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Kalulu44:
➜Hahahaha, I don't have any friendship, relationship or situationship as you call it again with her that will end. Though I am not happy I got what I wanted from her like this with deception. I really wanted more from her before, but the ship has since sail on.

It's Ok! Just send her the invite to Nairaland to read your story, at least! Maybe that will work in favor of your revenge game, too.

Kinehap:
Is not about jumping up and down looking for money. What matters is finding joy, happiness and satisfaction in the one God gives you. Money. Can never be enough, just have the habit of gratitude to God and see yourself finding and having peace of mind.

But none of you ever find these elusive things, so how much more futile can your lives not get in the end?

phadul:
Thank God you ve figured it out. A lot of people are still ignorant of this fact! This is where religion comes in to tell you you were brought to this earth as a testing for one purpose only that is to worship God and to see whether you will obey before your time runs out.for a lot of people who think we came to this world just to live and die is unfortunate for their existence

Wrong! Religion only comes in to delude you suckers into worshipping other men — the ones behind the ideas of gods you have —and their lies in exchange for your time and money. 🥱

kenchop:
THIS WORLD IS NOT OUR HOME.

That song lied to you. You were made from the dust of this world and will return to the dust of this world — probably be recycled so many times, too— after you die.

Kalulu44:
➜Lolz! I am so happy you’re the first person to comment. She’s not the reading type and I doubt 90% she even knows Nairaland or any other news or reading platform. But if she can by chance be on Nairaland see this, I will be happy. I can even invite her if she wants.
➜ Me no send her at all at all. When I really care about her and wouldn’t have posted this is gone.

Nobody is the reading type! Also, I asked that you ask her to come here (a faceless forum) to share her thoughts on what happened that night, meaning you should tell her about Nairaland and perhaps suggest it as a free counseling resource, just as you are using it here. Please do invite her to maybe read this here post of yours as well.

2. About the two of you, I think your situationship should quickly end. I mean, if you are already plotting revenge, that clearly shows you don't care at all about her. 🥱🥱

P.S. Action speaks louder than words... even in today's world. 🥱🥱🥱

Feldie:
madam if you start behaving anyhow I will leave you alone. I will not quarrel with you mainly because that would be embarrassing for me if neighbors hear that I'm quarreling with you. So I will leave you alone and start cooking my own food. When you are tired you'll pack your things and leave

Just so you know, women know how to give back that same energy. There are lots of so-called married people, especially Nigerians, out there who have been living together like roommates for the longest. The average Nigerian woman, particularly those of the older generation,— before you ask, many of their daughters grew up with that as their foundational model of marriage —was nothing but, glorified roommate in their marriages. So, if you want to leave, better leave; otherwise, that woman is ready to stay on for even 50 years to hold on to that Mrs. badge. Dem no dey get tired of such things.🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜So guys, I am having double thoughts. Not that I can’t give her the 10k. But another part of me is saying I shouldn’t and use it as pay back for what she did to me a year ago. Still the soft and good heart of me is saying forget pay back, give her the money and let her know you’re bigger than that.
P.S: lets I forget, that her friend that called me the last time about her missing. It seems they have quarrel, so she told me plainly that it was another guy she went to be with for that three days. So all these are part of why I feel revenge in my mind. So guys, what do you think I should do? Give her the money or bullshit her? I have till 12pm tmrw to give her reply.

Whatever you decide is your prerogative. However, can you please ask this gal to feel free to come on to Nairaland to talk about what really happened to her on the day in question?🥱🥱

Where are the Proverbs 31 .men that these Proverbs 31 women are married to? 🥱🥱🥱

Stayingalive:
✓ well this is guided by nature. If you’re wealthy then any girl you approach, you become a strong candidate, not all will tell you or say it out loud but it is true.
As for chase, well not really

Nothing of what I stated is guided by nature, but by individual desire and greed, both that of the newly successful and the so-called chasers. 🥱🥱🥱

Regardless of what wealth bracket one finds oneself in, one shouldn't be leaving it to the elements to decide what will be attracted. That is why boundaries are important. Boundaries are kind of like filtering agents that help one filter out unwanted restricting access to only the wanted in relationship. 🥱🥱


Fyi. Boundaries are not weapons against others but elements of protection for the individual against potential threats. 🥱🥱

Ezekiel2122:
➜Mr too early. Don't take the way you oeople talk with each other in your family to internet. Okay??

