shantti:


From the gini? Can u elaborate?

From my vagina it's called queefing or vagina gas
It happens mostly during my period and it happened after sex that day , I think it was coz of the position, I wanted to sink in the ground with embarrassment but I heard it's normal, it has no odor just sound and it feels tingly or ticklish as it's coming out

Fmghewzy:


This is the analysis am talking about.

Irrespective of whether we genuinely like the lady or not we would still try to smash.

So that means According to your analysis,even your soulmate is part of the "bunch of dildos"

I want the dild0 that wants me first before he wants to do me

Eyakuare:
What are you celebrating? Are you not supposed to be a virgin until you are married. See what our society has turned into. What our mothers and grandmothers did with pride is what you are now celebrating. Shame!

Are you comparing this generation to the old generation that married at the age of 16 to hide unwanted pregnancies and rumour or you're talking about the mother's that had 6-12 children like they were plucking them from trees because of constant sex

You can't compare women of this generation who don't plan to settle down until at least completing an education and a means of survival to women who's first and biggest goal Was a wedding ring
If it was that we were getting married the same age our mothers married why would we not be virgins at 16? But some of us are getting married at 35 and you still want her to remain a virgin for a husband that has been touring around women town , that's pure wickedness , selfishness and stupidity

MisterKennedy:

Yes dear

But I'm kind of amazed how do women enjoy sex while having the pains during sex? I'm really surprised how something painful can really be sex while painful

Is it like for example when someone gets bitten by mosquitoes and then when the scratch the spot they were bitten they kind of enjoy the sensation even if it's painful and bleeds.

Is it like same feeling a woman gets while having sex and feeling pain?

It's a complicated feeling , like you want to pee but you're holding and its hot , I can't really describe it but there has to be a balance between the pleasure and pain , not when it's more pain than pleasure

mizzhathaway:
Honestly,this should not be a big deal na,if not for the high rate of immorality these days.. besides,is she not even embarrassed to be saying this on social media,attracting unnecessary attention.its well.

I don't understand
Me I even lied about the real day I lost mine , I told my friends it was 19 with my other ex but we couldn't do it , It felt embarrassing to say out loud , it's between me and him
Some people really want an award for something

czarr:
says someone with virgin boldly written in her moniker.

Vawulence

johnkey:
Definitely lying, no virgin above 15 years old in this country again, both in the village and city

I lost mine at 20 , my BFF is still a virgin and she's in her 20s as well , so what are you saying

Geminita1:
Why your mama no go fine but you wan marry fine girl? Your mama get fine face? She get flat tummy? She get hips and soft skin? Her voice cute? Her hair long? She neat? Her breast still stand? Her legs nko?


But you wan make your girl correct from top to bottom? You wan the finest face, the biggest backside, the best curve?

You want aje when your mama na Iya Tafika with two left legs and zero waste line

Abeg make everybody no demand pass wetin their parents be. Abi I lie?

Thank God say my papa hold, fine girls like us na confam oyoyo dey pursue us.

I repeat if your mama no fine, you no get right to any standard, go find your type.

If I vex you, abeg rest!

What you're saying is we should only ask for people that remind us of our parents ?

Oya oh if you're not up to 6ft 3 , dark and lovely
You no get Jeep , powerbike , you no get engine boat , your belly is not flat
You no get house , and a beautiful daughter like me , please shift
My papa na fine man at his age he's still pulling people , luckily I took his genes , but I'm the revised standard edition ,highly improved

Na so one olosho wey I senior been wan take style dey toast my papa wey fit born her ×5 all these small girls are dangerous , I'm a good girl oh why would you be 18 and you're smiling anyhow for someone that is in his 60s when you're not a witch , o wrong oh
Me at that age if you call me I go run , that's how they trained me oh , it's now that I'm freebut I have self respect and pride to an extent

Even my younger sister is older than her , all of us will join hand and beat her if she try anyhow but I trust my dad

...

StPete:


That’s why he said he doesn’t want runs girls because una mouth don wide. Adding 25k to whatever you’re earning decently would make quite a difference

For you?

siofra:
I feel GROSS.

why did this have happen to me?

The guy just pretended like nothing happened but I know he heard it.

It's because I laughed too much.

This is the most embarrassing day of my life.

I remember the first time I farted in front of my ex , it was from the front , couldn't even control it , to be honest he caused it , he just acted like he didn't hear and went to the bathroom to blow bomb

Fmghewzy:


I don't understand this your analysis oo.
You all should understand that men will always seek sex irrespective of whether they have genuine feelings for the lady or not.


