ExAngel007:
Nigerian ladies have taken to Twitter to reveal some of the
odd things some men did to them that made them stop
speaking to such men.

The conversation started after a twitter user posed the
question and then went on to share her own experience. Some
of the responses were quite hilarious. Continue to read
below...

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/9/ladies-reveal-the-reasons-they-stopped-talking-to-some-men.html

1) I like your lips ,

the reason why I hate it is because I have heard what men mean when they say you have nice lips especially if your lips are bigger and I cannot unread or unhear it when they say it , I just lose interest coz I know you want to have sex and that's what's driving you and it's not me

2) this guy was almost perfect then he opened his filthy mouth to say " you're just my spec , petite , if you were bigger than this I wouldn't have approached you , how can I be walking with a fat girl in the road , they irritate me" I think he was trying to assure me but I was frightened because It was unnecessary and men like him really don't care if your thick or thin when they want to stick their dick inside , anyways that was our last day of talking

3) he said he would make me look attractive and help me grow a booty , then asked for nudes and then asked me for 1k coz he was broke and hungry , my friends didn't let me send it , bless them , that nigga was the ugliest guy I ever talked to

4) he asked what I wanted for my bday , I told him a book , it was expensive , he said he'd get it , went ahead and bought me a perfume , lingerie and a intimacy gadget , things that any girl could take if I didn't take it first , there was no proof that they were for me , for all I know he could've stored those pictures from previous encounters with other women and the gifts may not even be there so I said bye , what I asked for was actually cheaper than everything so why did he deliberately get me a lingerie and a intimacy gadget

4)

Jovialjune1:



You don't sound intelligent

With most of the valid reasons those ladies told up there, this is your lame comeback?

You think most ladies will marry incels bacause of desperation and age? All ladies are not like the ones in your enclave.

You want dey exchange word with am, when he has already showed the back of his brain , na wa for you oh

Rozross:
This is weird ooo and there’s nothing entertaining in what she’s doing, may she not be unfortunate to meet an evil woman’s husband, it won’t be funny

No oh she only goes after women who dare her, na oyinbo , nobody get time for naija to go try this kind thing , everybody dey chop clean mouth

Karen2024:
My boyfriend suprised me this morning by handing the keys to a new car to me as a gift.


I love my boyfriend

Nothing will ever separate us!!!

Awwwwwn congrats
I actually got a private jet last week from a secret admirer

Rozross:
Go ahead dear

She picks out one unlucky married woman that pisses her off and finds out who the Mr is , finds a way to get in contact with him and gets proof of her interaction with him , including intimate pictures , now I sort of think it's a bit unnecessary but there are some women who need it the hard way so that they shut up and live their LIE instead of always trying to shame people who refuse to follow their footsteps .

The recent one was hilarious , she said " my husband would never "

And aunty came on tiktok with receipts and wifey called with a private number , warning her to stay away from her and her husband , like he's some kid and anyone can just pick him up and walk away , a grown man who can choose to go or stay , and ended up choosing to take the bait , like she said he would

Anyways she said they would see a therapist and work things out so the girl should stay away or she's going to deal with her LOL again a grown man fully aware of his actions

Many think she's being childish , I think she's a super villain , others say she's wrecking homes for fun , I just think it's entertaining and even tho I won't do it coz I have better things to do , i definitely like the girl

Rozross:
� men hates been cheated on ehn but these same men are busy serving pricks everywhere. This life no truly balance sha. �

Dating sites are full of ring bearing eligible bachelor's , Mr& Mrs and co

There's a villain loose on the internet , should I tell you what she does?

