Politics › Re: Who Takes The Credit? (photo) by Kondomatic(m): 5:02pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Nuezha: This was someone's comment on FB
"Several sophisticated architects' concepts never saw the light of day because engineers refused to make them fly. That building is perpetually under tortional moment. It's the engineer"s ingenuity that made it stand. However, the architect got the engineer thinking."
"The Builder merely interpreted and implemented all relevant drawings under Engineer's thorough supervision."
Can we agree with him? It is on situations like this that 1+1=1, though this one is 1+1+1=? but the answer is still 1. #team work. |
Romance › Re: Face Guys Make Before And After The Sex by Kondomatic(m): 4:57pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Stupedinluv: I hate the after sex look  You won't understand. |
Crime › Re: Hausa/Fulani Thugs Attack Orile In Lagos by Kondomatic(m): 2:29pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
jane0000: Why r people spreading false news na False news? |
Food › Re: What Should I Add Next?? by Kondomatic(m): 2:05pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Well, I think you should add cockroach's kidney and grasshopper's heart for good taste |
Education › Re: Futminna Students In Sports Attire For Test Today (Photo) by Kondomatic(m): 2:02pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
bhankymyk: The test was conducted by a proffersor in futminna who is the chairman of sport commitee
Does Those that did not dress sportishly are sent out |
Celebrities › Re: Dencia Offers To Pay Ayodele’s House Rent(pic) by Kondomatic(m): 1:57pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Thancuuuu Dencia |
Education › Re: I Scored 199 In The Ongoing JAMB Not 399 - Ibrahim Shamwilu From Kogi (photo) by Kondomatic(m): 1:54pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Mediapace: Bro what was your own jamb score,na you dull pass! I know |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 1:49pm On Mar 05, 2016 |
Adaeze003: Actually one sensible mention from a guy/man, no insulting word or comment... me likey.
Actually, marriage is a union. I mean, even the whites, as rational as they are know this, why do you think every asset is split down the middle in divorce?
Now, you must understand that no one is sharing "head of house" with man. Also, I don't subscribe to african type marriages where I'll live my whole life stroking a man's ego. Well if you subscribe to it then ignore the rest of the post. But if you're talking Christian type marriage go on...
Now, on the submission issue, you have to agree that men are also to love their wives like their own body/self? And even unto dying for her Do you think it's that feeling of the heart pumping faster when you see her? Do you really think women have the hardest part? Love is synonymous to selflessness and putting her/her needs/wants before yours , overlooking her flaws(even if one of those flaws is not being submissive ), I can go on but I think you get the picture after all bible says "like Christ himself loves the world"!
But hey! What the average Nigerian man wants is slavery, the right to never be questioned by their wives even when they poke other holes, ultimately, they want to be gods of their wives. It might work, but only for sometime even for the insecure women then, there's friction(fact!).
This is the reason marriages are in trouble, men have decided to not see their own part and they hold on to the submission part and carry it on their heads like agege bread. 
Complete the equation or let it go completely, if you want submission, love like you're supposed to. That's it! If not, you're in for a whirlwind of a marriage.
Oya where are all them mentioners, read and digest... Cc EgunMogaji ghostwritter gumeehn linusbnn agu87 SirJeffry engrshakespeare krismart mamaafrik kondomatic... @Emboldened is wrong. That may be what you think but it is not the truth. Most men from my tribe want a strong wife who can stand up for her rights. Nobody wants a slave. Your moniker implies that you are Igbo, right? If true then I believe you know about our traditions and values. An adage that says "agbara nwanyi n'akwu Di ya n'ihu. I hope you know what that means?. Now let me tell you where the problem starts. I will start with you. This mentality of yours that what an average nigerian man wants is slavery is a dangerous one. How? When you marry a Nigerian man tomorrow and he tries to have a final say on an issue, the defense mechanism created by this your mentality will alert you that he's trying to enslave you, and then advice you to say NO. Before you know it, you guys will start fighting over something that doesn't make sense. Secondly, most nigerian girls are of the opinion that men should work hard to earn the submission, this is dangerous too. Because a man who comes to your father's house to pay your bride price loves you already. Now when you fold hand and wait for him to do some unrealistic things before you can submit to him, you become impossible to love. I am not denying the fact that we have many demons out there oo. Finally, when you discuss marriages in Nigeria, pls always remember this! The way Igbo men treat wives if different from the way yoruba men treat their own and both of them are different from that of hausa people so you can't say an average Nigeria when the three major tribes in Nigeria treat women differently. |
Romance › Re: Wired Photos From Mother-to-be's Photoshoot That Included Late Husband by Kondomatic(m): 10:56am On Mar 05, 2016 |
I guess he was a good husband |
Business › Re: Bank Robbery! Is First Bank New MONTHLY FEE Charge Right? by Kondomatic(m): 10:54am On Mar 05, 2016 |
They don deduct from my own sotey the money come finish, now they're telling me to come and deposit something so that they will see where to deduct for next month. What Nonsense! Can't I even afford to be broke  |
Celebrities › Re: Burna Boy Finally Unveils His New Look…cool Or Not? [see Photo] by Kondomatic(m): 10:51am On Mar 05, 2016 |
People who have "Boy" in their name are always childish and weird.