If the lady has other qualities aside sex,then he would stay.
If that's all she has to offer he go bounce naa, when puvsy is everywhere.

Although in some cases ,the situation may be different.
I can't meet a nice girl who's intelligent, hardworking, beautiful and independent.
And not want to fuvk her, when something is not wrong with me.
Even if we are friends

The only exception is if,upon proper consideration ,I discover that a romantic relationship could harm our friendship .
And sex is not worth ruining it

The guy said every guy here just wants to f*ck and I believe him , what analysis are you talking about?

nijaomegacode:

No body is looking for wife here; only what to sleep with.
We know where to go when we are ready to pick a wife.

Gbam!!!
Just bunch of dild0s roaming around
Some naive girls won't listen untill breakfast reach their turn

Delacroix6:


What's wrong with being a sex worker?
It's a choice thing ..

.

You're either a child or a man to think anyone chose that lifestyle , men choose to lie to themselves because they gain pleasure from it and a child has no experience so they can't understand the risk involved in sex trafficking or sex professions ,

they die alot , both abroad and in Nigeria , they are often victims of assault and abuse , some of them depend on drugs to neutralize themselves but your mental health will catch up eventually , some of them are kids they increased their age and give them fertility pills to increase their body , some were pimped , orphan children recruited , brainwashed and trained
There's a lot to sex workers that the common man cannot see and I once used to think like you but I grew up to understand that it's a lot more complicated than that

I had a friend , her parents had 12 children and gave them away , she was sold as a sex slave to someone by her parents , they never came back for her , someone like you would say she chose that ?
I've seen many of them like that , some are brave enough to break free as they get older , some die in the process and the rest keep bringing others in the circle , brainwashed to believe that they're doing something good

Don't be that ignorant person that thinks it's a choice , it's always easier to point at someone when you're not in their shoes ,

but any person with a vagina would understand that being a prostitute is not beans , I can't imagine the pain those girls go through, yikes , it can never be a choice , na condition make crayfish bend

onochurch:
50 children discovered in Ondo church’s underground cell

Posted by Naomisophyblog

Fifty children were rescued from an underground apartment in a church in Ondo, Ond state. According to reports, the children were kidnapped and held in underground cells. Police detectives in town have arrested the pastor of the church and other accomplices. A viral video trending on social media showed the abducted children....

Read more of this report on:
https://naomisophyblog.com.ng/2022/07/02/50-children-discovered-in-ondo-churchs-underground-cell/

My goodness
These poor souls have already been through alot , children like this will grow before their age because of experience and people will still be looking at them like they've not seen anything in life because of their age
Some parents can be quite careless , that's why I'll keep saying that people should only have kids when they're fully ready to be responsible , not just it's the right time and other people have kids
God please help them , I hate being helpless in such situations

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram yah..


U never even see anything..


from the age of 14 to 20yrs full there!


The CUNTREE is FUVK up big time..


so I gats patronize them, make dem fit see money take CHOP..


Some of them are student from other states.


the one wey I NACK yesterday, she tell me say na her aunty introduce her to the business.. she said she came from the village to visit her aunty (her mama sister), to learn tailoring but na ASHAWOO her aunty come force her do..


Her story touch me.. I was suppose to pay her 5h and NACK her but because of her story, I gave her 1k and NACK her...


She come give me BOBZ SUUK, I no go lie u... I CHUK finger for her TOTTO well well..


If no be one tin, I for SUK the TOTTO..


WTF MAN!

1k for what ?

Omo na to go thief

DarkPheonix:

Inside life, orishirishi lon shele.

Yin Yang ☯, unlike poles attract, like poles reflect.

Make everybody just dey , this thing is somehow

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram The devil u SEE is better than the devil u cant SEE..



I just de come back from ASHAWOO house now..


The ASHAWOO BANI wey I NACK, she really do me justice..


She use her too legs take tie me, my PREEK come de BEND BEND..


She nearly CHOP off my PREEK wit her TOTTO..


Although the NACKING SWEET WELL WELL but my waist de pain me now!


Na to buy better JEDI JEDI, mix am wit RAW WEED and drink.


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

No offense but these girls look too fine to be prostitutes , I even had to show my roomie the pic , na wa oh God no allow poverty see me , I'd rather starve than go to the street , I always feel bad for these girls

brainhack:


Wow. I pray you find strength to continue to be a better version of yourself.

