₦airaland Forum

Kingsempires:
oga you are funny ooo what is holding you from practicing your own 🙄😂

I do exactly that, and so should you. Stop going around thinking you have the say as far as what others can or cannot wear when. And stop that your god delusions are what everyone else ought to also subscribe to.

tommy589:
➜She owe herself the need to have a meaningful life,with or without parenting and schooling.Adulthood starts in Nigeria at 18. My late mother always hammer it in that government has no authority to compel her to have us under her roof if at 18 we don't sit up. What I know is that the fastest runner do not always wins the race Ecclesiastes 9:11

The gal literally told you her mother came in her room to pray for her, meaning the mother is not your mother. Why are you people unable to disconnect the experience of others from that which you have been saddled with by your upbringing?

You arm your children with all they need to succeed before you then allow them to leave once they are ready to leave. Suggesting that all are ready to leave home by 18 is to lead a deluded existence of your own.

tommy589:
➜I read again and i see no mention of her parents situation.How did you come about this notion the parents are struggling?

At 23, with no school, means she was not given it by her parents before she turned 23. Yes, parents are responsible for giving schooling to their wards before they become adults. That is a given!

LalastiklaIa:
➜When did you stop being a Christian? I thought you were a follower of the teachings of Jesus Christ
➜ and you admonish people to live like Christ instead of sheepishly following their pastors.
➜ So what are you now? An atheist ?

1. A follower of Jesus Christ of Israel is someone who believes and accepts everything Jesus Christ of Israel preached and declared, including His anti-religion stance. YHWH and His Son, Jesus Christ, made it abundantly clear that Religion is against that which is the Law of YHWH. Hence, for one to subscribe to Jesus Christ of Israel and His Father, YHWH, one would need to disavow religion.

2. According to Jesus Christ of Israel, only those who were born from their mother's womb of the blood of Jacob can become citizens of the Kingdom of Jesus Christ of Israel, i.e., born-agains are citizens in Jesus Christ;non-Israelites have no right or stance in the Kingdom of Jesus Christ of Israel, the Kingdom of God. My admonishments are directed only at those who are of the bloodline of Jacob, and not to those of you who cling to religion instead.

3. I can't be reasonably classified as an atheist given the statements I have made, can I?

tommy589:
Some are late starters in life, it is not too late to give your life a new direction

She tell you say na late start be her problem? Her mother came to pray instead of waking her up to ask her what she intends to do, implying the parents are unable to afford much. Yet, you think a late start is the issue?

Elusive001:
She is not even bothered with the most important thing in this life, the salvation of her soul. If she us not bothered about this number 1 thing, then she is right to say that she has no purpose. To be born again gives one the right purpose of life. It's only CHRIST JESUS can make her understand her purpose in life.

What a very stewpid comment this is!

ExAngel007:
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Who she dey tell abi na ask? No be her mother and father she supposed to dey query on all these things?

Love800:
What do you mean by the bolded?

Enough of your ramblings already! Let other's more intelligent beings respond.

LalastiklaIa:
✓ You don’t think Jesus is coming?

I am not a Christian nor do I Subscribe to any religion. What is contained in the book that Christians pretend to quote from is something completely removed from their many ---over 46,9000 of them --- delusions/interpretations.

barinedan:
✓ Humans were born naked, then you should be moving about naked. You shouldn't bother yourself wearing clothes at all

There are tribes in Africa, to this day, that move around butt naked. One of the only reasons why many people no longer walk around naked is because of human law in the lands. Yes, the law in many places actually impose covering on us. That and the weather and our sense of shame. 😀😀😀

