₦airaland Forum

ubunja:
don't look at me like that.

What would you rather I tell people?

ubunja:
What do you want people to do yourself?

ubunja:
marriage is not for veryone.

ubunja:
why waste myself on 1 woman? Makes no sense.

AquariusRising:
So true! While you were being irritated by other people gaggling, you decided to search yourself for irritating brushing routines. That is always the first step if the maturing or evolving process.

Nobody is perfect! Nobody! and anyone who doesn't see that or refuses to see that is free to buy an island on Mars and go live there..living in a massive duplex on ones own is not enough, and while they are at it, they should feel free to buy a sex doll...I hear they are becoming popular among disordered people.

In my personal journey of evolving, I have found that these irritating tics we find in other people are sometimes involuntary....and if one has any humanity, those tics become cute with time...that's if we are willing to melt our frozen hearts and open it to someone...

LabDNA:
If I leave something on the table in bedroom and I come home and can't find it. I'll be like 'Babe did you see the file I left on the table before going out?', what I want to hear is something like 'Honey I arranged it in that folder in the wardrobe so I don't spill tea on it while taking breakfast'. Case solved!

But If I hear, 'I didn't see any file on the table o', for Godsakes, I live alone with you, who then must have entered this bedroom, a ghost? Isn't that enough to drive anyone crazy? Even you?

johnkey:
People act within the limits of their conscious capacity, we can't change who we are, sometimes I'm an empath, Everytime I'm an amorous narcissist, and generally I'm a vulnerable narcissist. I still have my OCPD to deal with.
Being born under the Scorpio sign aint always easy.

Luiz1:
Where do they sell wishes?

Luiz1:
Only rich people would be able to buy wishes.

And that would be too bad

lagosminded:
Marriage is a sham. Our ladies now don’t want to suffer like their mothers. The more being a divorcee is no longer a stigma for women, the higher the divorce rate in Nigeria will be. Women are not blameless tho, they’ve perfected the act of “getting the ring”.

eni4real:
Advanced Bachelors

Experience is the best teacher. I think Marriage is a new school for every newly wedded couple!!

AquariusRising:
I fully agree with your line of reasoning. I personally have no problem with people who are proprietary about their personal space, especially as I'm an introvert.

What I don't agree with however is how some individuals think that only others have irritating mannerism. Nobody is perfect and anyone who is not grown enough to accommodate the possibility that it is possible that they are ticking the other person off, just as the other is ticking them off, has issues..simple!

pocohantas:
Pheew! I have OCD. I am particular about those things you mentioned. I have a way I do everything- even to cut onions. I have a way I cut for stew, omellettes, sauce...whatever. At work you will see me going upandan, arranging tables. Nobody send me o. I am that petty.

It took me some time to adjust, though it has never been like some guys here described. Never have I been irritated by a guest, but I try my best not to always have people over or sleep out. Yea, it is not a normal behaviour, I agree (at this point).

Chi59:
Babe no think am o. No be by age. If dem tell you say some of these foolish guys for nairaland are in their thirties, you go believe?

Chi59:
Many of the "advanced bachelors" are very unserious and unready. I mean guys in mid to late thirties. Some behave very childish. Damn

Mindfulness:
No, these things don't bother me but my mum hates it when I drag my feet and she has never lived alone in her life. From papa's house to her matrimonial house with kids following very soon after.

Mindfulness:
I get very irritated by people eating too loud and belching. I thought I had good manners not a social disorder.

pocohantas:
Hahahaha. You are cracking me up. So advanced bachelor is the opposite of evening newspaper ehn?

So, when exactly does this advance bachelorhood start? Just so we put things into perspective.

Some people are loners though, they thrive better on their own. If they can do that without blaming anyone for their woes- perfect.

kokaneprodigy:
which one be advanced bachelor again

pocohantas:
It is actually moving slowly and civilly. If say na woman, we for dey 18pages by now na. E for mad gaan . Wetin concern us with educative? Most educative threads that hit FP struggle to get to 3pages.




Hahahahahahaha. Abeg no kill me.

pocohantas:
No wonder them no dey allow person see road for here. I no care if anybody wan advance, that is strictly your choice. I have a problem when such people keep acting like every other person is the problem but them. Running down people. How then can you see good in the opposite sex? Naso craze dey start o

Allen102:
For Nigeria.

Allen102:
India, Lebanese and chiness boys full everywhere na,

go grab your own.