Most times these things start from relationship even better marriage. When I see any of guys in a relationship with babe, gifting, paying transportation etc and this so-called girlfriend has never spent N1 of her money to buy him anything tangible, I clear them asap. Red flag.

Love and giving are inseparable let no one deceive. Even if she is a student (Yes I said it). I have seen babes that “are not having” do the most because of love.

People that see red flags and still themselves to fall into a pit, have themselves to blame. Never allow anybody be a liability to you, making your life difficult.

Omo ehn the thing about it is that , I've been trying so hard to not be that kind of person that I had as a mom that it has only led me to narcissists and faux alpha males who really want to be in my life for no good reason , it's either they're trying to take from me or they're not giving but they accept when I give them , and they'll be like I didn't ask you for anything , you chose to ugh I promised not to remember my disgrace
When you're independent you attract lazy men , when you're dependent you attract men who believe you should be independent , there's really no win to this thing

When I learned that independent women don't go anywhere in relationships is when I had two older friends , I'll just call them two female oga that I was always with , one of them was independent she was working hard for her living , paid her rent , paid her parents bills , invested in her business and she was very kind , she had so much problem in her relationship life , she kept sticking with men who promised heaven and delivered nothing , at her age they were playing with her and she didn't see it , I was always watching from afar coz if I talk she'll say I don't know anything , she just kept understanding everything and everyone

On the other hand her BFF who was opposite her in everyway , less finer , less kinder , bad mouth wey fit make you commit suicide , she was into hookups with big men oh and she had a Yahoo bf , basically all the things men claim to hate, she managed to pull one big man in my city , who was trying to engage her , she bosses everybody around including him and she was a retired ghetto babe , she was totally dependent on him and everyone for everything , she had a good job but she still collect steady money from everybody and noone sees or touched her money , to the point where this big man started taking loans to meet up with her because she drained him and he still wanted to marry her , to the little me , I felt like men only liked women who were brutal and I've seen so many examples proving me right

The independent woman gets the worse kind of men , everybody just confuse

Promzy99:
Its very disheartening to know that a lot of men go through a lot silently in their relationships.

I was touched by the guy who saw his dad cry , I could relate to that , my dad was sort of a grass to grace then grass again story , when he hit the jackpot he brought the money home in millions , the only investments he had were my education and land and some gadgets which he later sold as the economy deteriorated ,
My mother spent her free time shopping and used the remaining to abuse me , she bought wigs of more than a 100k and clothes that could open shops , phones that she didn't know how to use and then laughed at her friends that were opening businesses because she said they weren't upto her
Right now recession hit us badly and I've seen my dad struggle so much and my mom just sits around nagging , dad lost some of his biggest contracts and his salary almost touched the ground and my mom keeps dragging us into debts , she's still shopping on credit and my dad is the breadwinner in her family
He built her parents house and she took credit for it , her salary is 25k , 25k can't even feed me in school? Talk less of building a whole house
My grandparents bills and funeral he paid most of it
My mother comes from a large and entitled family , even the men in that family are useless except for my youngest uncle
We're buried in debt because of my education and her bad habit , the shopping on credit is just for her , so basically we're in debt because of her expensive creams and Jewelry
My siblings don't have anything
If we had one last plate of food she'll eat it first and tell us to wait , that's not the kind of mom people tell me about
If my Father is not alive we would be in serious trouble ,
This is the same mom that came to me at the age of 18 that someone wants to marry me ewwwwwww , probably one ugly peadophile , because who is so eager to giveaway an 18 year old , Dad said no , it's official my kids don't have a grandma unless someone else volunteers to be,
I'm definitely not getting married , to hell with matrimonial suffertificate

Miyah1:

Bad odour

Healthtalker:
THINGS YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT YOUR PREGNANT WIFE.


Dear men, let's us discuss about PREGNANCY.

Do you know that certain things you do when your wife is pregnant actually contributes to the state of health of the mother and unborn child?

Listen, it bothers me a lot when I see men showing no concern for their pregnant wife or failing to adjust to some temporary changes!!!
It's just 9 months, not like it's forever. Pregnancy is not bought in the market, neither is it a software downloaded from the internet. It's a seed planted by men and is germinating. There has to be a carrier of that seed while it grows, and women have been given the responsibility to carry it.

Pregnancy is preparation to welcome a new member into the family.

Pregnancy is a journey, fun filled, amazing etc.