Sweetvie:
Smile... You're so on point
Am not generalizing it
It actually for Nland guys only.They all think so low of girls as if we're dirt and it so irritating that's y i brought the topic up. The way guys on nland see girls ehn like object Just for sex... I just tire.
2k geng

I wear my war hat here too but outside I am a softie and I have people that remind me everyday that real men are out there , you just need to understand their language , where some girls Bleep up is when they say yes to every one , even people that did not ask them
When you have cool guys as your friend , better people , they will teach you things , inside scope and still respect you , for my gist and gossip I have girls , but for business advice or you know questions like the ones you asked here I ask the guys

Funny thing is most of the nonsense men do in your dm , only girls know about it

ibkonekt:

Male virgin, tall, fine, smart, kind....all the traits of hypergamy fulfilled only except the virginity part. I am pretty sure that the guy was rich or financially okay. Why dont you get a male virgin that is poor, short, ugly.
The fact of the matter is women choose men based on all the other factors you listed apart from virginty so the tall, rich, smart were the leading factor for you, then virginity was icing for you. It didnt really matter because u had already chosen him. Now for a man youth and purity and virginity and beauty are the leading factors for marriage selection. Other factors come later.

I mentioned the qualities he had that I liked and here you are body shaming men trying to put words into my mouth in other to prove a point , I don't know who made you bitter but I do hope you recover soon

There is nothing wrong with having a preference but just because you have a preference doesn't give you or anyone the right to bully a person for their individual characteristics , that is where a lot of men fail

"I like a woman that is younger than I am , I like to be in charge and I feel attracted to their adventurousness" this is a preference that is uplifting to young women and does no harm to anyone

"I don't like fat women, they're just useless "this is bullying , what business do you have trying to shame people whom you have no interest in , and some people say things like this and call it a preference and then go ahead and say "if you're offended it is not my fault

I can also say" I like tall dark men " this is a preference that is uplifting to my kind of men

"I don't like light skinned short men who can't speak English" I have no business with them and this is just unnecessary bullying because there are plenty of other people who Fancy them just the way they are , so what is the point?

Your response proved one thing right and that is the fact that a lot of men lack conversational skills , you proved it when you attempted to put words in my mouth about men who are opposite my ex , to get the response that would've been satisfactory to your grain sized ego

Nonam:
Yes. I noticed. I have seen a women ask money from men on the road but avoid their women. They know men are free spirited givers.

So since you hardly seek help from your own gender, stop finding fault with men who ask for something in return.

Wow
I've never noticed , for me I ask from help from women than men because I am very suspicious of any man even relatives , for me girls are more generous than men ,

Most times in school when I was broke , I always I mean always had them coming for me , especially on my birthday and I don't celebrate birthdays , even my sisters are very generous, I'm the eldest but they always want to give me something, same with my friends , I've never been abandoned , I have male friends but 90% are women and I can't point one stingy person

Sweetvie:
Have been reading alot of post about girls begging for money from guys and their reply have not been kind especially if the girl is not in a relationship with them. I mean y do guys have that kind of mentality that u can only give girls ur money if you're sexually involved with them.

Change your circle
Stop using nairaland to generalise for all men , it is a faceless and nameless forum , alot of people lie here and some of them are the lowest kind of people , especially those shouting alpha male , but it's fine , I get bored too and I come here to add my own lie because I know I'm talking to liars

Alpha no dey make noise

There are men out there who give without all that , I think it depends on who you're talking to , actually 2 nights ago I went to withdraw money with baby sis and network was bad so I was just about to leave when the little guy called us back and offered 1500 for no reason , it was cute , coz I was older than him , I could clearly see it but he thought it would help and I no go lie I take am

There are also many occasions where random guys have done one or two , and they don't even ask for your number or your name , they just feel like

I have very few male friends that always forget I'm not their little sister , very few and on some occasions I know if I called them they would come through , and even now they offer to help at some stuff but sometimes you will be very scared of accepting , I always have second thoughts , thinking they want something from me but most times I'm wrong, one of them has never given me money but when we eat outside , I never pay for my food , he doesn't allow it , when he started dating I thought it would stop but his babe was just like him, she also loved paying for my food and I will accept , I will still eat from her plate , because I am a foodie

But you see the 2k geng , they send you 2k and next is "when can we see?"
Those ones will climb you and horse you for hours and give you #150 to go home

Did I forget to add I'm mostly friends with older people , maybe that's why I'm lucky , both men and women and they give both advice , support and anything ,
Change your circle and the type of internet you're on

RedpillAnalyst:
@satandeterrible and ibkonekt hammered the issue well.

