₦airaland Forum

Never knew it would come to a time in my lifetime when such vanity will be what we all be celebrating!

Newboss:
These backward people have carried their nonsense overseas?

I wonder what she will do when she sees 2 men kissing passionately.

I think you are the one who is backward!

I am just beginning to detest this Tiwa. At every slightest opportunity even when there is no need for it, you see her exposing her body .
Is she possessed?

ruggedtimi:
maybe i will be a DJ..from late dj olu ( r.i.p) dating a governor's daughter and now DJ caise about to marry an ex governor's daughter.

The guy too has a rich pedigree. He a grandson of Chief Elegbede Fernadez the international bizman

ngeneukwuewuGOAT:
BUHARI will suffer for his atrocities towards Christians and the ipob

You mean towards IPOBs.Not synonymous with christians.

pls what is the process of running a VIN check？

pls what is the process of runing a VIN check？

I am a teacher and one thing I teach my students is to have native intelligence which is lacking in most city dwellers.It is simply being conscious of wherever you find yourself and its nuances.Somebody mentioned the guys appearance and the truth is ,with that kind of looks,the odd is stacked against him because of a typical Nigerians parochial orientation. I was once in Ilorin around the kings palace and we realised nobody had uncovered head.With our almost naked students on excursion from Lagos,we had to adjust！

Another question,is how did the guy address the SARS guys？When you are confronting a uniform man who probably did not have the privilege of education what do you expect？A,man who lacks wisdom to know how to deal with different situations and persons is simply stupid.

Mynd44:
Shows how much you know. When the rains come, most of these nomads go up north due to the return of vegetation up north and the presence of tsetseflies down south and with the herdsmen, the criminals among them hiding and disguising as herdsmen move.

The struggle between herdsmen and farmers can only be solved when herdsmen are able to source for food without going far away. Which was why Audu Ogbeh suggested importing high quality grasses which can survive the dry season up north which prevents herdsmen from going south to bother farmers or even farmers in the north.

Putting cattle in ranches is just going to cause meat scarcity in Nigerian. Ranch them up north, no food for 6 months each year.

Ranch them in the south, tsetsefly kills substantial amounts of them. Only solution is alternative feeding
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Thanks for this comment devoid of tribal sentiments and parochialism.WHY AT TIME I DETEST THIS PLATFORM BECAUSE IT IS FILLED WITH KIDS WHO GAINED SNEAKY ACCESS TO THEIR PARENTS DATA TO EXPRESS NONSENSE.The constant clash
is all about struggle for limited grazing ground aggravated more by global warming.

father,Dont let my mother too old to drive the car I would buy for her ooo.

Factfinder1:
Only illiterate and those who wants to vote for a Muslim and for the sake of religion will want to vote buhari again

Take a look at your language and you are calling some people illiterates！

Paperwhite:
.Sheik Gumi,Sule Lamido,Shehu Sanni,Late Senator Kanti Hello,SLS,Afe Babalola,Muhammed Junaid,OBJ,Cardinal Anthony Olubunmi Okogie and now Richard Akinjide among many others have spoken.Some were formerly zombified but now have seen the light.Buhari-your cup don full.Meanwhile the fanatic zombies are still holding the fort.

What do you expect？His daughter was one of GEJ ministers.Every body speaks from the purview of personal interest.

This country！ Everybody looking for what to eat.

Like the Igbos laughed at Afonjas during the June 12!

raker300:
today you laugh at the igbos


Tomorrow, we'lllaugh at you and your tribe

It's called karma

Nigerians are hasty in their comments.There is no place where he mentioned Jonathan govt！

ShyCypher:
Na dem oo

Could be an Igboman or Hausa.Lagos is home t many tribes.Evil doesnt have ethnic coloration.

We were in a busy market somewhere in Osun-state when I curiously drew my friend’s attention to a store. There was this mother relaxing in the background, obviously exhausted from struggling to sell her wares of some dry fish and other condiments. There was also a young boy of about 14 years. Equally present was also this young girl of about 9 years, who appeared to be totally in charge, with such dexterity in attending to customers, that she would make any world-class salesman green with envy. I pointed out to my friend again, to compare the level of maturity displayed by the siblings: One already adept at a basic ingredient of survival and successful business： marketing, while the boy fiddles unconcernedly with his mobile phone.

Even in most urban homes, have you observed the common setting of where the daughter is there in the kitchen helping the mum, while the boy is languidly reclining on the parlour sofa, surfing leisurely through tv channels, only to be called to the table when food is served .The underlying belief of our world being a man’s world is partly responsible for this.

If a parent has to send a child on an errand, who do you think would be readily sent？A female child of course? Have you also observed the level of strictness deplored in training a girl-child? ‘Sit like a lady’, ‘Don’t shout like that, you are a lady’ ‘Be accommodating, you are going to be a mother one day’ and many others to give our girl-child prim and proper upbringing. For the male child however, we all seem to give them such free rein, ably supported by the usual refrain-‘He is a man oo’.

Ironically, a basic skill such as cooking, an essential skill for every human, which we have culturally ceded to female gender, under the excuse that the future wife would take charge, is lost forever. We seem to forget that an average human would spend 25% of his income in a lifetime on food. So, what stops him from mastering its preparation, where basic skills such as measurement, time management, patience, planning, multitasking, and creativity etc.are imbibed.

