₦airaland Forum

ShalliFvckMe:
Imagine a girl telling me sex with her will cost me 30k and I must put on condom. I told her if I must pay 30k I must chop it fully Imagine you buy sweet for 40k. Come dey lick am with the sweet wrapper I block the mgbeke. Imagine the audacity

Nah! You are just suicidal and the gal clearly explained to you that she isn't. I am certain there are a lot of already infected ladies out there who would not mind you going raw on them for that price. Find and hook up with those instead. 🥱🥱

Concordant couple, meaning what exactly? She, too, was not taking her medications? I hope there are at least no children involved.

A grown man decided to have sex without protection, even after several opportunities to say no, and 20 years later, he is telling fantastical tales trying to make it seem he had no hand or say in the decision to have unprotected sex, over and over again? Na wa ooo! The kain specimens Nigeria still dey raise, ehn!

Anyway, how did he determine that the girl was in fact the genesis of his HIV infection? Or are we simply supposed to believe that the man had not been having sex without protection until that very night in the hotel back in 2005?

Are there any children involved? Is the wife currently also sick or is the man the only one whose needing hospitalization at this point in time?

Esthered:
➜What solution are you proposing in the interim?

Interim? Why an interim? Also, what do single mothers do when abandoned by their husbands or baby fathers? Why do you feel the children's lives need to be shaken up—upheaved— because of this? Why can't parent units just continue without necessarily transferring devastation to the children? 🥱🥱

Esthered:
➜ OP, if you guys had trained the 14 years old well, he can prep them for school and also his/herself.
➜ If you belong to a church, you can make arrangements for after school till you return.
➜ If your family isn't available to assist in the interim, liaise with them to get someone from your extended family who'll grown and will be a caretaker than hiring a nanny who'll be a stranger.

no child deserves to be made to parent his/her siblings. That cruel treatment is why many children go on to cut off from family members later on in life. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Many children, boys and girls alike, are sexually assaulted by people in your churches and mosques. Stop leaving your children with strangers. 🥱🥱🥱

3. A caretaker who will be paid for or someone whose life will be treated like trash, only for them to, in turn, abuse the children in return?🥱🥱

ThompsonJoo:
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Many young Nigerians who have grown enough to understand social behaviors and emotional ordeals are not comfortable staying with their parents during this break
It is already feeling like forever sharing a space with them for over a few weeks. They are running madly on their WhatsApp status and all.
Why is it so?
Are African parents toxic? Or African youths are just marlians

Most Africans parents are toxic and immature. 🥱🥱

This is disgusting to read. 😩😩😩😩😩

Saybal:
✓ Sorry bro for what you are passing ,don't take decisions in a hurry ,and don't let anyone guilt trip you that you are at fault . They are like dat. you have not done anything to warrant dat ,there is no love , is just a business transaction ,she has moved with the highest bidder.

But you are so sure that the woman is the problem? Cut the bull! 🥱🥱🥱

Truthseeker10:
You can continue the logic class with meta ai since You really need it as evident below. I would not answer you anymore since the original question was not for you. If you ask me anymore question relating to this matter, I would block you.

I can generally state that gods do exists since I am well aware that most humans worship other humans beings whom many eyes, nose, touch, and mind tell me that they exist. Does that help you some with your general logic? 🥱🥱

The OP was created by a Muslim. Here you are asking someone if God exists. Are you asking if Allah exists or are you asking if any of the Greek gods exist? Again , you need to be more specific. 🥱🥱

Buratashi:
✓ Have heard you, am wicked n selfish thank you . Sorry to say it's like your brain works anticlockwise. See the way you just turn the narrative

You literally knowing a baby will jeopardize your wife's career yet choosing to go raw with her while sure she is not on birth control is all my brain... Yeah, I get it! 🥱🥱

If it had been your career on the line here, this story would have been totally different, but since it is the woman's career...you see no problem in bringing an end to it as soon as possible. After all it matters for little to nothing to you, Mr. Backbone. 🥱🥱

Truthseeker10:
You need to solve your problem with logic as evident in the screenshot below.

