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Hermaphrodite2:
MY PROBLEM Many religion believe after life. Among all, which religion will surely make this heaven if heaven really does exists. Can't imagine the regret after so much suffering in this world and later realize that there's no after life or you have followed the wrong religion Please I need contribution

According to Scripture, what you refer to as an afterlife exists only to those who were able to acquire it while in this life. So, if one is unable to obtain one before death, meaning death is the conclusion for one's consciousness — one ceases to exist — how can one experience regret?

nikky5:
■ I am a Muslim convert. I had an unforgettable encounter with Jesus Christ. Prior to my conversion, I hated Him and His followers with a passion. When I finally surrendered my life to Him on the campus, the first person I prayed for was a dying herbalist a friend asked me to pray for. He was his father's guess. The herbalist was instantly healed by the Lord.
■ After that experience,I have seen the Lord instantly healed many people through laying of hands. I once walked into an hospital and saw a man who had spinal cord injury lying on the ground. I told his friends that the man and myself will both walk out of the hospital. These people abused and rained insults on me. I finally lay hands on the man and while praying dragged him up. The stood and with wobbled legs we both walked out of the hospital. His friends and I wept that day. After that,I have experience many healing miracles through the gifts of healings and miracles. There are none gifts of the Holy Spirit for baptized believers. Till date, God still heals the sick as promised in His word. I have also witnessed great deliverances too. God can use anybody for His glory if the person is genuinely born again. He is no respecter of persons.
■ In the end time, there will be lots of healings. Though I came under serious persecutions from my pastors then. But no man stop what the Lord intends to do. Without faith no man can please the Lord. Healing is real even as Jesus is REAL!

1. I hate to break this to you but you offered your life to Religion and not to Jesus Christ. The religious ritual of "offering your life to Jesus Christ" is just that, religion and nothing else.

2. Healings happen to everyone including those who hate Jesus Christ as well as those who don't even believe in a deity. So, to associate the experience of healing with having the Holy Spirit and Jesus Christ as if to suggest He came on you is mere religious garble, and nothing more. The Truth of Jesus Christ is instead that only those who are first Holy and then righteous can receive answers to prayers from Him. For this reason, Jesus Christ commanded His followers to seek first the Kingdom of God(Holiness) and God's righteousness to have all the promises and benefits of the Kingdom of God added to one. Anything outside of that is not Jesus Christ but the delusions of men.

Are healings from God? Absolutely! So, why do I say it is not Jesus Christ? Because Jesus Christ said the Father(not Him) pours out His mercy on all those even the wicked and the ungrateful. You don't even need to "accept" Jesus Christ before you can experience healing from God in your very own life. The healing offered through Jesus Christ is offered through His disciples whose work includes doing good wherever they go, nothing like what you see of the religious.

3. The end time described by Jesus Christ happened over 1900 years ago. There is no other "end time" to come.

Unseen:
■ I am going to reply you this once. What I explained has been in existence before colonialism... Talk more of any customary whatever. It's still at play till date. It's obvious you're looking for excuses for paternity fraud... So believe what you must

What you refer to as an excuse are laws that have been in place for almost 100 years and were put in place by your ancestors. Those same laws that allow you polygamy equally insist that all children born within the marriage by your wife are yours to care for and cater to.

The easy way to avoid all of this is not to even go near traditional marriage at all.

CuriousX:
■ I can't wrap my head around it.i feel like someone hit my head with a hammer. How come such kids/bastards don't become heirs/sit on the throne if it was designed that way?

The marriage laws are separate laws from those which rule as far as kingship in the various communities. The King and his noblemen decide who can or cannot be the king and this is on a case-by-case basis. Traditional marriage laws on the other hand are the same regardless of the situation or status of the individuals in question.

highbee02:
■ Is culture not different from law?

Culture is under customary Law.

highbee02:
■ Which culture supports raising a bastard?

Nigerian customary marriage Laws.

vickydevoka:
■ Women are the most gullible people on earth

Yet in Nigeria both men and women alike are submerged deep in the religious delusion. Can't you see past your dick to realize that delusions are not unique to any gender?

hansomb:
■ I don't know from which culture you talking about. Adoption is normal, but fathering a bastard that's not your sperm is another thing entirely different. Maybe you consulted the wrong ancestors. Mine don't behave that way.
■ If such a child is born into Royalty, he can never become king.

