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and to everyone on this thread . .

God is love.

JeSoul:
@kokoye,
   abeg brother no vex ehn we've shifted your thread small. Make me self take advantage of that calm, gentle spirit wey you get  . Me wey suppose lead by example I dey crash your thread, oga no vex ehn. Tank you.

Vex ke?  I know better. . .at my old age!

vexing provokes my blood pressure 

I'm a work in progress o . . .I sabi vex and call people names too, but it does me no good.

God bless you.

ThiefOfHearts:
anyway Im out. as for you kokoye, I agree with you. maybe it's the whole "husband is the head" so thy give the matters to him instead of the couple? Who knows.

As for me?

but, the husband is not the one singled out. I have actually noticed that wives are approached first in such situations . . .maybe because of their emotions and dedication. . .easier to convince . . or work on . .maybe?

I might be wrong.

Again, this is not always the case.

God bless us all.

told them i passed.

first year in college, i realised I couldnt survive by just buying food everytime. . .so i told my mom to send me soup and foodstuff.

She was too excited that her spoilt son wanted to start cooking . . . she came to my hotel with my dad, two younger sisters and the driver.

All of them formed a line and had a pot or bad of food in their hands . .walked thru the entire hall to find my room.

of course, everyone in the hall got out to see whose room they were going.

Jambito like me, I was sooo embarrased I did not step out of the room o . .I waited for them to come in.

women and bad belle = men and fornication

many do it but not all.

Which corrupt operator will operate the lie detector machine?

even the lie detector machine can be influenced.

niddamugu:
Ask those who have just been sacked today and they will tell you. Just pray that you get the job first. And if the package is not better than what you already have then you either remain where you are or use the platform to boost your CV as one of the places you worked. Wise up brother!

good advice.

Why are there always more females than males in the shopping malls?

The ratio of women's clothing to men in a store is like 75:1 . . .why?

Why does a wife's clothing n shoes cover 85% of a couples closet . .or they'll take over 62% of your space with sepate closets?


Why??

I saw the video with some relatives. I had some concerns but I focused on the main message of repentance.

The guy played back the glorious music that was being played at his arrival in heaven - the famous Haleluyah chorus by Handel. At that point, some of my relatives believed every word he said simply because he mentioned Haleluyah chorus being played in heaven.

I asked how the song validated his story - these relatives said their own pastor had told them Haleluyah chorus by Handel would be played in heaven. That was all they needed to believe his story.

I kept quiet.

Please focus on the man's message of repentance . . heaven is real.

dare2think:
The apology was for 'almost derailing your thread'.

You know, some people should actually be visiting the hospital for mental diagnostic checks. The rate of demented people on Nairaland is really alarming and religion is often used to cover up their deep issues.

Anyway, point taken.
Take care.

I work on the traffic team in church - we control the traffic and guide people to park properly. But still, some tenured church members would deliberately park on double lanes, daring anybody to correct them, while some would lash out at you when you tell them to slow down so as not to hit pedestrians. Some of these people have major issues at home - they bring the pain and anger with them to church. Are we supposed to fight them in return? No, we try to calm them down and let them smile . . or simply walk away if need be. I have learnt the art of doing that

Think of Nairaland as an avenue for some to release tension . . a place where people can anonymously derive joy from dishing out hate and pain. . . since it seems to make their life better.

Some cannot stand anyone opposing their views or analyzing what they hold sacred.

But you know what, that is the true beauty of this anonymous forum. I have learnt to understand and deal with personalities as needed.

I used to be very emotional and would get provoked easily. But I have been able to put all that under subjection now because I tolerate personalities more. . . and I know how, who and when to ignore . . that's no sin

Have a great day and God bless.

stillwater:
I don't think naija men mind when they also wear one boxer in 5 months.

Coldwater, this is a female bashing thread.

Please dont derail

^^^

Apologies for what . .giving personal opinions on this thread??

Naa, that is what forums like this are meant for.

Thanks for Nairaland . . I have learnt that people have different opinions . . we see a color and have different names for it

And yes, I am not perfect and still earning. I will ask questions when I feel there is a need to.

And yes, I dont expect everyone to take things the way I do . . that's life.

And I will not judge anyone based on their posts or comments.

God be with us all.

^^^

I dont see it that way . . because of somethings I have personally witnessed (not directly at me). . . you call a spouse to sit in front without inviting the other party. . . or you celebrate a spouse without mentioning the other party at all.

But guess what, I dont want to push this further, since it may appear as something else to some people.

Thank you for your words of wisdom.

God bless.

good . . leave that to us then.

are you a man??

is she ugly?