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Nairaland GeneralRe: Hafiz 'Agoro': The Tallest Man In Nigeria by labamo07(m): 1:21pm On Jan 08, 2016
If this guy is my friend, I will have problems with my neck while walking on the road with him as I have to keep look up like looking upstairs when talking to him. nice bad height.............
CareerRe: Can One Become Rich As A Salary Earner? by labamo07(m): 1:13pm On Jan 08, 2016
Actually, you need to define your term of being rich. Super rich - NO, averagely rich - yes, but that requires more than 20yrs and that has to do with the range of your salary and your place of work..........
BusinessRe: Okada Business Guidelines by labamo07(m): 6:09am On Jan 05, 2016
I bought 2 last December, each goes for 135k, registration inclusive. it's a 2 way thing, it's either you give it out on higher purchase or you get paid on daily basis. I gave it out on higher purchase for 200k and each is paying 10k every week. However, there are several risks involved and you need to ne careful and make your proper research before buying it. Things to be considered are: who are you giving it to? which area are you planning to use it? who will be managing it for you? you can whatsapp me for further information on 07051786323............
RomanceRe: Why Do Very Beautiful Girls Make This Mistake??? by labamo07(m): 1:25pm On Jan 02, 2016
ggakunna:
Maybe he has a great personality. Maybe he’s rich. Maybe he’s kind to her.
Maybe he has a huge d*ck.
There’s a multitude of reasons why that hot girl is holding the hand of that
less hot man. Maybe there are numerous psychological answers behind the quandary that perplexes insecure passersby and jealous men staring at these couples across the crosswalk. Two of my sisters are so beautiful that I thought they would get married to Saudi princes.....If you see their husband you go run....lol
this is another mumu for 2016. you know all these and you are still asking foolish question...........
CelebritiesRe: Dija Responds To Fan That Said She Has Small Boobs by labamo07(m): 1:19pm On Jan 02, 2016
Tolexander:
Make she post the pictures of the lemon size boobs for us to confirm if it is nippleless!
oga shey na jest be that abi mockery? you don add another year to yur age na............
CelebritiesRe: Olamide Throws Another Shade At Donjazzy, You Gotta See This One! by labamo07(m): 12:30pm On Jan 02, 2016
OCTAVO:
Seriously, if I was following him on social media before, Na to unfollow him sharperly. Thank God I didn't follow him from day 1.
what he is fighting for made no sense. even if influence of don jazzy is playing a role so also the voting played the major role. how many of his so called street fans voted for lil kesh? the ladies have got all the time to spend. I can count on more than 7 ladies that threw their vote in that category for catapult..................
CelebritiesRe: Kcee React To Olamide Vs Donjazzy Saga? by labamo07(m): 12:21pm On Jan 02, 2016
Omotaday:
he is thanking him for pullying kayne. Most of the artiste know the truth. what olamide did is what we call "wrong approach to a just cause". he should not have reacted that way but we all know he was right.
my brother, may God bless your mental faculty. Olamide is now making a fool of himself, though am a fan of his..........
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Reacts To Olamide & Donjazzy Headies Saga by labamo07(m): 12:16pm On Jan 02, 2016
Cheat or no cheat, no be today. Olamide is getting too harsh and becoming stupid, though am a big fan of his music..........
CelebritiesRe: Olamide Throws Another Shade At Donjazzy, You Gotta See This One! by labamo07(m): 12:13pm On Jan 02, 2016
OCTAVO:
The weed this guy smokes is original! cheesy

His noise is becoming too much.

Don Baba sef no respond. This Olamide guy na kid


All of una dey envy Don Jazzy. cheesy

Make una go sleep.

He's been making money before most of you guys came to limelight. And evidently he's one of the most successful.
Am a big fan of both but olamide is now being stupid..........
CelebritiesRe: Omoni Oboli & Family In Beautiful New Year Photo by labamo07(m): 11:14am On Jan 02, 2016
Jcob:
I normally pronounce her name as Omo oni boli
lmao guy, you no well at all at all...............
PoliticsRe: Femi-Kayode Reacts To Buhari's Media Chat by labamo07(m): 12:18pm On Dec 31, 2015
I wish to know when FFK will stop smoking pawpaw leaves, that guy sha..............
PoliticsRe: North Will Reject Buhari, APC In 2019 —iwuanyanwu by labamo07(m): 1:24pm On Dec 28, 2015
You just looking for irrelevant publicity. Pdp is gone and buried, go and get a new life and merge other parties...............
EducationRe: The Only English Sentence That When Read In Reverse Will Still Be The Same by labamo07(m): 12:49pm On Dec 28, 2015
A nut for a jar of tuna. No lemon, no melon. Some men interpret nine memos. Gateman sees name, garageman sees nametag...................
Christianity EtcRe: 2015 Prophecies That Never Occured by labamo07(m): 8:42am On Dec 25, 2015
All these drunk men with their yeye prophesies.............
PoliticsRe: History Of Fuel Price Increase In Nigeria From 1973 To 2015 by labamo07(m): 9:09am On Dec 22, 2015
Most of these useless agbaya presidents and head of states meant no good for Nigeria. Why increase the price when you can't save your refineries? Baba Obj God is watching you remember you had a hand in Nigeria power problems also.................
SportsRe: Floyd Mayweather Lies On A Bed Of Money In New Photo by labamo07(m): 8:49am On Dec 22, 2015
He fought for his money as in "Real Fight" so what's my own but on the contrary I am still #eyanmayweather.................
FoodRe: If You Are Given This Type Of Food By Your Inlaws (picture) by labamo07(m): 9:45am On Dec 15, 2015
dey have to provide the incantation to recite on a paper before eating na. eat something wey go reset my location................
PoliticsRe: Patrick Akpobolokemi Bundled Into A Van By Security Operatives - Video by labamo07(m): 8:55am On Dec 15, 2015
Firefire:
APC & Buhary abusing the rule of law in the name of fighting corruption.

