ok thanks for the advice. i am too shy to approach ladies but konji is not helping matters. Apart from Konji factor, i see sex as overrated. thatz y i want to have a taste of the apple as well. If i know all the lines , i wont go near an olosho. i will do it like the other guys.
photoshoot: No, don't reason a commercial sex worker bro,
Since you are a student, girls are abound, reason with anyone you think is mature enough and tell her what you want. Trust me, there are lots of females on campus that would readily be available with you paying.
And also, try to have the principle of never to pay for sex.
i have learnt my lesson the hard way. it will take centuries for Nigeria to make sense as a country . Your point is a valid one and that is the ideal thing to do. Nigeria is in a state of entropy , Nigeria is not ideal : why will I not favour someone i know. I am sure the two people with higher professional certification will do what the OP did if they were in the shoes of the OP. in a nutshell, why wasting time trying to change what is highly impossible to change.
byrron: Hope you will agree with me that what you just did is exactly one of the reasons why Nigeria is so fuc.ked up starting from the day it was amalgamated till date?
Nepotism, religion, tribalism, online & offline scam, sycophancy and mediocrity are some of the terminal diseases Nigeria is currently suffering from and your actions only fastened it's dieing date.
Just look at the mess Nigeria is into as of today and the course of it is among the terminal diseases I listed above.
With all sense of humility and modesty, I once worked in an organization back then in Nigeria were I conducted series of interviews with over a thousand applications passing through my office desk and I came across lots of faces l knew but those that got the job were purely based on merits.
Good luck to your former teacher, hopefully he will repay your trust in him by giving his all to the job.
it doesn' t work that way all the time tho fairness and equity is the ideal thing when it comes to job recruitments . It is a way of showing gratitude.
Unimaginable123: it is very unprofessional. In this case, it is the interviewer conducting the interview. You give every candidate equal opportunity. That's the essence of interview, after passing aptitude test. Even though they say u can't enter NDA without knowing a General, I know those that entered there without knowing a corporal. If I even tell u the name of my organisation and how I entered without even knowing a cleaner there, you wount believe.
The decision you took doesn't depict dishonesty in anyway . it is a favour based on the teacher-student relationship which you both had then. It is a way of showing gratitude. Professional certification is very important tho but in this scenario, you did the right thing .
manson5011: Its obvious that life is a cycle. There was this job vacancy in my place of work and 8 people did apply for it which they were to be interviewed yesterday.
By privilege as an Admin/Acct Officer I was authorized by my HR who was engaged in a crucial meeting to conduct the interview on his behalf so far I know what the company requires.
Lo and behold among them was my secondary school Teacher who did teaching practice (TP) when I was in SS1.
We were both shocked when we saw each other, looking at each other, I smiled and said Sir kindly have a seat.
We gist for 30mnts then I used 5mnts to ask him where he worked before now, that's all.
Meanwhile, I recommended him OK for the job and asked him to come and start work tomorrow.
It is good to live peacefully with all men as you may not know where your turning table will stop next. The question is, was that a dishonesty for me to have picked him as there were 2 people who had professional certification ahead of him?
We like the bum bum in those videos . It makes the video interesting .
WotzupNG: These days, one can hardly watch a music video without being bothered about the rate of nudity and lewd dances by girls in such videos. It has almost become the order of the day, except for gospel music videos. If the lyrics aren’t talking about ladies shaking and rolling their bums, the video will definitely have ladies throwing their almost naked butts everywhere even when the song has no correlation with that. This trend, which was never around in the Nigerian music industry, seem to have come to stay with hardly anyone speaking against it.
Reporters decided to get opinion from a New Generation Artiste and a Legend from the Old School on the issue of ladies shaking their butts in music videos. Below is a transcript excerpt and video showing Orezi and Onyeka Onwenu airing their opinion on the issue. Credit: wotzupOntv & hiptv
I beg you in the name of God : don't commit suicide. I advise u keep the secret info to yourself : do not reveal it to your husband in anyway kos it will shatter ur marriage before your eyes. Henceforth, do not be loose. Try as much as possible not to reveal the info to your close fwendz kos one of them may blackmail you in the nearest future.
istoctober: l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest. it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him. l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it. l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home. l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.
rhodalite: Guys is it possible?, let's share our opinions
it is possible but it is risky. Four years without sex, for someone lyk me : it is mission impossible. It is cool to go home with sth incase of any eventual break-up . Sex is an important reinforcer of the strength of a serious relationship
Dimples182: Don't play loose and fancy with the word now. Prostitution and using your looks or feminine charms are very different. The exchange of sex is that difference.
Congrats OP... I am 23+ and I am yet to be laid. Pray for me as I am on the verge of loosing my V : will surely post my testimony on NL. I need some of the tips as well. Respect!