This general understanding of God also assumes that what applies to the Allah of the Muslims also applies as far as the deities of the Christians and the gods of the Greek. So, is that the same general understanding you are attempting to push for here? 🥱🥱🥱

Truthseeker10:
✓ I never asked how many they were. The question is simple. Do you agree that a God exist?

You havs to be specific about the identity of the deity in question since one deity's existence does not necessitate not cancel out the existence of others. 🥱🥱🥱

Truthseeker10:
✓ Do you agree that a God exists?

A God? There are literally over 4000 of them out there. 🥱🥱🥱

Sheeeeet! Which of those pictures is the man and which one is this dead mother? I am scared. 😩😩😩

Buratashi:
✓ Have been her backbone right from day one infact I sponsored her education, trade as well before marriage.her dad is late so the idea of she marrying who doesn't care about her or her career is not even an option.
My fear is when the time finally comes to have a child I won't be hearing all these firing blank

Backbone trying to get her pregnant all while knowing she shouldn't for her career's sake. Sounds more like you hate that woman so much and are looking to bringing a complete list and to her career in the para military as soon as you can. 🥱🥱🥱

You remind me of the story posted not long ago of a pastor who revealed to his congregation how he used marriage and pregnancy to literally destroy his wife's dream at becoming a doctor in the abroad; this wicked man who presents himself as a pastor said he instead was he backbone because he allowed her get an online master's degree in microbiology instead, all while studying from their room somewhere in ogun state or so. 🥱🥱🥱

Just imagine being married to your literal worst enemy, abeg! 🥱🥱

APOPTOSIS:
✓ My sister, u don't have to marry since you are already having peace as a spinster. Do you want to gamble with your peace? Remain in your Fathers house, it's not a crime.
If men come around seeking for your hand in marriage, please make it known to them that you are married to your Father.
As a lady, you don't have to be married in order to find peace ?🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

Why would or should a man come around seeking the hand of a woman who has her peace, knowing he has nothing better to offer her? Isn't that the one of the Major issues even here? 🥱🥱🥱

For all we know, OP's wife may have never wanted to be mother but was baby trapped, not once but 4 times and then expected to handle them all even then. Society needs to free women so they can choose whether or not to want marriage.... without needing to lie that they are married to their fathers and all the other nonsense you lot pull from your arses there... And men also need to not
1) have only the number of kids they are certain they can care for all by themselves. Divorce can happen or the woman can leave too. So be prepared to either share custody or raise your kids yourself. So have only the number of children you can raise by yourself. Having no children at all is also a good thing for those who are honest enough to realize they are simply not cut out for it at all. 🥱🥱🥱
2. Have children only with women whom they are equally invested in having and raising them with -- you can't say because you are a man, you should not be expected to spare at least 3 hours of each of your day to pay and connect with those children you so very much wanted
3) Marriage is a team effort, not a Solo mission for both the man and woman involved. If your partner checks out emotionally, the marriage might as well end in divorce.
4) divorce is a logical end to marriage, not an abomination or a curse

P.S. Not saying any of this is OP's situation but something that all men need to begin training their minds well for.

Buratashi:
She's not into any birth control pills.. infact she hate pills

I hope she is because she is clearly married to a man who cares nothing for her joy and happiness in life. Or else she is likely to regret ever marrying this man at some point in her future.... hopefully not after losing her career and hardwork 🥱🥱🥱

Buratashi:
✓ Happy new year nairalanders,
This is my second account I want to hide my identity a little.
I have an issue bothering me recently, I got married early 2025 and my wife who happens to work with one of these para military unit can't give birth now till after a particular time, since then we ve been playing it safe. She usually uses water to wash off every time we have x ( I usually go raw n I realease inside)
My question here is for almost a year we ve been using same method but for not for once has she missed her period. Is it that yes she usually washes every drop of the semen that have made her not to miss her period or something is wrong somewhere.
Why am asking is have heard cases of people even with withdrawal method some ladies still gets pregnant or in some cases where they wore Condom the semen still finds its way into the lady's thing and gets her pregnant..

