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RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:32pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Alaye, i don't read romantic books. Am not the type grin
➜ Am a human being and observe the norms in the society. I don't have to read book to know some things that is stearling at me as am in this world.
➜ Are you into relationship or single let me know where your problem is from?
Why would I want you to read a romantic book after clearly posting a link revealing the science behind the brain-chemicals that people confuse as love, many times? undecided

2. If you were observing norms, you would not be regurgitating the same farce that people did many ignorant, maybe even bothering of delusional, ideas people threw about many hundreds/thousands of years ago, as though it were the norm of today. undecided

3. Again, go read some books on human relationships and behavior in general, your brain, and maybe even critical thinking, to help rid you of these delusions you continue to cling to. undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:22pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Have told you the fact. Even that woman currently with you is dating you for a reason.
➜ Financial benefit or other things she found attractive in you. We men also love Beautiful ladies that is attractive which is lust.
➜ The women we trurly love are our Mum and Sisters same for women.
Every human being, whether male or female, dates for a reason. Be it financial benefit, an egotistical need, or whatever, every couple's relationship is entered into for selfish reasons. If you haven't already figured this basic fact out, then again, I suggest you stay away from relationships altogether. undecided

2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with entering a relationship for selfish reasons, be they financial, superficial, egotistical, etc. They are all valid reasons to engage in a relationship with others. undecided

3. Nonsense! I suggest you get off the internet and go bury your head in books until you have clearly rid yourself of this ignorance you seem to be working with. undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:18pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜You're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation. Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation
So when you're soft and not that wealthy, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for youYou're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation.
➜ Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation.
➜ So when you're soft and also not rich, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for you grin
1. Please stop feeding yourself these nonsensical tales in these numerous attempts to evade responsibility for your own choices. The problem isn't with the women but with those of you who walk around life expecting all women to be the same when the same you would never expect that all men are the same. That is one of the biggest reasons why you choose women who are obviously bad for you, only so you can then turn around and complain that it is women to blame when the roosters come home to roost. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. How old are you, since I am not sure where you get that these women define love in the manner that you do? It almost seems more like you believe that because you think a thing the it is what others think. I really suggest you spend some time reading books so you can get past these ignorant ideas you hold regarding women and dating, as clearly you are well on your way to heartbreak and possibly loneliness with those things you have in your head. undecided

3. Nonsense talk! undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 9:11pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Even a girk that initially loves you may later find you boring or weak if you're soft.
➜ What we call love most times is just lust and other attractive features both gender found in each other
1. It has nothing to do with your being soft but merely the fact that the feelings she once had have slowly faded over time. The exact same happens when a boy who initially liked her, after a while, no longer finds her appealing. And has absolutely nothing to do with the person that is no longer liked, but the person whose emotions are no longer as they were. undecided

2. What you are trying to describe are the brain-chemical induced perceptions that people confuse with love. Yes, brain-chemical-induced feelings fade over time, and, naturally, since the brain can only withstand that much mental assault from those chemicals for only a short while. undecided

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5CG_vEHrQE?si=5gUlbp1kqVAso9DO
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie: 8:52pm On May 08, 2025
Holluwhakemmy:
Hope you are still presently in the country? If yes, come and verify by yourself ire ooo
So, I need to travel across states to learn whether your claim is right or wrong? Are you volunteering to pay the cost of the trip and accommodation as well, then? huh
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie: 8:47pm On May 08, 2025
Holluwhakemmy:
The one installed in OAU campus is working perfectly
So, the entirety of OAU university is currently lit up as we speak by Solar panels? How many solar panels— square meters of space covered —are we talking about here? undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 8:40pm On May 08, 2025
Bendeco02:
➜Not only about not being into her. The guy is too nice and the type that don't shun a girl even when she did wrong.
➜ A girl may not be into you but will give you maximum respect when she is with you. She clearly don't love him, but the main issue is not regarding his presence as well which is totally bad.
➜ If the guy keep beeing too soft, he will continue having same issue with women. Women don't like soft men
1. What exactly is the point of shunning the girl in this case? She is not into him and acts on it. The most the guy would do in that case is walk away. So, why shun him as if she is expected to act according to his own emotional needs? undecided
undecided
2. Nonsense! She is not into you, AND she does not owe you any respect at all. There is no law out there requiring others to give you the respect you feel you require from them, so why do you think it makes sense to insist others give you respect as though it is something you are entitled to? Don't you realize how absurd that thinking is? undecided