The fallacy of false equivalency. No sane argument can ever be made whenever people equate men with women.

man =/= woman.

A match for a virgin woman is a rich man => ( Ned Nwoke and Regina Daniels)

Quite frankly nobody has respect for an adult man who is still a virgin. Women are highly repulsed down to their DNA by male virgins.

Guys! Don't let society and these succubi mislead you. If you are a man you have above 75% chance of nasty divorce if you marry a non-virgin. The Stats are out there.

Marrying a virgin does not mean perfect marriage, but it cuts a whole whole lot of BuulSheet right off the bat.

1) Some old leaked nudes of your wife. Can you walk up tall and contest for governorship or presidency if your wife's private anatomy is on everybody's phone? Your opponent has campaign material right there?

2) Ex crawling back and still smashing and at times threatening or blackmailing the wife for cash if husband is wealthy. Just imagine your bang mate back in school was either Tinubu's wife or Peter Obi's wife. This a retirement plan if.....(Just think about,,,,)

3) STDs and womb imprinting.

4) Sexual dissatisfaction as a result of desensitization from a series of random instruments in your wife,

5) Trust issue right off the bat knowing your wife had part of her life she will never reveal to you.

Non-Virgins Women and Unaccomplished Men, Have No Business Being At The Altar

I have dated a male virgin , and many people have , it actually makes you curious and puts you on your toes because now you don't want to share him , worse part was he was a handsome fine tall man , smart and kind , you probably do not believe it , I didn't get to be his first coz we broke up ( )

I am looking for another virgin , I want to use my hands and spoil him , I understand men small but they're just so petty with it , like they are entitled to it , when they're not , when anyone asked me that stupid question in the past

"are you a virgin ?"

Yes I was but it's very irritating to say yes or no , coz I immediately know the kind of person I'm talking to ,
When I felt comfortable with someone I tell them myself and sometimes they ask indirectly, politely and I get the hint , "you look very innocent with these your baby face "

Then I can say " yes I've done this and I've done that"

But because Nigerian men lack conversational skills , they interrogate you and demand to know
and when you start losing vibe to answer

"aha! Come my brothers for I have caught myself a prostitute and a witch "

and most questions only need a yes or a no and you? and then they say Nigerian women are too proud , I asked if she has eaten for the 100th time today and she got angry

ibkonekt:
women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gate keepers of marriage and commitment. we each set the standards here.

a man will try to bed a woman and the woman has to resist or tell him to marry her before he gets sex. This way she can keep her virginity until marriage…simple.
The difference between a man and woman sleeping around is this

Man: a man has to work and put in a lot of effort to get a girl to have sex with him. He must be tall, fine, intelligent, sleek with words, make her laugh, buy her stuffs, appear rich, appear confident….a whole lot of things all to get a girl to give him sex

Woman: a woman has to take a bath and just stand there and look pretty.

I hope you can see the reason why men are praised and women are shamed.
If as a man I could just open my d1ck and women would be begging me to give me BJ and please me sexually then men would be shamed because it is EASY….
WOMEN ARE SHAMED FOR FVCKING AROUND BECAUSE IT IS EASY FOR THEM…..THE HARD THING FOR WOMEN TO DO IS TO RESIST….WHILE THE REVERSE IS THE CASE FOR MEN IT IS EASY TO RESIST SEX AND HARD TO GET SEX (FOR MEN). THE ONLY THING YOU CAN RIGHTLY SHAME A MAN FOR IS THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE MONEY. IN ESSENCE MEN ARE VALUED FOR RESOURCES AND WOMEN ARE VALUED FOR FERTILITY

What is this one saying?

