₦airaland Forum

Stan2330:
from what you complained and the drugs u posted, ur brother is battling with kidney disease

Osyxcel:
No be me go post am. Let the OP post it himself or he remains anonymous.

truthCoder:
hnmmm.

first, stop reading blogs that define relationships.

lets go practical. I speak the truth and it might hurt.

your wife and you got married not because you are best of friends but because you both seem to meet certain societal requirements you both set for yourselves. You wanted a virgin and a church girl from a good home. She wants a good man with a good job who will love her.

This is where the problem starts. You and your wife might be married but you are not friends. She needs someone to be free with and currently you are not..the pastor is.

Here is what you should do.

First ball is you. Are you the kind of guy that is not easily approachable by the wife on petty things? If you are, you need to change. She must have access to you on everything. If she thinks about ABC, she must be able to gist about it with you. Be more open. As regards sex, she is a learner...teach her...Sex is not just the penetration. Learn about taking it sloowwwww....For the next few days, make love without penetrating her. make her relaxed, give her a good massage, help her clean her ear, arrange her hair, help her try on different clothes, just lie on the bed and gist, kiss and cuddle, give her head, cut her toenails, do everything that involves touching but no penetration. This will loosen her more.

Take the pastor's phone number. Call him and tell him you are XYZ's husband. Don't allow him to 'pastorize' you. Tell him you have seen the chats and you are disappointed. Tell him he should never contact your wife again or he is going to see hell on earth. Tell him you will come into the church during service to embarrass him if he doesn't stop contacting your wife. Tell him you will report him to Winners Headquarters in Ota and via social media then hang up the call.

Next ball park is your wife. Sit her down and have this conversation with her. Tel her the most important relationship she has is the one with you. Every other one is secondary. Tell her you would love her more if she can make you her friend. If she has any thing to discuss, She should be free to do so with you. Show her love. Show her that she matters. Gist with her.

You will win her back

lwisee:
Good move, most people sit behind their laptops, check the exchange rate on abokifx before giving you quotations.
The next thing you hear is 'Oga everything is expensive now ooo
Even 1 dollar is now N560 I swear, you can check abokifx'

Government need to shutdown the website as well.

Marcus888:
Just carry the bed and the chairs go outside. Make the bed and chairs dy under sun. For 1-2weeks. Cos bedbugs feed on human blood. And without blood they will dried up..
Thank me later

DelTel:
Thank goodness the FG reduced duty from 70% to 40% or I could have driven it in New York to get to over 3k miles before shipping it to Nigeria to pay 35%

I only paid 5% more (40% instead of 35%) which is understandable and financially prudent to maintain the brand-new status

A large percentage of the cars in Abuja are via land borders especially Cotonou with no duty; this has duty, not compromised but full 40%

@cowbell521

pfadom:
Who afflicted Naija with this mediocrity? For someone like Ademola Adeleke to be relevant in anay political space is an indication of how doomed or better still unfortunate the society is.

newbornmacho:
Bang them but also control them.

Spits

#controlwomen

Modernizer:
The science of artificial gamete production goes both ways.

Stem cells can also be turned into eggs.

So we need you for nothing as well.

And since tour brains are deficient, you lack emotional maturity, your bodies age terribly, you menstruate and stink, you are weak physically, we can actually dispense with you guys.

Thinktwicemybro:
A fool has said in his heart that there is no God. It's not too late to repent from your evil ways. Repent and make heaven.

Thinktwicemybro:
A fool has said in his heart that there is no God

Thinktwicemybro:
Like I said earlier, a fool has said in his heart that there is no God

Thinktwicemybro:
The minute you said there was no God, you fulfilled what the Bible called a FOOL. You are a fool period.

Thinktwicemybro:
A fool @ 40 is a fool forever

Thinktwicemybro:
A fool has said in his heart that there is no God

Thinktwicemybro:
God has indeed shamed all Jonathan enemies. When Jonathan was in power there was peace but because they wanted power by all means, they armed the same people that have turn their land to terror, horror and death. They paid off idiots like FFK so nobody can criticize them, the ban Twitter so nobody can talk about it, yet chukwuabiamaokike keep exposing and shaming them.
Under their government soldiers are now been kidnapped like cockroach. Oh, what a shame. In the backyard of the minions of kaduna kidnaping reigns and he has hibernate like a lizard swimming in the hot desert sand!

God has indeed exposed them!

saphiere:
The church of God shall move on and the gate of hell a.k.a Baby Freezer shall not prevailed.