Abeg, enter gutter somewhere go hide! 🥱🥱🥱

Tenrack:
For my face. God punish anybody that types that rubbish in my face. Una dey mad. Don't you guys get tired of saying "new year, new me" this year, anything that will make me unhappy I'm cutting off" God punish all of Una wey dey make new year resolutions. I bet say by February Una papa go don backslide. Foolish people. New year new me. Yaanyanayan😡🤢🫤🤮 Rubbish.

Why do you assume that everyone is as indisciplined as you and all those around you? 🥱🥱🥱

2RightHands1Coc:
Escaped a Finely planned assassination just because I went to crossover night,might not be the night in particular but I prayed from my heart that night. The rest is history
Believe it or not . Those few minutes and after, those moments something is usually happening in the cosmic so key to it positively

Storyland! All of una religious people dey always tell fantastical stories...🥱🥱🥱

Mcslize:
✓ Girls dey ever get sense? Common sense is far from many of them. How many girls and women know how to boost a man up and pacify a man when a man is down? They no dey. But I take exception for some very few.

Who in the world gave you this stewpid idea that a woman is a mental/emotional counselor? Are you even alright in the head expecting another human being to be in charge of helping a supposed adult -- an obviously immature specimen at that --- with regulating his emotions? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Some of you need to shipped back to your mothers so you can raise your more properly than the last time. How can a grown individual come online to claim that women are supposed help him regulate his emotions like he is some sort of toddler another man's child is supposed to be burdened with? Nonsense!! 🙄🙄

everythingtall3:
Any man or woman that tells his or her spouse that they need space, that person doesn't love you at all.

That depends on the reason behind the need for space. If the partner is seeking space from a habitual cheater, then the problem is the cheating partner not valuing the partner who is in need of space. 🥱🥱

Misternas89:
Kobo are you by chance a microbiologist?? You typed like one. Cos you just pieces Medical and Industrial microbiology with those few words you got here

I have and use the argot but I don't have a background in the area. I instead used to be a patient and while researching my conditions learned so much and the many potential benefits of eating a more balanced diet every day than merely pouring sugars down my throat to satisfy the daily need for food. 🥱🥱

Tendd:
➜ Work is work irrespective of who is the boss .
➜ However,Working in the mines, enrollment in the military, heavy warehouse jobs, logistics or generally physically demanding jobs are done majorly by men.
➜ At home, men often change the car wheel tyres,mow the snow, change the electrical appliances,chop the woods, lift heavy stuff etc.
➜ I think there should be division of labour in the household chores where spouses do what they know or do best. Feminist don't often address this differences and this often leads to conflicts or divorces.
➜ I am talking of Asians living in the west.They stay in marriage than west Africans or black Americans in general.Filling for divorce isn't made difficult for any group.There are problems in most marriages but divorce should not be encouraged just for the sake of it.
➜ Our women should be cautioned since they are often the ones filling for divorce and their is equally very high.The children suffer, family bond destroyed and the women even look miserable jumping to different men every now and then.This is never healthy mentally and physically.

1. So, your so-called gender rules abi delusions do not apply in workspaces where both genders are also involved?

2. During World War II, the majority of those roles were occupied by women here in the United States, and they did very well. The nation recorded an economic boom, too. However, many of these women were eventually forced to give up their positions after the men returned from war, and were told their place was back in the home. Clearly, gender roles only matter when men feel they are threatened.

3. So many women homeowners do these things themselves, even to this day. They have machines to lift heavy stuff.... machines equally used by men when necessary. So?

4. So, if a woman knows best how to mow the lawn, change car tires, mow the snow, change electrical appliances, she should do it while the man does the chores something he had to do for himself when he was single, and probably has so much more practice at than the former, which not all men can do? So, again, this isn't about gender but about you needing to force a gender-focused idea on these things?

5.

Asian Americans generally have the lowest divorce rates among major racial/ethnic groups in the U.S., with studies showing they are less likely to divorce than White, Black, or Hispanic individuals, though rates vary slightly by gender, nativity, and specific subgroup, with Asian women often having the lowest rates overall. Factors like immigration status (fear of deportation), cultural emphasis on family stability, and language barriers can influence these lower rates, especially for foreign-born Asians.

