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Trust me, I have three females and they all have flat stomach and white teeth. I think I ain't cheating.

Abetterperson:
I respect your opinion. I am going to tell him to be a man and Leave our house because if a man can't provide for himself then what's his purpose

Feminism producing stubborn idiots. You better drop that mentality if you truly want to be Abetterperson..

wisemum:
I am bringing this topic here to see if I can get any good advise from youths of the same generation.

My son returned from schooling abroad two years ago and after completing his NYSC, has been trying to get a job. None has been forthcoming but he tries to keep occupied, trying his hands on different projects. He still lives at home but says that once he is financially stable, he will get his own apartment and move out.

He is generally a calm, law abiding , likeable gentleman until when he recently started bringing home this girl who dresses like a prostitute and who I discovered stays overnight in his room with him. His dad and I have fought him over this subject to no avail. I confronted the girl to tell her I do not feel comfortable with her sleeping overnight in my house especially since I do not know her family and will be held responsible if anything happens to her. She apologized to me and promised not to come to sleep over again. However, I noticed that after that, he started sneaking her in at late hours of the night when he thinks we have gone to bed, sometimes when it is past midnight. He hasn't introduced the girl to us as anything to him even though I have asked him several times what his intentions with this girl is but he will just say she is a friend that makes him happy- that's all.

He told his uncle that he likes the girl. I don't even know what else to do. I have tried talking to him, reasoning with him, but it all falls on his deaf ears. I do not like this girl at all. She comes across to me as a street girl- even though she is generally polite when she meets me at home anytime she comes during the day. I investigated and found out her work place is not far from our house. What I do not like about her is that she dresses, exposing delicate parts of her body and is a chain smoker.

Furthermore, to me, a girl who sleeps out in a mans' parent house, continually disregarding how his parents feel about it, cannot be good news. Once, I caught her almost naked in the night walking along the corridor leading to my sons room. She ran inside his room when she saw me. I was so embarrassed and wondered what if my husband had been the one who ran into her? What kind of thing is this? Only her pant on, breasts bare. It was the following day I traced her to her work place and gently but sharply and firmly told her I do not permit her to sleep over in my house again. His dad also spoke with him. I also spoke to him. Everything has been to no avail.

He still sneaks her in. Or did she jazz him?, Please advise me. Thanks.

The pvssy jazz abi? she got him pussified, he was calm but became hot-head after meeting her.

Her place of work is close to your house. The girl did her homework very well. She probably gathered Intel on him and made the relationship happen. She sees gold to dig in your ground.

- Is there anything like generally polite and disrespectful. I am confused, after warning her, then the sneaking in the middle of the night started, I guess she suggested that to him and the pussy-whipped bought the idea wholeheartedly.

The girl is street and a hustler and more experienced that your pussified son. Remember he told you and his uncle that she makes him happy. Her plan is perfectly working. Until he finds peace, happy(she) stays.

It is obvious the girl is on a mission. It's quite unfortunate your pussified son has blocked any sense of rational reasoning threatening the wild sex he's currently exploring.

doncollino:
The problem here is that when this group of persons were part of the government system they contributed to the problem by taking bribes and slowing down processes. The ones in position today learnt from them and are also doing same, now after destroying the system completely they never believed that a day will come when they will go back to the disease they created for help. That day is now, such a piety,

You know the process and a very wise person. You stated it the way it is.

And same fate is waiting for the current ones in service after retirement. such a vicious cycle.

Again, many women married them wayback thinking their retirement plans are secured. Now Okada men are collecting..

wallrichy:
Okada drivers are on pennick rides in Benue o....I trust most men On Nairaland will be envious of those Benue Okada men. How can women even stoop so low as in given clearance for Okada men cos hubby pension no gree come...I tire for Nja

Why would you say women even stoop so low, are women the better species? If they are any higher/better, then why follow the Okada men for what they couldn't provide for themselves.

I think is the other way round, the okada men stoop so low to waste their resources on liabilities.

It tells you that, many women could easily stay with you for as long as resources are available but won't hesitate to leave or show their true nature(prostitution) when the chips are down.

Men should know that loyalty isn't a strong trait in many women. They are fickle and many only follow the resources..

budaatum:
They make laws demanding you respect your wife because you do not respect your wife. If you respected your wife you would not rape her!

You see, SIMPs speak or think on how to favour pvssies . Reason they are called pussified West.

