Politics › Re: Presidency Fires Back At Obasanjo Over Claim That Tinubu Has No Plan by Kondomatic(m): 5:27pm On Oct 28, 2024 |
How about the presidency show workings instead of these Cho Cho Cho Cho? |
Travel › Re: Moment Some Ladies Saw A Train For The 1st Time As It Passed Their Village (vid) by Kondomatic(m): 5:22pm On Oct 28, 2024 |
Nothing new. Romtimi Amechi felt the same way too when he saw trains in Nigeria |
Politics › Re: Moment Politician Allegedly Assault Delivery Driver At His Abuja Home (vid) by Kondomatic(m): 7:57am On Oct 28, 2024 |
Zonefree: Everyone in Abuja is either politician or contractor 
That's what they use to deceive our girls. Nobody is being deceived |
Family › Re: Moment Lady Finds Out That She Was Adopted (pics/video) by Kondomatic(m): 7:54am On Oct 28, 2024 |
JASONjnr: She should thank God that her whole life was a life and everyone around her pretended like it was normal for her to love the wrong people and not know her real mother? She was adopted not abducted |
Family › Re: How Are Young Married Men Coping In This Economy? by Kondomatic(m): 7:50am On Oct 28, 2024 |
Everywhere choke na. You know, your people know, she sef know and her know so nobody go say you no try. |
Romance › Re: How To Control Your Wife & Manage Your Home Without Domestic Violence by Kondomatic(m): 7:47am On Oct 28, 2024 |
You will learn |
Business › Re: US Sent A Medical Aircraft To Evacuate Binance Exec, Gambaryan From Nigeria by Kondomatic(m): 6:42pm On Oct 26, 2024 |
Nazgul: What exactly was this guy's crime?
Like what did he do to make the government detain him? According those that recycle whatsapp group messages, he was Binance to devalue naira |
Politics › Re: NAF Neutralized Over 100 Terrorists On Mass Movement In Zamfara (Graphic) by Kondomatic(m): 5:28pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
October is not a good month for terrorists.
Israel dey burn them in Gaza and NA dey Suya them in Nigeria.
Good way to end the year |
Celebrities › Re: "Pretty Yoruba Girl" Trailed And Blasted For Requesting Iphone 8 From Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 5:21pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I remember my sister, out of frustration, did just that one time. After that, my mum didn't say that again.  Beautiful family |
Celebrities › Re: "Pretty Yoruba Girl" Trailed And Blasted For Requesting Iphone 8 From Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 4:46pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
Persephone1: TThe truth is whatever you say children act on it No vex oo but that time when you asked Mom where you go put something and she said put it my head. Did you put it on her head? |
Romance › Re: Girl Posted Video Of Conversation With Parent Online: Sparks Mixed Reaction by Kondomatic(m): 4:44pm On Oct 11, 2023 |
siofra: Okay how about they sat her down and explained things to her in a less demeaning manner. That girl is intelligent, but she's not just focused. They could have been more tactical in the conversation instead of shouting and slut shaming her. Like was that even necessary Her parents behaved like wild animals, what would shouting do?? It would just make her more angry.
They could have just told they don't have the money for iPhone because they want to raise money for her admission and if she does well in her first year in uni, then they'll get it for her. Talk to your children with love. You'll not die and it's more effective than screaming like a horñy goat. She doesn't owe her parents anything but they owe her everything because she didn't ask to be born, they brought her into this world. Bitter truth but the truth all the same.
