₦airaland Forum

Toymax88:
➜But no smoke without fire!!!
➜ Like I said earlier, she's destructive. I have the pictures of all the household items she destroyed which I had wanted to present as evidence.

Nonsense! You have no legal right to assault another human being, and so you may end up having criminal charges leveled against you in this. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Well, you could have simply taken those to the police and had the police require she pay you back for the damage. You reaching out to assault her is a completely different thing entirely. You made things bad for yourself there. Stay away from her and your mother from this point on, at least or she might even consider reporting you as a stalker.

mjuvey3:
➜This message of yours is for the low esteemed, gullible simps we have in this country,not me.

You may refer to them as low-self-esteem gullible simps, but the fact is that Nigerian society places such people on a pedestal — men willing to stand as providers for women whom they, in return, are to expect loyalty from; the traditional system of marriage honors men who opt to live as providers, promising them the reward of loyalty and submission from the woman in such relationships. When such men are no longer able to provide— fail at their traditionally required roles—, this woman here is telling you what should be expected to happen.

yusman14:
➜It is true. It is something I have experienced many times. A lady will be selected ahead of a guy just because she is beautiful, meanwhile she isn't capable of the position.

Are you sure you are OK?😶😶😶😶

So, it does not matter to you that behind the scenes, such women are taken advantage of — some having to sleep with their bosses to remain employed, something she needs—since you have made up your mind to consider it an advantage?

Tzar:
Since these young stupid cats choose to buy love as the simps that they are… good luck to this weak generation! The old Gs ONLY buy love when they start having erectile dysfunction and need to compensate. But these foolish boys create the jezebels that will destroy them because of their weaknesses. A generation of simps just nauseates me.
They are the once that indulge characters like this dumb girl.

Jezebel was instead a very talented politician who knew how to use her husband's power to her benefit.

yusman14:
➜Women actually have better chance of job compared to men.
➜The lady just have to be beautiful and bursty, most companies will employ her, while the over qualified men will miss out on the job because he doesn't have ass and breast

That has never been true in Nigeria and is still not true even today.

➜ What you saying is that the sexual exploitation of women is an advantage for women over men? I hope you would think this way too if the one sexploited is either your mother, your wife, or your daughter?

JovialJune:
➜You see, NIigerian men are not ready for this conversation, they will never accept a balanced marriage because it's a taboo to their nonexistent self esteem and ego.

Is OP himself ready for the conversation, given the scenarios he posed in his own comment?

Nnamdipapa:
If my wife makes triple my income, I will make sure food is ready at home and actively participate in home chores.
If I bring all the money, then she does her traditional role of a full time housewife.

😂😂😂😂

Daluvy29:
➜Poor African mentality of ladies especially those who believes they are beautiful. You have hand too and brain, you can work and make money.

The traditional marriage system in Africa does not require that women use their brains and work and make money, though. So, why are you attacking women for something that is societally a norm?

profmallor:
➜But she just said the truth, and it doesnt apply only to seemingly run girls. it applies to all women. Your value as a man in the eyes of most women is tied to the size of your wallet. So try to be comfortable.

She speaks more to those in the traditional system of relationships in Nigeria, where the man expects he can buy the trust and loyalty of the woman. The man continues to do so for as long as she remains appealing to him.

SUNNINO:
Life is full of uncertainty, no man wish to see his family suffer

Yet there are 10s of millions of families suffering as a result of the choices and decisions made by these men who you claim do not wish to see their families suffer. What does that say about the men in question?

TouchNfollow:
➜https://www.facebook.com/share/r/15K9iz5GmY/

Do people still fall for this?