Even some Naija men are copying it all the name of woke.

Cos, if not for pvssie sake, how can men put rape from a husband to a wife in the same sentence.

If na respect, no even go there. Women dey respect men abi?

budaatum:
Yes there is!

Stupid oyibo laws. Abeg make we stop to dey support this white people on marriage matters. They are no standard to follow.
They make difficult laws for men in marriage so that the divorce and family court will continue to make profit outta men.

You think redpill way of life was something out of the blues. The system(laws) and women caused it.

ubee:
I've always had a problem with this practice of our military personnel releasing statements to the public of holding a news conference to address the public.
I think that is a wrong way to go in terms of interacting with the citizenry. We are in a democratic governed society were civilians are in power. Having the military freely dispense messages to the nation in any form shows a wrong signal, and leaves a door open for rogue soldiers to feel overly empowered and have a desire to plan a coup.

This message should have been announced by a minister or any other government official in the Buhari government.

Thank you, at least someone here is making a lot of sense..
They love seeking attention like local celebrities and want people to hear their names like rugged Abacha, IBB, and our politicians..

We are looking for ways to demilitarized our society and psyche, not this rubbish

I don't care to read that shiit but one thing I know is that the Nigerian securities act like bitchesss with emotions, always seeking attention from the civilians.


Everyday and almost everywhere around us, you must see people in military regalia with patrol vans carrying assault rifle, even police and mopol dey do the same thing(They see it as competition). This shiiiit is now part of our psyche. It is not normal.

imagine telling us not to panic when all they do is harass our mental states daily with things like this. They want to be seen all the time.

One way to demilitarized our society is to create a system where military personnel in uniforms wielding arms around civilians in cities and towns are seen as something serious the people should worry about. We should only see them like when the national guards are deployed for something serious.


The military is part of our problems, please move their bases to borders across the nation, there they can fight those bringing small arms and light weapons. Bandits, boko haram, killer herdsmen and other armed groups get their weapons from..

Fighting these groups internally in civil environment , has always been destructive with innocent people falling victims. Go and fight them in the bush, go to the borders and prevent the stupid fvcks from entering before fighting them within..
Maybe you weak military like fighting these dirty modafvckaz in cities and towns in order to show how strong you are to the civilians..

Joysticks:
Restitution;How will he pay back $88m when he has used most parts of the money to fuk runs gels?Na ladies dey chop larger percentage of yahoo fraudsters illicit money.Follow by alcohol drinks,hotel accommodation, Uber to transport runs gels to their hotel lodges.When their brains reset,they will start buying home appliances,cars and build houses.
But what about yahoo politicians?Are they bigger than the law?We see politicians like orji uzor Kali sentence to jail for fraud.Only for the court to order for his release after spending 2weeks out of 3years sentence on one flimsy excuses.The Nigerian justice system is partial.

$88K not m
So, basically you saying boys do Yahoo just to fvck gels and drink beer. I think even politicians do the same thing, steal more money to maintain more girlfriends..

Lostchild:
You have shown me that I am not stupid and that I should always have compassion on women

Annoying thing, maybe only SIMPs and fellow women would praise you for the compassion you have for them.

Do you know the amount greedy women out there who won't allow their husbands(many stupid fvcks) to help blood relatives, but would support you helping women like them and their relatives. double standard.

Let me tell you something, both married and single women don't like to see a young/old single man having resources without a girlfriend or woman to spend it with him.

When most women ask you; Are you married ?

meaning ( Are you the only one spending your money).

heartbeat84:
Mind you, the kids were not handed to another woman. What a shame that the boy was a PRODUCT OF AN AWAY MATCH, if i should use that word. All these while, she never cared to mention it to nedu, turning around to accuse him of domestic violence. She is truly an AGENT of hell sent to wreck his life. All u women out there that still engage in such imbecilic acts, u had better desist and turn a new leaf.

She wants to destroy him. These days, it is easier for women to gather sympathy when they use the bold.

Her plan is for people to despise Nedu, perhaps they should cut him off from gigs and tag him a deadbeat dad

In the eyes of some women and SIMPs, Uzoamaka did no wrong and should be given steady child support. Is this not the way of the oyibos?

Edoreborn:
Was there for 6years,, suffered like a thief,,but in d end... Dismissed...

chai, eh no easy. That ground na evil ground, they beat you like goat..

