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RomanceRe: Love B/w A Blackman And A White Woman by kokoye(m): 10:05pm On Feb 14, 2012
I used him for added effect  grin

even an ugly black man can get a pretty white chick  . . . something the op will always cry over.
RomanceRe: Love B/w A Blackman And A White Woman by kokoye(m): 9:59pm On Feb 14, 2012
swallu:
. . . The angelina jolies,the jennifer anistons,the celine dions and other whitewomen which belong to the class of beautiful women of average size is beyond the blackman's reach.The only choice a blackman has is by hooking up to a fat ugly looking caucasian woman . . .
You betcha . . i bet this hurts. Even if they're separated . . but he used to tap it. tongue

https://www.zillow.com/blog/files/2010/12/seal-heidi-klum.jpg
RomanceRe: Why Am I So Independent? by kokoye(m): 8:04pm On Feb 14, 2012
Oh Nairaland! undecided
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Married To His Draft Game by kokoye(m): 6:01pm On Feb 14, 2012
Does he play draft at home . . or leaves the house to play?
Christianity EtcRe: What God Has Joined Together . . . by kokoye(op): 5:52pm On Feb 14, 2012
^^^

You are right.

Some people take control of their households . . but some are called rebels when they try to go against the will of the church. . .so these vulnerable types keep quiet and suffer inside.

But   . .back to your post. . what is the church . . a place where we can gather for encouragement and upliftment . . a place that preaches the same phrase I have up there . . ?

I am not blaming the church. I'm just trying to find out why some church leadership(s) do this - there may be valid reasons for it.
Christianity EtcRe: What God Has Joined Together . . . by kokoye(op): 4:16pm On Feb 14, 2012
lol

Why do you expect me to develop an attitude?

You made a valuable contribution to the thread.

Thank you for the post . . and telling it like it is.
Christianity EtcWhat God Has Joined Together . . . by kokoye(op): 3:45pm On Feb 14, 2012
This is a religous thread - a place where we can anonymously come and discuss and gain better understanding and explanation. At least that is what it ought to be. It is not every thread created that is meant to incite hate and bashing . .some of us just want to discuss and understand things better. I cannot go to the church leadership to ask these questions cos they might label me a rebel.

So, having said that, here is my question smiley

"What God has joined together, let no man put asunder"

Why do some churches put aside this biblical phrase and deal with only one member of a family?:


  - They make a wife or husband a deacon without at least informing the spouse

  - They call a wife or husband and tell them they want to use their house for home cell fellowship  . .without consulting the spouse

  - They assign a volunteer job to a husband or wife without consulting with the other party. . .this is a job that will definately take precious time away from the family.

  - They send out separate letters (to the husband and wife) when it is time for seeds and donations.



Can someone please explain why this is so?

I understand some posters may tend to turn this into a bashing thread - that is not my aim nor am I in control of it. Please ignore such posts.

Hopefully we can talk about this in a mature way.
EducationRe: Moremi Roof Blown Away by kokoye(m): 6:07pm On Feb 13, 2012
those girls have enough aristo money to fix it. they shouldnt depend on the authorities for that.
FamilyRe: Mother And Child by kokoye(op): 10:12pm On Feb 10, 2012
Outstrip:
. . My mom was the terrorist . .
cheesy cheesy

I really wasnt talking about spanking per se. You shouldnt have to beat a toddler to make them do what needs to be done.
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by kokoye(m): 10:08pm On Feb 10, 2012
Metalgoong:
Below is[b] Lefulefu[/b] and Mr Cork shopping Val gifts for[b] Onila[/b] . . . grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
cheesy

All kinds of bend down coste.

coste onirin, coste onike, coste alasa.

It's the thought that counts ojare grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: Appaling Threads On The Romance Section by kokoye(m): 9:44pm On Feb 09, 2012
~Killz~:
[color=#000030]Chairman free me o. . . I dey fex! grin[/color]
^^^
I can tell . . .coolu temper.

This phone is affordable . . a perfect val gift for her  wink

[url]http://www.oohwee.net/2011/02/21/vertu-signature-cobra-%E2%80%93-310000/[/url]
RomanceRe: See What A Nigerian Man Bought For His Naija Girl For Valentine Day by kokoye(m): 9:41pm On Feb 09, 2012
I remember back then in uni when females bought gifts and addressed it to themselves on vals day . . so as not to feel left out cheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: Appaling Threads On The Romance Section by kokoye(m): 9:37pm On Feb 09, 2012
~Killz~:
[color=#000030] For a while now, the romantic side of me has not be radiating and that's to be blamed on spurious superfluous threads. . .

I don tire!
[/color]
Perfect excuse for not buying someone a valentine gift  . . .keep it up bro grin
RomanceRe: Who Is A Beautiful Woman? by kokoye(m): 9:34pm On Feb 09, 2012
Mr, Cork:
Bro just look at a lady like Mrs Chima, Slimyem, Goldieluk, Zolzoro, La pariseine, Annawhite and so on. They dont fit in that category (no Oofeinsese) undecided
Are those women? grin

You cant be too sure
RomanceRe: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship? by kokoye(m): 9:32pm On Feb 09, 2012
heyy

I'm definately too old for this site, if theyre complaining of who makes the most calls

. . .how have you been??
BusinessRe: GTBank Tries To Force Dollar Mastercard On A Customer by kokoye(m): 9:12pm On Feb 09, 2012
^^^

erm . . sorry bros, but you you take know say that person attend any school at all sef?

person wey no fit subtract 67 from 97?

I go naija university for undergrad . . and look at me now! grin
RomanceRe: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship? by kokoye(m): 9:08pm On Feb 09, 2012
juvenile deliquency,

phone calls??

I'm getting too old for Nairaland
BusinessRe: GTBank Tries To Force Dollar Mastercard On A Customer by kokoye(m): 9:03pm On Feb 09, 2012
Chima2012:
I am so proud of you Seun. Every Nigerian must learn to stand up and be counted or sit down and be trappled upon. I have had a nasty experience with GTB myself regarding my Master Card and was treated in a very funny and embarrassing way worst than you. I wrote a Petition and threatened to take the Bank Manager and the Bank to Court. Within 24 hours, the matter was resolved and my Card started working. It is so funny how things work out speedily when you STAND UP. Within just one week, the price of fuel was reduced. We should learn to speak up more. Bravo! You have made my day. Naija is alive in you.
Did you read the post well?  It happened to someone else, not Seun.

And the price of fuel did not really go down . . they only hussled you into believing you achieved something.

97 - 67 naira  . . .did that go down?
FamilyRe: Mother And Child by kokoye(op): 4:47pm On Feb 09, 2012
^^^

my point exactly.

God bless
FamilyRe: Mother And Child by kokoye(op): 8:38pm On Feb 08, 2012
^^

Well, your post does not apply in all cases.

I know situations in which the father spends the same time with the kids as the mom . . .but the mom still wants to condone while the father enforces rules.

When it is time to enforce rules, the mom will walk away and call the father to do the job.

The kid notices this and think they father is the devil.

So . . .sorry, this has nothing to do with time spent with the child.
RomanceRe: Worst Pick-up Lines. Ever! by kokoye(m): 5:45pm On Feb 08, 2012
That guy is a slacker

_________

Are you sure you are not gay?

______________

I know you want me . .I just need to hear it

________________


tongue
FamilyRe: Who Will Be The Only Person You'd Save In This Scenario? by kokoye(m): 9:59pm On Feb 07, 2012
Funny all the guys are choosing their wives.

I bet the wife will save the child.

#whataworld

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