LalastiklaIa:
➜ So they said only God knows the day Jesus will return. Even Jesus that’s going to come doesn’t know the day. There has been speculation by many people and men of God but they always fall short. So I’m thinking what if humans decide to go extinct and the way they can achieve this. A law is passed that every new male child born henceforth is sterilized meaning they undergo a minor surgery after birth and their sperm duct is cut. And once it is like that they can get erection and have sexual intimacy but can’t impregnate a woman. The population of the world will decrease and if this process continues for a 100 years we go extinct. Now of this happens Will God be forced :- \to reschedule the coming of Christ?
Let’s say He scheduled 07th July, 2825 which is 800 years from now. If this process is implemented by men and human population is on a very rapid decline. Will God be forced against his will to bring his scheduled date to say 19th October 2096. If yes does it mean mere men could actually thwart an Almighty God’s plan? Mere men forcing him to go against his plan.
Because for over 2000 years now. Jesus is coming Jesus is coming If this thing has been done in say 1800s humans would have gone extinct before the year 1920 and none of us here would have been born to die and face judgement and possibly go to hell.

I wonder if we will be able to get the responses of the over 46,000 different interpretations/denominations of the religion of Christianity, the ones responsible for the "Jesus is Coming" messages of the last 1600 years. 🤣🤣🤣

Tolu2024:
➜My dad dead when I was 7 years old my mom went through hell to raise us alone because she refused to re marry because of us. Now she’s enjoying. Many times I wish I have a dad

. Your case is understandable. You lost your dad at 7 and experienced a hard life afterwards. You fantasize that if your dad had not died, life would have been a lot better, even though the reverse may have instead resulted. Of course, you wouldn't consider that, as that hard jolt would only serve to shatter any images you may have created in your head of the reason why you had to suffer. But at least be willing to step outside of yourself and your private delusions to see that not all those who never lost their dads had a beautiful life without suffering, like you imagine you would have had.

Kelklein:
➜The World Bank has disclosed that a staggering 75.5 per cent of rural Nigerians are now living below the poverty line, reflecting deepening hardship in the country’s hinterlands.
This was revealed in the Bank’s April 2025 Poverty and Equity Brief for Nigeria, which paints a grim picture of worsening economic hardship, widening inequality, and persistent underdevelopment across much of the nation.
While poverty is widespread among urban populations, the report emphasised that the situation is significantly worse in rural areas, where economic stagnation, high inflation, and insecurity have exacerbated living conditions.
“Based on the most recent official household survey data from Nigeria’s National Bureau of Statistics, 30.9 per cent of Nigerians lived below the international extreme poverty line of $2.15 per person per day in 2018/19 before the COVID-19 pandemic," the report stated.

Coming from the NBS, I believe the situation was already so many times worse even then, and the 75.5 currently reported is likely still an understatement of the facts.

Deepspirituals:
➜I have Severally Read , Heard when Someone engaged in a Serious Accidents , People that The Victim Died but Came Out Alive, People say He escaped Death .. Off course He did because Such Accident Ought to Have Claimed his or Her Life. But Don't You think it's not Yet such Person's Time to Die ... Ecclesiastes 3 V 1 ....

Is death human that it would make mistakes?

id4sho:
Nyash na nyash

Religious monitoring spirits are not aware of this simple fact as they are driven by their libidos even as they continue to feign spiritual leanings. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

barinedan:
Any dressing that exposes your sensitive body parts is ungodly as a christian

The Christian unaware that every man and woman is born naked into this world, making dressing/clothing an issue of at least secondary importance to humans?

cutecommend:
Dress to glorify God.

To glorify god that made men and women enter into this life butt naked?

MrHandsome2013:
➜I hate my dad not because he was poor but he didn’t learn from his mistakes. He is not fit to be a father. Imagine father that never inculcated the spirit of love among his children. The hatred that existed between him and his siblings. He used it to train his kids in that way. Imagine being lucky having a father that bring his children together, tell them to stand for one another

Your mother allowed him to do all of this to her own children?

Tolu2024:
➜While some wish they have a father figure in their life. This life is unfair to be honest

No one I have ever encountered has ever wished to have a terrible person for a father. Life is not the problem here; terrible fathers/and mothers who give them to their children are.

Worryingly:
➜SMH. That she's my niece doesn't mean I'm her only surviving relative. She has a grandfather, who is also my father.