Women differ in body changes. Although Pregnancy makes women do certain things in common.
■Once in a while she would nag
■Once in a while she would request for things unimaginable e.g she wants to eat okro and bread
■Once in a while she would get so lazy to make you your meals
■Once in a while she would want to stretch her legs on your laps. Please pardon her... carrying the baby ain't easy.
Her needs may be unsatisfiable at times.
The first Tri_mester of the journey can be so annoying. Like I say, women differ from each other during pregnancy.
●While most women are busy vomiting.
●Most of them sleep like water leaf, they sleep off anywhere with the slightest chance even in the kitchen.
●While most women have fever.
●Most women are looking cranky and dry like Dustin powder.
●While most women add up weight.
●Most women appear like burnt offerings.
●Some even go round with White handkerchief spitting in it. ALL THESE ARE STILL YOUR WORK.....
Please tolerate this, it's beautiful afterwards.
Her attitude becomes annoying, most times you can't stand her. But I get annoyed when I see men neglect their pregnant wife. She's not an abomination, neither is she a curse. I must say, it's not an easy journey for all.
The last Tri_mester is when you need to be extra patient, loving, enduring and understanding.
NOTE...
1) Always observe your wife's feet while pregnant, it swells often. Please give her a basin of water to soak her leg once in a while, it's one of the best treatments women enjoy during pregnancy.
2) Ask her regularly how she feels and how the baby is. She's the carrier so she feels him/her move.
3) Tell her how beautiful she looks during pregnancy e.g " Honey see as the pregnancy make you fine, I will be impregnating you every month ooo" or even "is it my child that makes you fresh like this pass normal" Even if she has grown bigger in size cause of the pregnancy, celebrate her.
4) Don't be upset if she ever wakes you up by 2am to help massage her feet. You need to feel little of her discomfort and pain. She shouldn't carry it alone, it's your baby, you need to carry it together. (I don't mean physical carriage though).
5) No rule book stopped sex during pregnancy, in short it's the best sef.... do it. It's not like the vagina stopped working during pregnancy. o sir continue the work that brings the pregnancy.
6) Don't be ashamed to take her out. Take her out once in a while to those lovely places you used to go together. #They_love_it...
Most times I wonder what crosses the heart of men when they see their pregnant wives. Carrying a child for 9 months isn't easy.
I urge all men to get closer to their spouses during pregnancy because that's one of the times she needs you most.

A big shout out to all men who fully stand by their wives during pregnancy.

God bless you all.

women after delivery, ask forgiveness from your husband for being with you at the time of need because it is not easy.


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Pregnant women can be scary , I just have a feeling my problem would be good , the bread and okrio kind

Angel55555:

Pm?

I don't have access to the email I used to register on NL and I'm not dropping my number here but you could drop yours and I'll send a message

Angel55555:

A b k

Oh okay cool

Angel55555:

You live few blocks from my place.......care to pm

Where is your place

Sleekz360:
A man paying your dowry doesn’t mean he bought you with money.

It is an obligation every man must do.

 

It is an authority from God bestowed on every man to pay a dowry on a woman’s head before taking her as his wife.

 

You pay on a woman’s head to save your life from laws and traditions, and also collect blessings and favors from God.

 

You don’t pay a dowry so as to be a woman’s controller, director, or dictator!

 

Bride price does not give a man right over a woman.

It only give him the right to have her as his wife.

 

Men should stop this obnoxious believe of, ‘I PAID FOR HER HEAD’.

 

You don’t pay for any woman’s head!

You only pay on her head, for her hand in marriage!

 

When you pay ‘FOR’ someone’s head, it means you are the owner of the person’s head and life.

You can even cut off the head anytime you desire.

 

But when you pay ‘ON’ someone’s head, it means you pay so as to receive favor from that person.

 

You pay to have lawful and legitimate access in the Glory of that person.

 

You pay ‘FOR’ her ‘HAND‘, means you pay so you can have her by your side lawfully.

 

Don’t ever think you bought a woman simply because you did the traditionally and customarily duty instituted for every man to do.

 

Bride Price is not HEAD PRICE, but TRADITIONAL PRICE. Read more : https://muzanet.com/must-read-for-men-bride-price-is-not-head-price/?amp=1

Some men believe that bride price is the price of the woman , and some bride price is not even upto 500k , and you think it's worth all the investments her parents have made for her ? Money that can't feed her for one year is what you want to use and buy her
In India they pay groom price but they don't automatically claim to own the man because whatever you're paying is not upto the worth of the man

Connected1:
Most fat girls are dirty, lazy and the worst part is that they will sit like a bag of beans and try to order you around like they are your boss.

