₦airaland Forum

killerman57:
He should tear that result and throw it away, why should he buy an I phone for a child..... nonsense, by the way, that's even a mid term result .......

Oga, everybody is not Buhari that promises change and later Change promise when it is time to keep them.

The man should buy the phone and put it in a "kid mode", simple. A real man's word is his bond.

amokeme:
power you mean?

I know what both words mean ma! Abeg no force any into my mouth.

MarieSucre:
Who does the cooking?

You don't expect a bread winner to still come home and be the bread toaster

MarieSucre:
Who washes all the clothes?

The maid or washing machine

MarieSucre:
Who tidies the house?

Whoever appreciates a clean environment bears the burden.

MarieSucre:
Who looks after the children?

Both parents but whoever have bigger breasts among them should look after them more

MarieSucre:
Wakes up at night once the little one starts crying?

Wife and sometimes the husband, it depends on whom the kid is closer to.

amokeme:
wow! Wow! Wow! you got to be kidding me! what did I just read?? Oh my goodness, ma( that is if you are a woman which I strongly doubt), you must have been through alot . May God liberate you in Jesus name!
Things are happening g in this life...

@ Kondomatic I think this is your kind of woman.

lmao. She has taken everything to a whole new level.

My dear, I think you misunderstand me, my point is, women who clamor for equal right should first of all tell their parents to stop selling them out.

You can't claim equal rights with someone who paid money on your head to have you.

He's your master.

Eerrrm, I think I agree with her that every problem in a marriage is the woman's fault. Ehen nah! It is either the wife caused it or it happened because the mother didn't her child(the husband) the good way. #Lwkmd4h

amokeme:
from your comment, I guess it's all about the money so marriage to you is a business
Anyways, you are very correct. I mean, if a wife wants equal right with her husband, then don't ever let him spend a kobo on you. And you will get your equal rights. It's very simple, life is simple

I am not talking about what a man may decide to spend on his wife. It gives us joy to spend on our women when we have.

My problem is the money we pay to marry a wife. Some states in Nigeria will give a list of items that is worth almost a million naira when you want to marry their daughter, now tell me.

How can you claim equal with someone who paid all that to have you? It is impossible

amokeme:
But I have a problem with men who think their wife/girlfriend is always up to something when she refuses any financial help from him. Some say it hurts their ego. They like to say "I'm responsible for that" "I did that for her" "I bought this and that for her" and they don't feel like a man when she refuses them that prevelege, why is that so? I mean, aren't you supposed to be happy?

Like I said earlier, it gives us joy to spend on our women.

Being able to take care of your wife and kids is an achievement on it is own. I personally don't understand why a woman would reject financial help or gifts from her husband if there's no problem between them.

That one pass me.

MarieSucre:
But all the house work rests on the wife.

I am not aware.

MzPecs:
She's beautiful

If she looks like this with all he money she has then me thinks she's ugly.

Secondly, this pix must be the best amongst 89 others that couldn't make.

@siggy. I just looked into your soul and what I saw is a security man that's even sleeping on duty.

tosyne2much:
Make I help you.. Which sectional mod ban your Tallesty1 account?

They don't show name again. It reads "banned by a moderator for ............"

tosyne2much:
You are a man of wisdom


Our customs and norms have placed women beneath men

Bros make unah protest my ban oo #unbanTallesty1

Adaeze003:
The African type marriage is just scary... sheesh...


Note that I really didn't want to quote you...

Anyhoo... you do know you're still sleeping on a pole right

It's funny how you guys carry the submission thing on your head but when someone implies that submitting to a man is master-slave you guys start looking for ways to soften it up. The man can bring in who the hell ever to stay with them but the wife must get his approval when she will be the one to basically take care of the guest? She has no say and can't object to whatever "final decision" the said husband makes? And the marriage is a union and not slavery?

Oh well... good luck to ya wife sha.

And try and wake up from that pole before you'll be forming head and end up beheading the family...

I hate what I am about to type but I kinda agree with the person you quoted and technically speaking, wives in down here are being bought which places them well below their husbands.

To begin with, a man owns the house, I mean the building they live in, most girls cannot marry a guy who doesn't own a house. The man most times pays the rent if they're staying in a rented apartment which makes it his house not their house so he can bring in whoever he wants to so far the person is not a crook.

Finally, consider what the men pass through, when you see a woman you want to marry, her family will tax you mightily and when you pay everything they asked for and pay a certain amount of bride price, they will hand the girl over to you.(isn't that business?) keep love aside please, this is pure business arrangement, you pay for their daughter before she becomes you wife.

So she was bought and cannot be equal with you.

A lot of things need to change for our women to enjoy certain privileges in their marriage.

There's this outdated mentality of some ladies that "her money is her money but her husbands money is their money" meaning that the pays almost all the bills and yet they clamour for equal rights.

It smells like nonsense.

MzPecs:
Dear OP, don't waste your curse because it won't even have any effect on him!

Sometimes we create our own heartbreak through expectations. What were you expecting to see when you went ahead to check his phone? A saint or what?
You even went ahead to set him up! For what nah? Ladies should always try and trend carefully with men nah..

On the guy's part, he only took advantage of your predicament and I feel sorry for you. You've got to accept your fate!

He's done with you so just take your curse far away from him and move on with your life!

Shikena!

Curses are not expensive, so free her.


BTW, why not ask her what led to their first break up?

Who dumped who?


The answer to the question will help us to understand the guy a little.

Change don catch the parrot

bigass:
Its a lie jor. 1RAnd =20Naira

699Rands mulitiplied by 20 = N13980

Your moniker and Mine reminds me why kids are not allowed to pick name for themselves

Kidnapper, the authorities should arrest him asaply.

BeeBeeOoh:
That's d kind of man i'll be, a man that his world will revolve round his family..

God help us to become that man In Jesus Name, AMEN

Okada chairman

Cutehector:
Op is just broke

Dry or Witty?

Fayose you're alone in this.

HateU2:
Our century is diff and we are learning everyday. Lemme just say, roll with what's in town

Some people don't get carried away that easily.

HateU2:
bcox dir sex life will be boring. Sex is not complete without bj nd heads

What you're saying if I got yau correctly is that all the people that lived when there was nothing like Bj and Cj had boring and incomplete sex lives?

esthel:
Huh.....issokay, with dat her wide mouth, if not for Linda who go ever ever look ur side

She's one of the reasons some men will not like to be with Linda.

HateU2:
I pirry ur wife to be

Why? If I may ask

I will be disappointed if I don't hear your testimony in church tomorrow.


Breaking up with her is a such a blessing that deserves thanksgiving both in church and shrine.

When he makes it tomorrow, some folks will start tapping his blessing without caring to know what he went through.

Change has caught up with the poor animal.

YourMrBoo:
The definition has answered the whole question...

One endangers human life while one doesn't...

Two of them endanger human life.

Testing! Testing!! Testing Adulthood!!!

She will catch cold when Airfoce1 finally blows.

Evils

Has your government removed Alphabets subsidy? Mehn! The abbreviations are way too much.