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obailala:
I dont think you understand the twin concepts of hypnotism and brainwashing.

its a very powerful tool that people don't seem to be aware of. The same technique used by islamic terrorists to convince someone to set a bomb and blow themselves up, just different programming language.


Until we do away with any form of religion,we can never see meaningful progress in this country.

Some things cant be faked ,her expressions are so genuine ,what a pure soul. This is what i call drawing good attention to one's self.

People dey this world sha. This op is a remarkable human being ,i am intrigued at the story telling skills of the op.

Singing in fella's voice;

If you die ,you die for nothing,
Dem go care your body go police station
You die wrongfully,
Jeje x4


Of the jobs in this country, a person decided to become an aid worker in a terrorists zone for a country where human parts is sold for 1k and even soldiers are killed like chickens.

All this sufferhead jobs sef . OP the job will leave you weak in body,soul and spirit. You will become angry and frustrated.

Educative.

campaign for Sharia law to be included fully in the Constitution and to be taught in Arabic Language in universities

I see the ismlamists are working hard.

Even babies are not spared from the demented trolls of nairaland.smh

The future is bleak, we are breeding a generation of fraudsters and think its cute, when whitie nor pay again they will turn on their own people. Its happening already sef.

What kind of apartment do you have that you have to sleep on the same bed ? One room? .


The story sounds fake.

luminouz:
Leave the Boys alone babe. You and you alone decide what gets to you or not. That's your power.

bros bros,you na man wey sabi right from time.

luminouz:
If you had joined,it would have meant you had no handle on your emotions.

Control those emo-gases and fluids or they control you

its not about control, these boys here were already calling their baby daddy friends on nairaland to come and gloat ,lol. Anyway ,i am glad i didnt tho it was tempting to join in the dart throwing sections with the boys

Duggedised12:
flesh and blood did not reveal this to you.

don't mind them, very any how human beings ,the same ones that will blame dead girls for being murdered even when it is not proven she was a prostitute o, the same ones that will blame rape victims forgetting its someone's daughter and sister too he is talking about caring for someone's daughter, where as he is more interested in looking out and maintaining the bro code.

KanuSE:
Maybe your bf/husband is struggling with pile presently, the reason you know about pill-insertion through the anus... hahahaha

Secondly @bolded, I won't allow you mislead DaphneBr coz someone who's yet to find their bearing in life shouldn't be allowed to give advice in such matters.

You need guidance as well coz u don miss road sotey u com dey fart for thread...lol

lol,i knew about it through you na, stop it jor,because i have been keeping it a secret? This boy sef

Guidance? says a boy who co-signed on the "maternal slavery" comment. Lol you and your goons have issues with women for whatever reason and will lead even your own sisters astray just to maintain your "bro code". So shut up your mouth. And be more focused on healing from your so called maternal slavery y'all have been through.

KanuSE:
Lol you're very funny! I don't poke my nose into people's stuff like you, I don't.

Be like say u don chop fowl yansh sef coz I smell your stench from afar.

nah, the stench is from your leaking anus,pile man .


You cant give advice but you can be bothered about other people giving advice sotey you nearly get high bp begging her not to listen to me lol.

Guy go wear adult pampers for your leaking anus so the smell you are perceiving will go

KanuSE:
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Lol sense is far from you walahi, I wonder how your family and friends cope.

ode, you better go and insert that tablet into your asshole,pile man .

And by the way i am still waiting for you to drop your wonderful advice for her

KanuSE:
Stop farting around and dress up for our night out.

says the one who has pile , because i have been keeping your dirty little secret?

KanuSE:
She's yet to ask me for an advice and as manners demand, I don't poke my nose into people's stuff.

So be quiet and dress up for our night out.

sharap ,she didnt call any particular person or your head is turningonimown . You either drop your advice for her or gerrarahia

KanuSE:
Stop listening to the likes of ladycewhy coz they will lead you there and leave you there to fight on your own.

My 2kobo

yen yen yen, i have not seen a single advice from you to her ,lets hear your own advice na ,all this running around my comments like a headless chicken,you must be exhausted

DaphneBr:
my baby is just 7months but everyone including my own family knows what's going om.

well,don't dull yourself o, even if you have money,go meet the people giving excuses for him and collect money from them , collect food stuff if you have to , bug them so bad so they too in turn will let their brother know. Nor form super woman, Cos las las when he comes back now and buys fancy toy for his child ,e don end be that o. Dont dull yourself o.