Water to wash? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Dude, chances are high that you have simply been shooting blanks all of this time, Your wife probably knows this and does not seem to mind. 🥱🥱🥱

I do hope that woman is in fact as smart as I think and has been using birth control of at least some other contraception to keep herself from getting impregnated by a man who does not seem to dsee much about her career and reputation. 🥱🥱🥱

manuelkel:
✓ If you don't believe in religion, good and fine for you....but downplaying religious groups of millions of humans irrespective of the denomination is quite du*b. I hope you face your realities and allow those who believe in religion face theirs.

Facts—truths— are backed by logical reasoning. Earlier, you had made it clear that logic has no place in religion. The connotation is that truth/facts are also not to be found in religion -- religion is built on lies and contradictions. 🥱🥱

Telling me not to severely downplay the beliefs of those who believe in these delusions —lies — is what is dumb. 🥱🥱🥱

manuelkel:
✓ Ain't leaving my kids for anyone to raise.
Except am dead or I'm in jail.

If you don't already have an established emotional and social connection, do not feel ashamed to get books, some written by other dads, to hell guide you through to doing it correctly.👍👍

manuelkel:
✓ No bros, you don't bring logic into christian religion, it's either you believe or you don't believe. A non-believer can never understand the words of God and it's formalities. Christianity is not like other religion, you have to be guided in flesh and spirit to understand the faith Christianity.
Don't add logic to it.

Christianity is exactly like every other religion out there in that they all require a person completely abandon his or her ability to critically reason information and reality while submitting to the brainwashing from those who occupy the position of gods of men over their sect. 🥱🥱🥱

ope2711:
She's 37 and she's not been acting like having extra marital affairs before. But I noticed recently she changed emotionally and whenever I asked her what happened she used to say nothing.

That usually means she has been having problems in the relationship with you but you both never came around to resolving it, and she eventually decided it best to check out of. It completely. I will tell you this ...your primary focus at this point should not be the woman who seems to have planned her exit for a long time and according to you, checked out emotionally long before this. Your focus should be those children ---:their mental and emotional health. 🥱🥱

Again, they are your children and it is also your job to care for them and ensure to greatly minimize the blow of what happened on them 🥱🥱🥱

KBdownloads:
✓ If someone claims they created evil itself (Isaiah 45:7), then they are claiming authorship of the very condition that makes morally harmful acts possible in the first place.
✓ By pointing this out I have not done evil, I have simply engaged in moral reasoning. .

1. Indeed! That much of clear from Genesis where we are informed that YHWH created everything -- everything (good and evil alike) that was ever created was created by Him. 🥱🥱

2. Moral reasoning? What makes admitting what is clearly stated from book one of the compendium same as engaging as this moral reasoning? 🥱🥱🥱

P.S - Not here trying to hold brief for anyone here or elsewhere. 🥱🥱🥱

Pat081:
Sir /Ma we have law before but now no more law ,if anything happened between you & police with guns ,just tell them am very sorry sir that will not kill you. if you know that you are on you right sef telling you what I know

Go ask people like Jude Bella, Sowore, and all others in that same Nigeria still using those laws to get by each day. Then come lecture me about laws in Nigeria. 🥱🥱🥱

oldguyman:
✓ To raise the child that later the woman will still come and manipulate the children against him?