InfoGuru118:
An 18-year-old apprentice has allegedly impregnated 10 girls within a period of five months, including his master’s daughter and a salesgirl in Anambra State, News360 Nigeria reports.
According to reports, the young man was sent to learn a trade under a master, but within just three months, he had impregnated both his boss’s daughter and a salesgirl working in the same shop. This development led to his immediate dismissal from the apprenticeship.
The Anambra State Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Ify Obinabo, made this known during a live social media broadcast on Wednesday. Obinabo revealed that after the boy was sent packing, he returned to his village where the situation escalated. Within two months, he allegedly impregnated eight more girls in the community.
Obinabo said, “I want advice from the public because this one is beyond my capacity. This boy was sent to learn a trade at the age of 18. After three months, he impregnated his master’s daughter and the salesgirl. He was sent away, and two months later, he impregnated eight other girls in the village.”
The Commissioner added that the boy’s mother personally came to her office to report the situation. “According to her, anytime she sees a girl coming towards their house now, her heart skips because she’s afraid of what might happen,” Obinabo narrated.

What kind of useless story is this one? If he is the father of all 10 kids, then he should be made responsible for his part of the child support payment— each of the girls is responsible for the rest, of course — until each of those children also turns 18. His wages should be garnished in the case of non-payment. The boy should also be used as an example for every other girl in his village looking to have a deadbeat as a father for her child, since the chances are this boy won't become a decent provider to any of his many broods anytime soon.

Negroid001:
➜He will use you before he goes broke. This guy know wetin him dey do. If not, he for don pursue am comot for car since.

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

See this one attempting to sex-shame women in the year 2025... Africans, who do una this thing, abeg?

Ayatullah:
➜Greedy, uncultured and shameless Nigerian Lady opening her big stinking mouth. Man, what else do you want to hear before you know you have met a devilish lady? Drop her at the next bus stop.

Stop rambling! She is proclaiming the traditional relationship system celebrated across Nigeria with her chest. How does that make her the greedy, uncultured one you claim?

simpleseyi:
➜So women cannot make money to take care of children they carried in their womb for 9 months. ➜Are those women cursed with poverty or is it you who is poverty cursed?
➜ This is they type of children raised at broken homes

If a man chooses to have for himself a woman who cannot make money to take care of the children he has with her, is she in the wrong for accepting the full sponsorship offered her by the man?

2. Are the men who accept to fully sponsor these women equally cursed for marrying under what is considered the traditional system of marriage even today in Nigeria?

3. Nonsense claim since, as we speak, the traditional marriage system is still hailed by so many Nigerian men, mind you, not women, as the best marriage system out there. Let's stop shifting blame here!

wizod:
If I am the man, I will leave her immediately because I have already seen a red flag not to continue

So, long as the same man goes off purchasing the loyalty of the next woman, he is bound to end up with the same thing happening to him.

BItt:
✓ Women will leave you when you don't have money again, so guard your money jealously

Men who go buying women are not themselves looking to be loyal to them. So, why should the woman be expected to do what the man had no intentions of, to begin with?

redcliff:
Do not tell a man to be loyal to a woman when he has money...aura for aura!

The man buys the woman with his money so he is not looking to be loyal. So why should the woman be?

mjuvey3:
✓ A whole lot of Nigerian men have never experienced true love....It's so sad and when you try to educate them,they see you as an enemy.

Dem tell you say na true love dem dey find abi na the one wey dem fit buy them need? Make una stop all this useless rambling all over the place. A person who wants true love knows it can't be bought but these men go around looking instead for what they can buy. And somehow you think the blame is to placed at the door of the women in this? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chilipepper:
✓ Woman seeks help after discovering that all her husband’s male friends are his gay partners.

How did she discover that his friends are his lover's though? If she really is ready to move on, she should match herself straight to divorce court and begin the process there. What other help does she need? The address or directions to the court?

Scaredguy:
✓ Update!!!!
I got a new apt, I married the of my life April 5th. I have been saving more now and i also reduced drugs too. We are happily married now. Its all about mindset. Thank you all for the contribution,God bless you.

See people raised on Disney movies and the lot! 😂😂😂😂

Bearfruit:
oga even if it's audio let us hear it!!

Because you be who?