3. Nonsense! He simply needs to try finding himself a girlfriend who is not only into him but also shares his ideas. That is the simplest, really. undecided
FamilyRe: My Mom Became My Dad | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY by Kobojunkie(op): 8:31pm On May 08, 2025
ShinjaWWest:
➜This the type of rubbish U always support...,No wonder you are always offpoint

Christianity EtcRe: A Lot Of Young People Are Angry, See Why! by Kobojunkie: 7:53pm On May 08, 2025
captaininiobong:
A lot of young people are annoyed if you mention religion to them. ‎Listen to this live story
So, it turns out your own pastor is also a manipulative arsehole? Whoopie... since it took you this long to. I hope you will discard him and move on from them all after this, then. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie:
duduade:
➜Exactly what I was going to type. His children will look for him.. but this is sad o
They will look for him after their youth has long been wasted away as ogogoro sales reps, right? After that, you expect those same kids to show love to him, abi? Why you people keep having kids continues to leave me befuddled. undecided
RomanceRe: Marriage Is Dumb On A Conceptual Level by Kobojunkie: 6:57pm On May 08, 2025
Kaczynski:
➜marriage is simply not worth it ,
➜although you find love and companionship, after courting for a long time and planning to have kids, you can proceed to marriage. courting should be long as possible, no need to rush somebody you'll be with for a life time
➜ a lot of people marry out of social pressure and society after marriage they born pikin like fowl without consideration of the kids they're bringing into existence
Bullsheet, given that the true worth of any idea is determined, not by those who forgo it out of fear or anxiety, but by those who embrace it and maybe even actually test it out for themselves. 🙄🙄

2. This is how you know people are just full of sheet! Earlier, you had said
⚉ Couples can't stay in love for the entirety of their lives
⚉ That only those in an artificially enforced arrangement— the stay in love part— remain in marriage after even the appealing period — the 5-year average, according to you — is over.

Given these claims of yours, what then does it matter whether one spends 1 minute or 3 years courting? Also, you think there is worth in marriage since you insist on this long courting period even though you already declared it of no real worth. Why not simply admit your commitment phobia instead of jumping around with these contradictory claims? 🙄🙄🙄

2. Unmarried individuals equally have kids like fowl all over the place. Are you now going to argue entirely against procreation? 🙄🙄🙄

Look, go deal with your psychological issues you seem to be having in your life due to relationship stress, and stop creating useless threads all over to further confuse already confused beings out there. 🙄🙄🙄

I recommend that you subscribe to and watch videos from the following YouTube links to help grow your mind in the meantime
https://www.youtube.com/@TEDEd
https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv
https://www.youtube.com/@Psych2go
RomanceRe: Marriage Is Dumb On A Conceptual Level by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On May 08, 2025
Kaczynski:
➜Why are we lying to ourselves that two people can stay in love for the entirety of their lives? It's ridiculous. All the stats support the reality that marriage, unless artificially enforced, just isn't appealing to people past like 5 years or so, on average.
➜I wonder if people are going to figure out how to raise kids without marriage and just see who they want to see. I think it'd be healthier in the long run.
➜ Last week my gf threatened to break up with me because i don't have plans of marrying her even tho I love you , why do women like complicating matters
1. I think what people mean when they refer to love is marriage is a reference to the artificial enforcements you refer to in your next statement. undecided