At such a young age, the the boy-child grows with the “boss attitude” of always being served, which doesn’t work out that way in an adult world. It is even worse if the child is an only son or child.

There were times I had to check myself whenever I noticed what I considered the highhandedness of my wife in her dealing with my first daughter. It looks as if she is a perfectionist, who wants her to get everything right, but on a second thought, I realized it is for her own good and that what we were often told as children, that we should make mistakes and learn is not entirely true, as some mistakes are too fatal to be made or allowed.

Now even in school, how do the two genders fare ？Let me share an experience. We were trying to constitute a Student Representative Council in an A level college in Lagos, when we were faced with the stark reality that if we were to strictly follow the set down criteria（responsibilty,discipline etc）to choose members of this council, no boy would make the team. In the end, we had to use a quota system of ceding the position of the Secretary General to one of the the boys！

Many years down the line, the girl seamlessly fits into her role of being responsible mothers, while the boys are still grappling with basics of manhood, not to talk of even being a responsible father. No, wonder we see nowadays that the maturity of a 17 year old girl is almost equal to that of a 40 year old man!

Our environment has changed in such a short time, so drastically that skills that were in high demand some thirty years ago are no longer so.With every passing day, it is becoming glaring that raw physical strength which gave men professional edge in the past is no longer so.Traditional professions such as Medicine are not so hot again, or have even been hybridized into more attractive professions, where intelligence, skills, creativity hold sway. .

Feminism despite all its flaws has engendered a lot of positives. More than before, girl-child is now exposed to the same opportunities as the male and are excelling. You needn’t go far to see the growing number of female becoming presidents of countries and corporations. Even in the work place where every career is synonymous with marketing, a female with all the imbued soft skills definitely has an edge.

On the home front, the battle even gets fiercer .Where men used to hold sway being traditionally acclaimed as the bread winner, there has been a reversal of role, with men now playing the second fiddle and men now being the ‘house-husbands’. Where a man is not too comfortable with this new role, he resorts to a cowardly option, by unleashing violence on his more successful spouse, thus the reason for the growing number of domestic abuse we have today.

In a new world of objective assessment of outcomes, women are definitely going to take charge and control things and a quota may have to be put in place to accommodate the male! Don’t blame the female, nature just has a way of not allowing a vacuum. Where men through faulty upbringing, have become irresponsible, seeing life only from the purview of making money and pleasure, women have rightly stepped in.

The solution is very simple. Parents must just change their approach to parenting. Apply the same strict parenting, often given to the girl-child to the male-child!

Kunle Abrahams
Kunleabrahams046@gmail.com

OLADD:
The[sup][/sup]re he goes again. I just don't know why some elders wouldn't stop engaging in empty boasts. A Tinubu that couldn't do anything about the death of Abiola despite his threats of fire and brimstone should stop unnecceary grandstanding. While we detest any military coup at this stage of our nascent democracy, the likes of Tinubu can't do jack if it happens. Let no one be deceived by these double-faced politicians.

Didnt do anything about Abacha? You were probably an infant or not conversant with the June 12 history.

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kinibigdeal:
Why is the lady at the back posing on another person's picture

Called photo bombing.Ask Olajumoke!

1.Losing touch with the basics of Christian faith- Christian faith is built on the 3 major fulcrums or what you can call pillars: prayer,reading and doing the Word and evangelism.

2.Delegating almost everything- Because of the availability of resources to pay many aides ,there is the tendency to stop basic things and this results to being redundant .Of course Devil finds work for a idle hand

3.Too much money-many pastors suddenly come into unimaginable wealth they are not so prepare for.Of course money seeks its own diversion in form of worldly pleasures -women,drugs etc.

4.Adulation of men- With many unbecoming titles and hero worship tendency in Africa, many pastors get carried away and embrace pride Even when they suffer a setback and they could have easily retraced their steps,they think of what mortal men would say and think.

5.Want of variety in women- Most pastors married their wives in their early stage of devotion to their faith and most wives remain loyal to this in dressing and orientation. These wives sadly are to compete with young provocative ladies the pastor is being exposed to every day

ephi123:
Nigerians and Nigeria, smh.

Why can't leaders set up systems and structures? Can every single graduate have the opportunity of meeting the state governor? What happens to those who can't have that opportunity?

He truly deserves the first class. He simply identified an opportunity and exploited it!

He has done nothing wrong! Just cutting hair that doesn't belong to them.(Peruvian,Brazillian) etc

Dongreat:
Wonderful. So you mean Putin goes around the streets of Moscow, inspecting sewers or Trump goes uninvited to JFK airport just to inspect the toilets. I see why the citizens of third world countries are just, well to put it politely, "Bloody Illiterate".

Truly Nigerian deserve the kind of leaders they have.

If you dont know ,if you want to sincerely know how an institution or organisation runs,just run a simple test,visit its toilet!

This is the best government so far because its policies favour my business ,so I cant join the protest! Get something doing!

Used to be my student back then.First of all the pictures posted are not her own . Secondly the Ajibola that I knew then some 18 years ago would never make such utterance. Such shy and easy-going lady.

idupaul:
Nigerians have started queuing for essential commodity and they dont even know it yet...1984 is fully back

Professor of Negativity!