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InfoGuru118:
An 18-year-old apprentice has allegedly impregnated 10 girls within a period of five months, including his master’s daughter and a salesgirl in Anambra State, News360 Nigeria reports.
According to reports, the young man was sent to learn a trade under a master, but within just three months, he had impregnated both his boss’s daughter and a salesgirl working in the same shop. This development led to his immediate dismissal from the apprenticeship.
The Anambra State Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Ify Obinabo, made this known during a live social media broadcast on Wednesday. Obinabo revealed that after the boy was sent packing, he returned to his village where the situation escalated. Within two months, he allegedly impregnated eight more girls in the community.
Obinabo said, “I want advice from the public because this one is beyond my capacity. This boy was sent to learn a trade at the age of 18. After three months, he impregnated his master’s daughter and the salesgirl. He was sent away, and two months later, he impregnated eight other girls in the village.”
The Commissioner added that the boy’s mother personally came to her office to report the situation. “According to her, anytime she sees a girl coming towards their house now, her heart skips because she’s afraid of what might happen,” Obinabo narrated.

What kind of useless story is this one? If he is the father of all 10 kids, then he should be made responsible for his part of the child support payment— each of the girls is responsible for the rest, of course — until each of those children also turns 18. His wages should be garnished in the case of non-payment. The boy should also be used as an example for every other girl in his village looking to have a deadbeat as a father for her child, since the chances are this boy won't become a decent provider to any of his many broods anytime soon.

Negroid001:
➜He will use you before he goes broke. This guy know wetin him dey do. If not, he for don pursue am comot for car since.

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

See this one attempting to sex-shame women in the year 2025... Africans, who do una this thing, abeg?

Ayatullah:
➜Greedy, uncultured and shameless Nigerian Lady opening her big stinking mouth. Man, what else do you want to hear before you know you have met a devilish lady? Drop her at the next bus stop.

Stop rambling! She is proclaiming the traditional relationship system celebrated across Nigeria with her chest. How does that make her the greedy, uncultured one you claim?

simpleseyi:
➜So women cannot make money to take care of children they carried in their womb for 9 months. ➜Are those women cursed with poverty or is it you who is poverty cursed?
➜ This is they type of children raised at broken homes

If a man chooses to have for himself a woman who cannot make money to take care of the children he has with her, is she in the wrong for accepting the full sponsorship offered her by the man?

2. Are the men who accept to fully sponsor these women equally cursed for marrying under what is considered the traditional system of marriage even today in Nigeria?

3. Nonsense claim since, as we speak, the traditional marriage system is still hailed by so many Nigerian men, mind you, not women, as the best marriage system out there. Let's stop shifting blame here!

wizod:
If I am the man, I will leave her immediately because I have already seen a red flag not to continue

So, long as the same man goes off purchasing the loyalty of the next woman, he is bound to end up with the same thing happening to him.

BItt:
✓ Women will leave you when you don't have money again, so guard your money jealously

Men who go buying women are not themselves looking to be loyal to them. So, why should the woman be expected to do what the man had no intentions of, to begin with?

redcliff:
Do not tell a man to be loyal to a woman when he has money...aura for aura!

The man buys the woman with his money so he is not looking to be loyal. So why should the woman be?

mjuvey3:
✓ A whole lot of Nigerian men have never experienced true love....It's so sad and when you try to educate them,they see you as an enemy.

Dem tell you say na true love dem dey find abi na the one wey dem fit buy them need? Make una stop all this useless rambling all over the place. A person who wants true love knows it can't be bought but these men go around looking instead for what they can buy. And somehow you think the blame is to placed at the door of the women in this? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

Chilipepper:
✓ Woman seeks help after discovering that all her husband’s male friends are his gay partners.

How did she discover that his friends are his lover's though? If she really is ready to move on, she should match herself straight to divorce court and begin the process there. What other help does she need? The address or directions to the court?

Scaredguy:
✓ Update!!!!
I got a new apt, I married the of my life April 5th. I have been saving more now and i also reduced drugs too. We are happily married now. Its all about mindset. Thank you all for the contribution,God bless you.

See people raised on Disney movies and the lot! 😂😂😂😂

Bearfruit:
oga even if it's audio let us hear it!!

Because you be who?

Toymax88:
✓ For giving her a slap after she frustrated me

Assault is a criminal offense, and that there could work against you ever getting your kids or anything for that matter.

Schprobs:
✓ The story book u read call bible it’s the reason for ur entitlement mentality thinking u own a man even in the story bible those men with multiple wives find favour of God

If, according to you, the very same book gave the same entitlement to even men who has multiple wives, shouldn't it then follow that this entitlement you speak of has absolutely nothing to do with the book which you mention?

Bearfruit:
I have search and no video has shown where the children admitted anything about their father beating their mother,all we see and hear is what people are saying that d children said this or that.
Falsehood is real o.hmmmn

Why would there exist a video online of the interview of the minors for Pete's sake? Are you at all Ok?

BlackViper:
➜The president of the Nigerian Medical Association, Professor Bala Audu has stated that Nigeria’s rising population has increased the demand for doctors, causing one doctor to attend to 8,000 patients.
The NMA president further said that about 15,000 doctors had left the country in the past five years, adding that the exodus was continuous.
“If you divide the estimated population of 240 million by the number of practising doctors, which is 30,000, it will give you the doctor-patient ratio of 1:8000,” he said.

How many quacks, or should I say illegal practitioners, does the country boast of?

Toymax88:
✓ I was directed from the welfare office to either go to NSCDC or police station, so I opted for police station, she then asked me ask for a particular policewoman
Today I received a call from NSCDC, Agodi, Ibadan. My babies mama went there to report the matter. We spoke at length and the female cop later asked me to come on Monday next week. I told the cop to bring writ of summon (letter of invitation), the complainant should sponsor the delivery of the letter.