But I don't see why it matters that you are not, though? In your OP, you presented yourself as someone who loves this girl as a father would love his child. I see now that isn't necessarily the case at all. Seems it may be best to ask that you inform her grandfather of the plight of his grandchild in marriage. Anyways, is your father—her grandfather— aware of the fact that his grandchild is being bullied — mentally assaulted — by her husband? If not, please inform him immediately so the girl can get a relative to maybe come to her rescue in all of this.

Daniel058:
➜John 3:16 " For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son that who ever believe in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
➜ Before ascending to heaven, Jesus commanded his disciples to go into all nations, baptizing them and teaching them to obey his commandments (Matthew 28:19-20). This demonstrates his concern for the salvation of all nations, including Gentiles. The Bible clearly states that Gentiles can receive salvation through faith in Jesus Christ. Acts 15:10 states, "It is my judgment therefore, that we should not trouble those from among the Gentiles who turn to God, but rather write to them that they abstain from things polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from the meat of strangled animals, and from blood."

1. In John 3 vs 14 - 15, Jesus Christ of Israel, whom you pretend to quote there, made it abundantly clear that He would be raised up as a bronze serpent to the very same people whom Moses raised a bronze snake to in the desert. Thereby drawing a parallel line between the World that YHWH, God of Israel, loves and the World comprised of the descendants of Israel to whom He, YHWH, sent Moses to raise a bronze snake in the desert.

The nations, which Jesus Christ said He was sent to by YHWH, His Father, He made clear, were the Lost sheep of Israel - the bloodline of Jacob. That is what is contained in that book which you pretend you quote from.

So, again, why bother when the YHWH, the God of Israel, made it abundantly clear in the writings of His own chosen people that He is God of Israel alone?

Daniel058:
➜Sometimes I'm confused. Is the bible Telling us the truth about who God truly is? Is God truly all knowing God ,Does knw the future, is it true that he's omniscient God? If He is Why did he created Lucifer who is going to disobey/offend him?

What does it matter to you whether he knows everything or not? YHWH gave Himself the title of God of Israel, implying that He, YHWH, only answered to the descendants of the man called Jacob, to whom He, YHWH, gave the name Israel. I guess my question to you is, are you a blood descendant of Jacob, that you would worry about Him?

Religion don damage the brains of many finish!

Toymax88:
➜I don't think the court will grant me the custody of the children considering their age : 11 years, 7 years, 9 months. I always enjoy your input

. Let the courts decide what it will decide AFTER you have filed for custody and presented evidence/reason for your filing. Not many years ago, FFK filed and gained full custody of his baby in those same Nigerian courts after proving his wife was not competent to have him. Your case is different in that the woman in question is not a wife, but still, you could always argue that you are a more resourceful parent than your baby mama. That might help tip the court in your favor. I think shared custody would make sense in your case. I suggest you find and consult a lawyer first.

maasoap:
➜Suit yourself, who cares? Leave submission to housewives who cherish and love it, ....

Na only housewives dey cherish and love it. Husbands no fit? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

1Sharon:
➜What's right about it? She's a submissive provider. He doesn't work.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's a good one! 😂😂😂😂

Toymax88:
➜Thanks , I have taken down the picture. My request is simple and short. They should enrol the children in public schools, I will be sending you the necessary materials to the class teachers, this didn't go down well with the babies mama.
➜ I just want the children in schools, I'm not interested in the relationship again

. Unless the state they live in requires that all children of that age be enrolled in school, I don't see the meaningfulness of this request of yours. Plus, we are talking about Nigeria, where the court says one thing and does nothing at all. If you truly want your children to be in school, then you should be asking for custody of your kids so you can put them in school yourself.

2. Take your kids and put them in school yourself. I doubt the woman herself is interested in a relationship with you either, since she has been refusing your calls, and her mother also rejects your visits. If the woman does not show up tomorrow, ask the courts how to gain custody of the kids so you can ensure they are put in school, if not this term, maybe the next.

