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Ilekokonit:
➜Today, my 30 something year old UK raised son said he will attack me physically because I corrected his sister in a phone call. His so called sister that I corrected for not telling me in a phone call that they were all going to Nigeria last week is my own 20 something year old daughter
➜To bring woman and young pikin from Naija to the UK may kill a man that does not drink. At the moment I've bought 2 bottles of spirits, 2 bottles of Rose and an as we speak heading to 1 late night joint and then at later I'll then go to an all night bar in London to drink and merry with acquaintances and hopefully by the time I get back home tomorrow afternoon, I wouldn't brood over it so much.
Such is the lot of a lot of men in the UK. This na woman wey I bring come UK over 39 years ago with our her 7 month old son and gave them both UK papers on a platter of gold. And the sad thing is that they still find a way to wind me up from afar even though I have not lived with them since 2006.

1. People like you are better off remaining in Nigeria where your particular mentality can only work. 🥱🥱🥱

You disrespected his 20-something-year-old sister and felt that your 30-something-year-old, her brother, should have taken your side in this? I can only imagine how much you must have done for him to feel such a reaction was reasonable in this situation.

2. Always looking to blame every other person instead of maybe doing some self-reflecting and taking accountability for the part you played in fueling such animosity in your own children towards you. Na wa oo! 🥱🥱🥱

I hope that the boy does not debase himself to your level and instead considers going no contact instead if he is that angry with you at this point. 🥱🥱🥱

advanceDNA:
➜There are entitled gold diggers everywhere ....it's not a Nigerian only thing.....

Again, avoid using vocabulary that you have no grasp of its meaning. 🥱🥱🥱

dederocs:
➜How old are you, you sound like a youngin...

See this one! 🥱

kolafolabi:
➜Your opinion though

It's not an opinion but based on facts.

israelmao:
➜Her game is the midst of millions of eaglets that are swarming like bees.

The vast majority of our desires and dreams face similar odds, yet many still go on to succeed.

StaffofOrayan:
➜It's a valid question, how many billionaires in the country? And who made you the preserver of pseudo feminist delusions?

Valid only in your very private delusions. 🥱🥱🥱

Kaczynski:
➜New year food

Fried Raisin cookies?

StaffofOrayan:
➜Too much Nollywood! How many billionaires dey naija sef? How many are single? How many would skip all the 7-10 babes and choose her? If she really has a dream to rival Amazon, she better start working on it and not depend on a man while claiming fake naija feminist

Who made you manager over billionaires and gatekeeper of the kind of dreams women can have? 🥱🥱🥱

israelmao:
➜I am really sorry for you because many eaglets out there who are desperately eyeing your position and will do anything to chase you out. Even though have people that will doing all the house chores for why can you keep that to yourself?

Don't feel sorry for her. She knows the fight before her and understands she will need to bring in her best game. 🥱🥱🥱

advanceDNA:
➜There are entitled gold diggers everywhere ....it's not a Nigerian only thing.....

This new year, endeavour to learn the corrrect meaning and use of words. 🥱🥱🥱

en·ti·tled
/inˈtīdld,enˈtīdld/

believing oneself to be inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.

A desire is not an entitlement; nor is expressing a desire a sign that one is entitled. 🥱🥱🥱

StaffofOrayan:
➜The last thing a billionaire needs is a woman who wants to use her youth to chase money....that is why he is a billionaire!
People like these are actually looking for start up capital and a billionaire meets such people every damnnn day!

Storyland! It is always poverty-riddled men pretending they have all billionaires figured out. 🥱🥱🥱

Carndidlaydid:
➜Abeg shiift with your controversial self Supporting a lazy lady who doesn't want to do any chores... Having fantasy of marrying a billionaire who would place her in a big mansion You guys are the reason this so-called genders keep saying all sorta trash And yeah for the record she has the right to desire what she wants... But for your to earn you need to work!!!

Whether you give her support or not, she has the right to desire what she wants and to work towards it. If you don't like it, keep carrying her issues in your head, rent-free. 🥱🥱🥱

Nchoje34:
➜If she is a billionaire then I don't have an issue with what she said. Nobody expect dj cuppy to be washing or cooking in her house if we are been sincere with ourselves. Na God go punish am if she dey depend on man money

Many billionaires no dey marry their fellow billionaires, so allow the woman dream as she is well in her right to do so.

Nchoje34:
➜Men obliviously created that standard we are experiencing today. Any relationship built on money will have no solid foundation that is why we have many broken homes today because there is no connectivity between the man and the woman in most relationship.
➜ An average lady in the Europe does not have such a condemned mindset

1. Stop shoving at her standards she has not set for herself. If she wants a billionaire to marry her for 2 years and dump her afterwards, na her choice.

2. Stop lying to us! 🥱🥱🥱

kolafolabi:
➜That statement reflects confidence and personal choice but true partnership goes beyond wealth as mutual respect shared responsibility and love matter more than money so it is her choice if her husband accepts it.

How many of the married people out there can boast of any of the ideas in bold? Stop raising standards that don't even apply to the vast majority against her and her desires. 🥱🥱🥱

bixton:
➜I hope she's started hiring those service providers in the house she currently occupied and paying them for their rendered services with her money since she already has an online business..?!!!