JayReeMai: www.nairaland.com/3650730/think-need Aiit, so I wanted to break this fuckn virginity of mine some days ago n I was finding the whole damn thing kinda hard ... So I just bust into NL and relate my Problem with them Real OGs outchea, and I kinda get some fuckn good advice. So fast to tday, I invited my gal over so we gonn practise what we talked abt u kno, Note : I already told her I was a virgin so she should show me how its done cos she's not a V like me , she kinda tried very well for me. I even used some bad tips from some Made Men in the other thread I created Tips like *Leave the light on and do the shit *Dont be too anxious, and so many tips like that. I want to thank those OGs whose advice did some great impact in this. Thank you And did I made mention the feeling was Heavenly when I was abt to cum, I've washed some porn so I knw when the guy start acting funny he's abt to offload, damn I wish I could feel like that for some hours.
One of the reasons I hate marriage. OP ur wife must have bn laid by her ex. If I were you, I will run a DNA test test on the 2 kids to be extra-sure I am not training someone else Kids . The problem is from your wife, her ex is not to be blamed .
Happy Childrens day to all the daddies and mummies. Quick one, my wife and I are 6 years into our marriage with 2 kids, from the inception of our marital union we have always had issues that stems on trust, we both have that issue, and when I say trust, it has to strictly do with her bickering into my phone and finding somethings not worth shouting or condemning me for, rather for communication, but she does otherwise. In her own case, it had to do with her ex she always talked about when we courted for a short period before marrying. She told me she called him to seek advise and confide in him, told her to stop and threatened fire n brimstone, but later found out that she saved the guys number with another name, gave me excuse as to the reason she did it.
One faithful day, a year after marriage, 5 years ago to be precise, she had gone to the school she worked as a teacher, there also she takes my dauther who resumes at the day care there. 2 hrs later, she called me crying over the phone that there was an accident, I asked what happened, she said my daughter of 9 months old then had a severe deep cut on her lips that I should rush down. Immediately, I left and branched at the clinic where she was being stitched, I felt for the poor baby, because at that age with such injury was not nice. Immediately, I told her that we'll leave for home for the day. The clinic was not far from the school where she parked her car, so I asked for the key so I could go ahead and pick the car so we can all be going home. On reaching the car, I saw her wedding ring kept in the glove compartment. Was surprised because she always wear it, and wore it out to work. At that moment, was more worried about my daughter.
We got home, and I asked her why her ring was in the car instead of her finger,she said the reason why she removed it was because last Sunday I was staring at a girls ass and she was mad about it. In which I did, but didnt do it deliberately or seemed too obvious, I use style look, and it was more of a reflex, I am human. I apologized that very day, but to think after then, she decided to remove her ring because of that? RED FLAG. I kept my mute. Once in a while throughout the years, when we still have arguments, I ask her that I still wonder why she removed her ring, that it cant be the issue of ass staring that would make it that bad for her to do that. She kept on saying it was the reason. 5 years into the marriage now, we were having a deep discussion, then she started saying things about what happened during our early stage of marriage, that she called her ex, because that was the only person he knew as a bf then, reason why she confided in him, that he talked about leaving his wife too with two kids and run away to Canada with her bla bla bla. But the major thing about her point was that, she discussed the issue of me stearing at another womans ass with him, that was when the guy started packaging some stories that entered her head, which was the reason why she removed that ring on that faithful day. Wow! She now stated that she noticed he was trying to seduce her by seeing her, that he went to the extent of saying, if I should come and see u at that ur place of work, I might be forced to kiss you, stating that was when she knew he was trying to use words to have him come around, so he could have sex with her. I told her that whats the probability that they have not been seeing, she said NEVER. But then I reminded her of the day we had issues, she came back from work late, and I asked where she had gone, she replied by saying, I went to go and have sex with someone that has a bigger joystick that urs. She later denounced that it was a joke to get at me, its possible,, and it could be true.
Nlanders, sorry for my long story, if i dont put it down well, u wont know my stance on this issue, I wont say am a saint when I started this marriage, but I have changed, this woman up until now has not, I have another post to share right after this. Now my question here is, I WANT to keep my family regardless of whatever, but is it wise to Bleep that ex up? Because of what she told me he said, to me hes trying to spoil me to get into my wife, thats if he has not, because I one way or the other found this her ex wife number. And I have evidences to prove that she has been in communication with my wife. Or should I just let God judge? Cos as I bad reach b4 I marry, I have never, and will never sleep with a married woman, nor will I ever try to sleep with an ex who is already married. Sincere opinion needed.
It does in alot of ways : I am depressed most times and I have not been doing well as an undergraduate academically for the past 5 months unlike when i don't masturbate. I now see ladies as sex objects : I av lost the ability to love a gal.. I only lust over ladies.