Dizzyyish:
"Any qualities in a man that a woman finds useful, she calls masculine, all
others, of no use to her or to anyone else for that matter, she chooses to call
effeminate."

"By the age of twelve at the latest, most women have decided to become
prostitutes. Or, to put it another way, they have planned a future for
themselves which consists of choosing a man and letting him do all the
work. In return for his support, they are prepared to let him make use of
their vagina at certain given moments. The minute a woman has made this
decision she ceases to develop her mind."

"Woman's greatest ideal is a life without work or responsibility — yet
who needs such a life but a child? A child with appealing eyes, a funny
little body with dimples and sweet layers of baby fat and clear, taut skin —
that darling miniature of an adult. It is a child that woman imitates — its
easy laugh, its helplessness, its need for protection. A child must be cared
for; it cannot look after itself. And what species does not, by natural
instinct, look after its offspring? It must — or the species will die out.
With the aid of skillfully applied cosmetics, designed to preserve that
precious baby look; with the aid of helpless, appealing babble and
exclamations such as "Oooh" and "Ah," to denote astonishment, surprise,
and admiration; with inane little bursts of conversation, women have
preserved this "baby look" for as long as possible so as to make the world
continue to believe in the darling, sweet little girl she once was, and she relies on the protective instinct in man to make him take care of her."
- Esther Vilar (The Manipulated Man, 1971)

I hope more men would see this and understand the inborn machinations of how women view men.

Men are tools to be used and discarded. And many men prefer to be slaves to women due to genital.

Just see as men here are proud of entrusting their whole resources to a woman all in the name of a wife, only to feel "guilty" when these females complain of not meeting up.

GUILT is one of their tools, they use it on men from young age at the outset of dating.

They make men feel guilty for wanting sex, a basic primal urge oh...

brownemmanuel43:
What do I even know, arguing with a woman in a case that involve a fellow woman

So, now you know. I came here to read the experiences of men on the subject, only to see them flood the thread with their rubbish defensive traits and trying to advice men on how to handle the situation.

Any advice they try to give you, is on how it should favour the female gender.

They see men as tools and get angry when they can't use the tools .

BillionKnights:
Mumu, Jos is middle belt, this is how they cheat you people in politics.

You people can go on about the middle belt talk and political, however, there is something i would like y'all should observe. If you observed these following housemates; Yousef, Saskay, jackie B and Sammy, they see themselves as a people from the same region, plateau (Yousef), Adamawa( Saskay and Jackie B), Sammy (Kd boy from Kogi).

If an ngas(Plateau) man meets a bachama(Adamawa) man or Eggon(Nasarawa) man in Lagos or PH, the chances of communicating in Hausa would be high. Now, you can see I listed languages.
This is more about how the people see themselves than the geopolitical tags of north central and middle belt thangs.

The average plateau or Kaduna man/woman will effortlessly speak Hausa(the common language in the north) to the average Adamawa, Bauchi, Gombe, Borno,Kaduna, katsina, Kano, Niger, Nasarawa,.... man/woman anyday anytime.

The State capitals of the states mentioned above would rather speak Hausa after their own local language..

labisibrass:
You mean a Lt fears a warrant offr right. He must be a badly trained horse that needs to be retrained!
Respect is just a courtesy and a very good sign of home training.
Back to the thread, the officer has acted very badly and unprofessional, a corper doesn't even have the eyes to see her if she had carried herself well. She fumbled big time. And to the corper, once they're staying inside the barracks and one senior offr has toasted them like this, their level of assumption is always very high.

In your head now, without even knowing both individuals personally, your programmed way of thinking tells you that the female officer should naturally be way better than the corper, right?

Some of us sabi this military mentality wella.
Obviously, many of them ways of thinkin' na trash. If you doubt, then sample opinions here and out there.

Men, continue to recruit more female officers/soldiers just to give them salary every month.
You trained a group of gender but can't deploy a purely non-male company to fight bandits, boko haram, ESN, and the rest..

All they do na to dey cause trouble for barracks and some times inside town only for the men to come fight their battle.

Well, history teaches that spiritual, mental and physical slavary is the natural state of a man.

Vigilance, always the price of liberty.

mfm04622:
A whole human being fighting in the North East for YOUR sake, that died so YOU can enjoy.