Charley Boy, Burna Boy, etc. |
Politics › Re: Reasons For The Current Hardship In Nigeria by Kondomatic(m): 10:48am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Things are hard because Buhari is the president. Very simple |
Politics › Re: Probe Of Judges: Judges In Trouble Over Bank Accounts by Kondomatic(m): 9:08am On Mar 05, 2016 |
chukwudi44: Incorruptible indeed!! The same man who forged his WAEC certificate And said that Abacha never stole. chukwudi44: if Buhari makes the mistake of fighting the judiciary, he would definitely live to regret it. Don't forget any alleged corruption case would still have to be decided by the same judiciary He doesn't understand what he's doing. Trust me here. |
Romance › Re: Caption This Photo, Even The Lady In Green Is Confused by Kondomatic(m): 9:03am On Mar 05, 2016 |
delishpot: Nowadays, I see God in everyone, thus it is not a wise move to mock anyone. For in mocking a person, I am as well mocking God in them. Nah everybody God create? Methinks people like Kim K, Maheeda, Afro Candy and there likes were created by Satan on the seventh day while God was resting. |
Education › Re: UNILAG's Ayodele Dada About To Be Evicted From His Home Over Rent by Kondomatic(m): 8:59am On Mar 05, 2016 |
I understand and support what Freeze is doing, it is a good thing but I can bet my left nyash and give the right one as a bonus that the guy's rent never expire. |
Education › Re: I Scored 199 In The Ongoing JAMB Not 399 - Ibrahim Shamwilu From Kogi (photo) by Kondomatic(m): 8:56am On Mar 05, 2016 |
anath: Dull guy self. Back then when jamb was jamb,2003 jamb I scored 240 no admission mechanical Uniben. Ppl are now celebrating mediocrity, u can score 200 and be celebrated. Ppl don dull sha. God help our children.... People don dull finish my broda. |
Romance › Re: I Love It Long And Big. by Kondomatic(m): 8:54am On Mar 05, 2016 |
KashyBaby: My broda cholls may have it but one thing for sure he is busy as hell...  The OP has a pair of weak balls between his legs. He's a guy. But wait..... How you take know say your bros get am? |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 8:45am On Mar 05, 2016 |
vague: So why are 99.2% of most newly weds renting other people's houses in 2016? 99.2% of most? Doesn't sound right to me. |
Romance › Re: Is This True About A Man(photos) by Kondomatic(m): 8:31am On Mar 05, 2016 |
JeffreyJamez: Word!...
..and I thought awon feminist claim they're equal to men, so if a guy does something that warrants beating and gets beaten, if a girl does something worse,they should let her go because she is a girl ba?.......una never jam..... Don't mind those confused people |
Romance › Re: Is This True About A Man(photos) by Kondomatic(m): 7:03am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Dojupyo: Don't be a woman beater sir Nobody wants to be a woman beater but it is silly to say that whoever hits a woman is not human. What if she hits first? What if his life is in danger? What if she's armed? Huh? You know that shit they talk about walking away all the time until she's calm? I don't buy it. I can't runaway from home cause of someone that I married, if she cannot control her tongue or anger then she has no right to complain when I lose control of my hands. We all should be thought to control all part of our body. Shikena. No woman can continuously push me to the wall and continuously get away with it, it doesn't happen even if she has two pairs of vagina and four nipples. |
Romance › Re: Is This True About A Man(photos) by Kondomatic(m): 6:53am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Dojupyo: Any man who raises his hand on a woman ain't even a Human being whether officially or not  Don't be silly ma. |
Romance › Re: Is This True About A Man(photos) by Kondomatic(m): 6:52am On Mar 05, 2016 |
AgbenuAnna: so on point and d day a woman over uses her tongue she stops being a woman God bless you. In fact he just added more 20yrs in perfect health to your life. Ladies are always ready to talk what real men should and shouldn't do but nobody talks about real women. |
Politics › Re: Okorocha Flees Nigeria As EFCC Queries Diversion of 2bn bailout- Thisday by Kondomatic(m): 6:47am On Mar 05, 2016 |
PRYCE: And tell me APC members aren't corrupt!
Well it seems that power that washes your sins away on joining The Anti Progressives Congress has lost its juice  Buhari don forget all the body languages he used to know. Who is that man that prophesized that Nigeria may stone APCists before 2019? |
Crime › Re: Patience Paul, Abducted Benue Girl In Sokoto, Found by Kondomatic(m): 6:45am On Mar 05, 2016 |
We need Trump in this country |
Politics › Re: PHOTOS: Amosun Seen Controllingttraffic; King Sunny Ade Stops To Thank Him by Kondomatic(m): 6:42am On Mar 05, 2016 |
Good |
Romance › Re: Five Golden Rules For Wives To Keep There Husband And There Home Happy by Kondomatic(m): 10:02pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Alright |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 9:55pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
mamawin: most guys? I don't believe that. nowadays, couples join hands tgther to do most things. that's all I know ok |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 8:57pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Creamish: Goan unban yasef!  Lmao. It won't last forever |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 7:14pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
mamawin: don't be deceived, d wives called d shots nowadays, they jointly build d house, buy d cars, pay sch fees, etc. so which one is ' his house'? although Im of d opinion that wives shud submit, it even makes it easy for her wishes to be done without d husb knowing. Most guys build house before marrying a wife so I don't know the house you're talking about |
Family › Re: Is It Polite For Husband To Seek Wife's Approval On This? by Kondomatic(m): 7:12pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
Creamish: A man is behind that handle. It's waayyy too obvious. Either that or she has been irredeemably brainwashed. Goan sleep  |
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Politics › Re: Buhari's Questionable Deal With Qatar - Olusegun Adeniyi by Kondomatic(m): 6:15am On Mar 04, 2016 |
RZArecta: you obviously don't get/comprehend what was written in the article She's a Buharist and Buharists believes that whatever Buhari does is good. |