Goshen5:
➜ during the pregnancy he gives her money to take care of herself until she put to birth,during the child bearing he bought everything for the child bearing and pays all her bills.at a point the girl’s family got fade up and told him that since there daughter doesn’t want to change if he sees someone better he should go ahead and marry. which he did around 2022.then one day she posted suicide note threatening to kill her self and the child.which he involved police and they rescued her from the suicide. he later realized that she was using the pregnancy to extort money from 3 different men,telling them that they are the father of her child. he realized last year when he went to visit the child,I think he had a confrontation with one of the man and the man said everything, immediately he took the child for a dna luckily for him he was the father and he is the one paying the child fees, child clothing,house rent and he gives her 200k every month for the child’s feeding and she also collects money from the other men.
➜ Last year he gave her 5m to start up a business around 2023 so that she can be using it to take care of the boy which she went and bought a car that she is not driving but yet he is still giving her the 200k every month. one of the said father is threatening that if he doesn’t have the child no body will that when he comes back to Nigeria that heaven will get loose because he stay in America and this guy threatening all this, his cousin is living with her and the child because the said cousin begged her that he is having a house issue.
➜And my friend has never been disturbed because of the age limit,his child just clocked 4 years you know considering Nigerian rigorous court processes,but now we realized that she smokes loud and all manner of smoke in the child’s presence and bring different men to the house and also sleeps with women in the same house,that is she practices lesbianism and we are afraid she would influence the little child and my friend has video evidences of all this practices and the evil she does and also has a chat she had with different men where she was telling them that they are the father of the child and why they should send money for the child’s upkeep.
➜ Sometimes the school authority will call my friend that the child is still in school and once my friend calls his wife she will immediately run to go and pick the child and most times the child goes to school from his house and is the wife that normally take her own child and the boy to school. his fear now is this,her younger sister that was staying with her always call my friend to go and retrieve his child before she spoil him,because of her attitude her people came and carried their younger sister staying with her and little girl always tell my friend how her elder sister brings in different girls and men to sleep in there house and the girl should be about 12 or 13 years old.so he is thinking of involving human right and his wife said he should try and retrieve the child before things go bad because his wife loves the child the way she loves her own son.

Why blame the courts for your friend's hesitation? Why has he refused to legally claim the child and even fight for custody(even if shared) before now? He is not married to the woman, so he would need to claim custody to get the child admitted as his own. And according to you, your friend currently has a wife now, which may be another reason for complications in this. So, what exactly does your friend want and why he has refused to go to the courts to file a suit for it up until now?

Toymax88:
➜Tomorrow Monday (5th May, 2025) is the date set for us to meet at the Oyo state ministry of women affairs and social inclusions, ONIREKE, IBADAN.
I just spoke with the officer in charge and she told me that the mother in-law didn't accept the letter of invitation sent by the ministry. She said that when an officer got to the address,she met with women but she rejected the letter of invitation, so the officer called his office (ministry) to inform his superior about the refusal to accept the letter and he was asked to give the phone to the "MIL". They introduced her to tell my "wife" to make herself available tomorrow at the ministry. I called my wife but she didn't respond to my calls, she's deflecting my calls. I called the officer in charge again to be very sure if these people will show up tomorrow, they ask me to come
My question is this What if they didn't show up? What's the next step? As the schools resumed last week, my children are not enrolled in schools, probably helping the MIL to sell OGOGORO in her shop. This is second week of RESUMPTION, out of 13 weeks that make up a term.
Considering the cost of transportation these days, I want to set out for the journey as early as possible. Kindly push to the front page, pls it's very urgent . Attached is the picture of the mother in-law, she lives @ BARIKA UI second gate (IBADAN)

You better bring that picture of that woman down since you are violating her right by posting it. You are not married to the woman in question, nor are you then directly related to the MIL, therefore, you have no direct dealings with her. She has every right to accuse you of harassing her.

Your MIL did not accept the letter because, legally, she is not obligated to accept any letter from the courts that is not directed to her. Your woman is the one the letter is supposed to be addressed to, and she alone is the one obligated in this. As for what will happen if she does not show up, well, that all depends on a whole slew of things. Wait till you get to the courts and hear what should happen next. You may be required to get yourself a lawyer and the girl too.