This is sad! For the longest, men would abandon children with the woman claiming the children would come seeking them afterwards. Women would buckle down and do their best to raise those children, knowing fully well that the children would likely seek out their fathers later on. But now a man has to raise his own children, too, and you are literally telling him to abandon them, too, because the children would later seek out their mother and be brainwashed by her? 🥱🥱🥱

So, to you, children are nothing but tools for you; trash otherwise? 🥱🥱🥱

oldguyman:
✓ Take the kids to her family and act like you don't care.
✓ Your greatest mistake is allowing her to leave without the children. You should have just tell her to go with her kids. How sure are you that you are the real father of the 4 children?

What should he do that when they are also his kids? The only time kids should be taken back to the family is only if the man and woman are both dead. This Op and his wife chose to have those children. And so, the onus is on them both to figure out how to raise them. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Oh; his mistake was not having more children than he can raise alone in the case that the wife is no longer there but not abandoning the children before the woman did? Mahy of you are just very wicked individuals at your very core. 🥱🥱🥱

Op has a chance to raise his own children now but you already encouraging him to threat them like they aren't worth his time. Wow. 🥱🥱🥱

SarcasticWords:
✓ You've been yawning. Go and sleep please.

So, you came in feeling your own religion Superior in some way to the other religions, I see. Religion is merely a political system of tools used to heard the gullible form one prison to another. No matter what religion you belong to, your brainwashing remains according to the doctrines of the men who rule ober the particular sect you believe to. 🥱🥱🥱

When you are able to step outside of that delusion, then you can properly attend to the context of that irreligious book of books--- a series -- and the questions asked. 🥱🥱

ope2711:
They've eaten this morning. though they are not happy this afternoon, they refused to eat.
Their ages
4
7
11
14
They're resuming school tomorrow 5-01-2026 by God's grace. But I'm very sure they won't go tomorrow.

Why won't they go to school tomorrow? Because you don't want them to?🥱🥱

This is 2026, if you don't have an emotional and social connection with your own children, I suggest your pick up a book or more on the subject and begin reading or listening to them during your downtime. There are literally millions of books and audiobooks out there on how to be a good parent to your children. So, begin now to be intentional about it. 🥱🥱

By the way, what is the age gap between you and your wife? Did she inform you of whether or how she will be sending you child support for the children? If you both did not at least have this discussion, is suggest you immediately tell her she owes at least that and should make arrangements to begin sending child support. She has no right to be a deadbeat mother to those children. Be ready to take her to court if she thinks of not at least playing child support. 🥱🥱🥱

SarcasticWords:
✓ You are asking nairaland christians that have been divided into 40,000 different denominations to explain a scripture to you? Very wise of you. Goodluck!

Every religion out there has numerous sects so if we are to condemn religion, let's be sure to condemn them all..all religions are scams. 🥱🥱🥱

Now back to the book in question...it has no religious leanings---- no mention of either Judaism z Christianity or any of the other -isms -- meaning to answer this question, one must, without religious goggles, proceeds to analyze the details presented in the book.not just one verse ..to find answers. 🥱🥱🥱

KBdownloads:
✓ Isaiah 45:7 says:
“I form the light and create darkness, I make peace and create evil; I the Lord do all these things.”
I’m genuinely interested in how Christians can read this passage and still claim that their God is a good God. The verse explicitly has God claiming responsibility for not only good but also for evil.
If God created evil, how can he still be called a good God?
At the very least, this verse challenges the idea that God is purely good. It raises the possibility that the suffering and atrocities in the world ultimately originate from God himself, with Satan serving as a convenient scapegoat to preserve God’s image.

The God described in Isaiah 45 is the God of the Israelites and not some God of the Christians ....a totally different nation from the Israel spoken of in the book. The justification of the goodness of God of Israel -- YHWH --- is not merely the content of the one verse which you are on about there, but the collection of ideas expressed by Him through His many prophets of Israel on why He is the epitome of goodness where it concerns man, His creation. 🥱🥱🥱

Emmabyte:
Which police are you talking about

Nigerian police. Not knowing your right has continually worked against you. Now is the time for you to know your right and use it to be fight for you.