6. Cautioned against leaving situations that they have decided are no longer of benefit for them, when the divorce rates among even Northerners have been known to reach as high as 81% since the 1980s? Clearly, divorce should instead be normalized since the culture has all but done nothing over the decades to better the situation of women and children.

Children are actually known to thrive better after a divorce if they do not have a bitter caregiver inflicts toxicity on them after the divorce. If both mother and father truly care for the well-being of the children, they would do anything in their power to ensure that the children are not confronted with their anger or pain because of the divorce.

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men?

There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

helinues:
Happy new year. The year 2026 already kick started some hours ago What food do you have as breakfast today 1st of Jan or intend to have? I always try something new every first of the year. I detected wheat biscuits in waffle form just some months ago.The wheat biscuits is best used with either milk or yoghurt. Yoghurt is my own favourite use My first year 2026 food: Wheat waffle biscuit soaked with chocolate yoghurt, supported with chicken Vegetable stew assist with bananas

I drank leftover whey from making Greek yoghurt sometime last year and topped that with boiled sweet potatoes(skin attached). I definitely wanted to make certain my gut biome is fully prepared for the rest what is to come this New Year!

ComeComing:
After dem don do countlessly abortions. I pity Nigerian men.

How can the same men responsible for the pregnancies and even paying for most of the abortions be the victims? 🥱🥱🥱

Winnin009:
✓ Lol... This your reasoning ehn.. so people no dey make valuable contacts inside church?! Yeye really deu smell .

This things aren't about personal biases, but consulting with the facts. And we all know that when it comes to those in the religious circles, the pattern of wealth distribution continually mirrors that seen outside of religious circles... the approximately 1% of your gods of men rule over the 99% poor and gullible followers. It is all the same politics of the world and nothing else. 🥱🥱🥱

That clearly reveals the yeye we dey smell within your religious circles that the world outside now sees all too well. 🥱🥱

coputa:
➜Can you name one progressive nation state that's irreligious.I don't think you actually know what religion actually meant. Even America,the greatest country under the sun,prays and also believe in God. Don't be deceived by your thoughts,they are limited

1. Is this some sort of "If there is no religion, it won't work," argument right after you have realized how very, very detrimental religion can, in fact, be to both the people and the state itself? 🥱🥱🥱

What is obvious is that critical reasoning is not strong with you... So, I will choose to walk on by and go salvage the rest of my day elsewhere. 🥱🥱

coputa:
✓ I don't think you as an unbeliever has the right to tell believers the importance of crossover service.The things of the spirit often look stupid to an unbeliever like you.

You're here eulogizing bad living of drunkenness,partying and all sorts of social ills

The fact that your religious delusions --- spiritual mumbo jumbo--- have more than proven themselves or more detriment than actual benefit in Nigeria where over 99% of the people profess one religion or another, it is more than, we have all the evidence needed to declare religion of no real value to those who desire societal progress and advancements in community. 🥱🥱🥱

saintbillion:
If he wanted to returned it, he would have done that instead of blocking their calls.

That's fine, but op should check back still. 🥱🥱

Go back there on Monday or sometime next week to ask if anyone left a powerbank for you. 🥱🥱

Lucifyre:
So nothing, just more meaningless ramblings. As I thought lol!

Abeg waka past me with your brand of ramblings! 🥱🥱

FIRDAUS3:
Prosperity preachers often use verses that emphasize wealth and success as signs of God's favor and blessing. These preachers often highlight themes of abundance, positive confession, and claiming God's promises for financial prosperity. However, these interpretations often distort biblical teachings and focus too heavily on material gain, potentially leading to a misunderstanding of God's true will and purpose for believers.

Correction, they are always distortions.🥱🥱🥱

Esthered:
I'll share a testimony of someone.

Story, story...story! We all don realize that say una testimonies na always one-sided tales!🥱🥱🥱

Image123:
➜What a bore. She thinks i am here to prove something to her. Keep enjoying the misery you keep yourself in dear.