DaphneBr:
He travelled out of the country this year,and the sisters keep making excuses for him whenever i tell them about their brother's actions towards his daughter,they keep saying that he's struggling for money and thats why he doesn't call. (he's 33 yrs old)

if he can call his sisters then he should be able to call his daughter, there is now WhatsApp video call. Let your daughter know its not in your hands, infact take her there to his sister's place let your daughter hear the conversation.The mistakes many women make is they try to shield their kids from the rejection. If he doesn't want to be in his child's life let his child see it themselves,just be ready to be there when your kids need you and fill that void.

There is this narrative going on in the society that mothers estranged from the father of their kids are emotional recks so they use their children as weapons and turn the kids against their fathers,is that how you want your kid to perceive you ?

You better let her see and feel it herself. If possible ,request for his number from his sisters in your daughters presence. You better be wise lest you raise a child and be labelled a villain in the end, see how the op in his first comment called his mom a nagger and wailer.

falcon01:
From selling something healthy to selling something Toxic.

una for this forum sef. Atleast no more smoke and sun for her. Last time i remember alcohol was legal,drink responsibly .

DaphneBr:
Kindly need advise please

My child's father is not present in her life,his family helps in raising her,my problem now is that he neither calls nor ask about his child,even when i was pregnant. I've forgiven him for my own peace of mind and i'm also trying to move on. His sisters are now demanding that i keep mentioning him to my child,i told them that whenever the dad wants a part in his daughters life that i won't hold him back.

i think what you should do is to try and take her to see him, its better kids see their fathers reject them so they don't think you manipulated them. Like my uncle did, that one will insult them and their mother when they go and ask him for school fees,its the kids that used their sense to stay away from him .

somehow:
The thread actually gave us another way to learn in life and how not to tackle issues or judge others

True, but the baby daddy commitee where already gyrating and foaming in the mouth one even called it "freeing ones self from maternal slavery" lol what does that even mean? Geez sick dudes with bones to pick with their mothers.

KanuSE:
Loool you're a handful seriously. Also, it's kinda easy to hide the fact one has no confidence in their relationship let alone their other half...

We Sweet Boys Association are proud of ours and we flaunt it...no sweat!

If you smell it and want a bite, please jump on it.

you are so thirsty. Lol OK you have been noticed. Have a great day.

somehow:
This is why I hardly respond instantly to a post, I wait for supporting comment from the op or I ask questions!

No one ever paint themselves guilty or bad in their own narrative!

i wanted to jump on the train too. Infact my first comment leaned towards that cos i was angry the op was giving a pat on the back to his bead beat father when the rest of the family were not aware or in support.

Not knowing it was a different narrative all together.

somehow:
Maybe he insulted the father
fought him physically
became rebellious

now his conscience is having him for dinner now that he is about to become a man too

what i dont appreciate is misleading people with the narrative he painted.very tastless and tacky.

KanuSE:
You're not even sure...lol state of confusion indeed.

Now I know where the problem lies...sorry ehn!

lol, you think i will play into your stupid games? You want to know my relationship status, boy you aint that sleek. Go learn more tricks.boy. Actually with way you have been jyrating on this thread one would think you and the other attention seeker shouting in capital letters have mummy issues ,lol freeing themselves from maternal slavery. so you see you are the one with the problems ,whatever bones you have to pick with the women in your life, leave me out of it.

somehow:
The parents were never separated, he was the one that went AWOL against his dad based on reasons best known to him.!

this op is manipulating narrative, na wah o

KanuSE:
Why the insult na? Imagine if your bf/husband sees how you behave on NL, do you think he would be glad to continue or have a rethink.

Put your feet up and swipe on lollipop ok.

my bf/husband is aware of dunderheads like you on nairaland,so he will not have a problem with it. Now shooo,off you go. --------->

KanuSE:
Just calm down ok.

I can see that you are opinionated but know that the Sweet Boys Association mean well.

another gibberish ,you can always tell the sane from the stupid typical male nairalanders what next?call me an olosho? Lol get lost boy.

CAPSLOCKED:
I DID NOT MENTION YOU. WHO ARE YOU?
WHY FOR ONCE CAN'T YOU DIE ALONE WITH YOUR BITTERNESS AND ANGUISH?? MUST YOU SEEK TO EXTEND IT TO ANYTHING YOU PASS BY?

LEAVE ME ALONE PLEASE. I DON'T HAVE STRENGTH TO START RECEIVING NAMES BECAUSE THAT'S GONNA BE YOUR NEXT MOVE.

lol ,you are the one being bitter talking about maternal slavery. Stop bringing your personal bitterness online. This is the first time i am hearing of such a word,thanks to you,seems you have a bone to pick with your mother lol.