OROSUNBOLB:


Be careful.

Incorrect answer

etrange:


Most of you guys here are not any better than animals. It's only the law keeping you in check. You see a thread like this, and the only thing that comes to your mind is how to sexually harass her. Is this a corrective measure or you just being a gutter child with no self control? It's you guys in streets of Onitsha and Lagos that would see a woman committing a crime and you'd strip her and start groping her pretending its a form of punishment for her crime, meanwhile you're just satisfying your amorous desires. I hope your sisters and women around you are safe cause it's better to live with a frog than have a slimy dirty creature like you around. Disgusting.

Wolves in sheep clothing
It is not surprising , but it will continue to feel sad because men and women were created to be friends and live with each other but one gender derives great pleasure enabling destruction and creating new means to torture the other .

we'll be moving to a difficult but safer era where a big bridge would be created that separates the two , and allow both to live without each other , the signs are everywhere , tolerance is declining and this makes me both happy and sad , hopefully the new mom's of this generation do a better job in paying attention to all of their children and not just the girl child

Bossmanmoves:


God bless you!!!
I have asked this same question again and again still no one can give me a logical explanation of what makes it a bad practice.

They keep citing trivial reasons.
One said demons are watching you, just waiting for you to do it LMAO.

It helps you to understand your body very well, thanks for saying that.

In this country, we are surrounded by a large number of hypocrites!!

Hypocrites , that's the keyword

It is especially worse when it is a girl , I've heard the following;

Oh your vagina will spoil

You would never be satisfied in bed and your future husband will not trust you

Men like innocent girls , you're not innocent , you will cheat , masturbation will make you start to cheat

My favorite "it attracts spirit husbands"

They said sleeping naked and not wearing panties or wearing black or red at night attracted spirit husbands and when I had sleep paralysis i really thought it was a spirit husband until I found out , it was sleep paralysis, they almost had me

Bossmanmoves:
For a while now, I've been hearing people condemn the act of masturbating and linking it to problems that they face in their life ( I consider it to be funny ).

There's nothing wrong with you masturbating, it's a healthy habit. If you are the RELIGIOUS TYPE, you have problems with it because of your beliefs and the guilt that results within is as a result of YOU THINKING YOU'VE DONE WRONG!!!

Try to practice healthy masturbation as there are no negative sides to it ( The only negative part to it are the ones you create).

If you have something to do with your life ( something useful) I don't see how masturbating would be an issue.

I do it three times a week and it doesn't affect my work. It makes me even sleep better at night and even in the afternoon. I drink lots of water when I'm done and I feel so relaxed afterwards. It is a nice way to let go of that sexual tension.

I'm not your TYPICAL CHRISTIAN but I'm happy with the way my life is. I pursue meaningful things that add value to myself and masturbating has never been in my way.

My advice is if you are in a tough place in your life and you are masturbating, don't think it's the reason you are there just look for the real problem and address it. Stop blaming poor ol masturbation.

They say it's bad, then switch off their lights and still do it
I personally think it's healthy , especially for women, what's the point of not getting familiar with your own body , and then grow old and die


Why would your creator give you so many erogenous zones only to warn you not to use them or else you'll perish , I suspect a set up ( his way is not our way )

I love that I know what turns me on and what doesn't , some people have to endure rubbish with people , sometimes the rubbish is still very painful not just annoying , I educated myself with different materials and of course there was practical ,so I know my spots better than anyone will and I'm very pleased with that choice

The religious are ready to cast their first stone and still sin in secret , it's not sin unless you're caught ? Every one has hormones , I'm scared of people who claim to not be moved or not have any thing at all , they're either lying or the living dead , even your religious leaders have hormones and feel Hot and you want me to believe they just stand up and start walking and it vanishes or they start binding and casting and some invisible surgeon comes to perform spiritual castration so their sexual organs automatically cease