Stop saying this head game. They don't fight to protect anybody, they fear and worry about their own safety first.

If not for the dependent on the failed security system, so many communities would have looked for ways to prevent the senseless killings and kidnapping from bastards like boko boys and bandits..

If not for stupid laws fronted by male drones in current matriarchal system, what are females doing in the military?

Currently, military and police are complaining of being overstretched, not having more men to send to fields to fight but won't think of deploying the so called "female combatants"( as some people dey call them ) to fight boko haram, bandits, cultism, militia groups, kidnappers, etc.

Male soldiers don die wella for northeast while the female ones dey do mumu duty for cantonments wey na still men dey mount cover for the gates.

Kenneth10110:
Her colleagues go get better excuse to beat you up ×10

Sad mehn, but that's the truth.

cezarman:
Brother, we're just looking at them.

This one never reach anywhere and she's already lamenting.

The only husband her type will get is a devil fearing man, a rapist, a pedophile and a wife beater

If she knows what's good for her, Make she just marry her fellow men hater/feminist and they can be doing their scissors sex every night, without interference from any man or pikin... Na stewpid girl

I just dey hear this wan. Good for them. We go just dey one corner dey observe them.

They copy what they don't understand.

They never knew feminism gave birth to the "men going their own way"(mgtow) lifestyle.
. And young men are closely observing and learning from it.

Many women are suffering from it and many will still suffer from it. Cos, men are beginning to live for themselves and not for women or kids like before.

No sensible Godfearing man will live with a rebellious wife(feminist) under the same roof.

cezarman:
You won't find any, because all men are rapists and pedophiles (including your papa) in your own words.

Just dey your dey and forget about marriage or a family with a man in it

Hehehehe. . My own is, why would a feminist pray to find a Godfearing man ?

Ain't a Godfearing man the Lord of the wife in a marriage?

And feminism don't accept that. I think I have heard some women called themselves Christian feminists and they try to use the bible to defend it. Though, I doubt if they are chapters and verses supporting the movement.

They are looking for gullible and thirsty men to confuse with their confusion.

saphiere:
I need a Godfearing man and not all these hungry broke dirty rapists roaming the streets.

. Wetin concern feminism and Godfearing man ? Movement wey no support a male as head of house. Confused people.

Omoluabiii:
Whenever you are around your female boss, keep your ego,
play the emotional nature, compliment it with a good appearance, a good hair cut, simple and neat dressing, & smell good, & be efficient at work...
You ll crack her open tottally, without any problem.
But when you put on the whole masculine ego, she ll make life hard for you...

Are you suggesting I should put up a feminine ego instead so as to please a female boss who would use the supposed toxic masculinity propaganda they so much complain about just to put my masculinity in check abi?

zed7:
I hardly insult people but you are despicable for this act of ass licking. It's people like you that can stab a person in the back. A worm is better than your kind.

People should always be themselves and do their job. What sycophants don't know is that people actually know they are sycophants but they just tolerate them but will never take them serious. In times of trouble, they actually run to those who are real and avoid the sycophants.

I was truly disgusted with the sycophant and stupid fvck experience.

You see why we detest when men give women power just for sake of they are women and should be included in leadership, cos people like "focusmind" do betray and rubbish the system licking pussy just to find favour.

Naturally, in his heart he never saw her as a leader but one the men at the top had placed for him to suck their pricks through..

Would he have done all that if it were to be a male boss? We see through those bullsh***ts.

Let us be truthful here. In the hearts of many men, they don't see women as leaders. They just accept it cos they can't do nothing about it due to societal arrangee. If you doubt just see how more men would react to his story after reading it.

However, we have some very useless SIMPs who would tell you to control your emotions, do this and that when around female bosses. So I ask, one( a man) needs to have some specific skills when dealing with them? Mumu boys everywhere.

Cos, arguably, the op' is asking only men how they feel working under a woman.
It is a subconscious thang. By default Many men don't wanna work under no woman.

ogaga4u2:
Next time look for one paramilitary officer as driver for less stressful journey.

For how long are we going to live like that?

I told someone, these security men are big part of our problems. They contributed wella to the current inflation.

Their new interim cabinet is entirely male and made up of senior Taliban figures,


so, why are they telling us this.

Shey women follow fight the war ?

Don't bring your feminism ideology to our peaceful Afghanistan abeg.