2. When it comes to raising kids, the more mature individuals involved in the process, the better. undecided

3. Your girlfriend has the right to break up with you since you are both not headed in the right direction. You are being unfairly cruel to her by suggesting she remain your girlfriend when you are not at all compatible — she wants marriage, and you don't. If you truly loved her, as you pretend, you would want nothing but her happiness above all, not yours. Nothing you spew can cover this obvious fact. Let her go and find someone else who does not desire marriage to frolick with. undecided
FamilyRe: Marriage Is About Balance, Do You Agree? by Kobojunkie: 6:19pm On May 08, 2025
bukatyne:
cheesy grin You love trouble!
Na lie I talk? According to OP, the woman literally has to make at least 3 times what he makes to get him to submit to doing the same set of chores she does for his measly one part. Does any of that seem balanced to you? 😐😐😐😐
Christianity EtcRe: I Opened One Eye After Miracle Prayers, Kumuyi Shares Story Of His First Crusade by Kobojunkie: 6:07pm On May 08, 2025
OriOko88:
I believe him
Of course, you will. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Christianity EtcRe: Health Ministry Slams Oyakhilome’s Salt Consumption Claims by Kobojunkie: 5:56pm On May 08, 2025
sinola:
Funny enough, i'm sure there are some health experts and certified health professionals present in his congregation when he was spewing this health trash... Don't be surprised that instead of calling their MOG to order, they will be keying in to his mischievous and misleading preachings Religion don finish us in this part of the world.Chai!
I wouldn't consider any of them fit to treat even my dog. angry
Christianity EtcRe: Health Ministry Slams Oyakhilome’s Salt Consumption Claims by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On May 08, 2025
do4luv14:
➜You might want to read that msg again, and see what the ministry Said, besides there is salt in almost all food we consumed, same as sugar,
In a practical aspect, you will not see the west consuming salty foods much, buh, can you say same for rice, semo, Eba, Fufu and the rest,
Mind you they contain certain amount of salt
Wetin you dey yarn, abeg? 😩😩😩😩
FamilyRe: Please Help My Son Make Decision by Kobojunkie: 5:00pm On May 08, 2025
NeneOfushi:
My son will be writing his jsce soon and they will be having 3 months holiday after the exam. I want him to learn a skill before they resume. He's suggesting repairing of phone and Tailoring. Which do you think wil be better? Your opinion will be much appreciated
Those are not bad skills to learn, provided he does so in an effective way. But what exactly is his goal? What exactly does he intend to learn in 3 months of doing either? Does he plan to learn how to make a complete outfit from scratch in 3 months, or does he plan to learn everything there is to learn about repairing phones in just 3 months? undecided
PoliticsRe: 24 Federal Tertiary Institutions Powered By Solar Energy – Minister by Kobojunkie:
TimeManager:
➜The Minister of Education, Tunji Alausa, says 24 federal institutions have been powered by solar energy under the “Energising Education Project” of President Bola Tinubu’s Administration.
Alausa, who disclosed this on Wednesday in Abuja at the Collaboration Agreement Signing Ceremony with the vice chancellors of beneficiary institutions, added that eight more universities have signed collaboration agreements to join the fourth phase of the project.
https://punchng.com/24-federal-tertiary-institutions-powered-by-solar-energy-minister/
Lies! Na today Nigeria become Nigeria? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
HealthRe: 2 Co-Wives Hospitalised In FCT After Taking Herb To Arouse Husband (Pic) by Kobojunkie: 4:51pm On May 08, 2025
FamilyRe: Looking 4 The Fruits Of The Womb,come In Here. by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On May 08, 2025
terrezo2002:
➜ Ha ha ha. Call me anything you like. My joy is that you cannot stop the work of God.
It is the brazenness of your numerous lies that gets me realizing there is no hope at all left for you lot. Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie:
appleous:
➜May God never barb me this style in Jesus' name. I wonder how you had so many kids with this kind of person. If you have no discipline, you might decide to sleep with just any kind of person, but there are some people you shouldn't sire kids with. Not to sound classist, but having kids with the daughter of an Ogogoro seller?
➜You laid your bed, you are now being forced to lie on it, and having nightmares. Cut your losses and move on, as it is clear you don't even have the financial capacity to fight the daughter of an Ogogoro and her mother. Move on!!!
This statement is classist as it is not illegal to work as an ogogoro seller in a country where people have limited options when it comes to making ends meet. undecided

2. He should abandon the kids altogether? sad
FamilyRe: Looking 4 The Fruits Of The Womb,come In Here. by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On May 08, 2025
terrezo2002:
➜The gate of hell cannot prevail. All your antichrist activities cannot stop the work of God.
Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩
RomanceRe: 18-year-old Apprentice Impregnates 10 Girls In 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 4:44pm On May 08, 2025
ala2222:
The boy is from umunya in Oyi local government area anambra state ,his Snr brother name is ala nwa otu
What does that mean? I hope his name has spread wide and far, so any silly girls thinking of getting a boyfriend would know to avoid him, please. grin
RomanceRe: 18-year-old Apprentice Impregnates 10 Girls In 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On May 08, 2025
Weknowbetter:
Apprentice? He is already a master
An obvious fool is a master to you? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
RomanceRe: 18-year-old Apprentice Impregnates 10 Girls In 5 Months by Kobojunkie: 4:39pm On May 08, 2025
CHAQUR:
➜Right or wrong...! Good or bad...! The young man has just proved to the feminists that, there is nothing like gender equality. May be still when I will see a female human species that will carry the pregnancy of at least 3 guys in a year.
➜Girls are gullible... Forget about their sharp fake artificial make up looks.
Why do you people reason worse than Tambolo? This boy basically ruined his life by having 10 babies in less than a year with 10 different gals, babies he will have to either spend most of his young years —at least paying half for each of them— or spend it running away, satisfying himself a deadbeat — his parents will, of course, have to bear the consequences. Each of the girls involved will only have to bear a tiny fraction of what he has to deal with, probably for the rest of his life, even in all of this. So, what do you claim he has proved, and to whom? Gosh! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. Girls are gullible, and this total eediot of a boy is proof of that? Are you people alright at all? Who do una this wicked thing for, Pete's sake? 😩😩😩😩😩😩
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 4:30pm On May 08, 2025
shinaola21:
➜🌺 Life is not hard man,I'll also call someone and talk to her romantically... Do me I do you..
You will ever be doing yourself in this. undecided
RomanceRe: A Woman That I Love Constantly Make Me Feel Bad by Kobojunkie: 4:28pm On May 08, 2025
Rhymesy:
How do you feel when a woman you love and cherish most constantly picks romantic calla in your presence?
It means she is not into you, and your so-called love is meaningless to her. If you have yet to realize that, for the blatant red flag it is, then I expect you are well on your way to ending up as one of the many bitter, rejected male specimens that litter Nairaland today. undecided

