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Romance › Re: Man Collects Food He Bought For Ladies That Refused To Go Home With Him: Video by Kondomatic(m): 9:00pm On Sep 20, 2021
The "future" wants free food.
Crime › Re: Black Wednesday For Me,l Was Scamed!!! My Money And Goods Gone. by Kondomatic(m): 8:58pm On Sep 20, 2021
Blackman7:
Its serves you right , he probably got fake goods in return
You're evil
Family › Re: Being A Second Wife To The Right Person Is Better Than Being A First Wife To ... by Kondomatic(m): 8:55pm On Sep 20, 2021
bukatyne:
@bold:

You know them very well grin cheesy
I don tour Northern states sotey I come dey resemble them grin
Family › Re: Being A Second Wife To The Right Person Is Better Than Being A First Wife To ... by Kondomatic(m): 8:51pm On Sep 20, 2021
pocohantas:
You perfectly described her. Everything about her screams luxury. Her clothes, jewelry, bag, shoes…everything. I once asked her if they sell those scarf together with their clothes because there is no colour she doesn’t have. cheesy

Talking with her was very enlightening. People get different agenda for this marriage something.




Interesting. grin
I would really love to read this article.

I think men know it is not always about them, but they would only agree when it favours their argument.
They've made peace with their men's polygamous nature so their focus is on themselves.

Sometimes I feel they do that in search of alternative source of happiness but what do I know? Those who find it hard to cope are the younglings that married younglings.

Those that advanced no send. The men will marry them, pay them attention for sometime and relegate them to the position of other wives and start looking for young girls to "press"

Young men in the north don't disvirgin ladies as much as married men do.
Family › Re: Being A Second Wife To The Right Person Is Better Than Being A First Wife To ... by Kondomatic(m): 8:29pm On Sep 20, 2021
pocohantas:
Lmao! I did ask her some personal questions and she answered, because I am sure it is not all rosy. She is 40 and I believe she knows what she is doing. You know some women just want to have a man’s name, have their kids in a marriage and rest . I think they are also fit for polygamous marriage. Be the dormant wife as she called it.
Exactly what happens in most families here in the North.

The women in these marriages are mainly there for the sake of being married. They have different apartments in the man's compound, all person with her own children.

Nobody has time for some men's endless wahala, he sef kuku no send because if glo no connect, airtel will connect or he will kuku buy a new Etisalat.

And just like your friend said, the women have enough time for their lives. They live it to the fullest, I am talking about those with cash.

They wear the nicest clothes, expensive ones. They have jewelries like it's free in the market. I have few of them as customers, they don't have time to bargain, just ensure it's original and high quality and you're good.

Buhari's government kuku release too much money for northerners, they are the Nigerians now.

But the wives have endless internal battles amongst them. It's gets messy sometimes.
Romance › Re: Ghanaian Couple Pleads After Being Stuck While Making Love Inside The Lake by Kondomatic(m): 8:07pm On Sep 20, 2021
Iyaebe:
Please explain in details, I'm planning to start having sex soon ,so I don't want to be caught unawares
You that have finished all the honey for your honey moon wants to start having sex?



Bia Enyi, take center seat.
Romance › Re: Ghanaian Couple Pleads After Being Stuck While Making Love Inside The Lake by Kondomatic(m): 8:01pm On Sep 20, 2021
Iyaebe:
Why do people get stuck when having sex,I need explanations
Pussy traffic

Romance › Re: After Leaking Her Plate She Wanted More by Kondomatic(m): 7:57pm On Sep 20, 2021
Tongue we God give you to use praise, worship and convert people for him na wetin you dey use do that nonsense thing
Business › Re: Naira Plunges To N575 To A Dollar Two Days After Aboki FX Update Suspension by Kondomatic(m): 7:50pm On Sep 20, 2021
SpecialAdviser:
Why do you guys keep calling this CBN governor? What nonsense?

Is Buhari not the president? Nobody can perform well under the lifeless man. [b] Tell me one parastatal doing we'll[/a] .
Banditry
Celebrities › Re: 'Who Should Be Your Next Of Kin' - Actress, Iretiola Doyle Advises by Kondomatic(m): 3:52pm On Sep 17, 2021
Iyaebe:
As a married man please your next of kin should be your wife or kid and not any family member and as a woman it should be strictly your kid to avoid stories that touch. The poster above me is a weed smoker,ignore him.
You really over value your opinion.



Who are you to tell married men who their next of kin should be?

Why should he make his kid or wife next of kin but the wife must only make her kid the next of kin?

Next of kin can he anyone and it can be more than one person. I have seen Nigerians, especially women make their kids next of kin, kids that are under 18.

I don't think it's right. A next of kin is someone that you trust and feel close to. Must not be your relation, spouse or even children.

It can be anyone.

As per inheritance, nex of kin is useless where there is a will.
Romance › Re: She's Breaking Up With Me Cuz I Won't Die For Her. by Kondomatic(m): 1:38pm On Sep 17, 2021
JimmyDarmody:
Learn not to be completely honest with people of interest especially a girl you love. What will you lose if you simply said yes you can die for her ?