What did she report you for since she obviously is not there for the same issue that you are trying to get her for? If she reported you as a stalker or someone trying to kidnap her children, then I suggest you maybe keep back from her and her mother from now on. 🤔

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-omhedXjwoY?si=y5Cudzub1GNW0DX9

Sonnobax15:

She's pretty cha....

Dem revd. Father pepper soup

Reminds me of my banny who just visited Asaba recently for her sister birthday party......When she came back,na only her use her own mouth clear me story of how wayward asaba bannies are......That prostitution has become the order of the day over there.....I looked at her and told her straight up,that that's why she should value me and pray hard she doesn't lose me one of these days,..... cuz the streets aren't friendly to bannies especially now that yahoo boys have taken over everywhere

She is a kid, and you are old enough to be her father.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYwU3qyKW5c?si=wiA0MVmTsIsOz1qn

Cococandy, Armyofone... I thought about you guys when I saw this video on my timeline. She literally said, "...the bullsheet of not having no snacks...".🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I wasn't able to find the original video, but I thought it was hilarious and wondered if you all have seen it too.

Toymax88:
➜My instinct told me to quickly rushed down to their family house at BARIKA, UI second gate, just to check if the MIL was at home or not. The MIL, babies mama and the kids were no where to be found, the door was under lock and key.
Somebody directed me to other family members who are mainly women (the husbands are dead). I explained everything to them with anger and frustration written all over my face. The eldest of the 3 women told that they would see to it. I told them my request that all I wanted is the enrollment of the children in schools and I took my leave

Why in the world are you trying to get yourself a criminal record? Do you know that these people could get a restraining order against you bayi? You are just a baby daddy and can easily be considered a stalker if you keep running to the woman's home anytime you life. You had better continue dealing with the issue through the courts and focus on getting your answers that way.

Toymax88:
UPDATE
I just received a call from NSCDC office at Agodi, Ibadan. They asked me to come but I told them the complainant should give them to bring the letter of invitation to me in ILORIN. I want her feel what I'm feeling, I have to Ibadan 5 times and now they want me to come again. The NSCDC official was telling me that I shouldn't do that.
I told her I was stranded yesterday when I came.

You went to a police station to do what exactly? And you said NSCDC asked you to come do what exactly? I thought you had a court case? What did the courts decide? 😐😐😐

Uptownerd:
R.I.P!!! May the force be with you.

He was an African? Later someone from there go dey talk say that elders are wise and every other kind of African bullsheet! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

spayor:
My only disappointment here is why call men evil? When your sis is even worse

Nonsense! The man was the sister's accomplice, was he not?

DyshApp:
➜A Kenyan lady, Akinyi Hellen, has shared her story of alleged betrayal by her younger sister, whom she described as “jealous.” She wrote … “How do people deal with jealous sisters? This lady is my younger sister. We share the same mum. I’m 13 years older than her. So I’ve always considered her like my daughter “A lot happened during my teenage days and our parents separated. I decided to take my siblings and live with them. I educated my sister until she graduated.
My sister repaid me by sleeping with my man. That’s why I low-key hate marriage because part of me feel men are just evil people. Who does that? I forgave my sister but then her jealousy continued growing each day. She recruited her friends to hate me. On my face she acted innocent, very soft spoken but behind the scenes, she told people I was an evil sister.
➜ I started using sea salt October last year and by December my sister couldn’t hide the hatred she had towards me anymore. I had even paid for a vacation in Mombasa and I ended up leaving her there. Recently, she was all over texting the father of my kid asking for money and I let it slide. She made it a habit and I had to put a stop to that nonsense. This lady is now very salty trying to ruin everything for me.
When I say I don’t want kids anymore. I don’t want my daughter to go through the bullshit I go through in the name of siblings. What do I do to this lady? I’m posting here because I got no family to share this with. I’m a loner.”

1. See this one! Your sister literally saved you from marrying a lowlife. Why not attack the lowlife who cheated on you with your sister instead?

2. Leave your issues with your sister elsewhere, abeg. Focus on the person who cheated on you.

Iamworriedddd:
➜ She works. She does.

Your wife works and contributes directly to the family's finances, meaning she does not handle all of the chores and childcare in the home, right?

Esthered:
➜What of your wife? What's she doing to help you?

To help him without him equally helping her?

Iamworriedddd:
➜I had to open this account to put up this thread. I am in my mid 30s, I have a job I am managing, I am married with a 2yr old child. My worry is that, I am swimming in debt, from loan apps. I don't gamble, I don't womanize, if I borrow 1naira, its to care for my family (health, food, maintenance etc).
It has gotten to a point where whenever I get paid at the end of the month, its loan apps that take all, I will even need to borrow from another to pay others. Its becoming a demonic routine and I am truly scared. I got paid yesterday and right there in that instant, I paid loan apps, with repayments still pending. I was even chatting with my pension funds manager if its possible for me to withdraw my funds and use it to pay off all my loans, so I can begin on a clean slate. I am fed up, I don't sleep, I cry...and I need to keep coming through for my family EVERYDAY
I am tired, I am depressed. I am trying hard to ensure I pay off all these loans, I post my hustles on social media every day, I talk to potential clients everyday....
➜ I am fed up, I am praying God comes to my aid

. What work does your wife do, and how much of the household finances does she bring in? Also, do you equally help your wife with chores and raising kids at this point? Or are you in a strictly traditional marriage where the man is the provider while the woman submits? Are you and your wife already using family planning to avoid the mistake of another child in your situation?

2. There is no god coming to your aid. You have to be willing to right now think outside of the box.