suspension rumours about you being occultic, rebellious will be going round. The members in their simplistic and sanctimonious ways will start avoiding you for fear of the high handedness of their pastor not descending on them. Deeperlife today is almost like a cult with fearful followers of high handed pastors who are not obedient to scriptures despite that they preach it. Those pastors are more about maintaining their control over the people than anything else. Or else, how do you explain their actions? Where in every location of deeper life, those who speak in tongues while leading prayer during holy ghost impartation services are considered occultic or rebels and have to serve disciplinary actions. Deeperlife is like that everywhere but the more religious members try to deny the coercion and erroneous application of disciplinary action in settling personal scores by deeper life leaders. Pastor Kumuyi, you have tried. But at this stage nothing you can do to change those pastors, not even your teachings except you discipline them anyhow the way they discipline people. That's the language they understand

. The Deeper Life's problem was created by Kumuyi himself, who, for the longest, used many of these backhanded approaches to kick out those who did not adhere to his ideas and rules from the very beginning.

2. Disciplinary actions? You are indeed right that this organization is nothing but a cult. You indicating that others be punished for not following the news ideas of this man, after many decades of his rejecting those same methods, is all the more reason why anyone watching needs to see it for the cult it truly is.

DomPerignon:
✓ Salt is good for you just as cow milk is.
The only problem is that most people are descended from populations that never had salt regularly as salt was once a very expensive commodity and for good reason as well.
It's just like lactose tolerance with many of the world's population being highly lactose intolerant because their ancestors evolved without drinking milk. Having lactose intolerance doesn't mean milk is bad for you. It just means your DNA evolution never had exposure to dairy products as a food source.

Salt is good for you because it helps keep you hydrated and also a vital mineral rich supplement outside being a culinary additive .

Animals in the wild will crave salt.
The issue like I said is that most of the world's population today evolved without eating salt because salt was once a very expensive luxury item.
The Romans even paid their soldiers in salt rations mined from Roman salt mines using slave labour.
It's from salt we got the word Salary which is derived from Latin Salarium. The saying : "not worth his salt" comes from the days of the Roman legions to describe a recruit as not being fit for military service.
Salt is good. But like every other thing on the planet, do not over indulge.

What sort of nonsense is this? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Go drink sea water every day if you like and spare me this nonsense of yours next time. 😩😩😩😩😩

This man here is asking people to ignore medical advice that they probably cut back on their salt intake. You dey here dey sell me nonsense stories about lactose? Why una dey do this kain nonsense?

Noerection:
why did you delete your comment

Because Stewpid people like you kept misquoting it in support of what is even more stewpidity.

chi900:
➜ignore medical advice and start taking enough salt,
➜because according to the Bible, salt is the ultimate medicine.

This is an arsehole move, if in fact true. Why not ask your followers to drink seawater? Nonsense! 😩😩😩😩😩

This claim could only come from a scumbag since the Bible which he pretends to quit from never in fact indicates salt to be a cure for any ailment or condition.