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It is not a sign of weakness.

It just shows you care about her and feel sad that she's leaving you . . .that's all.

I shed tears when my wife had a 7-month miscarriage and was also at the point of death. Imagine some Nigerian lady at the hospital said I was behaving like a lady!

One look from me and she got on her knees and started apologizing for what she said.

who cares what people think? I dont live for them.

I really dont care.

^^^

Na so e easy?

Anway, no matter how tough, you have to try to move on. Keep yourself busy by investing your time in things that will make you a better person . . sports, tutoring, . .whatever.

A lot of times, running off to another date in order to forget your ex does n ot always work.

Good luck

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Nothing . . .just asking.

any crime in that?

dabrake:
This kokoye guy sabi vex no b small. I created this thread due to an argument with some guys. Why u dey vex? Na ma humble observation. I didn't say all men. Take note.

I'm just saying you have the wrong kinda friends. Unfortuately they get to influence almost everything about you

Time for you to move on.

So no be say I wan vex like that.

Yup.

Is it a male-bashing thread.

Just a simple question for you: How old are you . . and your friends?

A mature and responsible (or married man) will not have the same mindset as you and / or your friends in this day and time.

I am a 100% Nigerian man and will not encourage you  to sleep with a married woman . . maybe it is because I am married. Hope you catch my drift. And I can bet you none of my friends will encourage you either. So yea, your friends matter as well.

To your next question (or bashing), the way were we raised as African men, you are classified as a failure if you cannot provide financially for your household. Except you did not grow up in Nigeria. So, yea, it does affect us more than the women. In every happy family, the man is the bread-winner. Most women cannot even handle being the bread-winner in Nigeria. You can blame the system for that.

So . . . .you can choose to continue with your stylish bashing. The fact that you are a man (or call yourself one) does not matter.

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funny.

That suggestion is not going to stop someone who wants to cheat.

They want variety, as in different women . . .not only different styles.

Unfortunately, the poster's husband may not stop until something drastic happens. . .sadly

poster using us for practise . . .

good luck with your career move

Chima . . .around the back . . who cares what you wear??

lol

now cool

did you just use that word?

not cool

Who knows . . maybe the guy enjoyed the slaps. #beastiality

Only a dunce would stay there like that with nothing to gain.

MsDarkSkin,

Have you EVER disagreed with anything Chima said, or says??

You wish.

She's now married to a Nigerian man.

All he did was told her he loved her

. . and bam! they started making babies

I need Chelsea to win this match.  . . .so Man U can catch up with city.

I don do my part by using remote juju to get a man city guy sent off the field ooooo

Otuocha:
all of a sudden, she received a phone call from her somebody that the guy has bought a car . she started making funny funny thing. ?

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call girl is an ashi with glamour

like those 'unilag' babes abi 

^^^

No need to imagine.

I spelt it out.

Jandite.

first time I'm seeing that word. na wa.

She did it on purpose.

You dont keep that kid of secret from your future spouse except you know he would think twice about the marriage.

whatever he decides to do is up to him . . but for me, that is a perfect ground for divorce.

what is a marriage without trust?

Who knows what else she is hiding?

musKeeto:
Although, I suspect the poster you quoted agrees with you

You are right.

. . .and my post was just an expansion of his quote.

Sagamite:
Most are skinny girls that cannot carry Nigerian attire well.

Another result of 'slave / poverty' mentality.

Who made 'skinny' the 'perfection'  . . .no be oyinbo?

why do girls want their skin to be lighter . . .no be because of oyinbo?

fake hair, animal hair, malu hair, indian hair . . .no be to look like oyinbo?

and you see a lot of our music videos, na light skinned (oyinbo-looking) girls. why?


Whoever said fleshy girls cannot be fit and healthy??

Surprises me everytime when some males on this forum (obviously Nigerians) say every fleshy or fat girl is ugly! imagine!!

When I was growing up in my fatherland, a pretty girl had flesh, looked well fed, fit and healthy at the sametime. Her clothing was not looking for where to hang or dropped on her. . . they fit perfectly.

But now, it is now a show of fashion for undies or hooks to drop on ladies. . that shows they are skinny.  Very sad.

Call me an old man or old school, but I could never marry a skinny girl . . I could only date them if they came along, while I was single of course. My choice.

I aint saying skinny is bad. . . .but we just need to stop this inferior mentality that fleshy is ugly. The europeans brought it and ignoramus are killing for it.

Saddens me when I see fresh, succulent and plump ladies killing themselves to be skinny.

Obese is unhealthy.   Fleshy, fresh, succulent and plump is also good-looking.

Nice video by the way.

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na you go kiss Gagool!

I even blocked her from the ICQ chat program . . .for lying!

Na only God sabi how many gagools dey on this forum sef

Like 12 years ago, I flirted with someone who sent a sent me a pix she took like 75 years ago

When I eventually saw her, I swear she could pass for a man. _{you remember Gagool?}

I posterated and said I would come back when she got off work.

. . .i'm still waiting for her to get off work.

If you can handle it . . .why not?

Just have his back . .all the way.

For all you who dont appreciate what Seun has done;

He CREATED and PROVIDED an avenue for you to mingle, have fun and run your mouths anonymously. He also made some of you moderators . .most of which he has never met. Yes, he can be dictatorial at times, but that is required for the success of a business.

And yet you do not think that counts for something.

What has any of you done that has affected or influenced more than 5 anonymous lives??

Thank you Seun . . .and goodluck in all you do.

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huh?? . . I was expecting a punch . . .you ok?

Rokiatu said you did . . or she was trying to give it to you.

Mrs, Chima:
What?!

you "old as dirt"

I used to rock all kinds of hairstyles, curls, waves and perms when I was younger. And my mom would think I was pocessed since I spent hours in front of the mirror . .appreciating my 'fine' hair.

But now (several years later), when God said 'no need' by removing the hair, do I have a choice?

So . . it has nothing to do with complex, my sister(s)

It is what you are comfortable with . . and make you look decent.

whatever rocks your boat.