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Bendeco02:Why would I want you to read a romantic book after clearly posting a link revealing the science behind the brain-chemicals that people confuse as love, many times? ![]() 2. If you were observing norms, you would not be regurgitating the same farce that people did many ignorant, maybe even bothering of delusional, ideas people threw about many hundreds/thousands of years ago, as though it were the norm of today. ![]() 3. Again, go read some books on human relationships and behavior in general, your brain, and maybe even critical thinking, to help rid you of these delusions you continue to cling to. ![]() |
Bendeco02:Every human being, whether male or female, dates for a reason. Be it financial benefit, an egotistical need, or whatever, every couple's relationship is entered into for selfish reasons. If you haven't already figured this basic fact out, then again, I suggest you stay away from relationships altogether. ![]() 2. There is absolutely nothing wrong with entering a relationship for selfish reasons, be they financial, superficial, egotistical, etc. They are all valid reasons to engage in a relationship with others. ![]() 3. Nonsense! I suggest you get off the internet and go bury your head in books until you have clearly rid yourself of this ignorance you seem to be working with. ![]() |
Bendeco02:1. Please stop feeding yourself these nonsensical tales in these numerous attempts to evade responsibility for your own choices. The problem isn't with the women but with those of you who walk around life expecting all women to be the same when the same you would never expect that all men are the same. That is one of the biggest reasons why you choose women who are obviously bad for you, only so you can then turn around and complain that it is women to blame when the roosters come home to roost. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 2. How old are you, since I am not sure where you get that these women define love in the manner that you do? It almost seems more like you believe that because you think a thing the it is what others think. I really suggest you spend some time reading books so you can get past these ignorant ideas you hold regarding women and dating, as clearly you are well on your way to heartbreak and possibly loneliness with those things you have in your head. ![]() 3. Nonsense talk! ![]() |
Bendeco02:1. It has nothing to do with your being soft but merely the fact that the feelings she once had have slowly faded over time. The exact same happens when a boy who initially liked her, after a while, no longer finds her appealing. And has absolutely nothing to do with the person that is no longer liked, but the person whose emotions are no longer as they were. ![]() 2. What you are trying to describe are the brain-chemical induced perceptions that people confuse with love. Yes, brain-chemical-induced feelings fade over time, and, naturally, since the brain can only withstand that much mental assault from those chemicals for only a short while. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5CG_vEHrQE?si=5gUlbp1kqVAso9DO |
Holluwhakemmy:So, I need to travel across states to learn whether your claim is right or wrong? Are you volunteering to pay the cost of the trip and accommodation as well, then? ![]() |
Holluwhakemmy:So, the entirety of OAU university is currently lit up as we speak by Solar panels? How many solar panels— square meters of space covered —are we talking about here? ![]() |
Bendeco02:1. What exactly is the point of shunning the girl in this case? She is not into him and acts on it. The most the guy would do in that case is walk away. So, why shun him as if she is expected to act according to his own emotional needs? ![]() ![]() 2. Nonsense! She is not into you, AND she does not owe you any respect at all. There is no law out there requiring others to give you the respect you feel you require from them, so why do you think it makes sense to insist others give you respect as though it is something you are entitled to? Don't you realize how absurd that thinking is? ![]() 3. Nonsense! He simply needs to try finding himself a girlfriend who is not only into him but also shares his ideas. That is the simplest, really. ![]() |
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captaininiobong:So, it turns out your own pastor is also a manipulative arsehole? Whoopie... since it took you this long to. I hope you will discard him and move on from them all after this, then. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
duduade:They will look for him after their youth has long been wasted away as ogogoro sales reps, right? After that, you expect those same kids to show love to him, abi? Why you people keep having kids continues to leave me befuddled. ![]() |
Kaczynski:Bullsheet, given that the true worth of any idea is determined, not by those who forgo it out of fear or anxiety, but by those who embrace it and maybe even actually test it out for themselves. 🙄🙄 2. This is how you know people are just full of sheet! Earlier, you had said ⚉ Couples can't stay in love for the entirety of their lives ⚉ That only those in an artificially enforced arrangement— the stay in love part— remain in marriage after even the appealing period — the 5-year average, according to you — is over. Given these claims of yours, what then does it matter whether one spends 1 minute or 3 years courting? Also, you think there is worth in marriage since you insist on this long courting period even though you already declared it of no real worth. Why not simply admit your commitment phobia instead of jumping around with these contradictory claims? 🙄🙄🙄 2. Unmarried individuals equally have kids like fowl all over the place. Are you now going to argue entirely against procreation? 🙄🙄🙄 Look, go deal with your psychological issues you seem to be having in your life due to relationship stress, and stop creating useless threads all over to further confuse already confused beings out there. 🙄🙄🙄 I recommend that you subscribe to and watch videos from the following YouTube links to help grow your mind in the meantime https://www.youtube.com/@TEDEd https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv https://www.youtube.com/@Psych2go |