I hope she grows and goes for therapy instead of popping out babies and continuing the cycle. She's a smart girl, she'll be alright. Blaming the parents is okay; some of the words they used were completely unnecessary. This raises the question: Why didn't she post the part where she made the request? We need to hear what she said and how she said it. The reaction of her parents is completely off, suggesting that something is wrong with the video; it's incomplete. On sitting her down, do you really think they haven't done that countless times? There was a time when a similar video was posted, but in that one, it was the father scolding the child, and the mother could be heard telling him to take it easy. Compare that to this one, where both parents scolded her at once, and you'll understand how tired they are of her bad behavior. The father thanked God that she was not his only child, while the mother asked why she always brings her pain. Do you still think all this is because of an iPhone 8? Kids these days can be manipulative and evil. The audacity to even ask for an iPhone 8 after failing JAMB is a topic on its own. Back when kids had fear, anyone who didn't do well in exams would try their best to make their parents happy in other ways, like cleaning, washing, starting morning devotion, and, most importantly, doing everything possible to avoid their father. But what did this one do? She failed JAMB, added it to her already accumulated list of bad behavior, then recorded her parents with a phone they obviously bought for her and shared it only for validation or what, I wonder? That child's behavior is terrible. A litter of fuel is N600 A kg of gas is N1200 Electricity bill is there. House rent is there Feeding is there Minimum wage is N30k Tinubu is president And one brat wants to kill her parents with HBP. Our parents' mental health is also very important |
Family › Re: Should She Starve Him Because He's Not Providing? by Kondomatic(m): 1:20pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
SmileDance: she won't kick the father of her kids out na She would if she was the one paying rent. It is either the man is paying or he built the house when things were good. |
Family › Re: Should She Starve Him Because He's Not Providing? by Kondomatic(m): 1:17pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: She is probably holding on desperately to the Mrs. Badge for as long as she can endure. So long as there's no abuse, why not, abi?  Or maybe she is lying |
Family › Re: Should She Starve Him Because He's Not Providing? by Kondomatic(m): 1:14pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
SmileDance: or maybe the man is the one in her house, since she's the one providing, I will assume she's also the one paying rent. Then why is she still allowing him to stay? |
Family › Re: Should She Starve Him Because He's Not Providing? by Kondomatic(m): 1:09pm On Apr 06, 2023 |
SmileDance: Was the man providing before and then probably lost his job? If this is the case then the woman is wrong, both parties are to support each other. But if the man has always been a deadbeat dad and has not been providing or taking responsibilities for anything then it is understandable. Assuming the later is the case then what is she still doing in his house? |
Politics › Re: Shehu Sani: Peter Obi's Supporters Are More Peaceful Than Buhari’s Supporters by Kondomatic(op): 2:29pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
I wonder why they didn't arrest Buhari for treason
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Politics › Shehu Sani: Peter Obi's Supporters Are More Peaceful Than Buhari’s Supporters by Kondomatic(op): 2:26pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
NO patriot should trigger or encourage anarchy; but we shouldn’t also shorten our memories’. What Peter’s supporters are doing in 2023 is more peaceful than what Buhari’s supporters did in 2011.You only need to recall the past in order appreciate the present.
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Politics › Re: Datti Is More Intellectually Sound Than Peter Obi by Kondomatic(m): 12:59pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
helinues: Hahahahaha, I bet you have not watched Shettima speaking before.
May be Shettima and Datti can be placed together but Peter Obi? That one dey the category of FFK in reasoning. So you also know that Shettima is more sound than the working dead? wow! |
Romance › Re: Why Is It Hard For A Man To Forgive A Woman Who Cheated? by Kondomatic(m): 10:57pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
pocohantas: Just last week one wrote a full epistle of not less than 10,000 words because his side-chick now has a boyfriend.  You count am
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Culture › Re: Are The Ebonyians Really Igbos? by Kondomatic(m): 10:37am On Jan 18, 2022 |
The most stupid question ever asked on nairaland |
Family › Re: Help! My Wife Is Suddenly Too Violent by Kondomatic(m): 10:33am On Jan 18, 2022 |
Mcxtraglitz: If she wasn't like that previously, it's because poor advice corrupts excellent manners. And if you've previously threatened or beaten her, her behavior could be perceived as defensive, or she could be like that—being disrespectful to you because you permitted it. She wasn't like that previously because she wanted to get married so she acted nice.
She's married and also tired of pretending to be who she's not. This right here is her true self.
I am much more interested in who's responsible for the aborted. I personally would have terminated the marriage contract after the abortion. |
Celebrities › Re: Video: If Women Can Impregnate Themselves We Won’t Need Men For Anything by Kondomatic(m): 6:45am On Jan 14, 2022 |
uthlaw: And what if men could get pregnant... Pure water will be more valuable than this gender,they contribute nothing to this world! That lady is not very bright but that's not surprising considering the fact that she is a Nigerian celebrity.
