princeemmma: Recently I heard my daughter saying "Zazoo zeh" she is not up to 2years though. Am that kind of person that always caution myself and watch the kind of music I listen at home, but she did not learn the word at home, am sure she might have heard it somewhere in her mom shop, because my wife shop is located somewhere very rough, a lot of children in the environment. But my wife does not see this as a big deal. She always told me that she can't stop the little girl from playing with other children in the hood and that's true. That day when I heard her say that word, I called her to myself and told her not to say the word again that it's not good saying such word, she nodded in approval.
Two days ago I heard her saying this common words "Eni pe". I felt really bad, because I don't want my daughter to learn those bad words, but my wife feel am overreacting.
Am I overreacting truly? How do I stop my daughter from saying such words?
Please help a friend
Mine told me, r u mad, I had to stop him going to my mum place.....
Largehead1930: I’ve been battling with this for years. It seems my head is a big bigger than that of others. I always wear faze caps but people still see my big head. Please I need motivation o. I don’t know if it’s reason why some babes will give me their phone number and refuse picking my calls afterwards I can’t even wear Those Hausa caps cos my size no dey there .
It’s really affecting my self esteem
That head should be your selling point, belive in your self jarey, me get big eyes . Bigger than tinubu eye. But the eyes na selling point. So Man up.
BBBmall25: I saw the pics on my friend phone and I love it. But curious as, do they really practise all these with their partners? Pls share ur experience cause I'm not close to any of their ardent
massmediang: I met the only surviving twin saved by Mary Slessor over 100 years ago (Video)
Mary Slessor was a missionary posted from Scotland to Calabar in Nigeria by the Presbyterian Church in 1876. She also lived in Arochukwu Nigeria during her missionary work. Mary Slessor stopped the killing of twins in Nigeria and she achieved this by saving a lot of twins either left in the bush to die or from their homes where their mothers hid them. One of the twin babies Mary Slessor saved by herself before the killing of twins was finally abolished is Mgbeafor Okereke. I met her in her home in Amasu, Arochukwu, where I had an amazing interaction with her.
Tetrahedron: Ladies and Gentlemen, Kindly help this community by populating list of places of locations that you know are unsafe in Lagos state ( Day or Night)! Thanks and God Bless!
See, it's everywhere in lagos, just pray make bad thing to happen to you,nowhere is safe in lagos, its just rate and frequency of the crime.
EkehPraise: Like every well brought up young man, I'm in my early 30's and really doing fine at least I'm not begging for anything from anyone.
I set out this year to wife my girlfriend whom I had dated for 2 years but her character made me think twice so we broke up and I moved on. I have tried to make friends with matured ladies in the church I worship but it's been from one bad experience to another.
Ever since I started looking for a woman to call my wife I have been meeting different characteristics of women. Within the space of 1 year I've met one who is a maniac, one I met at a hangout didn't hesitate to show her lazy attitude the day she came to my place to see I'm a bit comfortable, another one I met recently in church turned out to be a thief.
2021 is almost over and I'm yet to find a wife. Where do you advice I go in search for a good woman?
Wife material scarce oh!
Dm me, I got someone for you, my sister very homely and beautiful, 08035688323.
edunaragold: A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.
Tell me about it?
You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.
Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.
I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.
So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.
simple defination of me......thank God for Life...
Pls remove your eye dear, anyways I got 2 beautiful ladies ready for marriage, one my sister other and wife sister...incase u change your mind sha, holla me
I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.
We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.
I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.
I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.
Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.
I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.
Pls remove your eye dear, anyways I got 2 beautiful ladies ready for marriage, one my sister other and wife sister...incase u change your mind shq, holla me
We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.
I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.
I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.
Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.
use that same money to get yoursef your own place.....
wahala go come i repeat wahala go come
Timekeeper: Advice Needed. I Have An Issue Bothering My Soul And Life..
I am based on the mainland and I recently came back from akwa Ibom where I did my youth service... I stay with my brother on mainland hoping to get a job and move out..
By God grace, there is possibility of me getting a Job on the island even though it is not yet concluded... Meanwhile the job will be on probation as I am currently being trained on it.
I have a lady Frnd Dt I met since last year, no sexual stuff btw us. We have just been friends. She stays on the island (ajah) and her rent is expired, though she didn't plan to continue living in That house. Our plan is Dt she is moving out and I will pay but recently she had some financial issues and wunt be able to move out again. So she suggested that we should pay another 1 year rent.
My concerns: 1. She is not really troublesome but sumtyms she is very stubborn. Anyway she is a Good lady sha.
2. Possibility Dt her sis will stay with us. I don't know much abt her sis and I don't want trouble.
3. a. The house is located in a ghetto like area in Ajah where the bathroom has no door and even the next person bathroom and people outside will know u r the one bathing. (bathroom fence not tall and no roof)
3.b. The toilet fence are so short that the next person can see u and u can see him/her while pooing . I love privacy and this kind life is not what I wished for..