Look, even customary law is not according to your whims but according to the Law as set down by your ancestors, OK?

Under Customary Law in Nigeria, every child born during a marriage is presumed to belong to the man. So, as long as that marriage is in continuance, every child born belongs to the man. Now, if the man does not wish to father a bastard and all that, then he should altogether avoid customary Law unions. Otherwise, he is not a victim but one who accepted a marriage agreement that allows him polygamy while at the same time allowing the woman to bring into the marriage even children fathered by other men.

He may not be allowed to become king but so long as the marriage is not annulled, the law considers the kind the father to said child.

Namaster:
■ Any husband that tells you they eant to do a DNA test in the first place deserves to raise bastards. The only time your wife should know you did a DNA test is when she brings a bastard for you to raise as yours. Plus, any lady who has a problem with DNA test is free to fuuucck off. DNA results is like a certificate of fidelity. You don't get angry or offended with evidence that you've been faithful. Only whooores make statements like this. And it's because they are scared.

So long as the husband married her under customary marriage law, the same customary marriage laws that allow him to partake in polygamous unions, he equally is mandated to accept any and every child she brings in during that marriage as his own. If he wishes to reject any child she has during the marriage, he must get a divorce from her.

https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope

achimendy:
■ Why are you wasting your time replying to the rubbish he write up there. Some people always have excuses for bad behaviour.

What you refer to as an excuse for bad behavior was created by your forefathers, the same ones who also excused polygamous marriage for men only under those same customary laws.

Unseen:
■ Stop saying what you don't know. According to African culture, a man reserves the right to [b]ACCEPT or REJECT any child born by his wife that's not his blood. That's if the couples are traditionally married, and the wife got pregnant outside, it's the exclusive right of the husband to ACCEPT or REJECT the child. [/b] If the husband rejects the child, there's nothing anybody can do about it and vice versa. Such law was created to give room for impotent men to allow their wives get pregnant outside without the original father having claim to the child. It also gives room for women married to fill up the lineage of a dead man to get pregnant from random men without the men claiming the child because her husbands did not reject the child. The law was never for PATERNITY FRAUD.

None of what you claim here makes any sense given Customary Marriage Laws in Nigeria are set on the fact that all children born within a marriage belong to the man, irrespective of their actual paternity. Anyone who does not accept such terms simply needs to divorce the customary Laws of the land. Under customary Law, paternity fraud is a hoax!

https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope
https://ogboduogbeandassociates.medium.com/marriage-paternity-issues-presumptions-of-law-678a717fbaea

achimendy:
■ Let him tell him first, then we will know if it's customary or not.

Whether he tells his friend or not does not impact in any way what the law says. If the friend, does not like the conditions presented to him by the law, then he can always get a divorce and avoid customary marriage laws for good.

achimendy:
■ If the difference between your friend and his children is strong pls tell him, nothing kills a man fast as paternity fraud. Tell him to secretly do it. Paternity fraud is real.

It is only real if the marriage agreement was not sealed under Customary Law. Otherwise, the man is not a victim but in a marriage agreement that makes allowance for all children born within the marriage.

psalmsjob:
■ There's no laws or custom in yoruba that allows for married women to engage in adultery talk more of bringing children into her marriage but people engage in it howbeit secretly before they are found out oftentimes through legal "instruments" of the yoruba custom so that those not then mean because some "omo-ale" yoruba do it that yoruba custom permits it even just by what it's called you'll understand that yorubas abhor it.

Well, individuals may resort to that but the customary laws are not mapped along lines of individual prejudices and issues.

Anyways, read the following .... this https://www./yoke-paternity-child-born-valid-marriage-eunice-tolulope

https://ogboduogbeandassociates.medium.com/marriage-paternity-issues-presumptions-of-law-678a717fbaea

Livingstone124:
supported. Not for me and my unborn children.

You don't get to make the law for yourself. The same Nigerian traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way. If you do not want to accept the agreement according to your ancestors, the simple solution is not to be married in the customary courts but under the National marriage act.

hansomb:
■ Which st#$pid culture is that, from where ?

