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This lady that I know personally wanted to get married in her church. During the councelling period, her pastor's wife (an elderly old lady without child) told her she could not do a full wedding in the church due to her pregnancy . . they could only do a marriage blessing for her. This was the church policy . .strict; they wont bend it for anyone.

This lady deliberately walked up to the pastor's wife during a service (in front of everyone) and reminded her of her barreness. She told everyone listening that she did not know why there were listening to her sermon and prayers, when she herself couldnt pray for a child of her own. A woman who is well over sixty . .older than the lady's mother!

All these because the pastor's wife followed church policy.

really sad . . some women . . vile

You really wont understand the pain except you have been in that kinda situation.

- When you laugh or smile and play, people will ask what is making you (your prisoner) happy, instead of you to be crying that you are barren.

- When you are down and praying , they say you are envious. They remind of of the several boyfriends you had back in college. Like we no know say na asewo dey born pass!

- When you stay away (so that you avoid the two points above), they say you are not happy for them.

- When they offer you ridiculous ways out (like taking you to a herbalist) and you decline, they say you are proud and your suffering never start.

- When you tell them you are waiting on God for His miracle, they say 'Heaven helps those who help themselves'

- When you go to church, the pastor indirectly says you are barren because or your sins or lack of sowing seed to the church.

- When you correct a child for doing wrong, the mother will remind you of how barren you are.

- When you eventually get pregnant and keep it to yourself,  they get mad that because you did not inform them; they say it is fake, or you adopted, or you did surrogacy. Like any of those is bad.  Ask Beyonce.

- When you give your precious miracle child several names, they call you illuminati. Ask Beyonce


God help us all.

gendebs:
Moral :- Never ignore a person

Update:

Moral :- BlackBerry devices can make calls too . . not only BBM.

sorry for your loss

So how come the OP has not responded to all these comments??

I bet he or she created this thread to bash the force and most of the comments are not helping!

Think about the system. . that's is what is messing up these guys: If a police officer chooses not to take bribe, his boss will take the bribe and he will most likely lose his job or post. . . so what choice does he have, really?

The fact that there are bad eggs out there up to the leadership does not mean there are no good ones out there.

^^^

maybe I deserved it

I am a liberal and free man. Call me loose

Stereotyping is for conservatives.

go figure.

^^^

I'm inside and under ur skin . . biting and gnashing away.

e don pain am

@ op.

more grease to ur ashy elbow.

we're still expecting your reasons for ending each of your hundred relationships.

Mrs, Chima:
We ain't Jesus though.

Aint that the truth??

We know

freecocoa:
^^See the announcement on his siggy na,I was just wondering the type of pix he needed to announce.

Seen it now . . he must be obsessed with you

you better go get restraining order ready

ThiefOfHearts:
Yes "as for you", keep in mind youve been very nasty to me in the past so Im not fond of you. I just figured i should answer the question

anyway yea, I assume they appeal to women more due to emotions and whatnot.

Cant we all just get along? 

I dont recall  . . but I'm sorry if I have . . I'm sure I've been nasty at some point to some and some have been to me as well. But I am sure it was all for fun and I never meant harm. We never know if or where we'll meet later in life.

You opened . . I have huge respect for that and I apologize. Shows you dont hold grudges.

friends?

freecocoa:
Mrlesbianboy,what's my name doing on your profile pix?

       

what a profile pikiso 

I'm getting too old for this forum


freecocoa, wetin you sef dey find for him profile?

nope . .

typical feminine

Mrs, Chima:
Why would I befriend a LovePeddler? I don't run in those circles.

that's why I said typical female.

Some men marry whores and these ladies turn their lives around

^^^

you . . read your previous post and point out where it says anything about 'dangerous'

Mrs, Chima:
No.

of course. typical female

cant trust any of them whores

yup.

Some good wives started as hidden whores .  .sorry

then they went to church, asked for forgiveness and put their experience to good use on some 'clean men'.

You know the rest of that story 

circle_of_life . .

nasty

Mrs, Chima:
It is funny you said IVF cos I asked Chima what if we had to use IVF? He said he doesn't want clone babies.

I am like baby, they will be using your Fluid and my egg.

Help your brother!

I got no problem with IVF. . .in fact, thank God for that opportunity.

But, why worry about it if we dont have to?

If i didnt have any child at all and it was the only option, then . .sure, why not

Mrs, Chima:
However, if you are talking about going out with other couples.

that's my definition

what is your definition of 'doubledate'?

With my own definition, there's nothing wrong with it

how will I ignore a lady and start toasting a big snake

Mrs, Chima:
I got the hunch praise.

it is what it is

This op is funny o

when some men are spending millions on IVF!!

you think they'd frown when the tummy starts shooting??

When my wife told me the stick was blue, I went on my knees and sang 'Awesome God, how great Thou art'

does that sound like a frown to you??

^^^

OK . . that aint WHAT this thread is about.

It is about the religious body treating a husband and wife as one. . . .simples??

it is what it is . . battle of the sexes . . yea.

come on to the romantic spot . . let's go battle a little . .

Mrs, Chima:
I understand most men will shout out that men are the head of household and women should just sit back and listen. I often time argue with religious leaders when I asked them those very same questions, if a man leaves his parents and CLEAVED INTO HIS WIFE how can he be a head over her?

Really . .is that what this thread is about . . pls refer me to where I said the man in the head of the household in this thread??

Must you turn everything into a war of the sexes

You are free to read all my lines again . .

I aint going there with you. _{if you want to bug me as usual, you know our hangout spot}

You wont kill yourself or anyone else.


cry a bit, suck it up and become the siblings you already are.

j.pilata:
Nigeria should learn from Germany.A very good example to learn from.

That is so un-African.

African leaders are kings - they dont resign