We all know that a situation might never arise to test the authenticity of your statement.

This is called Cunning. A high end trait you need to succeed in business, relationships and politics.
Dishonesty might see you through politically and in your business especially in a society like Nigeria but it will ruin your relationship.

Don't baptize it to make it acceptable, it's not cunning. It is a lie.

And the problem with little lies like this is that first, it gets you out of a problem like this one that has other solutions that doesn't involve lying.

Then it becomes attractive so you apply it now and then and before you can say Jack, it is already habitual.

That was how Lai Mohammed.

I have been asked this question once, a very long time ago.

I actually thought it was a joke but my answer was no.

"Can you die for me?" she asked.


"No, I can only die for my children, any adult who is not satisfied with the one Jesus died for us should try dying for the rest of us"

She took it serious and eventually forgot about it.

Of course I could have lied to make her happy but a lie is a lie and man's word should be his bond.
Romance › Re: Women Claim They Love Slim Guys Which Is Contrarily To Reality by Kondomatic(m): 1:18pm On Sep 17, 2021
SportsHD:
Different strokes for different folks bro. It's just like how I fancy chubby, fat women and society makes it look like men like slim women.
I was going to say the same thing.

A woman's age and level in life sometimes determine what/she go for.

There is a point in a woman's life that she would want to be with the handsome, well dressed and push up doing dude in the hood and there comes a point that she would want someone who is serious in life and responsible.

If wetin the OP dey yarn nah true then some of us go just die virgin.

Because money no dey.
Fine we no fine
Body we no get
Come tall like person that is destined to work with NEPA.
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji Changes Her Son’s Surname From Her Baby Daddy’s Name To Her Father’s by Kondomatic(m): 1:11pm On Sep 17, 2021
pharmagba:
Thought she was smart
This one not a smart call.

One day whether she likes it or not the boy will ask for his father
You can never make a child hate or forget this parent . It will always boils down to the child decision
Before you conclude that people's decisions is unwise, find out the reason behind it.


Linda is unmarried so the child belongs to her father. That's their culture.
Romance › Re: Can You Do This For 700 Million?? by Kondomatic(m): 7:10am On Sep 16, 2021
For that amount I go stop wearing clothes for the rest of my life and I will still be going to work.
Romance › Re: Nigeria Lesbians Got Married Using Tattoos by Kondomatic(m): 6:27am On Sep 16, 2021
Morningblues:
Christians grin alway cherry pick what to support and what not to support. The government should criminalize fornication, Adultery,lying and other Things their Bible condemn, They will start crying fire and brimstone. Because lgbt doesn’t concern most of them that why they re hateful grin grin grin
I have seen few comments from you on this post and they're not making any sense.

No offense....

I am not here to speak against lesbians but honestly, you're just not making sense.

Any Christian engaging in Fornication, Adultery and the other things you mentioned knows and admits that they are wrong, they knew its a sin. Damn, they even go to confession for it but can same be said about lesbians?

Hell no, so your comparison is trash.

It's not Christianity that banned same sex relationship in Nigeria, it's your government so stop dragging Christianity into your argument.


And hey, Kindly show me a scientific prove after a research by a group of people that are not directly or indirectly affiliated with same sex ish, a prove that homosexuals are born that way.

Maybe we can learn something useful this morning
Romance › Re: I Went To Nigeria To Meet The Man Who Scammed Me by Kondomatic(m): 6:10am On Sep 16, 2021
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Na wa oh..

The ogume wey the NIGERIAN boy use strong oh shocked
I believe by ogume you meant "jazz"? If so then you're wrong. There's nothing like ogume here.

Y'know, sometimes when you see a "somebody" in a relationship with a "nobody" or a "nothing" angry you will wonder what they're doing with such person.

Truth is, they dealing with the real person inside not the one you've seen or known.

The moment the guy came back and confessed and apologized to the woman was when the woman saw the person within the scammer and the real him is beautiful smiley

The woman knew that his chances of being caught was close to none yet he came out and apologized, it means something. It is stronger than ogume.
Family › Re: One Of My Sons Looks Exactly Like My Late Father by Kondomatic(m): 5:46am On Sep 16, 2021
Is your mother still alive? If yes then carry the son give am since your father is late.

We have no idea what exactly you expect from us in this post
Culture › Re: Dog Magic Of Yoruba Hunters- Ulli Beier's Story by Kondomatic(m): 8:29pm On Sep 14, 2021
Nwatachoba1:
Well well well

Look what we have herehuh

All this things na myth

I dey chop dog mean and suck d bones dry

And my very good friend get dog called myrrh (maya)

She dey 2yrs plus, loves playing with me.... why she no dey bark at mehuh
Ask am when she comes to play again.
Christianity Etc › Re: How Will U React If U Found Out Your Child Is An Atheist by Kondomatic(m): 6:40pm On Sep 13, 2021
MyVILLAGEpeople:
Will so happy for him. Religion is the main reason why Nigeria is in serious mess today.
This is not true.
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: Two Good People Can Have A Bad Relationship by Kondomatic(m): 7:50pm On Sep 09, 2021
Mmadu2:
Whoever disagrees with this guy on this matter is still far behind in knowledge and understanding.
Whoever agrees with the guy completely is a victim of half knowledge and half knowledge is worse than none.


