₦airaland Forum

showboy2301:
➜At least you are now restored to factory settings. You are welcome.

showboy2301:
➜ You will understand it better when you come to your right senses. Thank you. Feminist isonu.

showboy2301:
➜I think I need to share this story so that we can all learn. I have a female friend, her husband died and she has kids. She told me that her husband was dating different women when he was alive and even got kids outside. So she said she's now alone, taking care of the kids after the death of the husband. Presently she's dating a married man, I asked why she's doing that since she also detest such thing when her husband was alive. She said the man gives her 100k monthly and pays her kids school fees. So she doesn't have to care about any other thing. Now, can you see that women will not want their husbands to cheat but they will cheat with another woman's husband if they have the chance.

TechToyin:
➜Thank you so much. Sir/Ma. I feel encouraged.

TechToyin:
➜So what do you advice is the way forward?

TechToyin:
➜The fact that plans are not enough is what is a scaring me. What if my plans don't materialize.

TechToyin:
➜It’s not pride, Sir/Ma. Everyone makes it seem like, at my age and with the fact that I’m a graduate, I’ll be a failure for going back.
➜ All my fellow corps members have big plans, and I’m just there.

TechToyin:
➜But it looks like I won’t be able to get the job that easily. I hear there’s a lot of competition in the graduate trainee programs.
➜ I don’t want to be hit by a hard reality.
➜ No more alawee. I don’t want to go back to my parents.

TechToyin:
➜ Good evening, everyone. I will be 24 years old by July, and I will finish my NYSC by August. I am a graduate of Biochemistry with a 2:1. I served as an administrative assistant at CRUTECH. I have worked as a freelance blog post writer and scriptwriter. I also play around with WordPress and write research papers.
Currently, the phone I'm using is on credit, and I have no savings. I can do data analysis, and I hope to apply for a graduate trainee program in a bank. My plan is to work for a year while I process my scholarship for a master’s degree abroad. However, right now, I am feeling overwhelmed and confused. I need advice—am I on the right path?

sparko1:
➜Close your eyes, raise your right hand, but it on your head! Repeat after, Who do me like this🙄🙄
A single mom is like every woman, they can barely love a man when they are single, [b]once they become a mom, the man is just a tool, something that has to provide or it becomes useless.[/b]
➜ If you want to test, just tell her you don't have money when she asked, see how fast she moves on.

lawrenzooo:
➜You're getting it wrong. She might be a single mum because she has bad character. But she doesn't have bad character because she's a single mum.

TechBaron:
➜I recently had an episode with one. Single mum of one. Her marriage lasted less than 6 months and the ex husband blocked her everywhere and has even abandoned their 5 year old kid.
➜ She tried enticing me with gifts and some dramaric nollywood style of love.. But deep inside, I knew there was something wrong with the lady, I sha wanted to see what made baba to run within a span of 6 months, and even abandoned his kid. Everything was going well, till she started showing me her true character. Omoh. I need not go into details... See ehn.. Run from anything single mother. Even the one that you made, just run. I repeat, RUN..

Fenrir:
➜Its nothing rude or abusive this time but....Hypothetically if a 70 year Nigerian man and 70 year old Nigerian woman wanted to get married. Their parents are dead and their aunts and uncles are dead, they have no cousins alive, so they are the elders of their families. Who does the introduction or knocking or whatever the tribes do? Who does the bride price talks? Who does what? Or do they just get married because they are old age pensioners and its not they are going to have kids or anything and all they want is companionship and to live together. That question is bugging the crap out of me because 2 old people close to me actually want to marry each other and I dont want to be rude and ask them directly

InDiscov500:
➜Why he should be me to rebuild the Bonds I didn't break?,why me beared the Consequences of covetousness her?,why he should be me to clean another's messes? I need answers to this question

dmgr:
➜Of course being a single mother isn't a death sentence, but make them sha avoid me.

fmlala:
➜Some single mothers too are something else

cutecommend:
➜Here are some things to deal with before marriage.
(1) Bad mouth odour if any.
(2) Bad body odour if any.
(3) Bad private part or vagina odour if any.
(4) Bad eating habit and table manners. Do not eat terribly in the name of forming comedy.
(5) Cheating tendencies or habita.
(6) Gambling.
(7) Prostitution tendencies.
( Bad dress sense.. Dressing like old woman, old man, primitive person e.t.c.
(9) Insincerity.
(10) Pride and selfishness
(11) Laziness
E.t.c

Amumaigwe:
➜Unfortunately, nobody wants to date them.

atoliman:
➜Being a single mum is not a death sentence or sentence to remain single for forever. Off course a single mum priority is going to be her children, what do one expect when you are dating one? To cook rice for you and buy you beer while her children are hungry. if you have sex with one, expect billings- It is what comes with the terrority. if you do not want date one, leave them alone. Let them find someone who wants to date them

Bendeco02:
➜Alaye, i don't read romantic books. Am not the type
➜ Am a human being and observe the norms in the society. I don't have to read book to know some things that is stearling at me as am in this world.
➜ Are you into relationship or single let me know where your problem is from?

Bendeco02:
➜Have told you the fact. Even that woman currently with you is dating you for a reason.
➜ Financial benefit or other things she found attractive in you. We men also love Beautiful ladies that is attractive which is lust.
➜ The women we trurly love are our Mum and Sisters same for women.

Bendeco02:
➜You're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation. Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation
So when you're soft and not that wealthy, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for youYou're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation.
➜ Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself. Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation.
➜ So when you're soft and also not rich, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for you

Bendeco02:
➜Even a girk that initially loves you may later find you boring or weak if you're soft.
➜ What we call love most times is just lust and other attractive features both gender found in each other

Holluwhakemmy:
Hope you are still presently in the country? If yes, come and verify by yourself ire ooo

Holluwhakemmy:
The one installed in OAU campus is working perfectly

Bendeco02:
➜Not only about not being into her. The guy is too nice and the type that don't shun a girl even when she did wrong.
➜ A girl may not be into you but will give you maximum respect when she is with you. She clearly don't love him, but the main issue is not regarding his presence as well which is totally bad.
➜ If the guy keep beeing too soft, he will continue having same issue with women. Women don't like soft men

ShinjaWWest:
➜This the type of rubbish U always support...,No wonder you are always offpoint

captaininiobong:
‎A lot of young people are annoyed if you mention religion to them. ‎Listen to this live story

duduade:
➜Exactly what I was going to type. His children will look for him.. but this is sad o

Kaczynski:
➜marriage is simply not worth it ,
➜although you find love and companionship, after courting for a long time and planning to have kids, you can proceed to marriage. courting should be long as possible, no need to rush somebody you'll be with for a life time
➜ a lot of people marry out of social pressure and society after marriage they born pikin like fowl without consideration of the kids they're bringing into existence

Kaczynski:
➜Why are we lying to ourselves that two people can stay in love for the entirety of their lives? It's ridiculous. All the stats support the reality that marriage, unless artificially enforced, just isn't appealing to people past like 5 years or so, on average.
➜I wonder if people are going to figure out how to raise kids without marriage and just see who they want to see. I think it'd be healthier in the long run.
➜ Last week my gf threatened to break up with me because i don't have plans of marrying her even tho I love you , why do women like complicating matters

bukatyne:
➜ You love trouble!