The same Nigerian traditional marriage laws — Customary Laws —that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

Omoapena:
■ Even if you're not the biological father?

Even if! The same African traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

LibertyRep:
■ Which particular part of Africa? Yoruba? Igbo? Hausa? Zulu? Bantu? Fulani? Which particular Africa culture?

The same African traditional marriage laws you bow to in Nigeria that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

afadi2410:
What nonsense culture?

The same African traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

psalmsjob:
Kare omo yoruba to ginadeoko.... However, I guess they practice that in yoruba culture back then because they need more hands at the farm anyways so any child born under his roof is his but again omo ale lo ko ti ile danu....

The same African traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions is the very same one that allows the woman bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

gigabyte13:
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Indeed! The very same African traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions are the very same one that allows the woman to bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

CuriousX:
■ Which Africa are you talking about? Definitely not the one I am currently living in

The same African traditional marriage laws that allow men to engage in polygamous unions is the very same one that allows the woman bring children from outside into the marriage. Your ancestors designed it that way.

Ashirioluwa:
■ That African culture is not for my home.

What he described is customary Law in most all of Nigeria. So if you choose to be married under Traditional marriage laws, that is what you accept as part of the agreement.

ogbe88:
U are not well. Quote me and kpeme.

He is actually very very correct. Customary/Traditional Marriage laws in Nigeria have almost always allowed for paternity fraud in marriage. Your ancestors designed it that.

ExudeLoveToAll:
■ African culture when it suits your narrative, do you do why African culture says? Example like those who are from South Eastern region of Nigeria, when a man dies only his male children are entitled to inherit his properties, you won't see that and support it because it's African culture. Some other climes kill people in order to bury their kings and give him a send forth to great beyond that isn't an African culture to you? Numerous examples around where you will never accept it because it is African culture....

What the one you responded to said is the case with customary law in Nigeria. Has been that way since the time of your fathers and remains the case for all married under customary law. Typically, It is Nigerian men who prefer traditional marriage over registry marriage given the polygamous benefit, not realizing they equally accept what they now consider paternity fraud by it.

Scholace:
a child born under a man's roof automatically belong to the child. If the child is grown,no one can lay claim on such child in the law court.

So long as the marriage was bound under customary laws in Nigeria, that is exactly the situation.

TheGift:
■ Which African Culture in particular? And that would only apply if they got married under native Law and Custom and not under Common Law and the Marriage Act. If they did both, and there is a conflict of laws, then the Marriage Act will take precedence.

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Wawelexy:
■ That's not what we are saying here, we are suspecting infidelity here, and that's not safe for the man. Let DNA decide

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Sleekfingers:
■ Which African useless culture? As a full-fledged Yoruba man....we have a popular saying... Ile ti o n ba toro, Omo ale ibe oti d'agba. My people strong frown against paternity fraud.

He is actually very right. Traditional marriage laws which most Nigerians hold on to make allowance for what you now consider paternity fraud in marriage. So long as people continue to cling to traditional marriage, they accept it as part and parcel of their particular marriage agreement.

MadeINchenzen2:
Paternity fraud is not a new trend with today's women, each time I see my friend and his kids I see the odd differences between his son and the rest of the kids... The boy doesn't look like his siblings or parents. Do I tell him to run a paternity check? Or I just mind my business?
What do you think? Suggestions and advice are welcomed, feel free to insult the OP if you can't help it. Thanks

You forget the details of your friend's marriage such as whether he married his wife in customary court— traditional marriage Laws — or at the registry.

surgical:
Jonathan was already doing 7000 before he left

Wait a second! So this 6100 is not in addition to what was previously available?

helinues:
∆ Hahahaha, how many people sell their lands directly in this century? How many landlords rent their house directly?
Real estate agents are currently the one handling land/house matter as they can easily help you to get the right documents from government without sweating.
So a God who has already acquired the land or owned it with the right documents can share the land anyhow

Only the one who owns the land is able to give it.

helinues:
∆ Yes, if they have already acquired it.or owned it.

Never met any real estate agent who gives out land, so i will ssy no.

helinues:
∆ As a real estate agent right?

Do real estate agents give land to anyone? I am afraid I am not sure I follow your meaning at all.