Toymax88:
✓ For giving her a slap after she frustrated me

Assault is a criminal offense, and that there could work against you ever getting your kids or anything for that matter.

Schprobs:
✓ The story book u read call bible it’s the reason for ur entitlement mentality thinking u own a man even in the story bible those men with multiple wives find favour of God

If, according to you, the very same book gave the same entitlement to even men who has multiple wives, shouldn't it then follow that this entitlement you speak of has absolutely nothing to do with the book which you mention?

Bearfruit:
I have search and no video has shown where the children admitted anything about their father beating their mother,all we see and hear is what people are saying that d children said this or that.
Falsehood is real o.hmmmn

Why would there exist a video online of the interview of the minors for Pete's sake? Are you at all Ok?

BlackViper:
➜The president of the Nigerian Medical Association, Professor Bala Audu has stated that Nigeria’s rising population has increased the demand for doctors, causing one doctor to attend to 8,000 patients.
The NMA president further said that about 15,000 doctors had left the country in the past five years, adding that the exodus was continuous.
“If you divide the estimated population of 240 million by the number of practising doctors, which is 30,000, it will give you the doctor-patient ratio of 1:8000,” he said.

How many quacks, or should I say illegal practitioners, does the country boast of?

Toymax88:
✓ I was directed from the welfare office to either go to NSCDC or police station, so I opted for police station, she then asked me ask for a particular policewoman
Today I received a call from NSCDC, Agodi, Ibadan. My babies mama went there to report the matter. We spoke at length and the female cop later asked me to come on Monday next week. I told the cop to bring writ of summon (letter of invitation), the complainant should sponsor the delivery of the letter.

What did she report you for since she obviously is not there for the same issue that you are trying to get her for? If she reported you as a stalker or someone trying to kidnap her children, then I suggest you maybe keep back from her and her mother from now on. 🤔

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-omhedXjwoY?si=y5Cudzub1GNW0DX9

Sonnobax15:

She's pretty cha....

Dem revd. Father pepper soup

Reminds me of my banny who just visited Asaba recently for her sister birthday party......When she came back,na only her use her own mouth clear me story of how wayward asaba bannies are......That prostitution has become the order of the day over there.....I looked at her and told her straight up,that that's why she should value me and pray hard she doesn't lose me one of these days,..... cuz the streets aren't friendly to bannies especially now that yahoo boys have taken over everywhere

She is a kid, and you are old enough to be her father.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYwU3qyKW5c?si=wiA0MVmTsIsOz1qn

Cococandy, Armyofone... I thought about you guys when I saw this video on my timeline. She literally said, "...the bullsheet of not having no snacks...".🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I wasn't able to find the original video, but I thought it was hilarious and wondered if you all have seen it too.

Toymax88:
➜My instinct told me to quickly rushed down to their family house at BARIKA, UI second gate, just to check if the MIL was at home or not. The MIL, babies mama and the kids were no where to be found, the door was under lock and key.
Somebody directed me to other family members who are mainly women (the husbands are dead). I explained everything to them with anger and frustration written all over my face. The eldest of the 3 women told that they would see to it. I told them my request that all I wanted is the enrollment of the children in schools and I took my leave

Why in the world are you trying to get yourself a criminal record? Do you know that these people could get a restraining order against you bayi? You are just a baby daddy and can easily be considered a stalker if you keep running to the woman's home anytime you life. You had better continue dealing with the issue through the courts and focus on getting your answers that way.

Toymax88:
UPDATE
I just received a call from NSCDC office at Agodi, Ibadan. They asked me to come but I told them the complainant should give them to bring the letter of invitation to me in ILORIN. I want her feel what I'm feeling, I have to Ibadan 5 times and now they want me to come again. The NSCDC official was telling me that I shouldn't do that.
I told her I was stranded yesterday when I came.

You went to a police station to do what exactly? And you said NSCDC asked you to come do what exactly? I thought you had a court case? What did the courts decide? 😐😐😐