Those ones that will be shouting I've never watched porn , I saw it "once" by "accident" since I was born and I'll never watch it again,are always the first to get pregnant in sec school or get someone pregnant

Rozross:
Imagine some comments up there saying they want to know what happened between them.Person go marry like this? �

Not me , I no get strength, I no Sabi collect beating , if Dem beat me na me go enter kirikiri because I will kill him even if it's in his sleep , so far as say na my papa born me , make everybody just dey

Islandlady:
As a popular proverbs says "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"

So I am asking the men, is Food still the way to your heart's or another thing is the new way?

mynd44 nlfpmod

I just asked someone right now , it's not food it's mad BJ , especially the type where you swallow stuff
Anyways heaven is the goal

luminouz:


*Sighs*

It's a waste of time to engage with you. Should have known you are not capable of logic.

Have a nice one.

Logic
I sense you're Yoruba , it's Yoruba men that like using English when they feel like they've lost

bigpicture001:


Trust me money is. Never her problem, but as sh told her friend, sh has this fancy for 9-5 guyz and sh likes it when guyz havve money...

As for gold digger... Sh supported my ruined biz with about 500k..

Awwwwwn cute
You're going to find a better woman ,

jagorinho:


Marriage is loosing its relevance,it is starring you in the face. Why scare people with 60 years stuff? it is childish. So you think people that don't have kids are worthless or you cant decode that people can have kids without getting married.

Have you not seen parents that lost their life to the same kids they bred?, look life is too deep for your shallow utterances. In Europe there are homes for the elderly where they stay and reminisce about their younger days. Blacks always believe that the kids must be their slave at old age, doesn't work like that everywhere, and you can get kids while not married , so?

With recent happenings and Awakening world wide, it is cool to say that getting married nowadays is 50/50, anything that is on the threshold of 50/50 is not cool again.

It has lost its relevance , it's not loosing it
It was meant to be sacred , involving two people who will have their own children , now it's Mr and Mrs and co

luminouz:


Your conclusion is still skewed.



Sis you say many men are on dating apps and that means they are unhappy? Are you living under a rock? Many men on those apps are married with children and don't mind looting some young pussies along the way o. You think being on dating apps on Nigerian context means you are unhappy? Wrong as fuq. Men will always be men

I need someone to see this , he just agreed with me
Blessedmercy8

Luminous just agreed that men will be happily married and still look for trouble , unprovoked
I hope everyone can see this

This should've been in the first page
Damn

truthsayer009:


He had an affair in 1994, so that is why the woman wants divorce? Almost 30 years ago. You women will say anything to justify anything.

The sole reason why she is clamouring for this divorce is that, It comes with Finance. She is going to be getting a lot of cash, END OF STORY.

Please let's just cut the damn chase & say it how it is.

Women do this for money, 100%. Same reason other Billionaire wives want a divorce, It is nothing new.

I'm not sure you were even born in 1994.

I'm sorry I don't know the details of Rambo and his wife , I'm talking about marriage in general and the broken system which is the current state of marriage in 2022 not 1994

I've noticed one thing , when anyone posts anything related to this marriage talk , it is always men that get upset , I expect women to be the one bashing me because they are the ones who spend their entire existence training extensively for marriage

When you're young "it's do like this so a good man will come

When you're married "it's do like this so that he will stay"

There's only one explanation to this reaction I keep getting from men " I am right and you all know what you're doing "

There's this saying "you can't have your cake and eat it"

Let me clarify something
Men are very big liars and you know the truth better than anyone that's why you hate when anyone says anything

Oga 1994 tell me you do not have or have not seen a broke man , like a complete loser who doesn't have that chick who's around him and ,most times these girls aren't even the girls that noone wants , pretty girls humming around riffraffs like they were blindfolded