3minssex:
You're the fool here. If Nigerian government doesn't value its doctors, can't Saudi Arabia recruit them?
You can't force the doctors to stay and work in Nigeria. The subsidised education you idiots keep ranting about, didn't the doctors spend their own money for it?

celestialAgent:
Inflate the cost of medical studies and watch this guys become humbled.

You can’t study cheaply and expect a ginormous pay. The guys abroad are indebted in medical-study loans.

Establish a system where they have to pay up their study debt by rendering active service for a number of years before they can be cleared to go practice elsewhere, and watch them sit up.

frog12:
ungrateful LOUTS !! they get subsidised medical education and they are RUNNING away

YoungboyNBA:
What's up with all this self
I am already tired abeg, The World is improving with Medical and other scientific improvements but let's be raw here, This is Africa. We're Nigerians, our herbal and other natural medicines have been here and doing great. If them one go, then fine, make them get out.

For those who will quote me......
There was a man who had the cure got HIV/AIDs in Isoko, Delta State, he never got once made it known and there are people who are testifiers to this..... He was silenced by Medical Doctors Association because they saw him as a threat . That man had to move away from Isoko, he died some years ago.

Stop acting like these medical doctors that sleep with people's wives and girlfriends are our saviours, I'm sorry if you are a Doctor in the house, I mean no disrespect, this recruitment things too much abeg.

I'll be happy to read news about these same people lamenting about racism in Saudi Arabia, Asians are more racists than the rest of the world thanks to our Nigerian Government and Africa too.

4Play:
All these separatists have local and state governments staffed with their kinsmen failing woefully in providing good governance, yet they believe that it's other ethnicities in Nigeria, mainly Northerners who are primarily responsible for the abject situation in Nigeria.

The only real benefit of the separatists' movements is that it might motivate many amongst the Northern political elite to cede power to Southerners. Then you will suddenly have a waning in interest in secession in the South.

Make no mistake, Buhari is one of the most incompetent national leaders in the world today. But I think people are being naive if they assume division is a panacea for Nigeria's dire situation.

Litmus:
I'm one for working with what you have and one for being Results oriented. If for instance, Nigeria is going to be confronted with this sort of brain-drain and disloyalty, individuals that are never going to place the welfare of others before self interest, there’s no point in quibbling, this does not get results let alone the desired one. Leadership in Nigeria need to make studies so that they can make informed investments in this area going forward. If in these instances, doctors and nurses trained by Nigeria are habitually going to reward other nations that didn’t make the investment, Nigeria needs to implement programs that counter the effects of this exodus. If Nigeria is never going to be wealthy enough to hold onto trained doctors and nurses, majority of this type were after all independently financed in our training institutions by their parents, guardians etc and often are from the less principled and more independent minded South of the Country, then Nigeria needs to implement State Programs that may provide mutual benefit for the very poorest in Nigeria and the Nigerian state. We create what I think of as Professional Career Schooling System that is separate from mainstream education system in Nigeria. This P.C.S.S would be linked primary, secondary and University schools. Each one would be dedicated to single professions vital to the nation such as Doctors, Pilots, Software Engineers and so on. In order words, you’d have Medical profession PCSS, Fintech PCSS, Aviation PCSS, Engineering PCSS, Rocketry PCSS etc. A child that is for instance accepted at a medical oriented PCCS can expect to be educated in medicine and only medicine right from the PCSS’s primary school through to the PCSS’s University. If this is communist like, which I don’t believe it is, who says we can’t run a communist education system parallel to the capitalist one we now run?

Children from the poorest backgrounds will gain entry to PCSS primary schools through aptitude/intelligence entry exams. Entry is also an automatic contract between State and Students. The state will fund the child's path from any PCSS primary school, he or she gained entry in, through to the PCCSS’s University and out as a professional. In return, the professional will work for the state on basic wages for however long (Perhaps 10 years max) that the contract obliges him or her to work for the state in the intrest of the people of Nigeria.

GenAbacha:
Can it fly for 3m?

josielewa:
And it mutates, and you keep taking boosters anytime there is a new variant...that's not how vaccines work....

Nonybb:
[b]But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that at one certain time and I discover one girl like that, aged maybe around 15-17 years, undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of her womanhood. Some wives look at such and wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way, to fight every now and then on this serious temptation. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.

Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see that your daughter is being naked in front of your husband, put her aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act[/b]

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