It is very hard to quit chronic masturb*tion.i am currently in ur shoes but I do mine once a day and at times three times in a week. I have been masturbation for the past 7yrs. You are idle Datz y, try to keep urself busy , it will minimize the number of times you do it . Masturbation is considered a normal and healthy habit if you do it moderately. Welcome to the VASELINE CREW. Finally, try to fvck a lady, it is sweeter and will help u quit masturbation asap
I've been in this forum for years now but for the sake of this post, I decided to create a new account to conceal my identity and prevent the humiliation that I have actually brought upon myself from getting much worse and severe.
I am a 21 year old undergraduate and I can no longer hide this anymore, masturbation is killing me, this act is slowly eating me away and all I've been doing is watch. I masturbate twice daily and this is killing me. I feel depressed, worthless, dispirited, lost the will to live. I've tried a couple times to stop but it's like trying to quit smoking when the pipe is attached to your body.
Without masturbation I can not sleep. Without it, I can't go on for a day. It's like a demon that has chained me down. I can't watch myself destroy my own life and that's why I post here. I've been masturbating for 8 years now and I want to stop it please.
I need help. NLders please if you are going through this endless self-destructive loop please indicate your interest in quitting. If you have overcome this deamon, please kindly tell me how? Please I need to break free from this. It's destroying every other part of my life.
Please if you're or used to be a victim, please let's work this over together, It seems this is bigger than me!!!
Please if you want to reach me this is my number 09023624369. Thanks guys for your assistance. Lalasticlala please help a brother
Japhet04: I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.
I really like her , is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part
Being an atheist doesn't pay in Naija. Pick one of the two major religions and pretend to be religious. I am an atheist in the real sense but I pretend to be religious to avoid any disadvantage associated with practicing atheism in Nigeria. If I were you I will follow the lady to the church or mosque and pretend to be religious to win her heart since it is the only missing link.
buzquet: I went to my area brother's Bach Eve, come see this better chicks. I approached her with chilled Heineken and we started talking and immediately she asked me to take her home. When we got home, she said am to give her 20k before going into bedroom with me. I was surprised because I thought she felt my parole back at the party. But we later agreed on 6k because Kongi don dey stand as if say hungry monkey see banana. Surprisingly, when I woke in the morning to give her another match because she handled me the Bayern handle Arsenal homeanf away for champions league, I found out my wallet was missing and the babe don go. But the one wey hit me pass be say I enter bathroom to shower na im I see my bathing soap is gone too
Playing hard to get and nobody is ready to have sex except u have spend heavily on them unlike the oloshos who are willing to treat one right at a lesser cost
dingbang: Please never lose your virginity to a prostituttte... You will hate yourself for that...
You also said having a girlfriend is stressful.. Stressful in what way?
At 21, sex seems to be an herculean task to me due to my highly religious nature and my family background where decency is the order of the day. So far, I have no gf but my urge for sex is getting out of hand : I guess I am getting konjified. I am tired of self servicing daily Rape is sth I dislike, the only option left to satisfy my sexual desire for now is doing the needful with an "Olosho" putting the current handsomeness of my picket into consideration. Having a gf is stressful for someone like me and they are not even reliable no matter how u care for them. I have made up my mind to get laid before my 22nd birthday which will come up in few wks time. I will be visiting the olosho joint close to where I school this Friday alone. I have an idea of how much it cost and for such, I will be protecting myself with a condom. It is my first time, I need you to share ur experience the 1st day u met an olosho
Handwork pays big time. Your ability to persevere in life determines how successful you will be i.e there is no success without any trace of failure. Failure isn't the end of the world. Shit happens : life is not fair however u r d only one who can turn things around yourself.
Handwork pays big time. Your ability to persevere in life determines how successful you will be i.e there is no success without any trace of failure. Failure isn't the end of the world. Shit happens : life is not fair however u r d only one who fan turn things around yourself.
By their comments, we shall know them. Another developer identified. NCAN take note!
Emycord: Brother am so proud of the fact that u are igbo although the news is not a good one right now but yet am proud that for one igbo drug peddler exposed there are thousands of innovative and proactive and progressive igbos scattered all over the globe and they are doing well . If only nigeria managed and utilised ur talents you could have been a nigerian mark Zucks
Romance › Re: Share Your 1st Experience With A Commercial Sex Worker Aka "Olosho" by Lagban(op): 1:52am On Jun 08, 2017
... So I just bust into NL and relate my Problem with them Real OGs 
outchea, and I kinda get some fuckn good advice. So fast to tday, I invited my gal over so we gonn practise what we talked abt u kno, Note : I already told her I was a virgin so she should show me how its done cos she's not a V like me 
, she kinda tried very well for me. I even used some bad tips from some Made Men in the other thread I created 
Tips like *Leave the light on and do the shit *Dont be too anxious, and so many tips like that. I want to thank those OGs whose advice did some great impact in this. Thank you 
