₦airaland Forum

Gbadugbakun:
✓ But a lot of girls who cannot afford 3 square meal go into relationships.
✓ Why should it be good for them and bad for us?

1. If you don't want them to be able to do that, then get a registry marriage where you don't need to be the sole provider unless your arrangement with the woman suggests it best. 🥱🥱🥱

2. From where do you get this nonsense idea that lacking financial independence is good for women..any woman? Who fed you that nonsense idea? A woman without financial independence is literally a slave and a joke waiting to be exploited and that happens like literally 95% of the time. 🥱🥱🥱

pigmania:
When the money goes, will the honey stay?

Why dem go stay? Would you advise your sister to remain with a man who can't afford to feed her and her children, for that matter? 🥱🥱

victorazyvictor:
✓ Sooooooooooo trueeeee
As a married man, if you see babes that is lining up for me eeh, If I want to dey lash every day I will BUT omo, I give the 20k, hotel 10k, food 10k , trans 10k..... na 50k ooo do that for 20 babes a month na N1m mehn I dey control am abeg... 2 don call me today.

Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱

bigpriik:
Op you mean the both parties or only the males as usual.

It has to be males since the base configuration of marriage that still exists to this day only requires that the man be the provider. Of course, I would never recommend that to any woman out there but it does exist. 🥱🥱🥱

Jerkbaba:
➜Every morning, you see everybody running up and down like mad monkeys just to get one paper with a design on it. After all that work, you buy this and that and pamm, all the money is gone! It's crazy! You repeat the same cycle till you're old and die. You carry nothing with you! All the things you worked soo hard to acquire, you carry nothing! Hmmmmm What a stupid useless life!

Many of us have pretty much figured this much out. So, what next?

Biodun556:
➜Jesus never say God, he never spoke English. The language spoken by Jesus is Aramaic.

Aramaic was not the language spoken by Jesus Christ of Israel, but rather one of the many languages spoken by him. The particular reason why the cry from the cross was recorded in Aramaic was that it was spoken in a language different from the one Jesus Christ of Israel regularly spoke to his followers and those around him. Jesus Christ of Israel reiterated the particular Aramaic statement to draw a connection to information previously recorded in the Scriptures— Jesus Christ of Israel knew the Scriptures like the back of His hand, it seemed. And that utterance was to invoke the statement made by David in one of his psalms— language and all.

The term Eloi is not pronounced Allah, nor is it connected in any way. The Hebrew language, which connects to the language of Aramites(both languages existed in the Levant for 1000s of years) continues to this day— El-isha, El-i, El-ohim, El -ijah... El-ohim, etc. So, this makes it nearly impossible for any reasonable mind to claim there exists a literal connection between the now Hebrew-used Eloi with the Allah of the muslims.

Guestmale:
➜ Children are inheritance of God, but if you know you're not ready for them, then don't start the process (or you use a preventive method) otherwise God will not hold you guiltless if you kill that unborn baby.

Inheritance of god that you people are notorious for treating more or less like trash whenever it suits you — religious people are notorious for neglect and abuse against children? 🥱🥱

OLAADEGBU:
➜According to Adeh, relevant provisions of Nigerian law clearly prohibit abortion. She cited Section 232 of the Penal Code and Section 228 of the Criminal Code, which criminalise the act and classify it as a felony, punishable under the law.

All the more reason why there should be comprehensive sex education, which gives awareness of pregnancy prevention and the illegality of abortions to all children from an early age, so they can avoid the need for abortions altogether. So, when is Adeh, planning to call on the government to begin making that happen?

Morbeta11:
https://x.com/i/status/2006032536225378587

If more men would do this and in fact commit wholeheartedly, that would be really welcome. 🥱🥱🥱

reddingtonblack:
➜ Your problem is that you just love to argue So you will always have a twist or even miss the point. weytin concern this topic with Women that dont know how to cook, just curious you and who are argue All women cook the subject matter is women that cook, its takes a woman to cook for a man to " reject" this tinz are common sensical, i retietrate a woman enjoy people eating there food more than herself Lets a Woman cumma tell me No she doesnt like people eat her food
Once again, let a woman denounce she as never lost appetite after cooking ... i doubt if you are with a woman perhaps a nerd virgin .... feel free to ask ... or... let them dare to say not true No bring arguement wey no dey the topic, i wan use head ache enter new year

Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

Doctordan:
✓ Let me help you out here. What I'm driving at is that sex is a bonding of the spirit soul and body and not just a physical thing. That is how God designed it. When a man and a woman have union they are one. There is a joining. That is why it is better to keep sex for marriage and not be engaged in "casual" sex outside of marriage which is not even "casual" at all (because of the issue of the joining which I talked about). Do you want to hook with several women from all over the place who might have been with several men from all over the place. One should think of what one is doing to his/ herself.

Again, what is the point of posting this hogwash over and over? E be like say you no go school at all. Saying something over and over does not a fact or truth make. 🥱🥱🥱

RealityKings1:
✓ Good morning ma
My face look soft, so people find it easy to approach me. I'm starting to see it as a blessing

It has little to nothing to do with face but behavior as you described in your OP, jare! Even folks who have babyface no dey be pushovers 🥱🥱🥱

Doctordan:
➜Many people that had multiple sex partners in the past have settled and gotten married. That is good but saving sex for marriage and only having intimacy with one partner is still the best way to go. It can save a lot of uneeded headache and stress and not to mention that is still the best protection against AIDS and STD. And I'm not going through any trauma or blindness. You better take my word for it. Having casual sex is a risk. You are engaging in intimacy ,not eating meatpie. Feel free to laugh at me if you like. I want to be a one- woman person

. You keep unevidenced claims, aka hogwash, to achieve what exactly?