Virtually all the inventions that makes life easier were invented by men but the mumu woman is not seeing it. |
Celebrities › Re: 2face Idibia Hails Adekunle Gold Over His Transformation And Hits Songs by Kondomatic(m): 9:23am On Jan 08, 2022 |
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Agriculture › Re: This Reptile Entered A Friend's House Through The Toilet by Kondomatic(m): 6:15pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Nah on top this small thing you carry this bakassi cutlass?
The day you go come catch thief nko? |
Sports › Re: Ole Should Not Be Sacked Until The End Of The Season. (opinion) by Kondomatic(m): 6:10pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Joebayo217: Stop it u Chelsea fans leave man u alone enough is enough we have given him more time to prove himself but he mess up d Chance Let's assume you're the coach, what would you do differently? |
Celebrities › Re: I Am 21. Stop Calling Me "Ma" - Bbnaija's Angel Smith Cries Out by Kondomatic(m): 6:01pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
9182736455O1999: Or maybe in your dad balls.
sorry if i souded offensive.  Abi? Still getting ready for that orgasm 
No offense taken bro. |
Celebrities › Re: I Am 21. Stop Calling Me "Ma" - Bbnaija's Angel Smith Cries Out by Kondomatic(m): 5:15pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
9182736455O1999: Is it why you posted it on crime section.
21 years?
if you're 21 then i'm 15 
even next year she'll still be counting 21 And I am still swimming to fertilize an egg. |
Celebrities › Re: Janemena Appreciates Her Husband After Kpokpogri Sex Scandal by Kondomatic(m): 3:57pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
InfernoNig: Some men have high level of tolerance and patience. I have seen some of her twerk videos, it got me thinking how a married lady and future mother would publicly dress seductively and shake her ass in the presences of elderly people And teenagers all in the name of Fame. And I wonder what goes on in the mind of her husband, and I bet he is not ok, but what can he do, he knew what he was buying.
We have really lost morals in this generation...
My opinion though. Wives don't leave when the husband cheat and if all we have read about this couple so far are true then the woman is unfortunately the man in this marriage.
She married him. |
Celebrities › Re: Cubana Chiefpriest Leaks Maria’s Chat Pleading For Mercy From Lover’s Wife by Kondomatic(m): 3:40pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
The wife or ex wife of Kelvin is a man in heart.
My Respect |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Afghanistan Near Collapse by Kondomatic(m): 6:11am On Oct 25, 2021 |
DOTian: The Taliban promised the Qatari that they have changed and will accept human rights and all that if the Americans leave.. The Americans left. .. Immediately The Talibans got to power, they started demarcating classrooms to seperate men from women and basically started removing the womenfolk from the workforce. Sounds like what Buhari did.
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Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by Kondomatic(m): 10:00am On Oct 24, 2021*. Modified: 10:38am On Oct 24, 2021 |
pocohantas: Some people believe they should just be loved the way they are. With their good and bad. Even when they can make conscious efforts to change, they refuse to. They call it self-love. Some compromises are healthy. He is not asking you to go from dark skin to fair skin, he is only asking you reduce the salt you put in food. You na say the man that loves you would enjoy your food like that. You want to damage his liver? @Emboldened, that is selfishness nah.
No partner, even if he or she was specially made in heaven will tolerate their spouses bad character forever. They may ignore them initially(love) and give you time to improve but they will walk away when they get tired(common sense)
@OP, I personally don't believe there's anything like unconditional love and marriage isn't something you go into and stay like that; life generally.
Every sensible person should try to ID their flaws and work on them, keep improving.
Compatibility, unconditional love, these ain't things that make marriage work. Aside the fact that I don't believe in unconditional love, I also don't think there people anywhere that are compatible enough to live happily ever after marriage. That's why Adaptability is always better than compatibility.
Once the little perfections in the very flawed person you married are enough to make you stay with them, the next is to learn to live with them.
Gradually, you'd find yourself liking what they like, finding interest in their activities and hobbies and if they do same to you, the marriage don make sense be that.
People around go think say unah dey compatible. |
Crime › Re: Skeleton Of Gabby Petito's Fiance Discovered In Florida's Swamp(Pics) by Kondomatic(m): 10:11pm On Oct 22, 2021 |
Nickymezor: Hmmm, did he commit suicide? Nnamdi Kanu killed them |