I have seen and sometimes I wonder how those girls allowed themselves to do that , one fine chick moved into a zinc house with a neighbor of mine , it was a one room house , kitchen and toilet outside and they fuckeeed in that one room with his mom and nephew and he hit her too , knocked her up with a baby girl and cheated on her with his broke ass , fine yellow pawpaw girl oh she was 24 when he introduced her to me as his wife

He was all kinds of bad, drug addict , broke , poor , pussy Hunter and woman beater , child abuser (he abused his nephew on a regular basis) she was the daughter of a naval officer , now she has a child for the thing , he even said "he wanted a son not a daughter that if she had a son , he would've married her completely"

I've seen more but this one was the most dramatic one , broke men with women coming and going like they were summoned
My friend was one of those who thought she could love a man like that and they will treat you like they're managing you if you like be as pretty as Beyonce

Even in your group of friends , there's a guy that is shocking you with the women he's dating sometimes without a job at all

Let's stop with the hypocrisy , men who usually complain about gold diggers are men who don't have any gold to dig and men who end up with gold diggers know they're married to gold diggers and the gold digging has no gender sir

Your brothers will come to rant about how they can't settle with women with no ass or boobs , just to travel abroad and marry the first thing in a dress and claim it's love and then turn around to start bashing black women , simply because they can't have them and some go far to marry black and then marry white and steal from the white wife to send to the black wife and that's not gold digging , it's simply a good man hustling to make ends meet and he should be respected

Don't you guys get bored with these lies you keep telling yourself

luminouz:


This is very skewed.

You think men are the cause of feminism being on the rise. Funny enough most women still depend on men to sustain themselves. So called wokeness of women all revolved around the lure of money. Without that, no woman would want to divorce anyone.

You and your sis don't plan to get married and I respect that. The true test is yet to come though and that's when your career is over and you are all alone in your house at 60's or so. No calls or checkups from anyone and your voice echoes out in your own mansion. That's is the true litmus test. But then I guess you may do surrogacy or adoption to help out with that

Define feminism and then use that to judge what I posted and tell me if it relates

Wanting to remain unmarried because the marital system has deteriorated makes me a feminist ?

FYI feminists are getting married every single day , and from the occasional glimpse I get to take at the subject I understand that it was coined together to fight for the equality of men and women but the word FEMINISM has also been polluted by weeds , toxic individuals with selfish reasons and biases , who have given it a bad reputation and sometimes the wrong influence

I don't need a title or an organization to know what is wrong and what is right , Sir
If I have questions about certain subjects I have few trusted elders male and female that I consult

Times have changed , technology has advanced , more women have joined the working force , more people have access to education and internet , but only thing that refused to develop is the mindset of majority of the male population MINDSET

you want the old women who tolerated pain and suffering because most of her needs were her HUSBAND'S RESPONSIBILITY
That's why men always identify the perfect woman as their MOTHERS , because they know their mothers we're ready to eat shit to stay with their Father

But if you do get a woman operating with this old mindset what do you do? You cannot take RESPONSIBILITY. You need an asset , a working class woman , who's experiencing the stress of the work population but then why she should also tolerate, what women who didn't have choices tolerate, she has a choice now , so why should she?

Majority of divorces were initiated by women , majority of separation were initiated by the women , majority of happy singles are women , check your dating apps and confirm that , it is bombarded with men in their late 30s down to 60

This isn't about feminism , if it is then I'm not fully aware but whether it is or isn't I do support the original cause behind feminism , the origin in the early centuries ( I know you're going to gently skip this part and address what you want, to defend your gender , coz no matter what happens I am wrong and men are right)

But I promise you and I swear that 16 year old me was dying to find a good man and get married until I found out that marriage is a big lie and married men are still single men and that I will be responsible for whoever I attach myself to even if he kills me , it will still come back to point at me for being responsible for my own death

Baddestbiitch:
Im scared of marriage nowadays, most especially after so many years of being together and then you have to let go.