You don't fight corruption by harassing people and infringing on their fundamental human right.

Only time will tell.

If this is how to fight corruption, then Nigeria as a country still need 5,000 YEARS to start fighting corruption. - SMH undecided
Olodo like you, mild force is applicable should you resist arrest, even in western world. Na prejudice go kill una...............
RomanceRe: When She Wants A God Fearing Husband (Hilarious Photo) by labamo07(m): 11:50am On Dec 13, 2015
All of una ladies want good things, ready-made man. Abeg choose the 2nd so he can help you chase the (oju kokoro) wey dey worry you..............
HealthRe: Understand Your Lack Of Confidence And Self Esteem by labamo07(op): 12:41pm On Dec 12, 2015
Oftentimes, people with lack of confidence confined themselves in solitary. Some celebrities are shy type that we mistake them to be a snub..........
HealthUnderstand Your Lack Of Confidence And Self Esteem by labamo07(op): 11:28am On Dec 12, 2015
Your degree of confidence, called self-confidence, is the trust or faith that you have in yourself and your abilities. Self esteem is the opinion you have of yourself.

Realistic feelings of confidence and positive self-esteem affect how you think and act, how you feel about others, and how successful you are in life. Having self-confidence does not mean that you can do everything. Self-confident people have expectations that are realistic. Even when some of their expectations are not met, they continue to be positive and to accept themselves.

Understanding Self-Confidence
Self-confidence allows you to have positive yet realistic views of yourself and the situations in which you are involved. If you have self-confidence, typically you do not fear challenges, you are able to stand up for what you believe, and you have the courage to admit your limitations.
Most of us have areas in our lives where we feel quite competent while at the same recognizing areas where we do not feel at all confident. Having an accurate sense of self-confidence means you avoid behaving overconfident or reckless. It means you are not afraid to take risks on tasks that you are able to do and you do not get paralyzed by the fear and anxiety when faced with things you want or need to do.
People with high self-confidence typically have little fear of the unknown, are able to stand up for what they believe in, and have the courage to risk embarrassment. Losing confidence is no longer trusting in the ability to perform. It may be reasonable as the result of past failure to perform, or unreasonable, because one "just has a feeling" about something or is having doubt.

How is Self-Confidence Initially Developed?

Many factors affect the development of self-confidence. Parents' attitudes are crucial to children's feelings about themselves, particularly in children's early years. When parents provide acceptance, children receive a solid foundation for good feelings about themselves. If one or both parents are excessively critical or demanding, or if they are overprotective and discourage moves toward independence, children may come to believe they are incapable, inadequate, or inferior. However, if parents encourage children's moves toward self-reliance and accept and love their children when they make mistakes, children will learn to accept themselves and will be on their way to developing self-confidence.

Surprisingly, lack of self-confidence is not necessarily related to lack of ability. Instead, it is often the result of focusing too much on the unrealistic expectations or standards of others, especially parents and society. Friends' influences can be as powerful or more powerful than those of parents and society in shaping feelings about one's self.
Any discussion of confidence should include information on self-esteem. While self-confidence is the knowledge that you can succeed at something, self-esteem is the capacity to like and love your self, and feel worthwhile, irrespective of all the ups and downs of life. It is your values, beliefs and personal philosophy by which you define your personal worth.
Someone with a healthy self-esteem simply likes himself or herself. A healthy self-esteem is not contingent on success because there are always failures to contend with. Neither is it a result of comparing ourselves with others because there is always someone better. With a healthy self-esteem, we like ourselves because of who we are and not because of what we can or cannot do.
On the other hand, low self-esteem fosters many unhealthy behaviors. Even though we might become aware of these behavioral problems, it's often a difficult task to change them unless the root of the problem, low self-esteem, is dealt with first.
It is not natural for you to feel good about failure nor is it healthy for you to feel indifferent about it. Rather, it is healthy for you to feel bad about it. Feeling bad about a negative event can help you to think clearly about the event, to change it if it can be changed and to make a constructive adjustment to it if it can't be changed. But a warped sense of self-image can cause these emotions to become destructive; sadness can become depression , and healthy anger can become unhealthy. The more unhealthy our negative emotions become, the more it can interfere with our ability to think clearly, and the less likely we are to to change our behavior in constructive ways.