Prove something? 🥱🥱🥱

Why would I be thinking of that which I am 100% certain you are incapable of? Just pointing out that you are just as deluded as those whom you perceive to be the complete opposite of where you are. All religions and traditions are political scams! 🥱🥱

saintbillion:
✓ Good evening my fellow Nairalanders.
On the 28th of December, I went to Access bank to request for a new ATM card. While waiting for my turn, another customer, an elderly man of around 50years reached out to me saying i should help him out with my powerbank so he can power his phone and set his mobile app of which i obliged. I gave him the powerbank, when the bank staff was attending to me; the old man left the banking with my powerbank.
I quickly remember and raised alarm. His form was later sort out and his phone number was called. He picked and said he won't bring the powerbank. He ended up blocking the staff number. I requested they give me his number so i can trace him. They refuse and said it's against their policy.
The powerbank is very costly. Pls what can i do get my property

A 50 something year old man stole your power bank? 🥱🥱🥱

Check back with the bank in a couple of days and ask if someone returned the item to the bank.🥱🥱🥱

Image123:
✓ The funny thing is that most people with these sort of dumb arguments are empty. No salvation, no sanctification, no Holy Ghost, no miracles, nothing. Only funny empty arguments like every other person.

All of your so-called miracles are experienced daily by those who don't buy into your religious delusions. Religion(along with the many other delusions that go with it) was never a requirement for miracles. The information age has at least exposed that much. 🥱🥱

As for the other unverified benefits you claim your religion gives you-- even after billions of lives have come abd gone,there remains not a pinch of proof that the delusions are nothing but that-- you would have to do a better job proving they exist before anything else. 🥱🥱🥱

Will you continue to live burdened down by religion or continue to weigh yourself down with it? That remains a choice for you to make. 🥱🥱

Lucifyre:
✓ You don't say, I'd have been suprised if you did. Wheee's the data and evidence that supports the nonsense below instead you're rambling.
"Aramaic was not the language spoken by Jesus Christ of Israel but rather one of the many languages spoken by him. The particular reason why the cry from the cross was recorded in Aramaic was that it was spoken in a language different from the one Jesus Christ of Israel regularly spoke.'
None?! As I thought.

Are you Ok in the head? Or are you here to argue meaninglessness this first couple of hours into the new year? 🥱🥱🥱

➜ Aramaic is the language of the Galileans(current day Syria), but not the spoken language of all the Judeans, even at the time in question
➜ The Gospels do not state anywhere that Aramaic was the spoken language of Jesus Christ of Israel. Rather, the gospels contain a handful of Aramaic phrases that were used by Jesus Christ of Israel
➜ The Gospels report that Jesus Christ of Israel was able to read and comprehend the Scriptures. And from much we gather, the Septuagint, which Jesus Christ of Israel must have read from, was originally written in the Greek language around 200 years or so before his birth,(during the Greek occupation of Judea). Another, that he may also have read from, the Talmud was written in Hebrew, the language of both the Israelites(Jews included) and Canaanites.
➜ Jesus Christ of Israel was able to communicate with the Roman, Pilate, indicating that either he, Jesus Christ of Israel, understood the language of the Romans or Pilate understood some of the language of the Jews. Whichever one it is, we know that he was able to communicate with the Romans. (The Romans occupied Judea at the time.)
➜ Jesus Christ of Israel was a Jew, and at no point in the history of his people was the land of Judea reported to have been occupied by the Aramians, nor was it ever recorded that the Judaens adopted the language of the Aramians. And the reports do not indicate that all his disciples or the people in Judea at the time understood the Aramaic language.
➜ (Jesus Christ of Israel is also not reported to have, at any point, had a translator with him.)

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yusman14:
My sister won't be a liability, and I will expect her to be able to feed herself. She should have something doing.

Let me guess, you think that she having her own money means she cannot face financial abuse at the hands of her husband? 🥱🥱🥱

Sirmwill:
✓ "Love your neighbor as yourself"
Is really not even a serious line
You are just overcomplicating your reasoning
It's simply put as
Whatever you want for yourself,want for others and whatever you don't wish for yourself,don't wish it for others or stop it from happening to others.
All the other other things you added just leads to confusions

It is really not serious, yet the same Jesus Christ of Israel confirmed that out of the about 613 statutes contained in the law of Moses, the particular law was the 2nd most important. 🥱🥱

Now I am tempted to conclude that you are only here to literally waste my time, even though I have lots of it. 🥱🥱🥱