Skynet45:
Instead of destroying it, why not just return them back south. Lack of education dey worry all these aboki people

I wonder oh. Honestly, I feel sad seeing people destroying resources that other people can use.

These northern Muslim leaders are big hypocrites. If not for them who would give scumbags like this dirty hisbah the right to be destroying other peoples legal hustle.

AbujaCitiBlog:
The greatest threat to men in today's world is woke men! Men that will do anything including belittling and attacking their own gender to impress feminists!

I am very sure that the pilot that flew that wrethed plane is a man! Foolish hegoats!

Just Imagine Nollwood threatening Prince Kpokpogri just because he exposed Tonto Dike. Meanwhile Nollywood is led by a guy! The same cursed Nollywood didn't do anything to shut up Princess when she released a video of Baba Ijesha. Most modern males are just tools and toys for feminists! Abhorrent lots! Very useless idiots. That's why sometimes, I dont blame Bobrisky too much. He has become so disgusted by the easily manipulated hegoats of our generation that he had to port to another gender!

Men are their own worst enemies! No, Woke men are the real enemies of the male gender. They are disgustingly easily manipulated by women!

Sometimes, I wish there was another sensible gender apart from female gender to port to.

Hegoats everywhere! Ronaldo is innocent!

So spot on. Nice one. I avoid such men as friends... They pussify almost everything in the system just to please these liars

Kingcalls:
When I was detained at efcc for 2 days cos of money palava...my ex gold her mom that I was arrested and sentenced to Kirikiri ...just bcis she wanted to paint me bad as she done find new guy, so that her mom and family will hate me ... women ...smh

Just imagine. They lie and most times don't care about the gravity of it. I no dey take their words serious .

They try to bring down men knowing that they are already down themselves. Bitter and manipulative gashes.

seunfly:
We all know the truth, women as been using victim tactics to bring down men since time immemorial.

They v several tools to play this victim card from domestic abuse, rape, sexual assault, his family does not like me, deadbeat father etc but if u dig into the reality, u will notice it is all lies and the purpose is just to extort, scam, revenge, destroy or attention.

We know women will support their fellow women lies but I pity the men who believe or support their scam because of political correctness.

They can lie wella oh and claim victim. My ex said all the verbal abuses we had in the past still dey affect her whenever she remember us. This na girl wey fit insult people for Africa oh.. But she dey blame me for matter. And one simp of a friend dey support her.

SIMPs are part of the problem, they support these lying bastards without getting to the root of the issue..

solasoulmusic:
Making Love starts with pre-intimacy … tease and be stimulated that’s the problem with men in Nigeria porn won’t teach you how to nurture and make women wet but older movies will.

I remember when learnt why some envy you.

Sexual compatibility is important and people really force themselves to enjoy sex with people they don’t find attractive what their no longer intrigued or stimulated by

I love to be kissed and teased guess the kind of man you marry if you want that?

Start sucking and rubbing don’t just think of yourself … every time pamper her

It’s not always penetration first.

That’s why no matter how many risky Dey A woman yatoooo there are veins in a woman’s breast

chei, see as you sound like expert for this matter.
You make sense wella.

Long time.. How is the music thang going?

LOGICALKEN:
So I met this lady in 2019 through a mutual friend, after few weeks of getting to meet her we started dating. She is 29 and I’m 31. She’s based in Benin where she works and I am in Lagos.

The agreement was that after our wedding she will join me in Lagos which she agreed. Our relationship has been going on smoothly which made me do the introduction January this year and I’ve told her the wedding will be by January next year, which she knows I am making adequate preparation to that effect. I even had to get involved in a monthly contribution of 30k which is done in her workplace, I told her she should collect 2 slots so we can save enough for the wedding. She has never made any financial request that i did not grant.

Just two months ago she started acting all weird, I have asked her what the problem was and she would say nothing. She stopped picking my calls and told her parents I offended her, I called her to know what my offense was and she said I should forget. God knows I have never deliberately done anything to upset her. Just yesterday morning she called to tell me she is done with the relationship which left me so confused and devastated. I have already paid for cow and all the wines we will use for the wedding and now she has called it off.

Please nairalanders what could possibly be my offense? I have thoroughly searched my heart and I can’t seem to remember when I offended her.

So, with all your logic, your still stayed pussified and couldnt convert code to ordinary language.
Make una continue dey use only money plan love..