Building Confidence and Self-Esteem
Challenges to our self-esteem and confidence are a part of everyday life. The important thing is to learn how to overcome failure and negative experiences.
Self-confidence and positive self-esteem can be learned. This learning will involve changes, new behaviors, and will take time and energy. Building self-esteem and confidence is dependent on breaking old habits and developing new productive ones. A key habit that needs to be shattered is the habit of negative thinking. These thoughts are probably so ingrained into your mind that you assume that they are unchangeable, but they are not. Learning how to acknowledge and deal with your negative thoughts is an effective way of starting to boost your self esteem. Below are several suggestions for how you can begin to work on establishing better self-esteem and become more confident:
*Stop judging yourself by what happens to you in life, so you're not basing your confidence on outside events.
*Forgive yourself and others for past mistakes. Harboring old grudges takes up a lot of time and energy you could be using in more productive ways.
*Learn to think differently. When you fall into self-criticism and unconfident thoughts, note them and change them to positive thoughts.
*Set goals on the basis of what you can realistically achieve, and then work step-by-step to develop your potential. T
*Emphasize your strengths. Focus on what you can do rather than what you cannot.
Self-confidence and self-esteem are learned, not inherited. So lack of confidence does not have to be permanent. Since lack of confidence and lack of positive self-esteem are both learned, they can be replaced by new learning. Developing confidence and self-esteem are effectively facilitated by psychotherapy.
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EducationRe: Poor Grades In School: Come To My Aid Nlders, I Need Your Advice by labamo07(m): 10:43am On Dec 11, 2015
Foolish boy! you want to die? die na. You feel the life is worthless, huh? There are many people out there you are better off. Think positively out of that entanglement and remember you are only witnessing a tough time which doesn't last only if you decide to be tough...........
CrimeRe: Supreme Court Decides Rev King’s Death Sentence Feb 26 by labamo07(m): 11:42pm On Dec 10, 2015
Yeye dey smell. As if I trust the judiciary. They only discharge their duties on the weak and the poor...............
Business To BusinessLacasera For Trucking At Good Price by labamo07(op): 2:42pm On Dec 09, 2015
We have lacasera for trucking at good price to any location in Nigeria except BH states. Contact me for price
Seun
07051786323
i.oluwaseun@gmail.com
PoliticsRe: #BayelsaDecides: APC Kicks Against INEC’s Cancellation Of Elections by labamo07(m): 7:50am On Dec 08, 2015
ShowYourCertificate:
Buhari can never be my father. He's a senile dullard without a certificate grin
I earnestly hope you grow sense someday. You are still carrying your stupidity all about with your Buhari show your certificate............
PoliticsRe: Bayelsa Governorship: How The Winner Will Emerge - Daily Trust by labamo07(m): 11:12am On Dec 05, 2015
Sijo01:
Both candidates kinda look alike.
so you saw what I saw...............
PoliticsRe: No Political Will To Prosecute High-profile Corruption Cases, Says CJN by labamo07(m): 7:46am On Dec 01, 2015
They can only fight a man with no political class. How can corruption be fought while having the corrupted ones holding the highest offices in the country. Oh sorry, I forgot impunity is wearing amour in Nigeria.............
BusinessRe: Software Solution That Helps Retailers To Manage Their Store by labamo07(op): 2:52pm On Nov 26, 2015
Are you still worried about the theft caused by you sales person or your auditor, this software solution gives you first hand information of your stock and inventory even if you are far away from the store. Hurry up and get your business rolling in an automated version.........................
PhonesRe: 2015 List Of Budget Friendly Phones Priced Under NGN30,000 by labamo07(m): 2:58pm On Nov 23, 2015
Any other thing aside from Samsung on the list no meet my merit list...............
BusinessRe: With No Doubt. Fiverr Is The Very Easier Way To Earn Money Online by labamo07(m): 1:33pm On Nov 21, 2015
I would like to have a copy also. my email is isoluwaseun1@gmail.com thanks
PoliticsRe: We Can No Longer Pay N18,000 Minimum Wage, Govs Cry Out-vanguard by labamo07(m): 3:50pm On Nov 19, 2015
But you can pay jumbo pay as salaries to law makers. Awon weyrey..........................................

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