My advice to you is that you run away from her and don't ever look back. huh
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie: 3:54pm On May 08, 2025
Toymax88:
➜Update. I received another call today from NSCDC Agodi that they would come to my place of work to arrest me if I failed to come to IBADAN on Monday 12th May, 2025.
➜But the KWARA STATE command of the NSCDC (gender unit and tracking unit) were fully aware of the matter right from the beginning. I even paid #20k for tracking her when their whereabouts was not known. After 5 weeks of unsuccessful tracking, my money was refunded. I would find time to visit the KWARA STATE Command of the NSCDC
1. Why would they want to arrest you? For the assault charge your baby mama filed against you? undecided

2. Isn't this a different situation entirely from the case filed against you by your babymama in Ibadan? Are you confusing both things as the one and the same or something? undecided
FamilyRe: Looking 4 The Fruits Of The Womb,come In Here. by Kobojunkie: 3:48pm On May 08, 2025
Fraudsters! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On May 08, 2025
altteemy:
➜In his furst post, he mentioned sending money for school fees, school bag and shoes. He also mentioned that he would prefer making future payments directly to the school. With this alone, he has a good stand with the welfare department. Even if he is not given the kids, the fact that the welfare could compel his wife to register the kids in school would be a great step.
➜ If he leaves them now to chase more money, the harm of a spoilt basic education would have been done to the innocent kids.
You are right that he is the more competent parent in all of this but let's revisit the facts here, shall we?

⚉ OP himself chose this uneducated, unskilled woman as the mother of his kids. If he had chosen an educated woman who valued education, maybe this problem would have been halved right from before the children were even born
⚉ The uneducated, unskilled woman also has a mother who values the education of her own grandkids less than she does, having apprentices to work with her in her ogogoro store
⚉ Nigeria is a place where commonsense is rare to find - he could demand they be sent to school and even pay for it but in the end, we all know that the chances are higher that his request will be ignored at the end by the welfare department in question and the mother of the kids given what he has relayed so far.

I say all of this to posit that I have no trust in the Welfare department that exists in Nigeria today; that is why I feel OP should stick to the courts in trying to fight for custody first. undecided

2. The children are always the victims in all of this. embarassed
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie: 3:27pm On May 08, 2025
MufasaLion:
➜Stop this blackmail. He was showing care and he was denied the audience with his child. He stopped the financial aid just for a while just to show he is not a fool! You can't keep collecting money from someone and still be denying him the right to his "flesh and blood!" Stop talking with both sides of your mouth.
"Showing care" and this to his own flesh and blood? Why you folks bother with having children, whom you only offer these limited "showing care" exercises to... I don't understand😩😩😩😩😩
FamilyRe: My Journey To the Welfare Office, Onireke, Ibadan, Was An Excercise In Futility by Kobojunkie: 3:19pm On May 08, 2025
Sunmars:
➜While I went want to agree with you, these are his kids we are talking about right here. Children are like buildings. If the foundation is not well laid, there might be problems in future and then the opportunity is lost to correct it. All he wants is just to for his kids to be attending school. What kind of evil mother will resist this?
➜ My brother op, just do your best as God has enabled you. I wish you luck. Dont relent
. Most of you act like you don't understand the minds of the average Nigerian out there. OP had a child with a woman who herself was barely educated, if at all. The woman's mother is probably a stack illiterate herself who never saw value in the education system before and even now. How is she evil for resisting what she does not see as beneficial for her grandchildren, particularly given the reality of life in that country today? undecided

2. Why use the mention of this deity of yours to excuse what is nonchalance? undecided

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