Doctordan:
✓ Hogwash to people who cannot B reasoned with. In your own case this is disturbing but not surprising.

But this is literally you since this conversation began. 🥱🥱🥱

Doctordan:
Sexual intimacy is deeper than you think it is(paraphrase)

No matter how many times you repeat hogwash, it remains hogwash! 🥱🥱

Doctordan:
➜Ok let me put it this way, would you marry an olosho?
➜ And along the lines I don't have any mental problems linked with any kind of trauma.

Yes, there is nothing wrong with marrying someone with multiple sexual partners in the past. 🥱🥱

2. Your responses and the questions you continue to ask make the fact that you are still carrying some deep-seated trauma, which you hide behind the mention of the word Spiritual, and the suggestions that you are better in some way than those who have had multiple partners before you.🥱🥱🥱

I can bet my hairy chin that your particular blindness would prevent you from considering in the same manner friendships you may have with men whom you have no romantic interests, but have had multiple sexual partners as well. 🥱🥱

Doctordan:
➜Sexual intimacy is deeper than you may think.

Nonsense! 🥱

Doctordan:
➜Just asking, would you marry a woman that has already been with many men before?

See the kain stewpid question you dey ask? Of course, there is absolutely nothing wrong with either a man or a woman who has been with partners.

Your personal fear of people who have been with multiple partners before you is a mental problem likely linked with some trauma from your past that you need to detangle when you are ready to do so, and not something to brandish or weaponize against others. 🥱🥱🥱

Doctordan:
➜Don't you know that sex is spiritual & not just physical. There are many people engaged in free casual sex as if they were drinking water only for them to regret it later in their lives. Regardless of whether one uses protection or not, one cannot avoid its spiritual implications.

There is absolutely nothing spiritual about two bodies pocking each other same way there is nothing spiritual about two tongues fiddling with each other.🥱🥱🥱

RealityKings1:
➜Why do people find it easy to walk up to me than others

Hope you are no longer a pushover?

Stayingalive:
➜Then maybe we should start from there and not the barbaric place you jumped into? did you even ask if they have a police station? or possibly 12 community sharing 1 court room?

You are the one literally ignoring their existence in claiming that barbarism should be allowed. Most of these communities have existed for many decades without a police station right in front of the gates of the members, so I am not certain why you are suddenly making an issue of this now, particularly to excuse nonsense.

reddingtonblack:
➜ easier said that done, you will just realize something in you cant stomach it ... no woman is happy her food is reject
➜ i dont know about SA women buh real women dont enjoy there food like someone else eating there food
➜ many times babe will cook nd she will complain the food smells to her .. she will jus lost appetite,

Stop spinning ridiculous lies against people! There are lots of women out there who don't know how to cook and are not ashamed of this very fact. I have friends who cook because their food tastes much better than their wives, and they are all OK with it. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Nonsense and eegridient! 🥱🥱🥱

➜Cooking is a skill that almost 50% of men and women don't have down to a T, no matter their years of training; and there is nothing to be ashamed about.

3. You small-brained individuals need to learn to shut up more often than not. So, just one babe seems to have some hiccups with her own cooking, but you took that to mean that every woman has the same issues? Are you Sure you are OK?

FriendsAndFans:
➜You shouldn't introduce a new ideology into your home, if the previous was working perfectly. Know it's very easy for a man to get another spouse. It's not so easy for the woman .
➜Don't lose your home

. Define working perfectly.

2. If the man had come out to you to cry that the marriage does not benefit him at all, but his wife seems to be having a field day in it, I bet you would not say this same line to him, would you?

irumole1975:
➜Abhi o. You can imagine. She’s really an eediot. Imagine me marrying a woman with such a big amount of money and taking her away from poverty and she dare say she can’t cook lol. She’ll meet herself in her father house
Thank you kobo

Una own na always say una no fit read at all. Which part of her pronouncement tell you say she no fit cook? 🥱🥱🥱

Una own suegbe dey always get im own zipcode. 🥱🥱🥱

Stayingalive:
➜You forgot legal laws need enforcement and enforcers? So where are the law enforcers? Why aren’t they doing anything? Why aren’t you talking about them?

Um... do enforcers MAGICALLY show up when crime is committed? Is that your own understanding of how things work?

Cj4charles:
the people made the laws that govern them

By what authority? Their private authority? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

Originalsly:
➜There are communities that have no regard for State or Federal laws .... they have their own traditional justice system ....as in this case.
➜ The sooner we recognize this the less likely we will be shocked by "jungle justice".

1. Last I checked, International, Federal, and State laws supersede any local/private jungle laws that a bunch of people claim they live by. 🥱🥱🥱

2. The reason you lot mouth off this jargon has a lot to do with the corrupt state of legal affairs in Nigeria. If not, I doubt you would have the audacity to spout this nonsense. 🥱🥱🥱

Stayingalive:
✓ Banish simply means to move out of the community.
✓ It’s a way to also prevent reprisal attacks.
✓ Ofcourse not optimal but also not barbaric as you put it

2. You conveniently forgot to mention that is against the will and freedoms of those being banished.

2. You prevent reprisal attacks by making sure the authorities are aware of the possibility and ensuring anyone responsible for such acts will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law, not punish the potential victims of said attacks by telling them they can no longer live in the neighborhood. 🥱🥱🥱

3. It is also illegal . So what in the world is this conversation for? 🥱🥱

Stayingalive:
✓ isn’t it better than it degrading to inhumane act like killing or maiming?
✓ For me it was a more peaceful resolution

Inhumane acts from whom? Criminal members of the same community?🥱🥱🥱

2. If your idea of peace involves robbing others of peace and right by law, then there is nothing peaceful about your actions. 🥱🥱