It's a part of a life for us to grow and evolve , meet new people and go new places and do new things
Divorce rate will go down soon because more often than before, women do not want to settle down anymore , many more are in contract marriages just to have children with a partner

It's because of that fear of letting go that alot of men bleeped up the marriage system , "for better and for worse " doesn't apply to deliberate acts of sabotaging a perfectly strong union just to get some cookie , it was easy to get away with because alot of women were terrified of letting go after so long and everyone will guilt trip you oh
"After 20 years amaka , you really want to leave so all these small girls will come and eat the fruit of your labor"

But noone is addressing the party host who invited the unexpected guests to enter your home disrespecting the length and diminishing the value of your relationship because " it's in their nature , men are polygamous in nature"

I have more married men in my dms than single men and they post their wives regularly

My parents might die of a heart attack when they find out the first two daughters aren't planning on settling down at all , hopefully we have other siblings maybe they won't be like us

biggirloya2:
I have always been a big girl. Bigger than my age that is. I have a very beautiful body and personality but a bit too big for my age. I have always been like this. Now i am 26 but you would swear i am 29 or more. Now i have always attracted older men or bad guys and now i finally thought i had met the one. He is turning 25 in August and i am ( for once in my life) the older one in a relationship. I sometimes hate him coz i get the feeling that because i am fat he wants to treat me like a sugar mommy. but i am only 1 year older than him.I am tired of him hurting me. I get the feeling that he has a younger skinnier lover and me i am just the for sex and do him favours. The dude has never invited me to his home or to meet his people but he knows my home and people like hell. When i dump him he declares his undying love for me but when i decide to stay in the relationship he never has time for me and makes me feel as if he is doing me a favor by spending time with me. Will i ever feel good about myself, will i ever be happy like other people, or am i going to be his dirty secret forever? i am scared of ending things compeletly coz i am a coward and i cant stand to one day see him with a better girl coz i am just a fat worthless ugly girl who looks older than she is.Do you feel my pain?

I am smaller but I have several girlfriend's who are bigger and they have no problem pulling good men , if you were skinny he wouldn't love you , it's how they are , we all get to meet one

It's okay for other people to not like you , it's normal even Beyonce has her own share of haters ( the Illuminati pointing hypocrites) but when you don't like yourself , that's torture

You are the right package at the wrong address and unfortunately he has infected you with the low self esteem virus , only people who are not satisfied with themselves pick on other people to feel good about themselves ,and that's the relationship you ended up in

I dated someone who told me he liked my face and my personality but wanted me to gain weight in specific areas ^{you have a tiny waist D, maintain that ,but could you add some hips and some butt , let me this model on IG , yeah I want you to look just like her and could you maintain your hair , I want you to leave it natural , I love long hair}

I used my own money to buy weight gain pills and all of that , and I really didn't see what other people saw when they said I was beautiful

Eventually I met someone who had eyes for only me and I realized I had it all along and the guy who did that thing to me is now a drug addict sex maniac , I was lucky to have left sooner , butter and bread Nollywood story

I have seen gorgeous women of all shapes , sizes , heights and colors , you'll be fine , you need to raise your standards and find yourself a MAN who knows your worth , stop nursing that man-child

Rozross:
When and if I have any ex, he’ll be my enemy and I’ll forget his existence. Been nice to any ex in any form is rubbish. Ex mean enemy to me, we will never be even.

Your own is enemy, mine cease to exist
Block them
Block their relatives
Block their friends
Delete their pics and chat and everything
Out of sight out of mind , it's very effective for me

I don't understand people who literally still want to be friends with an ex , what do you even want to say to them?

The one ex who keeps trying to hold on after bullshitting me when he had me always acting like he's a victim and I hate him when I'm treating him the same way I treat men I don't have feelings for "unable to tolerate the mini conversation"

He had me , he didn't want me , I leave and now he loves me? Confused bafoon

Blessedmercy8:


**Bear hugs and kisses for you**
God bless you!

A better life than we had is all I'm about in my post but someone up there is already laying curses upon himself saying I'm mocking people.