Kaczynski:1. I think what people mean when they refer to love is marriage is a reference to the artificial enforcements you refer to in your next statement. ![]() 2. When it comes to raising kids, the more mature individuals involved in the process, the better. ![]() 3. Your girlfriend has the right to break up with you since you are both not headed in the right direction. You are being unfairly cruel to her by suggesting she remain your girlfriend when you are not at all compatible — she wants marriage, and you don't. If you truly loved her, as you pretend, you would want nothing but her happiness above all, not yours. Nothing you spew can cover this obvious fact. Let her go and find someone else who does not desire marriage to frolick with. ![]() |
bukatyne:Na lie I talk? According to OP, the woman literally has to make at least 3 times what he makes to get him to submit to doing the same set of chores she does for his measly one part. Does any of that seem balanced to you? 😐😐😐😐 |
OriOko88:Of course, you will. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
sinola:I wouldn't consider any of them fit to treat even my dog. ![]() |
do4luv14:Wetin you dey yarn, abeg? 😩😩😩😩 |
NeneOfushi:Those are not bad skills to learn, provided he does so in an effective way. But what exactly is his goal? What exactly does he intend to learn in 3 months of doing either? Does he plan to learn how to make a complete outfit from scratch in 3 months, or does he plan to learn everything there is to learn about repairing phones in just 3 months? ![]() |
TimeManager:Lies! Na today Nigeria become Nigeria? 🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
Islie:They took the herb to arouse the husband? ![]() |
terrezo2002:It is the brazenness of your numerous lies that gets me realizing there is no hope at all left for you lot. Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩 |
appleous:This statement is classist as it is not illegal to work as an ogogoro seller in a country where people have limited options when it comes to making ends meet. ![]() 2. He should abandon the kids altogether? ![]() |
terrezo2002:Liars and Fraudsters, all of you! 😩😩😩 |
ala2222:What does that mean? I hope his name has spread wide and far, so any silly girls thinking of getting a boyfriend would know to avoid him, please. ![]() |
Weknowbetter:An obvious fool is a master to you? 🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
CHAQUR:Why do you people reason worse than Tambolo? This boy basically ruined his life by having 10 babies in less than a year with 10 different gals, babies he will have to either spend most of his young years —at least paying half for each of them— or spend it running away, satisfying himself a deadbeat — his parents will, of course, have to bear the consequences. Each of the girls involved will only have to bear a tiny fraction of what he has to deal with, probably for the rest of his life, even in all of this. So, what do you claim he has proved, and to whom? Gosh! 🙄🙄🙄🙄 2. Girls are gullible, and this total eediot of a boy is proof of that? Are you people alright at all? Who do una this wicked thing for, Pete's sake? 😩😩😩😩😩😩 |
shinaola21:You will ever be doing yourself in this. ![]() |
Rhymesy:It means she is not into you, and your so-called love is meaningless to her. If you have yet to realize that, for the blatant red flag it is, then I expect you are well on your way to ending up as one of the many bitter, rejected male specimens that litter Nairaland today. ![]() My advice to you is that you run away from her and don't ever look back. ![]() |
Toymax88:1. Why would they want to arrest you? For the assault charge your baby mama filed against you? ![]() 2. Isn't this a different situation entirely from the case filed against you by your babymama in Ibadan? Are you confusing both things as the one and the same or something? ![]() |
Fraudsters! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 |
altteemy:You are right that he is the more competent parent in all of this but let's revisit the facts here, shall we? ⚉ OP himself chose this uneducated, unskilled woman as the mother of his kids. If he had chosen an educated woman who valued education, maybe this problem would have been halved right from before the children were even born ⚉ The uneducated, unskilled woman also has a mother who values the education of her own grandkids less than she does, having apprentices to work with her in her ogogoro store ⚉ Nigeria is a place where commonsense is rare to find - he could demand they be sent to school and even pay for it but in the end, we all know that the chances are higher that his request will be ignored at the end by the welfare department in question and the mother of the kids given what he has relayed so far. I say all of this to posit that I have no trust in the Welfare department that exists in Nigeria today; that is why I feel OP should stick to the courts in trying to fight for custody first. ![]() 2. The children are always the victims in all of this. ![]() |
MufasaLion:"Showing care" and this to his own flesh and blood? Why you folks bother with having children, whom you only offer these limited "showing care" exercises to... I don't understand😩😩😩😩😩 |
Sunmars:. Most of you act like you don't understand the minds of the average Nigerian out there. OP had a child with a woman who herself was barely educated, if at all. The woman's mother is probably a stack illiterate herself who never saw value in the education system before and even now. How is she evil for resisting what she does not see as beneficial for her grandchildren, particularly given the reality of life in that country today? ![]() 2. Why use the mention of this deity of yours to excuse what is nonchalance? ![]() |
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