First thing first, who is a good person?

The word good in this context is relative.

Everybody is good, it all depends on who you asked.

The guy didn't list the qualities of a good person, or at least give us his own idea of a good person so it's okay to ask him questions. .
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo: Two Good People Can Have A Bad Relationship by Kondomatic(m): 7:45pm On Sep 09, 2021
festacman:
Of course, marriage is about two COMPATIBLE individuals and not two GOOD people. That's why two 'crazy' people can marry and enjoy their marriage for long while two level-headed people struggle.

Because there is no 100% compatibility, it doesn't even guarantee stable marriage especially where MUTUAL sacrifices are not willingly being made by couples concerned.

In short, marriage has no ALMIGHTY formular. It is like any other project that should be worked at. That's it.
Compatibility in relationships and marriage is a myth.

There's no two compatible people anywhere as far as I am concerned.

In marriage, adaptability is the key not compatibility.
Family › Re: 15-year Old Marriage Collapses As Husband & Wife Engage In Alleged Adultery by Kondomatic(m): 7:10pm On Sep 09, 2021
bukatyne:
The husband has custody of the child and still has to pay the fees.

What is the wife's responsibility towards the child (from the Court's perspective) apart from the periodic visitation?
Nothing.


The child is his according to Nigeria mentality
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Is Getting Married To A Lady He Met Through Me – Lady Cries Out by Kondomatic(m): 4:06pm On Sep 09, 2021
Says the gender that do not marry who loves them but who is ready.
Romance › Re: Ladies And Gentlemen, Come And See Ooo...! Is This Possible?? by Kondomatic(m): 4:03pm On Sep 09, 2021
dannyrhymes600:
Men like me are hard to find in this part of the world, men who don't smoke, drink nor womanize .Three gbosa for me
Nothing is a special about a man who doesn't smoke, womanize or drink. I don't do either of that and I ain't special. We are actually boring sometimes and it's possible that we are doing something that's worse than drinking, smoking and womanizing combined.


@OP

Why are people saying that it's possible as if it's a difficult thing? Do you think guys don't get free sex offers from women?

When a woman undresses before a guy that doesn't want her, it makes him uncomfortable and an unclad woman that a guy isn't interested in is one of the most disgusting thing to behold.

Even 2Face turn down free sex. It's normal in life.

Celebrities › Re: Kaffy Shafau: Marriage Isn’t An Upgrade by Kondomatic(m): 3:52pm On Sep 09, 2021
Ishilove:
E dakun, did i misread or what? I have been searching high and low where she said "marriage is not an upgrade"
She didn't grin



We are replying the tittle
Celebrities › Re: Kaffy Shafau: Marriage Isn’t An Upgrade by Kondomatic(m): 2:49pm On Sep 09, 2021
fasho01:
That's the plain fact. Unfortunately in this side of the world it's not only seen as an upgrade, but as a lifetime accomplishment
Marriage is an upgrade
Car Talk › Re: I Left Front Seat For My Friend's Wife But She Cautioned Me by Kondomatic(m): 10:13am On Sep 09, 2021
It's not a problem because you're a guy.

The woman wouldn't take it lightly if you the occupant was a woman.

There's nothing special about front seat, wives don't fight other women sitting there because it's something special.

They just don't want another woman to be there.


A man, spirit, cats, dogs, pigeons, wizards, masquerade etc can take that seat and it won't be a problem.


But let a fellow woman try it.
Culture › Re: Dog Magic Of Yoruba Hunters- Ulli Beier's Story by Kondomatic(m): 7:13pm On Sep 08, 2021
Ishilove:
I have a very mild mannered dog that is more of a pet than a guard. He allows visitors into my home freely without molesting them, however, there is this electrician that comes to fix things, and whenever my dog sights him, he is transformed to a growling, bristling furball with sharp teeth. He goes crazy and barks non-stop till the guy leaves. I later learned the guy eats dogs, which is why my gentle, tiny pet cannot stand the sight of him. These animals can sense things that most humans can't.

Keep calling them 'pepper soup' o, you hear? Let them catch you first grin
There was a day I went to deliver something somewhere and saw about 7 - 10 dogs giving a man on a bike a hot chase.

They were all barking.


The road was bad so the man couldn't speed up his bike and the dogs were gaining on him grin

He too started shouting.

It was a funny sight.

Learned later that he sells dog pepper soup
Celebrities › Re: Paternity Fraud: Police Invite Uzoamaka Ohiri For Questioning by Kondomatic(m): 6:57pm On Sep 08, 2021
magicminister:
This is insane!! What does this have to do with the police? At best, this is a civil dispute that can be resolved amicably between both parties!
Maybe Edu filed a report
Politics › Re: Muhammad Magaji Begs Southern States On VAT, Says Let’s Be Our Brothers' Keeper by Kondomatic(m): 2:52pm On Sep 08, 2021
Person never agree that he's your brother and you're already begging him to be his brother's keeper?


Where was the governor when people from his side were destroying other people's business because of religion?

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