4. The environment is notin to write about but I can cope... .
What should I do? I don't intend rejecting this job due to lack of a good place to stay and I can't stay In mainland to be working in island which of course is still a probatory stuff.
Nairaland family, I am so confused right now......
I was being attacked for speaking up online about the FOURSCORE HOMES COLLAPSE tragedy that happened in Ikoyi yesterday by naming and shaming the prime developer and owner Femi “Fourscore” Osibona.
Nigerian style I wasn’t the right person to expose the name of the developer. We are family friends.
We grew up in the same neighborhood, his siblings are my friends, I attended parties at their family home as a kid, he was a neighborhood “role model” as we were growing up, his best friend is one of my big Egbons in Lagos.
I was expected to keep quiet. But i worry. I worry because we have become a society that keeps quiet when crimes are perpetuated by those within our circles.
I have always been a hustler NOT a General contractor. I do my own shit. I do not seek favors from nobody, neither have I in the past, so I legitimately is free to say whatever I think is right.
Fourscore cut corners.
He got an approval for 15 floors. In July 2020, Lagos State Government sealed off the property based on the report of use of substandard building materials by the structural engineer who pulled out.
Yet he did underhand deals and got it unsealed and added 6 floors on top making it 21floors!
In every single development he has done, in the UK and South Africa, he always added floors to the approvals!
I am in possesion of court papers on every single property he did in England (Hackney, Peckham and Bath Road). He always unscrupulously added floors against local regulations and approval. This is not an incident in isolation!
360 degrees, Ikoyi is his biggest development yet. And he added 6 floors.
On a second note, People are dead and cries are still being heard as at this morning underneath the rubble of that collapse .
I used to publish ISLAND DIARY MAGAZINE (2011-14), that gives legitimacy to my cry.
Infact there are many things that should be said about this tragedy and the developer, but we will leave it out in the interest of National Peace and Stability.
People like Dele Momodu, custodians of media in Nigeria who should naturally speak up in matters like this are keeping quiet. Why?
Was it not the same Femi Fourscore that gifted Dele Momodu the Penthouse he now lives in Shalom Apartments on 2-4 Mosley Road, Ikoyi? Wheels of corruption!
We should all try to really advocate to make changes in the rubbish going on in the country. When people ask me if I will run for office, I tell them NO! I don’t want the office but I know those who shouldn’t be there!
My life mission is in seeing real people who truly can make changes to making Nigeria work.
When young people aggregate and hid in their online caves and secretly think waiting for their turn to “chop” or seek favors from their friends that are “chopping”, then we have a problem.
A Nigeria that works is in the interest of everyone. There is no business you do that will work, if Nigeria doesn’t work.
Nononsenseguy: Good day all, hope your day is going well.
I'll go straight to the point. I rented a 2 bedroom flat for my mum last year October, paid agent and lawyer fees, the agent never told me the place has the landlady living in it.
My mum was happy and moved into the apartment, I noticed that after some months she was complaining about the house, I finally went there to see her, guess what? The landlady is a devil in human form, she's an unmarried bitter human who was opportuned to inherit the building from her family. This woman locked the well and told my mum and younger bro to source for water elsewhere, I was mad when I got to hear what she's making my family go through. I came to the house and removed the padlock she locked the well with, she called my mom and told her to pack out when her rent expires next week.
Well, since she thinks the world revolves around her and wants everyone to fear and worship her, I'll show her what real madness is.
I have decided to ask her for a refund of the agent and lawyer fees I paid since it's barely one year, she can't stress my family this way and get away with it.
To everyone reading this, I have one advice, never live in the same building with the landlord or you would have yourself to blame at the end of the day.
Please nairalanders, Is my action justified?
I feel your pain bro, but my landlord na nigga like me, all I need to do every month to buy brandy or whisky, we cool. Intact best Landlord ever, he dash all the tenants 6months rent cos of coro, so sorry bro, please get a lawyer, don't act rash..
FalseProphet1: I see buhari banning all exams across the country, I see him converting universities, polytechnics and colleagues of education to cattle ranch, I see buhari ordering Nigerian youths to go into the bush and learn farming.
[quote author=FalseProphet1 post=106128753]I see buhari banning all exams across the country, I see him converting universities, polytechnics and colleagues of education to cattle ranch, I see buhari ordering Nigerian youths to go into the bush and learn farming.
Righteousness2: Nasa is Preparing to fly Vehicles , Governments are Preparing and Investing to Jab People, JESUS Christ is Preparing to Lift People out of this Earth.
Behold, I shew you a mystery; We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
Get Ready Folks! Don't get relaxed in this Sinking Ship! In a time you least Expect, the twinkling will Happen, the Trumpet will sound and millions over the world will be lifted from here to the sky, to meet the LORD in the air.
Nobody going no where, rapture Don happen Tey Tey, na the fourth phase of the world we are experiencing, we all die here....sidon there.