There are guys that like fat girls, especially those guys with very slim body or big dicks.

This is very true I made the mistake of dating one of those guys ones , slim and a big dick , Yoruba man for that matter self esteem dropped to 0

Big guys are actually the ones that go for slim girls , most guys that approach me and sincerely find me attractive are tall and sort of buffy , it's like they're all in the same body category or maybe those are the ones I choose to notice

Janina:
Has anyone experienced such thing...
I was thinking it devil's attacks I just surf the internet and realized have been having sleep paralysis all this while..

It looks as if I was outside my body, and also chest pressure as if someone is standing or sitting on my chest.
Also sense of suffocating or breathlessness it looks as if someone is holding my neck like trying to kill me in my sleep.
Also transient inability to move or speak during sleep transitions, I couldn't even talk or move is as if someone is holding me.
The only way I can come out of this is by pleading the blood of Jesus .. I will be saying it in my mind before I can finally speak ..

I hate those, I really thought it was spiritual , it happened severally but the last one I was choking in my sleep someone had to wake me up because I couldn't wake up on my own
You can't speak , can't move , it's like you're tied down

Silentgroper:
Y u tripping much?? .. I wasnt trying to get at u or something. I was just saying..

I was also saying , why does it sound like I was tripping?

Fmghewzy:


Unpleasant stories and experience of other people is enough to discourage anyone from getting married.The thought of sticking to one person for the rest of my life is nauseating to me.
I still don't know my stance yet.

But one shouldn't be so quick to conclude that marriage is Full of unpleasant experiences and not worth it.

One should think long-term and all possible scenerios ,several factors come into play, companionship ,old-age and most especially children.
If you intend to have children, one of the best gift they can have is the presence of both parents in the lives .Am sure you can would understand what I mean by this.

Another reason is companionship and old- age ,
Whether you like it or not most societies are built in a way where the older generation depends on the younger one (mostly Their children and grandchildren).
Even as at this ,it's still not perfect.
Older people generally suffer loneliness , isolation and are more prone to depression .

If you feel this is a lie, ask yourself when was the last time you had a wonderful conversation with the old man or woman leaving in your area .
(Like a neighbor).
You may not feel like it something serious ,but it is.
Let me stop here sha.

I don't know why,I feel like it's getting too long.
But honestly the debate about marriage is global,many countries , people talk about it.
And still concluded that it is still the best and ideal setting for raising a successful and responsible kid.

Having both parents as a kid is a truly underestimate gift.

Thank you for bringing a meaningful topic to Nairaland.

Having two parents who are committed is definitely a gift , I envy people who experienced that , I am contented with having a loving dad but I did wish Mom loved me a little or at least pretended too
Everyone wants this in the beginning , but when you come from the bottom side of the stick you tend to prepare for the worst than for the best , I guess that's not a healthy way to live but it's a habit that's been present for years , I can't just wake up and decide to be a different person , believe me I really tried

Marriage is not full of bad experiences , people keep misunderstanding me, but it's not for everyone , it's not a one-way ticket to happiness, peace ,regretless fulfilling life , it's just one of those things in life that shouldn't be forced nor made compulsory , whilst I have already made up my mind , I knew the struggle I had trying to deny it thinking it was a taboo , and I was curious to know how many people understood felt the same way ( obviously not many ) and I also wanted people to know that indeed it was an option and it's best each man chooses for himself so they don't blame anyone when things don't go as smoothly as they hoped , I mean no harm to anyone honestly

I have both parents and they've been married for almost 30 years , whilst dad did his part in providing for me , God continue to bless him, my mother did her best in turning me into this person , I thank God that despite the hate she did not kill me , her being alive and married did nothing but traumatise my siblings and i , most times I felt my dad wanted out but he felt trapped because of his love for I and my siblings and for the fact that they were married in court and he might lose everything
You see, from afar someone might envy me and think that I come from a nice family but I have faced the same struggles a child with no parents can face , but who would believe me ? They only believe when I go into details and recount all those painful memories
Now I can also tell you about my cousins that have both parents and suffered and my cousins who have a widowed mom and didn't lack love , both parent or single parent , it doesn't guarantee anything , it's even worse when your parents are alive and you're suffering , noone would believe you or they'll think you're just ungrateful ( even when they were not there)

Now as an adult, I decided to really do what would make me happy and I think if I had a child they would understand and they would love me as much as I love them , it doesn't matter if it's just me or me and someone else , it wouldn't make much of a difference