How people can't see the angle im drifting is baffling but I'm happy you got my drift. God bless you.

Ok, like I said and you pointed out, diaper is one aspect, what of feeding? Ok, some will say do exclusive. What of other unplanned expenses in-between because with children, you can't predict.

Will you be happy seeing your children looking hungry and tatared.

A woman told me recently that it makes her worried sick each time she sees her children looking lean and she can't help because they are now on 101 meal. She said, anytime she gets something, she'll rush them with food like for a week but if in one day they revert back to the usual 101 ( which has become the norm these days in many homes) they'll drop immediately in that one day and look like they haven't eaten in weeks. It broke my heart. I don't even want to go into much details of what I see around every day.

It is well.

But is it a law to have children ?
Some people want to have children just for having them , make the pikin come follow Dem drink garri dey look their face

See it's easy when only you are broke and you know it's just you and when you compromise but it is natural t want the best for those under you , siblings or your own children , when you're unable to give them the better things in life , you'll hate yourself

Whatever thing he's doing sounds okay to him until he has the child ,and the person who's going to feel most of the heat is his wife , most good mother's always want what is best for their child
And he may look at it and think nothing is wrong but she definitely won't and if it were me , it can lead to a fight

I saw one where the hubby tried to save money to the point where he never bought a single cloth for his daughter since she was born , it was all hand me downs from her big cousins , he even took from their neighbor , he said "nothing is wrong with it , they outgrew them and it suits her better" there's levels to this thing

Yes it happened in real life , our co-tenants and the wife always complained to my aunt
They separated after the second child , she even tried to allow a second baby come in

Blessedmercy8:


I have and that was what gave rise to all these posts.

I can't imagine being subjected to that kind of life. Imagine using napkins for a baby in this era.

Don't let nairaland men cheer you into the gutters. They celebrate poverty more than anything. And stop comparing 500k to 100k abeg. Leave that mentality.

Someone who earns 500k will not use napkins for his child. Be realistic. You can't cope with a 100k with a family. You'll end up borrowing. I'm talking about this present economy o. Don't know what tomorrow will look like. But for the now, don't be deceived.

Napkins kwa
Who will wash it ? Is it the wife ? If it's the wife you don't expect him to care , that's how they do

So far as they won't be the one to do the dirty work it's all good

Not to talk of the amount of time and effort it's takes to put on , how many times you'll need to change and wash coz wet clothes with pee or faeces can cause the baby's skin to react and so many other things

This man doesn't know what he's saying , he's a wicked man

This is why I'd rather do everything myself than to have someone do little and still complain of everything
Does he know the amount of skin problems babies has back then?
No he should just buy poo bowl for the infant and keep it there so he won't buy either panpers or napkin

meobizy:
Post proof.

I'm very sorry but I'm not very good at storing child porn , nor do I find pleasure in sharing it , but I seriously doubt you don't believe this , I think you just want to satisfy your eyes and your urges and you're using proofvas an excuse

imagrg:
Sometimes I wonder why we are so crazy about getting between a woman's legs.

Once a woman is nude, most men would automatically be turned on. Some wouldn't mind even if the lady is related to them by blood or not.

A fifteen years old boy bleeped the mother recently. He shares same bed with her.
He is the mother's only child and the father is abroad.

The mother raised alarm in the midnight that the son was fvcking her. But some women were quick to intervene in the matter and warned the woman not to escalate the matter.

A man too, was caught red-handed in a brothel having s*x with the daughter.

The question remains: What's that magic about the woman's private part that makes a man lose his emotional stability?

Your question sounds like you're amazed and not disgusted

meobizy:
Proof - the perpetrators reside in my village.

“So it means you can provide pictures?”

“My friend, take am as you see am!”

All these tales by moonlight by children here. I don too old for this forum.

Op isn't lying I saw the video of the girl and her pedophile Father , things like this do happen , it just didn't happen to you and to me