There are no rules that she first has to do these herself before she can get herself a billionaire to marry her. So let the billionaires out there decide for themselves. 🥱

Carndidlaydid:
A big disgrace to the sisterhood. You wanna marry a billionaire Will heaven fall if you choose to be the billionaire .
➜Ladies like this make me wanna puke

Abeg, get away with this nonsense response! What sisterhood delusions lead you to believe a woman is not allowed to desire whatever she wants? 🥱🥱🥱

2. If the freedom women have to dream and desire whatever it is they want makes you puke, that is you problem, not a them problem. 🥱🥱🥱

Kingsley34:
➜A confident lady goes viral explaining why she refuses to cook, do laundry, or clean for her future husband: "I aspire to be a billionaire's wife!" 👑 She argues their mansion will be too big, they'll hire chefs and cleaners, and she's busy building her own empire (an online store aiming to rival Amazon). Her take? Women who handle chores have "nothing else to offer."
➜The woman argues that she refuses to perform traditional domestic tasks like cooking, laundry, or cleaning because she aspires to marry a billionaire (or become one herself through her business ventures). She emphasizes hiring professional services instead, claiming their future home will be too large for her to handle alone. She also implies that women who do these chores lack other value to offer in a relationship, positioning herself as ambitious and independent. The tone is confident and dismissive, likely intended as provocative or humorous content.
➜ Is she onto something, or is this peak delusion? Drop your thoughts below! 👇

Ordinarily, no woman should do chores or serve any man who is not already her husband — serving your boyfriend or fiancé is a sign of bad things to come for her in that relationship. 🥱🥱🥱

2. The woman definitely has the right to aspire to whatever she wants. It is her freedom and right in life. 🥱🥱🥱

3. The one who created this thread is the likely one on delusion here. 🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜I understand, but why she dey refuse to talk wetin happen that last time. She no even know scared I was then

You were probably not close enough to her for her to risk being that vulnerable with you. Anyways, you don't need to concern yourself with it anymore since you are done with her. Introduce her to Nairaland, Reddit, and Thread where she can discuss openly without fear of anyone knowing who she is or linking it back to her. 🥱🥱🥱

Stayingalive:
I am talking about you can provide for her and protect her. Is that not nature?

You are not making sense to me.

dederocs:
➜Seems you can't read...I clearly stated, 'not about religiosity' It's not a subject for debate or argument. Life is not about plenty words. There is no contention here.

Saying it is not about religiosity right before you go to reveal ideas linked primarily to religiosity changes nothing of the facts. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Seeking clarity in life and communicating the truth of it to others entails using plenty of words to differentiate what you have from the jargon already out there. 😁😁😁

Feldie:
by "talk is cheap" I actually meant what you wrote initially. If she wants to stay there na she know. I will marry another wife. She will be one to leave on her own or come back begging. I'm not even joking

There are many like you out there, so you will be in good company among them.

Feldie:
talk is cheap until I marry a second wife and totally isolate you. If you don't want to leave stay there naa what's my business?

Talk? She will likely not even talk to you. Well, so many Nigerian men are surrounded by many women, not because they want to be, but because of cowardice; they never got around to divorcing the women they no longer want around them. 🥱🥱🥱

dederocs:
➜Just because you can't see it, doesn't mean it ain't there.
➜Enlightenment is not religiosity or eye service,
➜ it is being true to oneself, and everything around us.

1. See what? The fumes from your many religious delusions? Oh, yes, a lot of us see it and know it for what it is. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. The only form of enlightenment worth mentioning is that which comes from deep self-reflection and self-realization— only a dive back into the self is worth anything in this life—, one that not only helps the individual put their existence in the best perspective but also helps them better shove the ego back where it truly belongs... way back behind all that matters. Any other kind of enlightenment, including that fueled by religious fume, can be obtained by even those who are high on drugs. 🥱🥱🥱

3. You cannot be true to yourself while at the same time being true to everything around you. Those who are true to self never seek external validations.(It is a literal impossibility.) So, clearly, what you have and know is born of delusions and not truth. 🥱🥱🥱

dederocs:
This phase is a test, only the enlightened will suffice.

A test from whom? You folks going around thinking life struggles is some sort of test are seriously off your hinges.

Kalulu44:
➜I believe her friend, and even if her friend didn't tell me. My mind has been thinking of that from the very first day she called me after we thought she was missing and she refused to say what happened. So I still needed her to say her own version. But since she can't say it, it's definitely guilty conscience that's worrying her

. It's OK. Since you both have nothing together, you don't need to worry yourself about her and her conscience. Just please invite her to join Nairaland to pour out her woes and sadness on the pages here.

Kalulu44:
➜There's definitely nothing wrong with that, but she has refused telling me. Is it you or any other stranger she will tell.

Yes! People are more open to telling absolute strangers their deepest, darkest secrets if they have the chance to. Nairaland, Reddit, Threads, and other nameless, faceless forums provide people with this opportunity to do so.

Kalulu44:
➜So I now have a promise to fulfill, so you skip the part on how she fail to fulfill her own promise a year ago and how she has refused saying what happened on that day after a year

So, a part of you does not believe what her friend told you, yet only moments ago, you were content shoving her supposed friend's version of things at me as conclusive detail? 🥱🥱🥱

tollyboy5:
➜Get enough papers

Papers to burn? 🥱🥱🥱

Kalulu44:
➜Aha! I have seen where you car is driving to.

I made this clear since the first comment... I am interested in reading about what really happened that day from her. Is there anything wrong with that?

Kalulu44:
➜And answering your first quotes, I don't have the power or time to convince someone that doesn't know more than tiktok and video viewing websites. She's not into news and nairaland I honestly guess will be boring for her.
➜ And did you also forget I said her friend told me it's a man she went to see those missing days, so what is she coming to share here if at all she comes on this platform

1. Let her decide on whether to join Nairaland or not by herself. 🥱🥱

2. I am interested in hearing it directly from the horse's mouth, not from a third party. 🥱🥱🥱

RealityKings1:
➜ Always live up to your promise, you told her you'll give her the money if she came. She fulfilled her own end, you should fullfil your own too. Its non of your business what she does. You are neither her husband or the father.
You were probably her last option to sort her challenge. If she was a runs girl and didn’t respect, she'll snatch that money from you

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